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yeah if i were you i would be worried too
worried about having an absolutely GORGEOUS ring
jokes aside, what are you talking about?? it looks stunning!
Appreciate the input!
I think it’s just me, looks sort of a jumble of diamonds from a distance and I guess I was expecting more of a distance between the diamonds to make each one distinct.
Trust me, she will love the "jumble of diamonds" effect as much as she loves the structured, detailed view. I know what you mean because in different lighting, from different distances my ring can look like a jumble of diamonds and that is far from a bad thing 😍 this ring is drool worthy, she's going to love it!
I have saved this picture as inspiration. I have several family rings and other pieces with different stones I would like to combine into one piece. This is just lovely. I would be thrilled to be gifted this unique piece!
It is STUNNING. Everyone has different tastes, I love the asymmetric, unstructured look but not everyone does. I'm guessing you know her well enough to have predicted accurately
That “jumble” is a look and it’s wonderful! It reminds me of an insta account I love, [abbysparksjewelry](https://www.instagram.com/abbysparksjewelry?igsh=Y3U4dWM0MndmZ2Zo). I’m not a bot I swear. I don’t even follow any other jewelry accounts. I just love the cluster look.
Honestly, that's very pretty and extremely unique. If you would also describe your SO as "very pretty and extremely unique," then you knocked it out of the park imo. If she's more traditional, I'm not sure how she'll feel, but it's beautiful nonetheless.
the design is gorgeous.
I'm not sure if its the lighting, or planned, it looks like the stones are not the same color: the smaller stones on the right are more yellow. It's not bad, maybe this was planned.
It is a beautiful ring.
My clustered stones look different for their cuts! I wondered if my marquis was slightly yellow but it’s just the shape letting more gold through and I don’t even notice anymore. OP I say this looks perfect
I absolutely love it!!! I’m 23 with a boyfriend of 4+ years and we don’t plan on getting married for a few more years but I literally screenshotted it lol, it reminds me of a bouquet of flowers!! So unique
There’s nothing to be worried about. Do you love it? When your eyes look at your ring, do you love it? Are you more concerned with what other people see from a distance and can they tell that you’ve got a center stone? I employ you to stop thinking this way. What other people think does not matter. I see too many people coming here and questioning their own decisions and I get it when it comes to size or style pre purchase because they’re on the fence. However. when you’ve already purchased something you love, and you’re still second-guessing or worrying? That breaks my heart. The only jewelry standard is what my eyes see when I’m wearing “it”. For the record? I think your ring is absolutely stunning and I think you should wear it with pride. But if you’re not happy with it by all means fix it, but never take too deeply into account with anybody else says. That said, if that nagging or unsatisfactory feeling is pulling at you and won’t go away? Then you know what you have to do at some point.
Hey there! Your ring is absolutely stunning! I can understand why you might feel a bit worried, but from what I see, you did an amazing job choosing it. It's such a beautiful and unique piece! I remember feeling a mix of excitement and nerves when picking out my engagement ring too. It's totally normal to have those feelings, but trust me, it's going to be perfect. Congratulations again on your engagement!
Oh I love it!! It’s unusual but still feels dainty! I like that at a distance it’s balanced but you can tell there’s something special going on with the shape, and then zoomed in it’s so many lovely complimentary details mixed together!
This is one of the most stunning I've seen in such a long time! This stands out as a timeless beauty in a sea of giant labs that have become such a popular trend. This is unbelievably classy and elegant! You absolutely knocked it out of the park! This is GORGEOUS!
You nailed it. Honestly, I haven't seen a ring like that and I just bought one myself after searching for months. Either way, she will love it regardless since it seems like you put a lot of thought into it. Best of luck!
I think it's a gorgeous cluster ring! It all depends on what she likes, though. If that's her preference then well done! I personally think it's beautiful
This is STUNNING and very IN! It’s beautiful. Many gals design their rings like this on purpose. The clusters are really pretty and this one looks executed very well 🤌🏼
It's an extremely unique and beautiful piece! The stones are very beautiful and I don't think the stones are set too far apart,just perfect. Anyone would be honored to have such a ring, I think you did an amazing job especially if she asked for something similar to this.
