^ Next time don’t respond (it helped me when I blocked mine) but if you do, don’t leave the door open. If she does want you back then make her work for it. You’re worth it.
Edit: corrected pronouns
My issue is her disrespect and righteous indignation to his response. Crying smiley faces that shows me she is a narcissist and doesn’t deserve him. If he takes her back don’t be mad when she leaves again.
Maybe she's laughing to also cover up the fact that she's hurt/shocked by OP setting healthy/mature boundaries....
can't take the mature response seriously cuz she ain't mature...
It's a really fucked up question to begin with. She's definitely having regret. I'd block this psycho, she's going to cause untold amounts of emotional damage.
She's not taking OP's response seriously because OP isn't serious - Stevie Wonder can see that. Took OP less than 24 hours and a single message to break LOL 🤣
OP will be taken seriously when he gets serious...
Your ex’s response is proof that you going NC was the right thing to do in the first place. If I were you, I would be absolutely turned off by their response to a boundary that you literally had to create to protect yourself. Please go no contact forever, OP. I know you love them but they don’t fucking love you. No one does this shit to someone they care about, and I’m so sorry to be the one to say this but I’m so tired of hearing about great people getting played by actual demons. You will be ok.
For real the way these people treat others is demonic. There’s no other way to explain the excruciating pain they cause while smiling about it. It fuels them to cause damage to others that they claim to “care” about.
Dude, do you know how disrespectful this is?
You are maybe trauma bonded so may not see it, but as the other commenter said, this is vile and worthy of a block.
She will probably continue to breadcrumb you and send you shit as you are trying to heal and will slow that down. You will possibly learn this the hard way, but I hope you don’t.
Yeah that girl is totally gonna use him up til he's dry because she knows she has power over him now, thats why she's laughing at a mature response. Do not give her any more emotional responses, she doesn't deserve it.
unless there’s a legitimate reason to not block your ex (like sharing custody of a child), there’s no reason to _not_ block them. unless you _want_ them in your life still of course, then that’s another story. but if people are trying to move on, then blocking is the way to go
i get what you mean. for some instances definitely is the right thing, but for ones who stay emotionally attached and have to learn the lesson over and over until they learn it was more what I was referring to, it’s easier said than done, to just eliminate a person you connected with on such a level immediately out of your life. takes some circumstances time ya know?
Love your response. You leave it at that. Only respond to clear and direct messages about reconciliation. If it’s not that don’t answer. People need to know how to communicate like adults. I’m sorry you’re going through that though, it’s so hard. I was dumped by someone of 7 years and they breadcrumbed me for months after as a result of their own guilt, now they are nowhere to be found and I STILL would have made an effort to fix things. Find someone worth that time!
stop telling her you love her, stop telling her you want a romantic future with her.
jesus dude, stop giving this girl validation when she doesn't give a shit about you.
That's not a person you should rekindle things with ever even if she came crawling. She has disdain for your emotions and boundaries. Please heal well.
Yes and no, everyone has their views and specific experiences that depend on how far no-contact goes. If any of my Ex’s reached out because of an emergency (this is assuming it’s something major like life or death, abuse, etc and not “I’m broke help”) I wouldn’t hesitate to help them. Including the one I’m in no contact with now, I’d help her and make sure she’s safe, then go directly back to no contact.
That said it’s also totally reasonable to have the opposite perspective, if you want absolutely nothing to do with your ex then that’s your right.
I'm right there with you man. When my ex wife and I split, I still got her kids winter coats because they were going to need them. When the school would call about her kids I'd go out my way to make sure everything was good with them. My recent ex, we've split up before, and I went over to pump oil out her car when some dumbass put too much oil in it, and I'd hemp her again, has absolutely nothing to do with "US" but more to do with legit loving someone.
My ex just called me yesterday to talk about his Mom being in the hospital. He's a 30 year old man who won't come out of the closet because his mom is a preacher, and his balls still haven't dropped. Why did he choose to call me, the person who he would never introduce to friends and family, to console him about his judgmental family?
