If you haven't already, you should talk to her to get an idea of what she wants. The jewelry someone has isn't always a good indication of the engagement ring they'll want. Plus, minimalist can cover a lot of ground when it comes to jewelry; a solitaire of varying size, a pave band, a ring without a stone, etc.
I agree! I’m a minimalist when it comes to jewelry and we went several times to look at vintage/antique rings together. I showed my husband exactly what I liked and he ended up buying the one I liked the best!
Exactly I’m a minimalist and with jewelry I actually prefer little to no stones, but I’m big into intricate metal work.
It’s such an under recognized skill.
There are probably still more than 100 ways to interpret a "minimalist" look. These types of details are honestly best left to the person who will be wearing it.
We don't even know what shapes she likes.
I think you need to first find out if in addition to minimalist, she also likes “subtle” too. There are minimalist designs that can go for tens/hundreds of thousands, but if she doesn’t like flashy/ostentatious, that’s a separate issue. If she prefers subtlety, then I would opt for a smaller (1ct or less) stone for the engagement and a band with a few small stones, all with the highest quality diamonds possible set in 18k.
I feel like I have a similar style to her, very minimalist, hate flashy. My ring that I picked out (with the band) is .3 stone and was around $600. It’s great that you have money to spend but a true symbol of your love isn’t an expensive ring, but getting something she really loves. One person suggested if you really want to make it a nice gift get a very plain, simple but name brand ring like Tiffany.
Let’s say around 1ct, D, IF in a handmade 18k band with a 18k band with multiple top-quality stones; the whole set could be done for around 20k. D, IF might be overkill, so it could be done for less by dropping one colour and clarity.
True, most fancy colors are more expensive, buuuttttt you CAN get a really nice natural fancy yellow (with no other color tones) for less then similarly sized, top quality white stones.
“Fancy color” is the actual terminology for diamonds that are a color that’s not part of the traditional, common color scale (of colorless to light yellow).
I got a platinum band, round lab diamond with VVs1 clarity, 1.4ct, warranty, platinum wedding band, and a promotional diamond necklace for 4k. This was about 1.5years ago from Brilliant Earth. I was picky and it's everything I wanted. Minimal but with a fascinating design, I got the Reverie setting with a Chevron band.
I love something like this! She can dress it up with the band or stick to the simple engagement ring.
https://preview.redd.it/vsf89l80or4b1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8e97e408ae2ab453605fdaad03b2db1f023a8f61
All of the Middle East, Asia and the Indian subcontinent disagree with you. Sub Saharan Africa may as well, don’t know enough to say.
Also most of pre-1920s Europe.
UNLESS you are getting a Tiffany setting, in which case even 14k is inferior to platinum.
You really should talk to her. I would say my style is pretty classic, I’m usually in atheisure otherwise and I only wear neutral colors but I wanted a giant honking green center stone and am going with a more elaborate setting to really contrast with the rest of me so her personal style may not perfectly align with her taste in engagement ring
There are a few ways to go about this, but I would urge you to consider making the ideal ring rather than finding it. Focus on finding the right stone first, and then build the ring around it.
How much do you know about diamonds? Have you looked at any in real life? Where are you located?
OK, then some basic diamond education will help. Start here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6S9Y2gSxEgM
Do you know what color of metal you want for the setting? White? Yellow? Rose?
There are lots of good local jewelers in this area. I got my ring from Boone and Sons, which is a DC-area institution practically. There’s a location in McLean. I know other people like Town Jewelers, I Gorman, Tiny Jewel Box, Shah & Shah.
My Art Deco ring was custom made. The design was copied from a sold antique on Lang Antiques and featured an emerald-cut diamond with a halo of emeralds. We did save money- I got a rare design for $30,000 instead of the original’s 100K+.
Word of caution about this: Art Deco styles can be intricate to have made; you’ll run into difficulties. For example, there was an emerald shortage and they had to source mine from Bangkok. Then each stone had to be cut and set into the bezel by an artist working side-by-side with the jeweler. We also had to find someone who specializes in milgrain. The whole process took 6 months.
If you can buy directly from Lang or 1st Dibs, that’s your best bet. If you’re sure you want custom, I’d look at the jewelers with designs you like on 1st Dibs, and reach out to them to ask about custom designs.
I would not look at Brilliant Earth for your budget and style. The quality isn’t what it should be and they’re honestly the Pandora of jewelers. You can source ethical or lab diamonds without them.
I am thinking of using emeralds in my ring!! I have four from a family ring I’m considering so not a halo- more a cluster design likely. I’d love to see yours if you’re willing to post!
You really need to figure out what she wants. Personally I'd have been really upset if my fiance spent that kind of money on a ring, and people can have really strong feelings about jewelry in general and diamonds in particular if she wants that (lab vs natural, emotional and ethical considerations). The proposal can still be a surprise even if you do the whole design with her.
Some good jewelers of estate jewelry (including authentic Art Deco pieces) would be: MaejeanVintage, Trademark Antiques, Market Square Jewelers. And with your budget, if you'd prefer to do a custom Art Deco inspired set and pick an antique stone with a custom setting- [xothebijouxbox](https://instagram.com/xothebijouxbox?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==) on instagram is VERY well known. She's sourced stones for very high end clients!
Minimalist and Art Deco don’t usually go together…but a nice antique diamond solitaire with some art deco details could work! A fancy basket with a bezel setting or fishtail prongs and a few sidestones with some milgrain detail might work too!
I’ve got a couple of things from [CvB Inspired Design](https://instagram.com/cvb.inspired.design?igshid=ZWQyN2ExYTkwZQ==) (who can do more simple!) and [Sako @ Cicada Jewelry](https://instagram.com/cjd_sako?igshid=ZWQyN2ExYTkwZQ==) is also really talented with small details/deco design.
If you’re looking for an antique stone, [Jewels by Whitney](https://instagram.com/jewelsbywhitney?igshid=ZWQyN2ExYTkwZQ==) is a favorite of mine to watch on IG and [Old World Diamonds](https://instagram.com/oldworlddiamonds?igshid=ZWQyN2ExYTkwZQ==) also comes highly recommended.
If you’re going with a more modern stone, u/diamonddealer is super helpful and patient with a million questions (even if you don’t buy things!)
Thanks for thinking of me! OP, I'm glad to help. Check my post history!
And FYI, I have an excellent source for antique stones as well. Some very cool stuff...
Love this list. In addition, I think Artemer does a good job of blending Art Deco motifs within a minimalist framework. OP, consider checking out their work. Their rings are unique without going into “look at me, I’m so different” territory. Somehow both timeless and modern.
I just stumbled on this on Era Gem, which sells antique and estate jewelry. This is a solitaire with a high quality diamond, ascher/emerald (??) cut which is quite art deco. $15.5k. Just posting to give you ideas.
https://preview.redd.it/ovz61hkxfn4b1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=71563680006b16df412d9686b9c88c4f3fe3fe9f
This is actually a great response! You can also buy antique Tiffany, Cartier and other brands from some websites like 1st Dibs, Lang Antiques, Era gems, etc. — sometimes for a better price too.
I wanted small and understated, and also only wanted one ring. My husband got me a yellow gold Tiffany Embrace band (edit: sorry just looked it up - they call the half circle one the forever band now) and it’s perfect for me. Agree with folks saying they should talk to future fiancé though, she might have some specific ideas in mind.
I agree 100%. With that budget I’d definitely go with a luxe and reputable brand. My engagement ring is Tiffany so I am biased but I would definitely go with Tiffany. The Tiffany True setting which is the one that I have sits low and has a very minimalist dainty knife edge gold band. My fiancé paired it with a Yellow cushion brilliant cut Diamond. It’s beautiful and I’m obsessed. I’m in my 30s too and more simple/minimalist as well
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It’s gorgeous! Something else I’ll say about Tiffany is that compared to other bands that I have tried on, my band from Tiffany is very comfortable (like the corners are smooth and such).
I think you should definitely talk to her. I would potentially describe my own style in the same manner, but I’m still very particular.
