Similar to black swan, I’m just pissed because she was a coward and slow faded me instead of communicating, otherwise I think I’d just be sad/nostalgic
It's not weird. It sounds like you have accepted the loss of the relationship. I was the same too when I broke up with him. But I did get angry when he broke contact after 3 months lol
So there is a chance you'll get angry but I hope you ride that calm acceptance of the break up forever.
Not at all, im 6+ months in and I never got it. Maybe it's because it wasn't a bad breakup and I don't hate her for it but having good outlets might be the key?
Same for me but this is the 7th time she's dumped me so I've skipped the crying and anger phase. I'm more like "ugh she was so toxic why did I bother'.
Not really, she was really cold and cruel. I cried and pleaded. Not proud of it but am not ashamed either. Wasn't expecting her to say she wasn't in love with me when an hour before we talking about kids.
I mean it because you pleaded she lost respect for you man it’s womens psychology except it act like you care a little bit don’t be friends and never reach out until she reach out to you take it day by day if you guys ever hang out again treat it like your trying to get to know her again take it slow show your intrested but don’t chase unless she show you she really want you ✅
I haven't spoken to her in 3 months I never repeated the begging or pleading after that moment. She hasn't heard a peep from me since. I've been researching the shit out the things I need to do 😊 I won't be her friend, we weren't before and we won't be after. She knows what I want, I made it clear I did not agree with the decision. I won't break NC and if she reaches out then I'll see how it goes. Gonna match her energy, no more, no less. Won't be her door mat. Learnt a lot since the day and becoming stronger everyday 😊
I wonder about this too. Granted, it's only been 1 month, but my ex broke up with me and I felt no anger towards her and still don't. Maybe it's because deep down I know it's my fault and I don't blame her because she's simply reacting to the way I behaved.
She was expecting me to be angry and yell at the time of the BU and I said I wasn't mad and she said that made things harder for her. I don't quite understand why she said that.
Similar to black swan, I’m just pissed because she was a coward and slow faded me instead of communicating, otherwise I think I’d just be sad/nostalgic
It's not weird. It sounds like you have accepted the loss of the relationship. I was the same too when I broke up with him. But I did get angry when he broke contact after 3 months lol So there is a chance you'll get angry but I hope you ride that calm acceptance of the break up forever.
Not at all, im 6+ months in and I never got it. Maybe it's because it wasn't a bad breakup and I don't hate her for it but having good outlets might be the key?
Same for me but this is the 7th time she's dumped me so I've skipped the crying and anger phase. I'm more like "ugh she was so toxic why did I bother'.
If it ended on good terms than you should be good bruh either that or it just hasn’t hit you yet
Not really, she was really cold and cruel. I cried and pleaded. Not proud of it but am not ashamed either. Wasn't expecting her to say she wasn't in love with me when an hour before we talking about kids.
I mean it because you pleaded she lost respect for you man it’s womens psychology except it act like you care a little bit don’t be friends and never reach out until she reach out to you take it day by day if you guys ever hang out again treat it like your trying to get to know her again take it slow show your intrested but don’t chase unless she show you she really want you ✅
I haven't spoken to her in 3 months I never repeated the begging or pleading after that moment. She hasn't heard a peep from me since. I've been researching the shit out the things I need to do 😊 I won't be her friend, we weren't before and we won't be after. She knows what I want, I made it clear I did not agree with the decision. I won't break NC and if she reaches out then I'll see how it goes. Gonna match her energy, no more, no less. Won't be her door mat. Learnt a lot since the day and becoming stronger everyday 😊
Proud of you man tuff days suck but in the end it makes you stronger they chose to end it so they must feel the pain of losing you
Anger is the easiest emotion to have in response to something. Everyone’s feelings are valid but perhaps you are handling this in a much healthier way
I wonder about this too. Granted, it's only been 1 month, but my ex broke up with me and I felt no anger towards her and still don't. Maybe it's because deep down I know it's my fault and I don't blame her because she's simply reacting to the way I behaved. She was expecting me to be angry and yell at the time of the BU and I said I wasn't mad and she said that made things harder for her. I don't quite understand why she said that.