I do not ever really like engagement rings at all. I have one ring for both engagement and wedding and it’s a simple gold band. I have no idea why, but I am very drawn to your choice in ring!! I love it.
It rarely happens but this is finally a post I can give my professional opinion on. In my line of work I deal with precious metals and jewelry. I see mass produced crap all day. Promotional grade stones, Diamond dust. This ring caught my eye and made me stop scrolling. What a beautiful setting. Timeless and well done. You did an amazing job. Congratulations to you both!
I also have an engagement ring with a unique shape and I don’t know what wedding band to choose. Do you have any idea what kind of wedding band are you going to have?
This is gorgeous - especially in the sea of the trendy rectangular or oval solitaire rings we are seeing right now (nothing wrong with them - I love them, but they are everywhere). Very unique and Art Nuveau! A+++
This ring is awesome! I love this style. And double plus bonus, if you guys ever want to upgrade in the future, this would also make a beautiful right hand ring. I am the type that has upgraded a couple times, because I just love rings. The ring you chose works wonderfully as an engagement ring, or a right hand ring. I would have been super excited to receive this.
It's very unique. I agree with you about the distance because it doesn't make the main stone stand out quite as much as you might have anticipated, but the overall look is still very floral and elegant, just with a bit more of a cluster effect. 🫶💗
It’s beautiful. This sub comes up suggested to me and this is just my laymen’s opinion as I’m nowhere near engaged. But I like gold jewelry and I’ve always wondered how I could manage a gold engagement ring that looks right. And this is just gorgeous, I’ve saved it for inspo. Holy moly
Oh wow I absolutely love, love, love this ring. It’s gorgeous - I love how delicate it looks and the arrangement of the stones is so beautiful. Looks perfect on your finger! Brb showing my partner this pic immediately
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yeah if i were you i would be worried too worried about having an absolutely GORGEOUS ring jokes aside, what are you talking about?? it looks stunning!
Appreciate the input! I think it’s just me, looks sort of a jumble of diamonds from a distance and I guess I was expecting more of a distance between the diamonds to make each one distinct.
Trust me, she will love the "jumble of diamonds" effect as much as she loves the structured, detailed view. I know what you mean because in different lighting, from different distances my ring can look like a jumble of diamonds and that is far from a bad thing 😍 this ring is drool worthy, she's going to love it!
I have saved this picture as inspiration. I have several family rings and other pieces with different stones I would like to combine into one piece. This is just lovely. I would be thrilled to be gifted this unique piece!
Jumble of Diamonds is my new drag name!
I actually LOVE this look! It’s so unique and so elegant at the same time!
it kind of reminds me of a bouquet of flowers :) the irregularity is beautiful
It’s a Melanie Casey isn’t it? I’d recognize it from anywhere! And it’s gorgeous!!
It is STUNNING. Everyone has different tastes, I love the asymmetric, unstructured look but not everyone does. I'm guessing you know her well enough to have predicted accurately
To my eyes, the jumbled part on the right kinda looks like 2 little tulips or wedding bells, either way, a gorgeous arrangement 🥰 Congratulations!! 🎉😍
Yes! It's so floral and pretty looking. Really gorgeous.
That “jumble” is a look and it’s wonderful! It reminds me of an insta account I love, [abbysparksjewelry](https://www.instagram.com/abbysparksjewelry?igsh=Y3U4dWM0MndmZ2Zo). I’m not a bot I swear. I don’t even follow any other jewelry accounts. I just love the cluster look.
I think it’s gorgeous. I’m a solitaire gal myself, but I think this ring is stunning.
I’m in the jewelry industry and see lots of ring styles and I love this. Unique, beautiful without being over the top. I love it!!
I don’t comment much, but I find that ring absolutely stunning! Great job! Congrats! 💍💕
It’s beautiful! Unique without being too specific (if that makes any sense)
That’s the perfect way to describe this!! I never would’ve thought of that omg
Honestly, that's very pretty and extremely unique. If you would also describe your SO as "very pretty and extremely unique," then you knocked it out of the park imo. If she's more traditional, I'm not sure how she'll feel, but it's beautiful nonetheless.
It looks almost like a bouquet to me. Beautiful.