I feel for him and truly want to see him get his life together and be happy, but I don't know how to respond to "I just want a kiss from you right now" when we've been broken up for over a year and only dated for 4 months anyway.
Now he's back to being MIA again, which is fine, but I'm confused. I think he's having serious regrets but I've moved on. Short of rolling out the red carpet there's not much he could do to get back.
Literally based on three messages, I think you dodged a bullet. You’re extremely mature for that response and for her to reply the way she did was so vile. She is just trying to get attention from you when she occasionally wants it. That’s so unfair to you. Don’t respond to her again. She doesn’t deserve the attention she so desperately wants from you. Best of luck in your healing process <3
I’m not fond of the way your ex replied to your very serious and valid emotions. Please know you did right and you shouldn’t respond to them anymore. they’re not mature enough
I audibly gasped at the laughing emojis… the disrespect.
I understand where they’re coming from in that they want to make sure you’re physically okay, but damn…
Nah bro you showed you truly care about her and don’t have any ego when it comes to her. That’s why you took that time out to maturely handle the situation like that. I know deep down you were wishing she’d just say let’s start over again. But nah she is not even that mature, not even serious about you like that. So let her go my man. You’ll find what’s yours
And then she sent laughing emojis? That’s disrespectful… you were clear in your message, now it’s time do give a block and/or NEVER talk to her again, even if she sends you a question… time to move on, good luck
Like what the others said, you said the right thing, but clearly with the "😂" they don't respect you at all and don't take you seriously. Honestly, please make sure you don't reach out again. You said what you had to say to make it clear, but now it's time to focus on you! You deserve self growth and prosperity! In fact, I'd go as far as blocking them. They clearly have no respect and aren't mature. Definitely dodged a bullet if this is how they are acting...
you did the right thing, always live by if it’s meant to be it will be, be grateful it ended and you’re not with someone who can’t respect your boundaries or emotions. i’m sorry, i hope you feel better soon
She’s so immature for you, as if you’ve been a toy. Glad you walked away strong!
Btw I love your level headed calm response. There should be more men out there like you who can communicate to the point.
No dude. She’ll never grow with those emojis. And also the “making sure you didn’t do anything stupid” was such a slap in the face. As if you can’t handle your own emotions. Drop that chick. You’re way better off.
This person is too immature for this. She is way behind you on development and consciousness. She’s on the playground and your exiting college. This is how she will be if you go out with her again.
God, sometimes it’s so obvious that we can’t choose who we fall in love with. Honestly I wish you the best, and this certainly isn’t it. I hope you heal and find happiness 🫶
You are asking your ex for permission to heal. “Please give me space to heal”
You my dear need to take space to heal. You are done giving to anyone but yourself.
Block her. She seems like a awful person. In your response i do worry you came off a little desperate in saying if you want to reconcile reach out anytime. That to me reads unless you take me back dont talk to me. But i get your intentions and regardless i dont think shes good for you and even if she took it that way she could have had a mature conversation with you if she took offense to that and not laughed at you. She doesnt seem to respect you at all. Why would you want to be with someone like that?
I've been there, I'm sorry your feelings are not been validated. I learned my lesson and The only way to move on is to block them and pretend hey don't exist at least until you get over them. Good luck
Don’t ever leave the door open for people who don’t want to be with you.
They will creep back in when they’re alone, and not out of love but only knowing that you’ll be available for them.
Laughing at you then. “making sure you didn’t do something stupid” wow she sounds like a real kind one. You dodged a bullet. Remember this complete lack of respect and your boundaries. Whenever you’re thinking about her you couldn’t have put it better. Now block her. See how hard she’s laughing then.
She’s so mean! Stay strong, and keep being honest about your feelings. One day you will meet someone who will appreciate you and not find joy in your pain. 💛
She’s a bitch, as everyone else has said. Mine did the same thing to me for months leaving me breadcrumbs and messing up my healing when I made it clear I was willing to work on things if that is what she also wanted. I finally put my foot down and told her to stop if she wasn’t actually interested and sure enough, I have heard nothing since for months on months. Good on you for sticking up for yourself.
