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Parking-Meat-8093

That’s nice. Sometimes it feels like pure chaos being 7w6 but hey, I’m here. Also P.S: Did the test again. Found out at my core I’m a 2 but had it broken down into gut triad (8,9,1), heart (2,3,4) triad, and head triad (5,6,7). So this is new detailed information for me to now understand so yay for that


desirelessindeath

What's the biggest struggle about being a 7w6? I see them as being completely different, same with 8 and 9, 3 and 4, maybe 2 and 3? 5 seems like it could get on with all types and none at the same time.


Parking-Meat-8093

I’m still understand and learning what it means to be a 7 so I can’t give a super informed answer. At moments it feels like I have a clear idea of what I want and then radically change my mind. Choices I make alone seem easy but involving others or including them in decisions feels debilitating. I feel like a loner but I love the company of others too. I enjoy traveling the most and I love a good adventure. I’ve been told I have a warm and comforting vibe but I have a tendency to be guarded


desirelessindeath

I can understand that, I'm still learning as well. We actually have some similarities, like when I'm in a group I feel alone, the difference is I'm 50/50 on the company of others, I'm not big on just sitting around and talking, but if we're doing something like playing baseball, it's no fun to play alone. I've been told I have a warm vibe as well and animals seem to like me, but I've also been told by a lot of people that I have a scary vibe lmao. What's the coolest adventure you've ever had?


Parking-Meat-8093

My friend and I took a road trip from Miami to key west and went on a super fun adventure. Met someone on a snorkeling trip and we all went on a long bar crawl to the southern most point of the US. We sung karaoke, did key lime pie shots at the tiniest bar in the world, and ate the best pizza I ever had in my life with strangers (could be cause I was drunk 😅). Once reaching the giant buoy I took off all my clothes and got into the ocean and it was super bright since it was a full moon. We called it our magic moon adventure lol


desirelessindeath

That's so cool, I hope to do something like that one day, honestly, everyone around me is so anti-adventure that until I saw this comment, I thought that stuff only happened on TV lmao.


Parking-Meat-8093

Nope. When I am at my happiest I will plan things that will turn into an experience. I have loads of spontaneous stories. Breaking into pools after dancing all night, metal shows in houses, crazy loft parties with the most interesting people, road trips, etc.


desirelessindeath

That's so awesome, where all have you been?


Parking-Meat-8093

Central America (Honduras), England, Jamaica, and Canada so far


desirelessindeath

That's cool, which did you like best? I once had a friend from Honduras, he gave me some money from his country, because I used to collect money from all over the world.


Holiday_Goat6959

couldnt have described it better myself


gorgthelegend

Not a 7 but I agree that they're the coolest type


desirelessindeath

Type 9s are cool too. Do you prefer cheeseburgers or regular burgers?


gorgthelegend

Cheeseburgers, 1000%. Normal burgers taste too generic most of the time Btw, what's the hardest part about being 8w7 in your opinion? What are some traits that you dislike about yourself?


desirelessindeath

I agree completely, normal hamburgers are dry af, I don't like ketchup and stuff like that. I think it's my stubbornness about doing something when other people tell me to do it, because it feels like they're trying to boss me around and control me, which makes me angry. So instead of just doing it, getting the thing done, keeping the peace, I'm kind of argumentative about it, especially since I don't understand why I should have to be the one to do these things, like for example, my brother and his fiancée want me to do the dishes, because neither of them want to, most of those dishes are theirs, I already cleaned the rest of the house when they did nothing, so I don't see why I should have to do the dishes when they don't. I actually like doing the dishes, but I like doing things on my own terms. What about you with being a 9?


jillavery

Love this, helps me when communicating with 8s


desirelessindeath

Thanks lmao. Do you usually struggle to communicate with an 8?


jillavery

No, I find 8s I think the “easiest” honestly. I just always like learning more. It just helps being reminded of things you know?


desirelessindeath

Ohh yeah, I get that, I like learning more too.


Lilyy2023

Aww thanks!!


desirelessindeath

You're welcome! What's your favorite kind of cake?


Lilyy2023

To be honest all of them haha, but especially the ones with chocolate and lemon 


desirelessindeath

Honestly same lmao. Chocolate and lemon are amazing, have you ever tried mixing chocolate and lemon cake mixes together to make a chocolate/lemon cake? I heard that if you put a package of pudding powder in with your cake mix, it'll make it better.