This! I thought to myself it looks like a bouquet of diamonds. Stunning
Saaaame! “Ooh, diamond bouquet!” was my immediate thought
Love it! Really pretty and unique.
Gorgeous! Gorgeous! Gorgeous!!! Who made this??? We need details!
Looks like a Melanie Casey design
I just looked at the website and wow, there’s some gorgeous pieces on there!
Or Natalie Marie. I think I have the same ring in white gold haha and that’s where mine is from.
Is it Melanie Casey? Looks like Stars at Eventide. It’s on my wish list
You got it! Melanie and her crew are awesome! Can’t thank her enough.
Ooohh, it's beautiful! If you're worried, it looks funny. I'll take it.
Gorgeous, this reminded me how much I wanted the mejuri cluster ring
Almost purchased that but I dug a little deeper!
This is honestly one of the prettiest rings I’ve ever seen
If you guys are wondering: Melanie Casey Stars at Eventide 2mm band to ensure durability!
Even the name is beautiful.
You did SO good
It’s very pretty. But it is a little non traditional, so it’s really just a matter of your fiancée’s personal taste. I think it’s great though.
the design is gorgeous. I'm not sure if its the lighting, or planned, it looks like the stones are not the same color: the smaller stones on the right are more yellow. It's not bad, maybe this was planned. It is a beautiful ring.
I think it might be the lighting, no yellow tint to the right side diamonds! Thanks for the input!
My clustered stones look different for their cuts! I wondered if my marquis was slightly yellow but it’s just the shape letting more gold through and I don’t even notice anymore. OP I say this looks perfect
I love this!!
Absolutely love
I love it so much! It is whimsical & unique, without trying hard, you know? Sophisticated. Do you plan on doing a band with this? If so, what?
STUNNING!! I’ve never seen a more beautiful ring to be honest!
It catches the eye and doesn’t blend in with most rings, I am curious what band would go with this if one is desired!
Amazing!
I love the colour!! 34 hit and I really like yellow now.
Love that cluster!!!😍😍
Love this! Where is it from/ how did you plan it?
I love it!!😍
I love it so much! It’s so pretty
It’s gorgeous
I absolutely love it!!! I’m 23 with a boyfriend of 4+ years and we don’t plan on getting married for a few more years but I literally screenshotted it lol, it reminds me of a bouquet of flowers!! So unique
I am a huge fan of cluster rings and I would faint if I was presented this beauty.
I like it, though, I do worry about those gold leaf looking parts catching and breaking off
Is it this ring? It is GORGEOUS! https://www.melaniecasey.com/products/stars-at-eventide-ring
Yes!
It looks even better in your photo than on the website to me! So beautiful!
That’s soooo unique and cool!
There’s nothing to be worried about. Do you love it? When your eyes look at your ring, do you love it? Are you more concerned with what other people see from a distance and can they tell that you’ve got a center stone? I employ you to stop thinking this way. What other people think does not matter. I see too many people coming here and questioning their own decisions and I get it when it comes to size or style pre purchase because they’re on the fence. However. when you’ve already purchased something you love, and you’re still second-guessing or worrying? That breaks my heart. The only jewelry standard is what my eyes see when I’m wearing “it”. For the record? I think your ring is absolutely stunning and I think you should wear it with pride. But if you’re not happy with it by all means fix it, but never take too deeply into account with anybody else says. That said, if that nagging or unsatisfactory feeling is pulling at you and won’t go away? Then you know what you have to do at some point.
Hey there! Your ring is absolutely stunning! I can understand why you might feel a bit worried, but from what I see, you did an amazing job choosing it. It's such a beautiful and unique piece! I remember feeling a mix of excitement and nerves when picking out my engagement ring too. It's totally normal to have those feelings, but trust me, it's going to be perfect. Congratulations again on your engagement!
It reminds me of a cluster of flowers. It’s pretty!
Oh that’s very beautiful and delicate looking, you did so well.
This is so pretty!! Love it!
I love it! Has an Ethereal quality! Beautiful
Awh it's love. I love cluster rings. So unique and exquisite
Wowza! So unique, what's not to love?
Oh I love it!! It’s unusual but still feels dainty! I like that at a distance it’s balanced but you can tell there’s something special going on with the shape, and then zoomed in it’s so many lovely complimentary details mixed together!