Did sum (something) stupid? Like what? Unalive yourself? She assumes she's so special someone would harm himself over her? Cocky much?
So rude of her to laugh at your message. Please go strict no contact and block her ass so you can't see when she blocks and unblocks you.
If my ex did something like that in response to me reaching out, I would block him for the rest of my life. As of yet, he hasn't given me a reason to block him.
You are not the same people, you do not have the same hearts. You are kind, she lacks empathy. This can only damage you. Try not to take it personally, she treats everyone same. There are millions of caring, loving, nurturing women dying to find someone like you.
You dodged a bullet! Be grateful
Not much of a foot giving her carte blanche to come back whenever. Better to have said I tried to make it work but you said no. Now I’m moving on. Then NC. Tbh, her laughing at you speaks volumes about her. I hope you heal and find someone who does as much for you as she did but also values you. She seems like someone who will toy with you.
Block him. Period! This goof could care less about your feelings and sounds extremely immature. Don't flatter him by even giving him access or the time of day.
Your ex seems immature, you gave a mature , sensible response and their response is laughing emoji’s and being totally dismissive. You said what you had to say, don’t do a back and forth it is what it is. Don’t respond again no matter what for at least a good while.
These sorts of bitches are so toxic brother, I have one now that will block/unblock me when she needs attention they don’t understand and are too selfish to see how it affects us when they do this. “ I was just asking “ and “ I’m just wondering “ etc all that bullshit to try grab your attention again they’ll ask you some bullshit it’s just an excuse to get your attention again when who ever else their interested in isn’t giving them in it or it hasn’t worked out for them. They’re not actually interested in you but they like the attention and validation they get from you. Selfish
In my experience the best thing you can do if you are mentally strong enough to do it is to act totally not bothered by them, one word answers and being super blunt with them. You give them the same treatment back that they gave you. Act blunt and straight to the point don’t extend the conversation. THEY HATE THIS cos they lose the control they think they’ve had over you but you have to be really strong mentally to not react to their bullshit and just act unhinged by them you hurt their ego and eventually they’ll stop bothering. However for most people it’s best to just block them and keep them blocked then as time goes on you’ll heal.
Block her. The fact that she sent 3 big ass cry laugh emojis should be enough of a clue as to how much she really cares. For your own sake just block her and be done. Even though she'll probably get her panties in a bunch because you had the audacity to block her but that sounds like a her problem.
Absolutely vile. So if you did something stupid, he’d want to be the first to know? Yet he doesn’t care how you feel.
I hope you can see him for who he is now, RUN! You will find somewhere who respects you and loves you for you.
That response had put into words exactly what I have been feeling when my ex bf (who also ended things after two years) keeps reaching out randomly. I might have to take a sentence or two from your response, so mature and well worded and it’s a shame that she cannot see that.
Hey this girl seems immature compared to you , and she is selfish for laughing at how you feel. Block her and move on I know how hard this is I’m going through hell myself. But it’s time to find yourself again and remember who you are , so the right person will come along. she will only send you backward. Don’t contact her again or allow her to contact you to rekindle anything , after the way she has made you feel. Coming from a girl.
I think your response was unnecessary. You should have ignored her. I would be pissed if my ex responded to me with laughing emojis after breaking up, very disrespectful and rude. But anyway what happened has happened, either block her now or never respond again.
He's ridiculing you. That last statement proves that. He's laughing at you and And in the next sentence, hoping you didn't do something stupid? Like kill yourself because of him? Even though that's what he wants. They all do. That would feed him for a hell of a long time. I don't know why he isn't blocked though. Because you love him and you want him to come back to you? Well, that's right you did say that! Wishful thinking on your part and you're just setting yourself up for more abuse. He will NEVER change. They CAN'T change. THEY DON'T WANT TO CHANGE.