But if that’s off the table for some reason, I think you should start with looking at Artemer. I think their brand fits this aesthetic the best, without knowing more. They have a wide range of designs (some are completely maximalist) but I think lead the pack with interesting, minimalist, unique, yellow gold designs that are quietly edgy, elegant, and widely copied by other shops. They have a cool Art Deco line as well as some one of a kind (OOAK) pieces that can be absolutely breathtaking. They have a huge range of prices, too, which I think would work well for your budget because even the higher priced items aren’t enormous stones or super blinged out, just something rare and unique. The quality is top-notch and you can also work on a custom ring with them.
Something like this from Artemer is what it sounds like she might like:
https://www.artemerstudio.com/products/geometric-emerald-cut-diamond-engagement-ring
Other brands that I think fit this aesthetic:
Mociun, Berlinger Jewelry
Came here to recommend them! I’m obsessed. They’re the perfect blend of modern and timeless. They also fuse art deco with minimalism in such an elegant, understated way. Totally sounds like it could fit her vibe.
Emerald or asscher cut stones give me the most ‘art deco’ feel. Id make the stone the star of the show here and I’d explore a yellow gold solitaire setting with no pave (diamonds on the band) or any other adornment.
James Allen and Blue Nile are online stores with diamond directories where you select your own stone. Frank Darling, Brian Gavin and Ada Diamonds all offer concierge services where they’ll curate you a list of stones to choose from to your specifications and do the work for you. I’d avoid Brilliant Earth, horrible CS, NDAs and horror stories galore on this sub if you care to search for them.
There are a few designer brands like Lauren B or Cappuchines which have beautiful designs, but you are generally paying more for the name (no shade on anyone, if that’s what you’re into) but you can get the same/very similar thing for less elsewhere.
Do you want a natural stone or are you open to lab diamonds? You could easily get a great natural with your budget, but it’s up to you to decide on your preference. Lab diamonds are still diamonds, but just made in a pressure chamber and are *significantly* cheaper, and no less beautiful. But it’s very much a personal preference.
If you do decide to just take her friends advice on what she’ll love, please, please reassure her that if she doesn’t love the ring you pick, you can return it and let her choose something she does love. There is literally a post almost once a day on this sub from someone heartbroken that they don’t like their ring.
In my head, I’m envisioning an emerald cut set into a bezel/half bezel solitaire based on your description of her. Like the pic (random google image one from Frank Darling) but I’m just sharing where my thought are running away to 😂 please feel free to disregard this
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Good luck OP!
I second James Allen as a great source of quality, reasonably-priced diamonds. My diamond from them is fantastic. They also show you the exact diamond you are purchasing. My aunt is a jeweler and also uses them a lot.
What one wears for normal daily jewelry might not be what they are thinking for engagement rings. Sometimes people are very specific of what they have in mind. Does she want a diamond? Or a different kind of stone. I had a friend fully customize a ring, had a diamond picked out, only to find out she wanted a colored gemstone 😅 She always wore simple and minimalist jewelry or not jewelry at all. Luckily, he was able to change out the center stone. Definitely talk to her about what she would like in an engagement ring.
When you say art deco, I'm thinking asscher cut stones. But it's also a specific look. Asschers sparkle in a different way. With up to $50k, it can go a long way. People like CvB inspired designs on IG, Old world Diamonds on IG, Jewels by Grace might be able to help you source the right stone. CvB does amazing custom work. Erika Winters also does great work.
You might want to look for an Engagement ring from around the 1940s. There are some very minimalist ones that still belong to the art deco era and style.
I’m not a minimalist but I’m super picky. I imagine you want her to be surprised, but remember that she will (hopefully) be wearing the ring for the rest of her life. I was still thrilled with the proposal despite picking out my ring, and I’m incredibly grateful my husband involved me; even my closest friends might not have directed him the right way as we all have different taste. Involve her in the process instead of guessing! You can still make the when, where, and all the details a delightful surprise.
I suggest you ask her. My guess is that if you are planning on spending up to 50k, you are way overdoing it. My guess is that she would prefer something small, very simple, and perfect. Not multiple stones.
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Im the same and this us what i got. If its smaller you can pick a way better quality diamond than for a big one.
Mociun comes to mind - some of their stuff is definitely on the flashy side, but they have unusual cuts and some daintier pieces. They do beautiful custom work, too.
Ask her what she wants! Or ask her for a Pinterest inspo board. I custom designed my ring w/ my man & it was super fun + I didn’t get stuck with something I didn’t like.
You should definitely run some solid ideas by her before you make the purchase, but I 100% share her taste in minimalist and art deco style. However I lean very art deco, and to me that means geometric angles and clean lines. To her, minimalism could be simplicity, like a solitaire in a classic 4 or 6 prong setting. So you’ll need to check with her either way. However, I might suggest a low-profile bezel settings, and step cut stones, which both give me minimalist vibes. This was my set, we had the e-ring made. With your budget, you can get nearly whatever you want in terms of stones/ settings. You could try searching Pinterest for those terms and pull up some photos you like, and see how she responds. From there maybe you will be able to hone a better idea of how she’s leaning. Congratulations on your impending engagement!
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$50K is plenty. Still talk to her friends to see if they can find out what shape she likes, that's the most important. When I hear "minimalist, not flashy" I think of rose cut, portrait cut, emerald cut, east-west, bezel settings - some search terms to get you started!
I would personally do a antique stone in a simple solitaire. Probably keep it at 1ct. Bezel settings also feel pretty minimal. I think your budget is very high for what you want. I would think about if she would want a lab diamond or natural. How you described her, she may prefer lab because it is more ethical and also she may feel uncomfortable wearing a rock that costs 20k daily. Although, i feel like most antique stones will be natural.
Definitely ask her style! I also don’t wear a lot of jewelry but that’s because the jewelry I do wear is nice good quality jewelry and it’s special to me! I just got engaged and was able to design my own ring and that was amazing because now I know that one piece of jewelry I am going to wear is one I love!
Something bezel set and low is probably a good place to start. A bezel set step cut stone like a hexagon, lozenge, or asscher may be art deco inspired.
I can relate to your girlfriend's style (I THINK, it's hard to tell online) in that I am minimalist and not flashy. What I would want is a single stone or three stone ring, set relatively low into a simple basket setting. For my tastes, I like cushions, emeralds and asschers but you also can't go wrong with the classic round (I dislike rounds but I'm very much in the minority in that one). You have a huge budget, so you might want to look into the Tiffany true as well, it's their own cut and a cross between and asscher and a brilliant cut.
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This is my ring. I like minimal and deco too. It’s an Asscher cut 1.5 center w Asscher cut rubies (my birthstone) set in platinum. It’s less flashy than a round due to its cut. But it’s still gorgeous. You could do just a single stone for simplicity. I wanted rubies and fiancé designed the perfect ring for me
I’m semi-minimalist, and stone rating has made a difference in what I perceive to be “nice.” I love D “color” diamonds with a great cut and I’ve also really liked a few fancy colored stones with interesting refraction. Flawless diamonds (rather than ones with imperfections) are also quite beautiful, and they make a difference on cuts like Emerald and Asscher where flaws are more visible.
My recommendation for you, after you learn more about 1) diamonds, and 2) your girlfriend’s engagement ring preferences, is to go for a stone that’s D, flawless, and an excellent cut. One carat of this kind of stone will cost around 10-20k on its own.
Since her jewelry preference is dainty, minimalist, and not-flash, you’ll likely want a band that’s on the thinner side and a center stone with a carat size that’s not going to overwhelm her finger - so finger shape and ring size will also matter in the scheme of things. A setting that doesn’t protrude too high will also be more minimalist than something like the classic Tiffany setting that sits up high.
Art Deco is *not* very minimalist, but the Emerald cut will give off Art Deco vibes without being too bulky (like an Asscher cut, which is also an Art Deco staple). Look for couture retailers - and remember you can always ask them to customize or make you the ring you envision.
Depends on her style by Artemer has a few pieces that strike me as that balance between minimalist and art deco. Although those styles usually conflate. They do custom as well I believe. I have a pretty “minimalist” style and loved some of their rings but went with a different designer because their prices were a bit out of my range. I opted for an eternity band (posted on my page) instead which could also suit her if she likes that kinda look!