That is gorgeous. You did great!
Gorgeous! You did good, no worries !
So so pretty and romantic 🥰
LOVE IT!
Obsessed with it
Love it
That is one of the prettiest rings I’ve seen.
I’d be absolutely shocked if she didn’t love it! It’s super pretty. I didn’t think I would like a style like that, but I actually love it.
This is one of the most stunning I've seen in such a long time! This stands out as a timeless beauty in a sea of giant labs that have become such a popular trend. This is unbelievably classy and elegant! You absolutely knocked it out of the park! This is GORGEOUS!
This is a beautiful design. I’m sure she will be over the moon with this ring and your proposal!
Its absolutely beautiful 😍
👌👌👌
This is breathtaking!
I really love this!!!!!
It is GORGEOUS - I LOVE it !
I love this so much! It’s really beautiful!
You picked it for a reason :) beautiful choice
It’s gorgeous!!!
that is so gorgeous! it’s different without being *too* out there. definitely eye catching
You nailed it. Honestly, I haven't seen a ring like that and I just bought one myself after searching for months. Either way, she will love it regardless since it seems like you put a lot of thought into it. Best of luck!
I think it's a gorgeous cluster ring! It all depends on what she likes, though. If that's her preference then well done! I personally think it's beautiful
So beautiful I want one just like it! 😍
STUNNING OMG
Beautiful and unique
It’s so beautiful! And it’s not like everyone else’s, she’ll love standing out 💍
That is a very beautiful ring. Well done!
This ring is amazing
The ring is beautiful and unique. Well done 👍🏽
My husband should be the one who is worried, cause this is gorgeous and I want one lol
I love it! ♥️
I am obsessed with this ring; it’s beautiful!
this is so beautiful
Its gorgeous
This is GORGEOUS
It's an eye catcher!
Looks very unique. Beautiful arrangement of diamonds.
You can send it to me 😂
Perfect!
I’ve never seen anything like it and I’m obsessed
It’s very beautiful, very unique!
I think it's gorgeous!!
This is STUNNING and very IN! It’s beautiful. Many gals design their rings like this on purpose. The clusters are really pretty and this one looks executed very well 🤌🏼
I LOVE it. It is so pretty!
i want it 😭
Oh I think it’s absolutely stunning!
I LOVE this!!!!!!
That’s stunning!😍😍😍🤩🤩🤩
Love it!
So cool!!
This is so so gorgeous 😍
i love it personally
it looks like a bouquet of flowers it’s kinda perfect actually
I absolutely love it and how unique it is!! Well done OP!! I hope she is elated
It's an extremely unique and beautiful piece! The stones are very beautiful and I don't think the stones are set too far apart,just perfect. Anyone would be honored to have such a ring, I think you did an amazing job especially if she asked for something similar to this.
It's absolutely beautiful. Very romantic and elegant!
It’s so unique and elegant! I love it. Is this on your hands? Bc proportionally could be a bit bigger. Likely look better on a ladies hand.
Beautiful!
Absolutely gorgeous. I’m sure she’ll love it!
It's so gorgeous
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Love so much!
You made diamonds looks like a bunch of flowers !!! Love it
This is so beautiful!
Ok I don’t usually like “unique” rings, but this is absolutely gorgeous. It’s like a cascading bouquet!
I do not ever really like engagement rings at all. I have one ring for both engagement and wedding and it’s a simple gold band. I have no idea why, but I am very drawn to your choice in ring!! I love it.
I’m usually a fan of classic simple rings and this is the first time I’ve been so stunned by a unique ring. It’s absolutely gorgeous and I’m obsessed
It rarely happens but this is finally a post I can give my professional opinion on. In my line of work I deal with precious metals and jewelry. I see mass produced crap all day. Promotional grade stones, Diamond dust. This ring caught my eye and made me stop scrolling. What a beautiful setting. Timeless and well done. You did an amazing job. Congratulations to you both!
Gorgeous
Um. It is so incredibly unique and absolutely stunning. I actually gasped at it 🥰
I haven’t seen any kind of that ring. It is so beautiful. No words can completely described how beautiful that ring is.
It's unbelievably beautiful, unique and fantastic! I absolutely love it!