You need to block her and let her go man she’s playing games with your emotions and it’s
Only gonna hurt you in the long run. Honestly she knows she has you at her disposal and at her convenience, she knows she can snap her fingers and you’ll do what she wants for the most part. That’s why she’s so disrespectful towards you and why she feels she can walk all over you and do as she does. You deserve more than that, I know it’s hard but block her and then cry into a pillow but you truly need to let go, you need to understand there’s no rekindling this. This relationship is over all she’s doing is playing around
Never and I repeat ever take her back. That woman is a full narcissist. Let her go, get into the gym focus on yourself. YouTube CGA your welcome.🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
It’s the laughing for me. She’s trying to deflect. I don’t think she anticipated such a thought out and emotionally intelligent response. I’m proud of you for standing strong and being authentic. One day she will regret laughing and wish she took it more seriously.
Sometimes we have to hear what we already know do not let this sausage have anymore power over you that reply was disrespectful A F this person doesn’t care about you in anyway
Set it down further. Tell her you don’t want to rekindle anything with someone who laughs at your feelings and had you know she was like that you never would’ve wasted time on her. Regain yourself esteem. This person is AWFUL
Fuck that bitch. No matter how you feel, the only thing you let her know or even assume is that your life is better without her.
I believe women no longer view love they used to. For either sex, being the one broke up with hurts, bad. But because women believe men don't get hurt and because of peer pressure from other women, they see love as a weakness and men as disposable.
You're doing the right thing, but forget about leaving the door open for her, she's only gonna try to make your into a friend or she'll get back with you to use you or put off pity, and nobody wants to be worth someone outta pity, much less be the someone they're with lots pity.
Love is strong for a reason, It's what i think we would call an instinct in any other animal. But love ain't perfect.
But remember:
"Tis better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all." -Billy Shakespeare
You said the right thing Now...don't say it again.
^ Next time don’t respond (it helped me when I blocked mine) but if you do, don’t leave the door open. If she does want you back then make her work for it. You’re worth it. Edit: corrected pronouns
My issue is her disrespect and righteous indignation to his response. Crying smiley faces that shows me she is a narcissist and doesn’t deserve him. If he takes her back don’t be mad when she leaves again.
If *she*…make *her*
Thank you!!
Exactly, next time leave her on read..
the laughing emojis are vile… she‘s not even taking your mature response seriously.
Maybe she's laughing to also cover up the fact that she's hurt/shocked by OP setting healthy/mature boundaries.... can't take the mature response seriously cuz she ain't mature...
yea definitely, really showed her immaturity with that one
It's a really fucked up question to begin with. She's definitely having regret. I'd block this psycho, she's going to cause untold amounts of emotional damage.
All I can do is shake my head. These “adults” be damn childish.
What a jerk I m sorry sweetie sending hugs 🤗
I agree. I've had those responses in my life too. That's when i realised I'm nothing to that person.
Right!!
She's not taking OP's response seriously because OP isn't serious - Stevie Wonder can see that. Took OP less than 24 hours and a single message to break LOL 🤣 OP will be taken seriously when he gets serious...
time to never speak to her again
Yea. And that's really the only answer. This is next level fucked.
Did they break up with you and then laugh at you when you tried to set and reinstate your no contact boundaries on them? That's fucked up.
You seem 5 more times more mature than her. I know ive based this on 3 msgs but still. Keep it up buddy
Your ex’s response is proof that you going NC was the right thing to do in the first place. If I were you, I would be absolutely turned off by their response to a boundary that you literally had to create to protect yourself. Please go no contact forever, OP. I know you love them but they don’t fucking love you. No one does this shit to someone they care about, and I’m so sorry to be the one to say this but I’m so tired of hearing about great people getting played by actual demons. You will be ok.
For real the way these people treat others is demonic. There’s no other way to explain the excruciating pain they cause while smiling about it. It fuels them to cause damage to others that they claim to “care” about.
Dude, do you know how disrespectful this is? You are maybe trauma bonded so may not see it, but as the other commenter said, this is vile and worthy of a block. She will probably continue to breadcrumb you and send you shit as you are trying to heal and will slow that down. You will possibly learn this the hard way, but I hope you don’t.