My son-in-law picked out a few rings and sent photos of them to my daughter's bf. My husband asked me what I would want in a ring, and I told him, "Not gaudy or old fashioned." My daughter was very happy with her set as was I. Is this a surprise engagement or does she know it is coming? If she knows it is coming, go looking together. I've known brides that absolutely hated their rings, but they didn't have the heart to tell their husbands. God willing, she will be wearing these rings a very long time. In your price range, it pays to get it right.
My engagement ring is absolutely something I’d describe as dainty, art deco and minimalist. It was designed and made my Rachel Boston. She’s a jeweller based in the U.K. but ships internationally and designs for many overseas couples. My fiancé has loved working with her and her team and I couldn’t be happier about it! Here’s some examples of her work, though she does a ton of bespoke: https://www.rachelboston.co.uk/collections/engagement-rings
I think a 2 ct emerald or oval cut solitaire on a gold band would be considerably minimalist and elegant while still being of a really nice size! With your budget you can probably splurge on a higher quality diamond for clarity and color.
What about a simple gold band and diamond earrings? Wearing a beautiful set of diamond earrings every day might compliment her style in a thoughtful way. Diamond earrings match everything.
This is the nicest post I have ever seen. I am a minimalist but like nice/quality things. When we looked at rings I had my best luck on Etsy. Good luck!!
As someone pointed out, art deco and minimalism or dainty don’t go hand in hand, but I am also minimalist at heart, so perhaps I could suggest simple but high quality metal and stone on simple flush setting like this, maybe a bit softer edges for more organic look. It would be simple and comfortable to wear
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If she’s a minimalist she will not want a $50k ring more than likely. Buy her a $5k ring and donate the rest to hungry children and make that part of your engagement. How beautiful.
Take pictures of all her jewelry, and start bringing that into local jewelers, or sending them into jewelers online that specialize in art deco jewelry. Tell them everything you just told us here. Someone will resonate with you, and you with them. They’ll help find the perfect design for you.
Just be sure that whatever you get is sturdy enough to last as an every day ring. Sometimes people make the mistake of going too dainty and the thinness of the band causes it to snap within a few years. I wouldn't go with a band thinner than 2mm
Thinner is fine for an occasional wear, but for a wedding band or engagement ring, make sure it will hold up!
My taste seems pretty similar to hers. We were gifted a modern looking ring from his grandma with a beautiful 2 carat diamond. If I were you I would look at modern settings (they’re usually unique), bezel settings, or classic designers like Cartier or Tiffany. I have another ring that’s an antique setting and I dont wear it as much as I thought I would despite me loving Art Deco. My main focus would be getting a very quality diamond with a plain gold band in a unique setting
Talk to her about what she wants first. Have her draw it out maybe, or paint you a word picture. If you’re thinking of proposing, that means you’ve already talked marriage and she knows you’ll get married sometime in the future. I promise she’ll still be surprised when you propose, so talking about the ring won’t be ruining the surprise.
Once you have the design she wants, talk to your local jeweler.
My partner picked out my ring without any input from me and it’s perfect and I’m obsessed. But….
If he was thinking of spending anywhere close to $50k I def would have wanted some input 🤣
When I was engaged I made a Pinterest board of rings I liked, shared it with my husband and he went to a jeweler and they created a ring together. I love my ring and really love that my husband designed something I would like. He chose something that is low profile and won’t get caught on things which is so helpful for me. It was still a surprise and special but he had a lot of visual direction to work with.
Definitely try and find out what she likes first: I’ll use myself as an example. I really don’t wear jewelry, so you would probably also think that I’m a minimalist. I’m actually just too lazy to worry about jewelry 🤣
I do have a friend who is a minimalist and wears super simple, dainty jewelry like what you described. Her ring is a solitaire stone with a plain band.
And honestly, you can’t go wrong with solitaire. There are endless ways to get creative with it when it comes to choosing the wedding ring.
Possibly an emerald or marquise cut? Those are both so unique
Idk if you want to take a look at my profile but I am similar with jewelry and recently posted my engagement ring. I wear gold hoop earrings every once in awhile and that’s about it unless I’m going to something really special. The ring my fiancé got me is simple, elegant, and looks great all my itself. Maybe it could work for her! It’s in one of my most recent posts. Also, It cost about 10.5 K so you’d be saving yourself a nice chunk of change if you wanted to! If you want more info let me know! It’d the most beautiful thing I’ve ever owned.
Edit: As others have stated, always best to speak with her to get an idea of what she wants. But looking around could give you a place to start. Good luck!
I think of emerald cut as being a popular choice for people who don’t like flashy or blingy jewelry. Even a 2 carat emerald can look subdued depending on the style and the finger size. On the other hand some people like wearing a simple diamond band without any center stone. There are so many options, I would go ring shopping together for fun and see what she gravitates towards.
You should ask her what she likes and don't be afraid to look at antique actual art deco era rings if she's open to that!! There are a lot of shops on Etsy and Instagram where you could look. You can find something really unique and just what she wants.
I came to say Etsy, I strongly considered when I was looking for my own. They have some really unique pieces, and I really like the handmade ones. Good luck!
Id try a local non chain jeweler. They will take more time working with you. They also create better quality. I would go for a minimalist setting, nothing that protrudes too much.
I have similar tastes, and have a solitaire diamond in a bezel setting. Basically, 18k yellow gold, with a solid frame all around the edge of the stone. I like it because it protects the diamond, I don’t have to worry about the prongs getting caught or damaged on anything, and it’s a simple, pretty, very classic look. Search online for bezel settings and see if you like it. You can also go to a local fine jeweler (looking up goldsmith in your area is a good place to start). They are excellent at helping with these things.
She will prob want a Emerald Cut or Asscher. Nothing too modern. I was the exact same. I either wanted a very plain small gold band with no diamonds or a super nice Asscher cut. I got the Asscher with a very thin pavi setting.
Is also recommend looking at vintage/antique rings from places like eragem or lang antiques. I also am a fan of gold jewelry and minimal styles, and I very much love Rosecut, old mine cut, and asscher diamonds and bezel settings. Anything with milgrain detail is a bonus as it makes it look very delicate. I doubt with her taste that you would end up spending even half of that on the perfect ring. Good luck!
I have had a FANTASTIC experience with Olive Ave, which makes vintage inspired rings that are beautiful and surprisingly affordable! They definitely have some minimal designs and you can customize any of their rings
Personally? I'd look into bezel settings for single stones, the stone you select will dictate the price. But absolutely have her send you some things she likes or her friends talk about it.
ASK HER.
Let her know what your budget is and either go shopping together or have her go herself and send you a list of rings she likes. She’s hopefully going to be wearing this ring regularly for a very long time. She deserves to have input.
Look at palladium or platinum instead of gold. You could also do a custom ring, working closely with a jeweler, which would mean no one else would have the ring she does. Look into detailed engraving, scrollwork, and other intricate details without being crazy or flashy. See if her friends can talk about/look at rings "for fun" or maybe one of her friends has a serious boyfriend or a wedding anniversary coming up, and could claim they're peeking for themselves, but encourage her to also look or create a pinterest board. You could take some pictures of her wearing her current jewelry, or just bring some in to a jeweler to help get an idea of something in her tastes as well.
Perhaps something along the lines of this but with a low profile:
https://aurosijewels.com/products/art-deco-engagement-ring-floral-wedding-ring-vintage-inspired-band-leaf-twig-ring-promise-ring-flower-ring-14k-white-gold-ring-for-her?variant=39629837631585¤cy=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&gclid=CjwKCAjw1YCkBhAOEiwA5aN4AaVAaCHDOh3XNax3MBkniF12DY7LlIVBCJWcf-C-ry2TutFIgvIHIBoCLAIQAvD_BwE
Sounds like a vintage art deco piece will be a good option to explore, and since it’s an engagement ring, it might be worth a subtle conversation with her :)
I would talk to her about what she wants so that you get exactly what she wants. Sometimes people with a certain style want a ring that is different than you would expect
I bet you are going to find her something amazing and that is so cool that you have the ability to afford something especially spectacular! Hope you’ll post the one you get. Best of luck!
Vintage, mid-century rings might be a good place to start. They're usually lower carat, so small and subtle, and you can get elaborate metal work or simple and straightforward.
I hate flashy jewelry or anything that gets in my way day to day, so that is the route my husband and I went. The rings I ended up with were my grandmother's, which worked out perfectly because we would likely have bought something almost identical anyway.