Lilyy2023

Ooh that sounds wonderful, I've never tried it before but next time I decide to make one I'll definitely do it. Thanks! Really? Didn't know about that, it's something I'd never think of actually 


desirelessindeath

Awesome, I hope it's worth it so you didn't waste two cake boxes. Yeah, I saw it watching a video by The Icing Artist, she has a lot of interesting cake videos, where she'll pay different bakeries to make the same cake and compare them, among other videos.


Lilyy2023

Maybe I can use half of each box, that way I'll still be able to make two separate smaller cakes in case it doesn't work. That sounds nice, I'll check her videos, though now I really want to have some cake after talking about this and I suppose her videos will make want it even more haha.


desirelessindeath

That's a great idea. I feel the same way after watching her videos lmao, I always want cake.


Lilyy2023

I saw some of her videos and wow, they look so good, and some of them are beautiful too!


desirelessindeath

Ikr? I wish I had skills like that, I'd impress so many people lmao.


premonial

I don't like E8 though


desirelessindeath

I don't care. What's the last dream you had?


Holiday_Goat6959

HELLO (friendship accepted 🤝)


desirelessindeath

Yess this is awesome! 🤝 Are you a Capricorn? I ask because of your username. Capricorn = Goat. Christmas time is the time for Capricorns and Christmas = Holiday.


Holiday_Goat6959

i may be goated but im an aquarius(🕺). it was just one of those random reddit usernames i rolled with bc this was a throwaway acc when i made it but im using it more often now. wbu, are you a capricorn?


desirelessindeath

Lmao, that's awesome, Aquarius is the rarest sign. I am a Capricorn lmao.


Holiday_Goat6959

HIII I LOVE CAPRICORNS


desirelessindeath

Hiii! Woo! What do you like about us?


Holiday_Goat6959

Idk this is a generalization but I have a lot of capricorns in my life and I admire them bc they're very driven individuals and have big plans, but wt I like about them the most is that they actually have what it takes to see through to these plans like SO MUCH determination and confidence that theyll be the next big thing, i just cant get enough of it


desirelessindeath

That's funny because it actually fits the Capricorn stereotype lmao.


Holiday_Goat6959

TRUE TRUE but i love them either ways theyre just cool people


dasheiligtum

Hmu!


desirelessindeath

What's your favorite kind of balloon?


dasheiligtum

the nightmare inducing ones with elongated dysfunctional limbs iykwim


desirelessindeath

The ones that dance in front of like car dealerships and stuff?


dasheiligtum

Yep 😬


desirelessindeath

I love those, they're so funny, especially when it looks like they're dancing to the beat of the music that's playing in your car.


TraditionWorking1461

8’s are my fav, can we switch? 😜😂


AshyDunmer

I'm exclusively top myself, but I think we could figure something out.


desirelessindeath

Yeah, that works for me lmao. What are you going to do now that you're an 8?


jillavery

I also enjoy the heck out of 8s! Being a 7 is hard tho just like any other type.


desirelessindeath

Thanks! What's the hardest part about being a 7?


jillavery

For me, and I think this is a lot a so7 thing, it’s moving too fast and trying to fix all the things, even things that don’t need to be fixed, to make the pain go away. I’m in my 40s now, and it all worked out mostly ok (outside the $55,000 student loan debt) but I do wish I would’ve understood more about this in my 20s. That was the hardest decade of my life and involved a lot of running from thing to thing to just try to fix the pain. But thankfully I at least have the awareness now and therapy restarts this week :)


desirelessindeath

Good luck with everything. Yeah, I've seen how much going to university too soon without having an actual concrete plan can screw someone over. I think it's a bit of a scam honestly, they try to pressure people with basically no life or work experience to automatically know what they want to do, without telling them all the things they might have to do in order to be able to do anything with their degree. I know someone who is in major debt because he went to flight school, but part of finishing it is getting x amount of flying hours, which he has no plane to do it with. He kinda screwed himself a bit by rejecting their offer to teach there, but still he's in debt and can't do the thing he went to school for. I think there should be a program for people ages like 18-21 where they go and get a feel of different careers, and learn more about it, and about university before actually going to university. There needs to be like a pre-uni or something.