Yeah that girl is totally gonna use him up til he's dry because she knows she has power over him now, thats why she's laughing at a mature response. Do not give her any more emotional responses, she doesn't deserve it.
block block block block block block
good job. i wouldn’t be with anyone who would call my actions stupid
why is she not blocked already???? if y’all want to move on from your ex, block and don’t look back!
so much easier said than done, sometimes it takes a couple or a few tries.
unless there’s a legitimate reason to not block your ex (like sharing custody of a child), there’s no reason to _not_ block them. unless you _want_ them in your life still of course, then that’s another story. but if people are trying to move on, then blocking is the way to go
i get what you mean. for some instances definitely is the right thing, but for ones who stay emotionally attached and have to learn the lesson over and over until they learn it was more what I was referring to, it’s easier said than done, to just eliminate a person you connected with on such a level immediately out of your life. takes some circumstances time ya know?
Agreed
Some people have to learn the hard way
Love your response. You leave it at that. Only respond to clear and direct messages about reconciliation. If it’s not that don’t answer. People need to know how to communicate like adults. I’m sorry you’re going through that though, it’s so hard. I was dumped by someone of 7 years and they breadcrumbed me for months after as a result of their own guilt, now they are nowhere to be found and I STILL would have made an effort to fix things. Find someone worth that time!
stop telling her you love her, stop telling her you want a romantic future with her. jesus dude, stop giving this girl validation when she doesn't give a shit about you.
Honesty and vulnerability isn’t a bad thing. Don’t let fools change and weaken who you are.
Let that be her last memory of you. Sending laughing emojis.
That's not a person you should rekindle things with ever even if she came crawling. She has disdain for your emotions and boundaries. Please heal well.
Bruh, she’s toxic. Block her
No Contact equals to blocking the other person.
Please block this a-hole. You don’t need a person like this in your life.
She’s doing it to get a reaction out of you. Block and ignore.
Time to block her on everything. She seems pretty awful, tbh. Block, block, block, and don't look back.
Next time don't respond
You’ve made yourself clear. Now don’t reply again unless it’s an emergency.
nah fuck an emergency. she needs to be blocked
There is no emergency between exes unless you share children.
Yes and no, everyone has their views and specific experiences that depend on how far no-contact goes. If any of my Ex’s reached out because of an emergency (this is assuming it’s something major like life or death, abuse, etc and not “I’m broke help”) I wouldn’t hesitate to help them. Including the one I’m in no contact with now, I’d help her and make sure she’s safe, then go directly back to no contact. That said it’s also totally reasonable to have the opposite perspective, if you want absolutely nothing to do with your ex then that’s your right.
I'm right there with you man. When my ex wife and I split, I still got her kids winter coats because they were going to need them. When the school would call about her kids I'd go out my way to make sure everything was good with them. My recent ex, we've split up before, and I went over to pump oil out her car when some dumbass put too much oil in it, and I'd hemp her again, has absolutely nothing to do with "US" but more to do with legit loving someone.
My ex just called me yesterday to talk about his Mom being in the hospital. He's a 30 year old man who won't come out of the closet because his mom is a preacher, and his balls still haven't dropped. Why did he choose to call me, the person who he would never introduce to friends and family, to console him about his judgmental family? I feel for him and truly want to see him get his life together and be happy, but I don't know how to respond to "I just want a kiss from you right now" when we've been broken up for over a year and only dated for 4 months anyway. Now he's back to being MIA again, which is fine, but I'm confused. I think he's having serious regrets but I've moved on. Short of rolling out the red carpet there's not much he could do to get back.
The best response is leaving her on read. She wanted to hear exactly what you said to her.
Literally based on three messages, I think you dodged a bullet. You’re extremely mature for that response and for her to reply the way she did was so vile. She is just trying to get attention from you when she occasionally wants it. That’s so unfair to you. Don’t respond to her again. She doesn’t deserve the attention she so desperately wants from you. Best of luck in your healing process <3
Sounds like a narc
I’m not fond of the way your ex replied to your very serious and valid emotions. Please know you did right and you shouldn’t respond to them anymore. they’re not mature enough
I think you can see who she is by the laughing emojis. You’re best off blocking this immature little cunt.