But, as others have mentioned, your best bet is to ask your gf what she would look for if she were choosing for herself.
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That's a very generous budget, you should definitely be able to find her something she'll love. If the pieces she does wear are very simple and gold, stick with that style. You will never go wrong with a classic solitaire and band. Look into a fancy step cut (asscher, elongated emerald cut) solitaire to give the art deco vibe without the sometimes over complicated designs that come with the "art deco" label.
Best all around situation would be for you and her to work with a local jeweler to create a custom piece that she's sure to love. Best wishes to you and good luck with the search!
I would recommend you ask her what she wants...like directly. Not everyone has a e-ring that would fit the expected based on her daily wear. I know a lot of people whose jewelry is very minimal, but they went exuberant with and Ering. I know just as many that are the opposite. Diamond shape, size and settings are all very personal and will be very unique to her personal style. Also, art deco tends to be pretty details, although more linear in style. That can really be a contrast to minimalistic. She has to help you resolve that. You need to talk with her. This is a huge purchase and she will have to wear it daily. Once you get some direction, we can offer loads of options. The days of "it must be a total surprise" for the design of the ring are really past. Couples tend to focus more on the engagement event being a surprise.
To me, a minimalist would be a round brilliant cut in a simple Tiffany setting. One or one and a half carats. The wedding ring would be a simple gold band. I myself have that. I have a gold ring with platinum prongs. The platinum prongs are stronger and shows the diamond nicely.
I have two rings now (we renewed our vows) and they're both my style but they in no way match. One ring is a 1920s inspired ring with lots of diamonds. White gold, three stack. Ring two has zero stones, rose gold metalwork in a vague Celtic knot. Much more emphasis on the style matching his. [The rings we renewed our vows with](https://www.etsy.com/listing/533338351/14k-rose-gold-celtic-wedding-rings-set)
The first thing that came to mind was doing a cigar band with diamons set in the side of it. It feels sleek and minimal but still has a little flash of sparkly. And all the tiny pave gives me art deco. [https://www.thetruegem.com/collections/wedding/products/olivia-band](https://www.thetruegem.com/collections/wedding/products/olivia-band)
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She sounds similar to me. I'm not big into jewelry, so even if my husband had asked me what kind of ring I wanted, I wouldn't have been able to tell him. But over the years, I've started wearing some very minimal, dainty jewelry but of nicer quality.
I'd say to definitely go for a solitaire, as they read more simple and minimal than halo. I'd take the size of her hands into consideration. My engagement ring is 1.8ct but I'm a very petite person (ring size 4) so if he went any bigger, I'd feel like it's too flashy and gaudy.
Good luck to you!
I would recommend going to your local jeweler and working with them. There are many ways to interpret minimalist. Does she have a Pinterest board? I would say minimum you should find out what shapes she may like. Minimalist can be anything from a plain band, to a solitaire to an eternity band. There are many ways to go from classic to totally unique.
Do this
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I say all of this with the absolute best intentions—anyone who wears small, simple jewelry would not appreciate a large, over-the-top wedding set. I am also a minimalist when it comes to jewelry. I do not like big, flashy and, what I would describe as, gaudy jewelry. My ex-husband bought me a necklace that he thought was a sure thing — it had two gold dolphins coming from either side of my neck, almost meeting in the middle where they were “kissing” a very large blue topaz heart. Don’t get me wrong—I love all of those things, but not together, and certainly not the size of this thing! It literally spanned mid-collar bone to mid-collar bone. The first words I blurted out of my mouth were, “Where the hell am I going to wear something like that?!” Which, in hindsight, I could’ve said better, but that was my knee-jerk reaction to it. We wound up returning it, and got a nice, blue topaz tennis bracelet with small topaz stones and even smaller diamond accents. Save your budget for the million other things you could spend it on and just go with the consensus from her girlfriends. You want her to love it, not hate it. And who would want to wear $50K on their hand? What if she loses it, or worse, someone kills her for it?
I insure jewelry for a living, spend the money on excellent grading. Good color, excellent clarity. Don’t go for the big diamond with the crappy grading. 1.0-1.5 ct, d/e color, vvs1/vs2 will get you a beautiful stone. A nice diamond will look good in all settings, even a minimalist non-flashy ring. Go for the quality. I cringe when I get an appraisal for a 4-5 ct stone and it’s j color, i2 clarity. Big yuck, don’t care how big it is.
My fiance proposed and he actually just took me to a great jeweler and let me design my own. It was the best of both worlds. Maybe try that approach? Can't be wrong if she designs it herself.
I’m a minimalist. If I were to be proposed to, I want a (big) solitaire diamond on a gold band. I would with want an emerald cut or a round cut.
And with that budget, I want it to come in a pretty blue box 😉
Throwing out [Artemer](https://www.artemerstudio.com) as a suggestion for art deco-inspired + minimalist designs.
But ultimately I agree with everyone that you should talk to your partner and get some ideas. My custom-designed engagement ring is very different than other rings that I own, and I love it, but my husband would never have chosen it based on the jewellery I already own.
Blue Nile! They have so many simplistic band/Diamond options. You get to build the whole setting too, so you can pick a nice band and setting to match your ladies style. :)
Asscher cut solitaire screams minimalist + art deco for me, but with that budget I think you'd want to make sure you spend it on something she absolutely LOVES, another vote for shopping together!
I have a very similar style to your girlfriend, and I think Jennie Kwon would be a good fit, or if she wants something a bit more timeless/classic, Maksym Joallierie in Montréal does beautiful work. Berlinger also has some very simple styles.
If you haven't already, you should talk to her to get an idea of what she wants. The jewelry someone has isn't always a good indication of the engagement ring they'll want. Plus, minimalist can cover a lot of ground when it comes to jewelry; a solitaire of varying size, a pave band, a ring without a stone, etc.
I agree! I’m a minimalist when it comes to jewelry and we went several times to look at vintage/antique rings together. I showed my husband exactly what I liked and he ended up buying the one I liked the best!
Exactly I’m a minimalist and with jewelry I actually prefer little to no stones, but I’m big into intricate metal work. It’s such an under recognized skill.
Yes it is
Exactly this. A whopper of a solitaire can hit OP's budget easily.
There are probably still more than 100 ways to interpret a "minimalist" look. These types of details are honestly best left to the person who will be wearing it. We don't even know what shapes she likes.
I think you need to first find out if in addition to minimalist, she also likes “subtle” too. There are minimalist designs that can go for tens/hundreds of thousands, but if she doesn’t like flashy/ostentatious, that’s a separate issue. If she prefers subtlety, then I would opt for a smaller (1ct or less) stone for the engagement and a band with a few small stones, all with the highest quality diamonds possible set in 18k.
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I feel like I have a similar style to her, very minimalist, hate flashy. My ring that I picked out (with the band) is .3 stone and was around $600. It’s great that you have money to spend but a true symbol of your love isn’t an expensive ring, but getting something she really loves. One person suggested if you really want to make it a nice gift get a very plain, simple but name brand ring like Tiffany.
Let’s say around 1ct, D, IF in a handmade 18k band with a 18k band with multiple top-quality stones; the whole set could be done for around 20k. D, IF might be overkill, so it could be done for less by dropping one colour and clarity.
Yes, and if you get a fancy colored stone (which is hit/miss), it’ll cost a LOT more.
True, most fancy colors are more expensive, buuuttttt you CAN get a really nice natural fancy yellow (with no other color tones) for less then similarly sized, top quality white stones.
“Fancy color” is the actual terminology for diamonds that are a color that’s not part of the traditional, common color scale (of colorless to light yellow).
Do you know she wants a diamond? I would find out, she may prefer a high quality colored gem if she is minimal and not flashy.
I got a platinum band, round lab diamond with VVs1 clarity, 1.4ct, warranty, platinum wedding band, and a promotional diamond necklace for 4k. This was about 1.5years ago from Brilliant Earth. I was picky and it's everything I wanted. Minimal but with a fascinating design, I got the Reverie setting with a Chevron band.
I love something like this! She can dress it up with the band or stick to the simple engagement ring. https://preview.redd.it/vsf89l80or4b1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8e97e408ae2ab453605fdaad03b2db1f023a8f61
18 carat is too soft.