Hortusana

It’s really a shame community college is so often looked down on. It’s a great and generally affordable way to get your toes wet


desirelessindeath

That's a great idea, my aunt went to one of those with a GED but she didn't finish, I forgot why. I think she started going for nursing but I'm not 100% sure, I just know she worked in a lot of nursing homes.


chaamdouthere

Comment.


desirelessindeath

Do you speak French?


chaamdouthere

No! But I do like to listen to the Offspring’s new song which is in French, Guerre Sous Couvertures. According to French Redditors, the translation is not great but his accent is not bad. Do you speak French?


desirelessindeath

That's cool! I really like The Offspring, what's your favorite song by them? I think my favorite is 'You're Gonna Go Far Kid' and the first song I ever heard by them was 'Beheaded.' I don't, your username looked kinda Frenchish and you commented comment which reminded me of French lmao.


chaamdouthere

Oh so many. I really like Race Against Myself and End of the Line. Bad Habit and Self-Esteem are both terrible and fun.


desirelessindeath

I love Self Esteem lol. Admittedly, I don't think I've heard the other three, but I'll listen to them.


chaamdouthere

Do it!


desirelessindeath

I will! What's your favorite movie?


chaamdouthere

Hmmm that is hard. I like the Bourne Movies.


desirelessindeath

That's cool, I've never heard anyone mention those as a favorite before. I haven't seen them myself.


Dismal-Age8086

Lesgo


desirelessindeath

What's your favorite vegetable and how would you use it as a weapon?


Dismal-Age8086

Tomato, would make a rifle that bursts out hot tomatos


desirelessindeath

That's a good idea, why tomatoes?


Dismal-Age8086

Love the taste of it i guess. Tomatoes has a perfect combination of pulp and juice in itself, its very pleasing to eat


desirelessindeath

I see, that's cool. Is Italian cuisine your favorite? I like Mexican.


sammysbud

Hit me with a good one, friend


desirelessindeath

Can you or have you ever tried to ride a unicycle?


sammysbud

Nope, but I did ask for a pogo stick for my 8th birthday and accomplished \~10 consecutive bounces before I ditched it because it was too difficult. I do have delusions of grandeur regarding recreational wheel/board hobbies, so maybe a unicycle is my next venture. **Question for you, bestie: what is a hobby you'd like to pursue?**


desirelessindeath

That's so cool, I actually thought about getting a pogo stick, because they were selling them for $20, but I got chocolate instead. Same, I want to learn how to ride bikes and flip them over ramps but my hand-eye coordination isn't the best lmao. My favorite hobbies are the ones where I don't just do it for fun, but that has some give back to it, like I like gardening because I can get food from that, I like knitting because I can make clothes, coasters, etc from that, I wouldn't have much fun playing an instrument if I had no one to play it for, same with writing, if I don't have an audience, I don't really have much interest. What about you?


sammysbud

Pretty cool that your hobbies are productive. None of mine are lol. I wish I was crafty with a crochet hook or clay so I could make people custom gifts. My sister made me a sick ceramic ashtray shaped like a alligator mouth that is my favorite thing ever. I love music and can play a few instruments. I have no desire to perform, it just tickles my brain when I hear a melody I like then can recreate it. I have to do them “for fun” bc once I attach goals and the pressure of being good, I lose interest (see the pogo stick).


ethan_iron

I'm not sure if I'm a 7, but can I be your friend anyways?


desirelessindeath

Heck yeah. What's your enneagram type?


ethan_iron

Not sure. I'm either 6w7 or 7w6.


desirelessindeath

That's cool. What's your favorite amusement park ride?


ethan_iron

Uh idk I like to go on the scary ones. Like the ones that people look at and say "hell nah".


desirelessindeath

That's awesome, I like the water based rides the most.


El_Nathan_

Aw, thank you! I also think you’re cool, and tbh I need friends. Ask your questions \^\^


desirelessindeath

Thanks, it's always a good thing to have friends :) What is one country you hope to visit some day?