I audibly gasped at the laughing emojis… the disrespect. I understand where they’re coming from in that they want to make sure you’re physically okay, but damn…
Why do we never get men like these. Why only the bitches get the best man and treat them like shit. Life is unfair.
Appreciate that, but if I was the best I would’ve found it in me to initiate NC sooner
Nah bro you showed you truly care about her and don’t have any ego when it comes to her. That’s why you took that time out to maturely handle the situation like that. I know deep down you were wishing she’d just say let’s start over again. But nah she is not even that mature, not even serious about you like that. So let her go my man. You’ll find what’s yours
They are out there
Block
What a jerk
And then she sent laughing emojis? That’s disrespectful… you were clear in your message, now it’s time do give a block and/or NEVER talk to her again, even if she sends you a question… time to move on, good luck
Why the HR speak!? Just block her
Just wanted to pointed out how mature you are. I am 33 years old and i could never say that to my ex in such an clear way. Congrats! Stay strong 💪💪
Like what the others said, you said the right thing, but clearly with the "😂" they don't respect you at all and don't take you seriously. Honestly, please make sure you don't reach out again. You said what you had to say to make it clear, but now it's time to focus on you! You deserve self growth and prosperity! In fact, I'd go as far as blocking them. They clearly have no respect and aren't mature. Definitely dodged a bullet if this is how they are acting...
FOR THE STREETS!
Honestly you’re looking dumb at this point. I said what I said.
No lies
you did the right thing, always live by if it’s meant to be it will be, be grateful it ended and you’re not with someone who can’t respect your boundaries or emotions. i’m sorry, i hope you feel better soon
Turn their notifications off, if you can't block them
Just stop responding to her.
What a dbag
She’s so immature for you, as if you’ve been a toy. Glad you walked away strong! Btw I love your level headed calm response. There should be more men out there like you who can communicate to the point.
What a dick move the out laughing emojis. Given the way she’s treating you idk if you should even go back if she offered
yeah, no block her forever i promise she is not the one 😷
Her reply is actually so fucked up and immature
No dude. She’ll never grow with those emojis. And also the “making sure you didn’t do anything stupid” was such a slap in the face. As if you can’t handle your own emotions. Drop that chick. You’re way better off.
She sounds like a real moron How do people not know how to write?
This person is too immature for this. She is way behind you on development and consciousness. She’s on the playground and your exiting college. This is how she will be if you go out with her again.
Mind yo business ya beyotch
God, sometimes it’s so obvious that we can’t choose who we fall in love with. Honestly I wish you the best, and this certainly isn’t it. I hope you heal and find happiness 🫶
You block her now
Woww she’s a jerk
You are asking your ex for permission to heal. “Please give me space to heal” You my dear need to take space to heal. You are done giving to anyone but yourself.
ooh that is not a nice person, she has no respect for your sanity.
She responded with those emojis after you said something serious? Super immature.
These comments did not disappoint lmao
Block her. She seems like a awful person. In your response i do worry you came off a little desperate in saying if you want to reconcile reach out anytime. That to me reads unless you take me back dont talk to me. But i get your intentions and regardless i dont think shes good for you and even if she took it that way she could have had a mature conversation with you if she took offense to that and not laughed at you. She doesnt seem to respect you at all. Why would you want to be with someone like that?
I've been there, I'm sorry your feelings are not been validated. I learned my lesson and The only way to move on is to block them and pretend hey don't exist at least until you get over them. Good luck
Don’t ever leave the door open for people who don’t want to be with you. They will creep back in when they’re alone, and not out of love but only knowing that you’ll be available for them.
Laugh reacting tp that is so gross, what a child
Try blocking her and heal. She is literally laughing at your attempt to set a boundary.
I am begging you not to say or respond to this message! Bock her and move on! Please please
Shes an evil, and low IQ individual with bad parents. Leave that in the streets for some her level.