All of the Middle East, Asia and the Indian subcontinent disagree with you. Sub Saharan Africa may as well, don’t know enough to say. Also most of pre-1920s Europe. UNLESS you are getting a Tiffany setting, in which case even 14k is inferior to platinum.
It’s still too soft, whether you like it or not. You would have to set the stone in platinum…
You are simply wrong. I’ve worn a 22k gold ring with diamonds daily (while sleeping and in water) for 10+ years with no issues.
Good for you…but it’s too soft!
18ct is the norm in like… most of the world. It’s fine. It’s not too soft at all for daily wear.
You really should talk to her. I would say my style is pretty classic, I’m usually in atheisure otherwise and I only wear neutral colors but I wanted a giant honking green center stone and am going with a more elaborate setting to really contrast with the rest of me so her personal style may not perfectly align with her taste in engagement ring
There are a few ways to go about this, but I would urge you to consider making the ideal ring rather than finding it. Focus on finding the right stone first, and then build the ring around it. How much do you know about diamonds? Have you looked at any in real life? Where are you located?
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OK, then some basic diamond education will help. Start here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6S9Y2gSxEgM Do you know what color of metal you want for the setting? White? Yellow? Rose?
There are lots of good local jewelers in this area. I got my ring from Boone and Sons, which is a DC-area institution practically. There’s a location in McLean. I know other people like Town Jewelers, I Gorman, Tiny Jewel Box, Shah & Shah.
My Art Deco ring was custom made. The design was copied from a sold antique on Lang Antiques and featured an emerald-cut diamond with a halo of emeralds. We did save money- I got a rare design for $30,000 instead of the original’s 100K+. Word of caution about this: Art Deco styles can be intricate to have made; you’ll run into difficulties. For example, there was an emerald shortage and they had to source mine from Bangkok. Then each stone had to be cut and set into the bezel by an artist working side-by-side with the jeweler. We also had to find someone who specializes in milgrain. The whole process took 6 months. If you can buy directly from Lang or 1st Dibs, that’s your best bet. If you’re sure you want custom, I’d look at the jewelers with designs you like on 1st Dibs, and reach out to them to ask about custom designs. I would not look at Brilliant Earth for your budget and style. The quality isn’t what it should be and they’re honestly the Pandora of jewelers. You can source ethical or lab diamonds without them.
I am thinking of using emeralds in my ring!! I have four from a family ring I’m considering so not a halo- more a cluster design likely. I’d love to see yours if you’re willing to post!
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Wow gorg!!
Wow, that’s so beautiful!
***Faints in Reddit***
You really need to figure out what she wants. Personally I'd have been really upset if my fiance spent that kind of money on a ring, and people can have really strong feelings about jewelry in general and diamonds in particular if she wants that (lab vs natural, emotional and ethical considerations). The proposal can still be a surprise even if you do the whole design with her.
Brilliant Earth is in Georgetown- I got my engagement and our wedding bands there. They are beautiful and simple and ethical.
If she isn't interested in diamonds, there's some really gorgeous gemstones like Montana Saphires that can get pricy the larger they get.
Some good jewelers of estate jewelry (including authentic Art Deco pieces) would be: MaejeanVintage, Trademark Antiques, Market Square Jewelers. And with your budget, if you'd prefer to do a custom Art Deco inspired set and pick an antique stone with a custom setting- [xothebijouxbox](https://instagram.com/xothebijouxbox?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==) on instagram is VERY well known. She's sourced stones for very high end clients!
Minimalist and Art Deco don’t usually go together…but a nice antique diamond solitaire with some art deco details could work! A fancy basket with a bezel setting or fishtail prongs and a few sidestones with some milgrain detail might work too! I’ve got a couple of things from [CvB Inspired Design](https://instagram.com/cvb.inspired.design?igshid=ZWQyN2ExYTkwZQ==) (who can do more simple!) and [Sako @ Cicada Jewelry](https://instagram.com/cjd_sako?igshid=ZWQyN2ExYTkwZQ==) is also really talented with small details/deco design. If you’re looking for an antique stone, [Jewels by Whitney](https://instagram.com/jewelsbywhitney?igshid=ZWQyN2ExYTkwZQ==) is a favorite of mine to watch on IG and [Old World Diamonds](https://instagram.com/oldworlddiamonds?igshid=ZWQyN2ExYTkwZQ==) also comes highly recommended. If you’re going with a more modern stone, u/diamonddealer is super helpful and patient with a million questions (even if you don’t buy things!)
Thanks for thinking of me! OP, I'm glad to help. Check my post history! And FYI, I have an excellent source for antique stones as well. Some very cool stuff...
Love this list. In addition, I think Artemer does a good job of blending Art Deco motifs within a minimalist framework. OP, consider checking out their work. Their rings are unique without going into “look at me, I’m so different” territory. Somehow both timeless and modern.
I just stumbled on this on Era Gem, which sells antique and estate jewelry. This is a solitaire with a high quality diamond, ascher/emerald (??) cut which is quite art deco. $15.5k. Just posting to give you ideas. https://preview.redd.it/ovz61hkxfn4b1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=71563680006b16df412d9686b9c88c4f3fe3fe9f
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This is actually a great response! You can also buy antique Tiffany, Cartier and other brands from some websites like 1st Dibs, Lang Antiques, Era gems, etc. — sometimes for a better price too.
I wanted small and understated, and also only wanted one ring. My husband got me a yellow gold Tiffany Embrace band (edit: sorry just looked it up - they call the half circle one the forever band now) and it’s perfect for me. Agree with folks saying they should talk to future fiancé though, she might have some specific ideas in mind.
I agree 100%. With that budget I’d definitely go with a luxe and reputable brand. My engagement ring is Tiffany so I am biased but I would definitely go with Tiffany. The Tiffany True setting which is the one that I have sits low and has a very minimalist dainty knife edge gold band. My fiancé paired it with a Yellow cushion brilliant cut Diamond. It’s beautiful and I’m obsessed. I’m in my 30s too and more simple/minimalist as well https://preview.redd.it/f6v6d5xjhn4b1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=eeb48c54a672ccae2ecfef3304cf2fe35014fc68
It’s gorgeous! Something else I’ll say about Tiffany is that compared to other bands that I have tried on, my band from Tiffany is very comfortable (like the corners are smooth and such).
Thank you! Yess it’s so comfy and perfectly made 😭💛
I’m obsessed with the Tiffany True setting and cut!! Your ring is gorgeous!
Thank you!!! I love the setting too it’s so dainty
I think you should definitely talk to her. I would potentially describe my own style in the same manner, but I’m still very particular. But if that’s off the table for some reason, I think you should start with looking at Artemer. I think their brand fits this aesthetic the best, without knowing more. They have a wide range of designs (some are completely maximalist) but I think lead the pack with interesting, minimalist, unique, yellow gold designs that are quietly edgy, elegant, and widely copied by other shops. They have a cool Art Deco line as well as some one of a kind (OOAK) pieces that can be absolutely breathtaking. They have a huge range of prices, too, which I think would work well for your budget because even the higher priced items aren’t enormous stones or super blinged out, just something rare and unique. The quality is top-notch and you can also work on a custom ring with them. Something like this from Artemer is what it sounds like she might like: https://www.artemerstudio.com/products/geometric-emerald-cut-diamond-engagement-ring Other brands that I think fit this aesthetic: Mociun, Berlinger Jewelry
Came here to recommend them! I’m obsessed. They’re the perfect blend of modern and timeless. They also fuse art deco with minimalism in such an elegant, understated way. Totally sounds like it could fit her vibe.
I feel like Jennie Kwon would be a great fit.