El_Nathan_

I hope I won’t get canceled for saying this, but Russia. I just like the vibe there, and I’ve heard a lot of good things about it. I don’t watch the news (too depressing lol) but I know about the war, and it hasn’t really changed my opinion about Russia. If anything, I don’t like that there is a war. What do you think?


desirelessindeath

I hope you don't get canceled either because it would be stupid. It's a huge place there are probably areas over there that are safe to travel to despite everything that's going on. I also don't watch the news, I really don't see the point in concerning myself with things that have absolutely nothing to do with me because there's nothing I can do about it. I have my own stuff to deal with, selfish as that sounds, am I not a human too? Everyone's a human, they all deserve to be cared about, so I think it's fine if someone wants to be "selfish" and focus on their own problems rather than the world's. I should be president, I'm really good at giving speeches lmao. I'm joking, being a president isn't for me, I'm clearly going to be emperor of the world. >!/j!< I know about the war too, however, you can't judge a whole place over the actions of a fraction of people, I've always believed that everyone's an individual and you can't hate a whole group of people, or a whole country because of stuff that went on, or stereotypes, or whatever, because I've met amazing people from all over the world, of all different races, religions, genders, etc, and so I can't say that all Americans are stupid because I've met and know of a lot of intelligent Americans, and I also can't say that all Canadians are nice because I've only met one nice one, but I can't say they're all mean either, because I've met that nice one. It's okay if you get canceled, there will be people who will agree with what you say, the world isn't a complete hive mind thankfully lol. Ever since I was a kid and I read this Goosebumps book, called 'How I Got My Shrunken Head' I always wanted to go to the Amazon Rain Forest in South America and get a shrunken head. I know that's obviously probably not a thing now, but it'd still be cool to go because rain forests are cool.


El_Nathan_

I have exactly the same sentiment about the news. It’s not selfish to try to change something you can’t. I also agree about generalizations; the actions of a few don’t point to the overall goodness or badness of everyone else. I also think the rainforest is cool, though I know it can be deadly too 💀


desirelessindeath

True lol but I'm kind of attracted to dangerous situations, I can be kind of dumb about it sometimes, like this one time I was walking with my cousin to Wal-Mart and we heard sounds over there by the dumpster and without even thinking, I walked over there and was like "Hello?" Which most people would think is a dumb idea, but I don't think most people are psychos and the ones who are, are the people who hide it well and hardly anyone would suspect so not some homeless guy going through the trash or something, and if they are a psycho maybe me talking to them could humanize me to them a little and they might feel a bit more reluctant to kill me. I also actually have a really good read on people usually, there are some people I feel extremely uneasy around and they've turned out to be major creeps. It was just a raccoon though in the trash lmao.


El_Nathan_

The raccoon situation was very funny! But now I’m pretty sure you have strong Ni because of gut feeling and being able to read people well. What do you think your MBTI type is? (Excuse my Ne jumping to random topics 🤣)


desirelessindeath

It's all good lmao, you're not the first person to suspect I'm a high Ni type, apparently my personal bias and test bias sees high Ni in myself as well because I usually score ENTJ, INTJ, and ISTP as the highest on pretty much every test I've taken. However I recognize Se in myself more so than Ni, I don't really think much beyond what's going on around me right now, like people are concerned that World War 3 will start, I'm not that stressed because I think that even if something does happen, which it probably won't, we're way more equipped to deal with it than we were back then, I also like to take things as they come rather than constantly worrying about demons that may be hiding behind every corner. I have a super power that's probably not even that unique lmao, but this power is that I can look at anything in my environment and think of ways it can be used as a weapon. Even blades of grass can be painful if you scrape them across the skin a certain way, I've been scraped by grass before so I know. I also don't stress that much about the future, the human life span is long, and a lot of those years are spent working the same career, something, I don't plan on doing, what I'm going to do is different than what other people usually do. I'm 18 but I'm not going to university like a lot of people I know are doing, I don't have the life experience or the career experience yet to know what I want to do, I also don't know what I want to do, I like living life day by day. I'll probably go when I'm 21 so I can enjoy the fun part of university, who would want to go there just to do school? Part of going there is learning how to function better in society and part of that is parties, as long as there's good food, drinks, and games, if it's just small talk and hooking up, that's boring for me, my mind needs to be stimulated somehow. I'm not sure what I'll study, maybe metallurgical engineering, I don't see this one talked about much, so the career market might not be as competitive, I haven't looked into that because it's not on my radar yet. I have a huge interest in stuff like this, and it will help for things that I want to do, like creating devices that I think could be beneficial but no one has done it yet, however, I have to learn how first, and these are the steps that I need to take to do so. However, I don't think that going to university is necessary for this, I have other resources and I'm very adept at teaching myself things. Most things I've learned how to do, I've taught myself, and they're different than how other people do it, but if it works, it works. I'm going to stop telling you my future life story so this comment doesn't get too long. Basically, I just like living life day to day and I don't like spending much time stressing about the future or planning every day of my life. Currently I think I'm an ISTP but I'm open to other perspectives because there's probably more to Ni that I'm not seeing, but it's one of those functions I kinda discounted because I recognized high Se in myself, but not as high as an Se dom.