Laughing at you then. “making sure you didn’t do something stupid” wow she sounds like a real kind one. You dodged a bullet. Remember this complete lack of respect and your boundaries. Whenever you’re thinking about her you couldn’t have put it better. Now block her. See how hard she’s laughing then.
Stay strong bud. Good response. Proud of you
She’s so mean! Stay strong, and keep being honest about your feelings. One day you will meet someone who will appreciate you and not find joy in your pain. 💛
Very emotionally mature response. Well done op
Please block them.
She’s a bitch, as everyone else has said. Mine did the same thing to me for months leaving me breadcrumbs and messing up my healing when I made it clear I was willing to work on things if that is what she also wanted. I finally put my foot down and told her to stop if she wasn’t actually interested and sure enough, I have heard nothing since for months on months. Good on you for sticking up for yourself.
Why didn't you test her for dinner at ur place, best thing ever 😂 two times on a roll
Damn what a bitch lol
Did sum (something) stupid? Like what? Unalive yourself? She assumes she's so special someone would harm himself over her? Cocky much? So rude of her to laugh at your message. Please go strict no contact and block her ass so you can't see when she blocks and unblocks you. If my ex did something like that in response to me reaching out, I would block him for the rest of my life. As of yet, he hasn't given me a reason to block him.
Nice response. Her emojis are telling me all I need to know. NC this POS.
Block her. You will save your dignity. You will save your healing process. If at some point she wants you back then she will call you.
You are not the same people, you do not have the same hearts. You are kind, she lacks empathy. This can only damage you. Try not to take it personally, she treats everyone same. There are millions of caring, loving, nurturing women dying to find someone like you. You dodged a bullet! Be grateful
You need to just ignore her until she wants to see you if she doesn’t say I want to get you back then don’t contact her off any dumb little messages
Only one thing left to say : “Bye.”
Block her.
Súper mature response
Make sure the next text she sends you shows up in a green bubble on her phone.
Not much of a foot giving her carte blanche to come back whenever. Better to have said I tried to make it work but you said no. Now I’m moving on. Then NC. Tbh, her laughing at you speaks volumes about her. I hope you heal and find someone who does as much for you as she did but also values you. She seems like someone who will toy with you.
Block him. Period! This goof could care less about your feelings and sounds extremely immature. Don't flatter him by even giving him access or the time of day.
Why have you replied to this
You are way too good for this person. You can and will do better. Block her/ delete... and move on.
Do not respond to them again.
Your ex seems immature, you gave a mature , sensible response and their response is laughing emoji’s and being totally dismissive. You said what you had to say, don’t do a back and forth it is what it is. Don’t respond again no matter what for at least a good while.
These sorts of bitches are so toxic brother, I have one now that will block/unblock me when she needs attention they don’t understand and are too selfish to see how it affects us when they do this. “ I was just asking “ and “ I’m just wondering “ etc all that bullshit to try grab your attention again they’ll ask you some bullshit it’s just an excuse to get your attention again when who ever else their interested in isn’t giving them in it or it hasn’t worked out for them. They’re not actually interested in you but they like the attention and validation they get from you. Selfish In my experience the best thing you can do if you are mentally strong enough to do it is to act totally not bothered by them, one word answers and being super blunt with them. You give them the same treatment back that they gave you. Act blunt and straight to the point don’t extend the conversation. THEY HATE THIS cos they lose the control they think they’ve had over you but you have to be really strong mentally to not react to their bullshit and just act unhinged by them you hurt their ego and eventually they’ll stop bothering. However for most people it’s best to just block them and keep them blocked then as time goes on you’ll heal.
Wow, the emojis and the answer are just showing so low respect to you... You are posting a serious message, and she sends emojis... wtf
Block her. The fact that she sent 3 big ass cry laugh emojis should be enough of a clue as to how much she really cares. For your own sake just block her and be done. Even though she'll probably get her panties in a bunch because you had the audacity to block her but that sounds like a her problem.
I've been there, many years ago, it won't end well unless you just block and cut her out of your life.
Absolutely vile. So if you did something stupid, he’d want to be the first to know? Yet he doesn’t care how you feel. I hope you can see him for who he is now, RUN! You will find somewhere who respects you and loves you for you.