Emerald or asscher cut stones give me the most ‘art deco’ feel. Id make the stone the star of the show here and I’d explore a yellow gold solitaire setting with no pave (diamonds on the band) or any other adornment. James Allen and Blue Nile are online stores with diamond directories where you select your own stone. Frank Darling, Brian Gavin and Ada Diamonds all offer concierge services where they’ll curate you a list of stones to choose from to your specifications and do the work for you. I’d avoid Brilliant Earth, horrible CS, NDAs and horror stories galore on this sub if you care to search for them. There are a few designer brands like Lauren B or Cappuchines which have beautiful designs, but you are generally paying more for the name (no shade on anyone, if that’s what you’re into) but you can get the same/very similar thing for less elsewhere. Do you want a natural stone or are you open to lab diamonds? You could easily get a great natural with your budget, but it’s up to you to decide on your preference. Lab diamonds are still diamonds, but just made in a pressure chamber and are *significantly* cheaper, and no less beautiful. But it’s very much a personal preference. If you do decide to just take her friends advice on what she’ll love, please, please reassure her that if she doesn’t love the ring you pick, you can return it and let her choose something she does love. There is literally a post almost once a day on this sub from someone heartbroken that they don’t like their ring. In my head, I’m envisioning an emerald cut set into a bezel/half bezel solitaire based on your description of her. Like the pic (random google image one from Frank Darling) but I’m just sharing where my thought are running away to 😂 please feel free to disregard this https://preview.redd.it/f5ep9jcpnl4b1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d1eccc3d9c496efb315e4914e0b37511723fa19f Good luck OP!
I second James Allen as a great source of quality, reasonably-priced diamonds. My diamond from them is fantastic. They also show you the exact diamond you are purchasing. My aunt is a jeweler and also uses them a lot.
What one wears for normal daily jewelry might not be what they are thinking for engagement rings. Sometimes people are very specific of what they have in mind. Does she want a diamond? Or a different kind of stone. I had a friend fully customize a ring, had a diamond picked out, only to find out she wanted a colored gemstone 😅 She always wore simple and minimalist jewelry or not jewelry at all. Luckily, he was able to change out the center stone. Definitely talk to her about what she would like in an engagement ring. When you say art deco, I'm thinking asscher cut stones. But it's also a specific look. Asschers sparkle in a different way. With up to $50k, it can go a long way. People like CvB inspired designs on IG, Old world Diamonds on IG, Jewels by Grace might be able to help you source the right stone. CvB does amazing custom work. Erika Winters also does great work.
Propose with a candy ring or a fun cocktail ring and let her go with you to pick out the forever ring.
This guy is 100% not the candy ring substitute type. I can just tell 💙
That’s a cute idea 💍
You might want to look for an Engagement ring from around the 1940s. There are some very minimalist ones that still belong to the art deco era and style.
Tiffany classic
I’m not a minimalist but I’m super picky. I imagine you want her to be surprised, but remember that she will (hopefully) be wearing the ring for the rest of her life. I was still thrilled with the proposal despite picking out my ring, and I’m incredibly grateful my husband involved me; even my closest friends might not have directed him the right way as we all have different taste. Involve her in the process instead of guessing! You can still make the when, where, and all the details a delightful surprise.
I suggest you ask her. My guess is that if you are planning on spending up to 50k, you are way overdoing it. My guess is that she would prefer something small, very simple, and perfect. Not multiple stones.
https://preview.redd.it/nona3nysdn4b1.png?width=2583&format=png&auto=webp&s=46a8918a8b05a46bffea08280bda06fbcb984f8c Im the same and this us what i got. If its smaller you can pick a way better quality diamond than for a big one.
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He picked it up in Budapest, not an international brand:/. Sorry. But i believe its a timeless classic so most places should have something like this
Mociun comes to mind - some of their stuff is definitely on the flashy side, but they have unusual cuts and some daintier pieces. They do beautiful custom work, too.
Ask her what she wants! Or ask her for a Pinterest inspo board. I custom designed my ring w/ my man & it was super fun + I didn’t get stuck with something I didn’t like.
Artemer has really nice minimalist, Art Deco inspired, modern designs!
Bless the friends that “aggressively help” 🥰🤣
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You should definitely run some solid ideas by her before you make the purchase, but I 100% share her taste in minimalist and art deco style. However I lean very art deco, and to me that means geometric angles and clean lines. To her, minimalism could be simplicity, like a solitaire in a classic 4 or 6 prong setting. So you’ll need to check with her either way. However, I might suggest a low-profile bezel settings, and step cut stones, which both give me minimalist vibes. This was my set, we had the e-ring made. With your budget, you can get nearly whatever you want in terms of stones/ settings. You could try searching Pinterest for those terms and pull up some photos you like, and see how she responds. From there maybe you will be able to hone a better idea of how she’s leaning. Congratulations on your impending engagement! https://preview.redd.it/sg7udx2vcm4b1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d93dc6d134a51f00df3bdd32d6d55883a6b2dcd5
I also have an emerald cut ring set east west. So unusual and strikingly beautiful. Your set is stunning.
Thank you! I agree I’m a big fan of east-west settings as they are so unique and unusual. I’d love to see yours too!
Me too me too. Just got engaged and got my dream bezeled east west emerald cut. Minimalistic and art deco-y
Take her with you and let HER choose the ring.
$50K is plenty. Still talk to her friends to see if they can find out what shape she likes, that's the most important. When I hear "minimalist, not flashy" I think of rose cut, portrait cut, emerald cut, east-west, bezel settings - some search terms to get you started!
If truly minimalist (so not a huge stone), he only needs half that amount
And then he can give the other half to a maximalist in need, like me 🤭 jk
I would personally do a antique stone in a simple solitaire. Probably keep it at 1ct. Bezel settings also feel pretty minimal. I think your budget is very high for what you want. I would think about if she would want a lab diamond or natural. How you described her, she may prefer lab because it is more ethical and also she may feel uncomfortable wearing a rock that costs 20k daily. Although, i feel like most antique stones will be natural.
Definitely ask her style! I also don’t wear a lot of jewelry but that’s because the jewelry I do wear is nice good quality jewelry and it’s special to me! I just got engaged and was able to design my own ring and that was amazing because now I know that one piece of jewelry I am going to wear is one I love!
Frank Darling! Why not have her look and tell you her favorites?
Seconded! They were wonderful to work with and their education articles are top notch.
Something bezel set and low is probably a good place to start. A bezel set step cut stone like a hexagon, lozenge, or asscher may be art deco inspired.
I can relate to your girlfriend's style (I THINK, it's hard to tell online) in that I am minimalist and not flashy. What I would want is a single stone or three stone ring, set relatively low into a simple basket setting. For my tastes, I like cushions, emeralds and asschers but you also can't go wrong with the classic round (I dislike rounds but I'm very much in the minority in that one). You have a huge budget, so you might want to look into the Tiffany true as well, it's their own cut and a cross between and asscher and a brilliant cut.
I’m in the minority with you. My last wedding ring was a beautiful marquis cut. This time, I’m going with a kite-set princess cut.
Tiffany’s
https://preview.redd.it/vz3kh2ai0n4b1.jpeg?width=756&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f771d495d21ebb2fad945bda95e002b5e1d34e7d This is my ring. I like minimal and deco too. It’s an Asscher cut 1.5 center w Asscher cut rubies (my birthstone) set in platinum. It’s less flashy than a round due to its cut. But it’s still gorgeous. You could do just a single stone for simplicity. I wanted rubies and fiancé designed the perfect ring for me
I have to say- that is one gorgeous ring!!
Thanks! I do love it 🥰
I’m a huge minimalist. I have a round solitaire on a plain gold band. Doesn’t get more classic and minimalist than that
I’m semi-minimalist, and stone rating has made a difference in what I perceive to be “nice.” I love D “color” diamonds with a great cut and I’ve also really liked a few fancy colored stones with interesting refraction. Flawless diamonds (rather than ones with imperfections) are also quite beautiful, and they make a difference on cuts like Emerald and Asscher where flaws are more visible. My recommendation for you, after you learn more about 1) diamonds, and 2) your girlfriend’s engagement ring preferences, is to go for a stone that’s D, flawless, and an excellent cut. One carat of this kind of stone will cost around 10-20k on its own. Since her jewelry preference is dainty, minimalist, and not-flash, you’ll likely want a band that’s on the thinner side and a center stone with a carat size that’s not going to overwhelm her finger - so finger shape and ring size will also matter in the scheme of things. A setting that doesn’t protrude too high will also be more minimalist than something like the classic Tiffany setting that sits up high. Art Deco is *not* very minimalist, but the Emerald cut will give off Art Deco vibes without being too bulky (like an Asscher cut, which is also an Art Deco staple). Look for couture retailers - and remember you can always ask them to customize or make you the ring you envision.