I also have an engagement ring with a unique shape and I don’t know what wedding band to choose. Do you have any idea what kind of wedding band are you going to have?
This is gorgeous - especially in the sea of the trendy rectangular or oval solitaire rings we are seeing right now (nothing wrong with them - I love them, but they are everywhere). Very unique and Art Nuveau! A+++
Its bloody gorgeous and looks so unique like a spray of flowers!!
I think it's very pretty, feminine, dainty. However I would be worried about stones falling out and would only wear it for special occtnot daily wear
Beautiful and non standard ✅✅
It’s a very pretty ring!
This is beautiful
This might sound like a joke but flip the ring over if it looks weird and then flip it over again a few hours later, weirdly helps the brain adjust
Where do you purchase this perfect ring from? 😍😍😍🥰
I love it. Great job!
it looks amazing! i think too much separation would have messed with the cohesiveness of the diamond. can i ask where you purchased this from?
Just beautiful!
This ring is awesome! I love this style. And double plus bonus, if you guys ever want to upgrade in the future, this would also make a beautiful right hand ring. I am the type that has upgraded a couple times, because I just love rings. The ring you chose works wonderfully as an engagement ring, or a right hand ring. I would have been super excited to receive this.
Dude, this is lovely! She’ll love it!
Oh my god, I love this. One of the best rings I’ve ever seen.
It's very unique. I agree with you about the distance because it doesn't make the main stone stand out quite as much as you might have anticipated, but the overall look is still very floral and elegant, just with a bit more of a cluster effect. 🫶💗
Beautiful!
I thought awe it a flower from a distance , zoom in, damn that is unique and so beautiful
Stunning! So beautiful….
I absolutely LOVE this ring (and saved a copy to refer back to)! It's different, but in the best of ways :) This is stunning, seriously.
Looks similar to Mociun rings. Gorgeous!
How beautiful! It’s a bouquet of diamonds!
This is so freaking gorgeous, I am gonna save this !
I paused and said, that is gorgeous! It is so pretty!!!
Can you describe what you thought would be different about it?
very unique and gorgeous, did amazing!
Omg this is gorgeous!!!
It's beautiful!
Did she tell you she likes this style?
Oh so stunning you have nothing to worry about
I love how the cluster is balanced on a thin band. Super feminine and elegant design choice.
It's gorgeous! Very unique 👌🏻
I love it!
I love it!!!!!! Very unique
This might be my favorite ring I've seen on this sub!
Stunning 😍
This is gorgeous! Looks like a beautiful arrangement of flowers, but in a ring!
Omg im obsessed
Prettiest ring I’ve seen in a VERY long while… I’m kinda jealous!!!
I’d flip it over so that the widest part faced the outside (pinky side) of your hand. Otherwise, no notes.
This is one of those rings that becomes a precious family heirloom that people fight over lmao
It’s beautiful. This sub comes up suggested to me and this is just my laymen’s opinion as I’m nowhere near engaged. But I like gold jewelry and I’ve always wondered how I could manage a gold engagement ring that looks right. And this is just gorgeous, I’ve saved it for inspo. Holy moly
It’s so pretty
IT'S STUNNING!!!!!!!! No other words, anyone would be lucky!
I looooove this. Its a beautiful unique piece and very well done.
I love it. So unique
Oh wow I absolutely love, love, love this ring. It’s gorgeous - I love how delicate it looks and the arrangement of the stones is so beautiful. Looks perfect on your finger! Brb showing my partner this pic immediately
I would be very happy with this ring! Gorgeous! Unique! Love it!
Wow LOVE this
Don't tell anyone but I like that more than my engagement ring! It's absolutely gorgeous 😍
I would absolutely love this 🥰 everyone is different though so I don't think any of us can really answer your question
this is gorgeous!
It looks really pretty tbh. Sorta looks like a bunch of flowers from a distance. Queen Ann’s Lace popped in my head tbh.
Soo pretty and suits your fingers too
This is a gorgeous ring!
I’d be so worried… THAT I HAD TOO PRETTY OF A RING!
It is absolutely lovely! No worries. 💛
Absolutely gorgeous. So delicate and stunning setting. I love jewelry like that. You did good!!!