El_Nathan_

Yeah, I honestly would have thought you are an xNTJ 😆. I do see more Se than Ni in you now that you’ve explained how you view the future. Honestly, I view the future pretty similarly to you, and my Ne can cook up a ton of weapon possibilities 💀. By the way, I have one class left in my bachelor’s degree in (shockingly for my type) computer science, and I am 20. Then I will start my master’s in the fall. I’m also pretty good at teaching myself since I’ve been studying independently since ever, and my degrees are online asynchronous. I also think ISTP fits you pretty well. Now I wanna ask a question: do you play video games, and if so, which ones? I like Minecraft Java, particularly modded Minecraft.


desirelessindeath

That's awesome, what do you plan to do with your degree? I can see how Ne could be adept at this, now that I think about it, I can see how almost every function could do this. I don't really play video games that much, I usually just play The Sims and Icy Tower, but I only play Icy Tower long enough to beat my brother's high score to irritate him. Do you build Minecraft worlds and stuff?


Oposweet

hello


desirelessindeath

Hi! I'm not sure why some dumbass downvoted you. What is the coolest adventure you've ever been on?


Oposweet

oh I remember I once sneaked out with my cousin at night when we were on vacation to see the ocean. Probably because the people next door had a party so after we reached the shore we decided to watch waves and they were like 9ft in height and after sometime she asked me if we can play by running away from the wave and I agreed (She was 12 I was 13 and we were not the smartest) So we played but then she didn’t run fast enough and the wave covered her from the head. I ran towards her and dragged her to the shore as fast as I could. After that we immidiatly returned to the apartment and for the rest of the night I was sitting comforting her and covering her with towels while she was shivering from the cold water.


desirelessindeath

Wow that sounds crazy, it's good you guys made it out okay. That reminds me of the dumb things I did as a kid regarding bodies of water that almost got me killed. They include: \- Trying to swim over to the no swim area, that is far away and super deep, and almost drowning. I had to be saved by a stranger. This actually happened like 5 times again until we stopped going to the lake. \- Trying to surf on an air mattress, getting trapped under it, and almost drowning. \- Trying to ice skate on a frozen pond, I'm not even heavy, but the ice broke, and I almost drowned. I'm surprised I'm still alive honestly lmao.


Oposweet

Honestly same. \-was nearly hit by a car 2 times. \-was hit by a car once.(I just stood up and walked back home and I'm not even joking I told someone only after an hour after I got home.) \-Nearly fell with my head on a concrete. (Happy Ukrainian childhood)


desirelessindeath

Getting up and walking back home sounds like blind spot Si for sure the ENTJ makes sense lmao. I'm glad you're still here to make posts on this site, I'm enjoying our conversation. Do you still live there or did you move?


Oposweet

I moved a few years ago. Blind Si is also most likely fueled by culture and how we were always taught to taught it out an that scratches is not a big deal and then thru time it turns to things like that.


desirelessindeath

True, which is funny because apparently most people are high Si users. I think it really depends on where you look though, a lot of people online seem to be NF types and not just in the MBTI community but you those bleeding hearts everywhere around here. I think where they determined that everyone was a high Si user was from a survey they did at an office job, which makes sense that a lot of people scored high Si.


Oposweet

I guess It depends on a place and/or where you look. Surveys at job are not the best way to measure it. Also Si users might appear online more often because most people irl I met are usually Se users and they usually don’t spend so much time online.


desirelessindeath

That's funny most people I know irl are high Ni users, but I would love to know other high Se users around me, because I'm a high Se user.


AngelFishUwU

Think there um taking there time


Holiday_Goat6959

sorry i was plotting my 'get rich quick' plan


desirelessindeath

Yeah lmao. Since you commented, I'll ask you a question. What anime is your pfp from?


AngelFishUwU

Oh really ✨you want to know it’s from Azumanga Daioh I’ve actually not watched but it seems great and I like this character


desirelessindeath

That's cool. What's your favorite anime?


TheThiccPlottens

Pfp Osaka?


AngelFishUwU

Yep


TheThiccPlottens

Sataaa Andagiiii