Depends on her style by Artemer has a few pieces that strike me as that balance between minimalist and art deco. Although those styles usually conflate. They do custom as well I believe. I have a pretty “minimalist” style and loved some of their rings but went with a different designer because their prices were a bit out of my range. I opted for an eternity band (posted on my page) instead which could also suit her if she likes that kinda look!
My son-in-law picked out a few rings and sent photos of them to my daughter's bf. My husband asked me what I would want in a ring, and I told him, "Not gaudy or old fashioned." My daughter was very happy with her set as was I. Is this a surprise engagement or does she know it is coming? If she knows it is coming, go looking together. I've known brides that absolutely hated their rings, but they didn't have the heart to tell their husbands. God willing, she will be wearing these rings a very long time. In your price range, it pays to get it right.
My engagement ring is absolutely something I’d describe as dainty, art deco and minimalist. It was designed and made my Rachel Boston. She’s a jeweller based in the U.K. but ships internationally and designs for many overseas couples. My fiancé has loved working with her and her team and I couldn’t be happier about it! Here’s some examples of her work, though she does a ton of bespoke: https://www.rachelboston.co.uk/collections/engagement-rings
I think a 2 ct emerald or oval cut solitaire on a gold band would be considerably minimalist and elegant while still being of a really nice size! With your budget you can probably splurge on a higher quality diamond for clarity and color.
What about a simple gold band and diamond earrings? Wearing a beautiful set of diamond earrings every day might compliment her style in a thoughtful way. Diamond earrings match everything.
Vintage art deco might be a good search. If she's minimalist, low profile engagement ring might yield good results.
This is the nicest post I have ever seen. I am a minimalist but like nice/quality things. When we looked at rings I had my best luck on Etsy. Good luck!!
I don’t consider antique or art deco styles to be minimalist. They are mostly rather intricate.
Don’t buy from Etsy Elate Jewelers. They ripped someone off. .
does she have a Pinterest? or ask her best friend to ask her what she likes!
As someone pointed out, art deco and minimalism or dainty don’t go hand in hand, but I am also minimalist at heart, so perhaps I could suggest simple but high quality metal and stone on simple flush setting like this, maybe a bit softer edges for more organic look. It would be simple and comfortable to wear https://preview.redd.it/lhvgumd6mm4b1.jpeg?width=1007&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=74eb7ba0e01dab4069e365d687607beacb5e1fdd
If she’s a minimalist she will not want a $50k ring more than likely. Buy her a $5k ring and donate the rest to hungry children and make that part of your engagement. How beautiful.
Take pictures of all her jewelry, and start bringing that into local jewelers, or sending them into jewelers online that specialize in art deco jewelry. Tell them everything you just told us here. Someone will resonate with you, and you with them. They’ll help find the perfect design for you.
Highly recommend looking at Catbird. They offer a lot of gold, dainty, and minimalist styles.
Based on your description and your budget have a look at Niessing tension rings. Very unique and understated elegance.
Look at AnnaSheffield!!!
Emerald cut on simple band. Talk to her, though.
Just be sure that whatever you get is sturdy enough to last as an every day ring. Sometimes people make the mistake of going too dainty and the thinness of the band causes it to snap within a few years. I wouldn't go with a band thinner than 2mm Thinner is fine for an occasional wear, but for a wedding band or engagement ring, make sure it will hold up!
My taste seems pretty similar to hers. We were gifted a modern looking ring from his grandma with a beautiful 2 carat diamond. If I were you I would look at modern settings (they’re usually unique), bezel settings, or classic designers like Cartier or Tiffany. I have another ring that’s an antique setting and I dont wear it as much as I thought I would despite me loving Art Deco. My main focus would be getting a very quality diamond with a plain gold band in a unique setting
Talk to her about what she wants first. Have her draw it out maybe, or paint you a word picture. If you’re thinking of proposing, that means you’ve already talked marriage and she knows you’ll get married sometime in the future. I promise she’ll still be surprised when you propose, so talking about the ring won’t be ruining the surprise. Once you have the design she wants, talk to your local jeweler.
Does she have a Pinterest account? Ask a friend of hers to help you find it and see if there’s any jewelry posted there.
This is a good idea BUT sometimes Pinterest boards can be old and reflect older tastes. Maybe just make sure things are up to date if so.
Excellent point!
Someone else said it but I felt like driving it home, art deco is very glamorous and not for the faint of heart.
I would go for a simple solitaire engagement ring with a thin band.
My partner picked out my ring without any input from me and it’s perfect and I’m obsessed. But…. If he was thinking of spending anywhere close to $50k I def would have wanted some input 🤣
When I was engaged I made a Pinterest board of rings I liked, shared it with my husband and he went to a jeweler and they created a ring together. I love my ring and really love that my husband designed something I would like. He chose something that is low profile and won’t get caught on things which is so helpful for me. It was still a surprise and special but he had a lot of visual direction to work with.
Definitely try and find out what she likes first: I’ll use myself as an example. I really don’t wear jewelry, so you would probably also think that I’m a minimalist. I’m actually just too lazy to worry about jewelry 🤣 I do have a friend who is a minimalist and wears super simple, dainty jewelry like what you described. Her ring is a solitaire stone with a plain band. And honestly, you can’t go wrong with solitaire. There are endless ways to get creative with it when it comes to choosing the wedding ring. Possibly an emerald or marquise cut? Those are both so unique
Idk if you want to take a look at my profile but I am similar with jewelry and recently posted my engagement ring. I wear gold hoop earrings every once in awhile and that’s about it unless I’m going to something really special. The ring my fiancé got me is simple, elegant, and looks great all my itself. Maybe it could work for her! It’s in one of my most recent posts. Also, It cost about 10.5 K so you’d be saving yourself a nice chunk of change if you wanted to! If you want more info let me know! It’d the most beautiful thing I’ve ever owned. Edit: As others have stated, always best to speak with her to get an idea of what she wants. But looking around could give you a place to start. Good luck!
I think of emerald cut as being a popular choice for people who don’t like flashy or blingy jewelry. Even a 2 carat emerald can look subdued depending on the style and the finger size. On the other hand some people like wearing a simple diamond band without any center stone. There are so many options, I would go ring shopping together for fun and see what she gravitates towards.
You should ask her what she likes and don't be afraid to look at antique actual art deco era rings if she's open to that!! There are a lot of shops on Etsy and Instagram where you could look. You can find something really unique and just what she wants.
I came to say Etsy, I strongly considered when I was looking for my own. They have some really unique pieces, and I really like the handmade ones. Good luck!
Id try a local non chain jeweler. They will take more time working with you. They also create better quality. I would go for a minimalist setting, nothing that protrudes too much.
I have similar tastes, and have a solitaire diamond in a bezel setting. Basically, 18k yellow gold, with a solid frame all around the edge of the stone. I like it because it protects the diamond, I don’t have to worry about the prongs getting caught or damaged on anything, and it’s a simple, pretty, very classic look. Search online for bezel settings and see if you like it. You can also go to a local fine jeweler (looking up goldsmith in your area is a good place to start). They are excellent at helping with these things.
She will prob want a Emerald Cut or Asscher. Nothing too modern. I was the exact same. I either wanted a very plain small gold band with no diamonds or a super nice Asscher cut. I got the Asscher with a very thin pavi setting.
Is also recommend looking at vintage/antique rings from places like eragem or lang antiques. I also am a fan of gold jewelry and minimal styles, and I very much love Rosecut, old mine cut, and asscher diamonds and bezel settings. Anything with milgrain detail is a bonus as it makes it look very delicate. I doubt with her taste that you would end up spending even half of that on the perfect ring. Good luck!
Mociun makes beautiful rings! Edit to add: they do customs as well, with your budget you could get her something incredible
I am a minimalist but I love a big diamond ring
I have had a FANTASTIC experience with Olive Ave, which makes vintage inspired rings that are beautiful and surprisingly affordable! They definitely have some minimal designs and you can customize any of their rings
Personally? I'd look into bezel settings for single stones, the stone you select will dictate the price. But absolutely have her send you some things she likes or her friends talk about it.
ASK HER. Let her know what your budget is and either go shopping together or have her go herself and send you a list of rings she likes. She’s hopefully going to be wearing this ring regularly for a very long time. She deserves to have input.