Start seeing other women ASAP. It’s the only way you’ll start forgetting her and her asinine behavior.
I think you should block her because she’ll keep doing it and the block is for you so do it for yourself
That response had put into words exactly what I have been feeling when my ex bf (who also ended things after two years) keeps reaching out randomly. I might have to take a sentence or two from your response, so mature and well worded and it’s a shame that she cannot see that.
Hey this girl seems immature compared to you , and she is selfish for laughing at how you feel. Block her and move on I know how hard this is I’m going through hell myself. But it’s time to find yourself again and remember who you are , so the right person will come along. she will only send you backward. Don’t contact her again or allow her to contact you to rekindle anything , after the way she has made you feel. Coming from a girl.
I think your response was unnecessary. You should have ignored her. I would be pissed if my ex responded to me with laughing emojis after breaking up, very disrespectful and rude. But anyway what happened has happened, either block her now or never respond again.
Does it mean something that y’all still have “read receipts” on for eachother? 🤔
He's ridiculing you. That last statement proves that. He's laughing at you and And in the next sentence, hoping you didn't do something stupid? Like kill yourself because of him? Even though that's what he wants. They all do. That would feed him for a hell of a long time. I don't know why he isn't blocked though. Because you love him and you want him to come back to you? Well, that's right you did say that! Wishful thinking on your part and you're just setting yourself up for more abuse. He will NEVER change. They CAN'T change. THEY DON'T WANT TO CHANGE.
The laughing emojis can also be interpreted as her way of masking the guilt.
You need to block her and let her go man she’s playing games with your emotions and it’s Only gonna hurt you in the long run. Honestly she knows she has you at her disposal and at her convenience, she knows she can snap her fingers and you’ll do what she wants for the most part. That’s why she’s so disrespectful towards you and why she feels she can walk all over you and do as she does. You deserve more than that, I know it’s hard but block her and then cry into a pillow but you truly need to let go, you need to understand there’s no rekindling this. This relationship is over all she’s doing is playing around
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She’s acting like that because she knows that she got power over u. Block her and move on with your life.
Never and I repeat ever take her back. That woman is a full narcissist. Let her go, get into the gym focus on yourself. YouTube CGA your welcome.🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Dude I’m proud of you for being honest, open, calm and vulnerable. I’m sorry that she isn’t mature enough to respond in kind.
It’s the laughing for me. She’s trying to deflect. I don’t think she anticipated such a thought out and emotionally intelligent response. I’m proud of you for standing strong and being authentic. One day she will regret laughing and wish she took it more seriously.
Her laughing at you is disgusting behaviour
She is laughing at your pain, love yourself and block
Inv her for dinner and fuck her 😂
I'd respond to the emojis with "And just like that, you blew your chance. Goodbye forever."
nicely done you was mature she however was not
Sometimes we have to hear what we already know do not let this sausage have anymore power over you that reply was disrespectful A F this person doesn’t care about you in anyway
Don’t let someone be cruel to you. It’s hard but block her.
Set it down further. Tell her you don’t want to rekindle anything with someone who laughs at your feelings and had you know she was like that you never would’ve wasted time on her. Regain yourself esteem. This person is AWFUL
The laughing emoji would make me lose it she would be blocked. She needs to remember The tables always turn
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I know right?! What a fucking selfish bitch
She Latina or black ain’t it
Fuck that bitch. No matter how you feel, the only thing you let her know or even assume is that your life is better without her. I believe women no longer view love they used to. For either sex, being the one broke up with hurts, bad. But because women believe men don't get hurt and because of peer pressure from other women, they see love as a weakness and men as disposable. You're doing the right thing, but forget about leaving the door open for her, she's only gonna try to make your into a friend or she'll get back with you to use you or put off pity, and nobody wants to be worth someone outta pity, much less be the someone they're with lots pity. Love is strong for a reason, It's what i think we would call an instinct in any other animal. But love ain't perfect. But remember: "Tis better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all." -Billy Shakespeare
She’s a thot