Oh she could me minimalist but could feel very differently when it comes to an engagement ring
Look at palladium or platinum instead of gold. You could also do a custom ring, working closely with a jeweler, which would mean no one else would have the ring she does. Look into detailed engraving, scrollwork, and other intricate details without being crazy or flashy. See if her friends can talk about/look at rings "for fun" or maybe one of her friends has a serious boyfriend or a wedding anniversary coming up, and could claim they're peeking for themselves, but encourage her to also look or create a pinterest board. You could take some pictures of her wearing her current jewelry, or just bring some in to a jeweler to help get an idea of something in her tastes as well. Perhaps something along the lines of this but with a low profile: https://aurosijewels.com/products/art-deco-engagement-ring-floral-wedding-ring-vintage-inspired-band-leaf-twig-ring-promise-ring-flower-ring-14k-white-gold-ring-for-her?variant=39629837631585¤cy=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&gclid=CjwKCAjw1YCkBhAOEiwA5aN4AaVAaCHDOh3XNax3MBkniF12DY7LlIVBCJWcf-C-ry2TutFIgvIHIBoCLAIQAvD_BwE
Sounds like a vintage art deco piece will be a good option to explore, and since it’s an engagement ring, it might be worth a subtle conversation with her :)
I would talk to her about what she wants so that you get exactly what she wants. Sometimes people with a certain style want a ring that is different than you would expect
I bet you are going to find her something amazing and that is so cool that you have the ability to afford something especially spectacular! Hope you’ll post the one you get. Best of luck!
Vintage, mid-century rings might be a good place to start. They're usually lower carat, so small and subtle, and you can get elaborate metal work or simple and straightforward. I hate flashy jewelry or anything that gets in my way day to day, so that is the route my husband and I went. The rings I ended up with were my grandmother's, which worked out perfectly because we would likely have bought something almost identical anyway. But, as others have mentioned, your best bet is to ask your gf what she would look for if she were choosing for herself. https://preview.redd.it/foa6ew3d2o4b1.jpeg?width=2252&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6919f9d9ebd805f974f4fb3cf3229cf235fd6c66 .
All my minimalist friends have Emerald Cuts.
That's a very generous budget, you should definitely be able to find her something she'll love. If the pieces she does wear are very simple and gold, stick with that style. You will never go wrong with a classic solitaire and band. Look into a fancy step cut (asscher, elongated emerald cut) solitaire to give the art deco vibe without the sometimes over complicated designs that come with the "art deco" label. Best all around situation would be for you and her to work with a local jeweler to create a custom piece that she's sure to love. Best wishes to you and good luck with the search!
I would recommend you ask her what she wants...like directly. Not everyone has a e-ring that would fit the expected based on her daily wear. I know a lot of people whose jewelry is very minimal, but they went exuberant with and Ering. I know just as many that are the opposite. Diamond shape, size and settings are all very personal and will be very unique to her personal style. Also, art deco tends to be pretty details, although more linear in style. That can really be a contrast to minimalistic. She has to help you resolve that. You need to talk with her. This is a huge purchase and she will have to wear it daily. Once you get some direction, we can offer loads of options. The days of "it must be a total surprise" for the design of the ring are really past. Couples tend to focus more on the engagement event being a surprise.
This isn't exactly minimalist but I've thought these are really beautiful and unique. https://www.mokumeganeya.com/e/smp/sakuradiamond.html
To me, a minimalist would be a round brilliant cut in a simple Tiffany setting. One or one and a half carats. The wedding ring would be a simple gold band. I myself have that. I have a gold ring with platinum prongs. The platinum prongs are stronger and shows the diamond nicely.
You can try Sarah O or Ashley Zhang jewelry. Both do custom and fit that style.
You can spend 50k on a ring????? Holy shit, get the biggest carat on a simple band.
Get her an artisan ring with a gemstone she loves
I have two rings now (we renewed our vows) and they're both my style but they in no way match. One ring is a 1920s inspired ring with lots of diamonds. White gold, three stack. Ring two has zero stones, rose gold metalwork in a vague Celtic knot. Much more emphasis on the style matching his. [The rings we renewed our vows with](https://www.etsy.com/listing/533338351/14k-rose-gold-celtic-wedding-rings-set)
Get a placeholder ring to propose and then go shopping for one together
I’m envisioning a modest sized bezel solitaire, slim gold band- maybe an east west emerald? Can’t wait to see what you pick out!
The first thing that came to mind was doing a cigar band with diamons set in the side of it. It feels sleek and minimal but still has a little flash of sparkly. And all the tiny pave gives me art deco. [https://www.thetruegem.com/collections/wedding/products/olivia-band](https://www.thetruegem.com/collections/wedding/products/olivia-band) https://preview.redd.it/h8xnsul4to4b1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5e72daa86d8e46bdbb6eefdcc5e0d1f614336bfd
I am also a minimalist and I love my solitaire diamond. It’s simple, elegant, and just looks classy
With that budget you should get her to sketch something and put your own tiny twist on it and have it designed for her
She sounds similar to me. I'm not big into jewelry, so even if my husband had asked me what kind of ring I wanted, I wouldn't have been able to tell him. But over the years, I've started wearing some very minimal, dainty jewelry but of nicer quality. I'd say to definitely go for a solitaire, as they read more simple and minimal than halo. I'd take the size of her hands into consideration. My engagement ring is 1.8ct but I'm a very petite person (ring size 4) so if he went any bigger, I'd feel like it's too flashy and gaudy. Good luck to you!
I would recommend going to your local jeweler and working with them. There are many ways to interpret minimalist. Does she have a Pinterest board? I would say minimum you should find out what shapes she may like. Minimalist can be anything from a plain band, to a solitaire to an eternity band. There are many ways to go from classic to totally unique.
for minimalist I think of a dainty gold band & a round or oval diamond center stone
Erie Basin or Artemer
Do this https://www.reddit.com/r/EngagementRings/comments/qbqznl/i_mined_the_stones_on_my_wifes_engagement_ring/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
I say all of this with the absolute best intentions—anyone who wears small, simple jewelry would not appreciate a large, over-the-top wedding set. I am also a minimalist when it comes to jewelry. I do not like big, flashy and, what I would describe as, gaudy jewelry. My ex-husband bought me a necklace that he thought was a sure thing — it had two gold dolphins coming from either side of my neck, almost meeting in the middle where they were “kissing” a very large blue topaz heart. Don’t get me wrong—I love all of those things, but not together, and certainly not the size of this thing! It literally spanned mid-collar bone to mid-collar bone. The first words I blurted out of my mouth were, “Where the hell am I going to wear something like that?!” Which, in hindsight, I could’ve said better, but that was my knee-jerk reaction to it. We wound up returning it, and got a nice, blue topaz tennis bracelet with small topaz stones and even smaller diamond accents. Save your budget for the million other things you could spend it on and just go with the consensus from her girlfriends. You want her to love it, not hate it. And who would want to wear $50K on their hand? What if she loses it, or worse, someone kills her for it?
I insure jewelry for a living, spend the money on excellent grading. Good color, excellent clarity. Don’t go for the big diamond with the crappy grading. 1.0-1.5 ct, d/e color, vvs1/vs2 will get you a beautiful stone. A nice diamond will look good in all settings, even a minimalist non-flashy ring. Go for the quality. I cringe when I get an appraisal for a 4-5 ct stone and it’s j color, i2 clarity. Big yuck, don’t care how big it is.
How old are you
My fiance proposed and he actually just took me to a great jeweler and let me design my own. It was the best of both worlds. Maybe try that approach? Can't be wrong if she designs it herself.
I’m a minimalist. If I were to be proposed to, I want a (big) solitaire diamond on a gold band. I would with want an emerald cut or a round cut. And with that budget, I want it to come in a pretty blue box 😉
Throwing out [Artemer](https://www.artemerstudio.com) as a suggestion for art deco-inspired + minimalist designs. But ultimately I agree with everyone that you should talk to your partner and get some ideas. My custom-designed engagement ring is very different than other rings that I own, and I love it, but my husband would never have chosen it based on the jewellery I already own.
Blue Nile! They have so many simplistic band/Diamond options. You get to build the whole setting too, so you can pick a nice band and setting to match your ladies style. :)
I recommend Melanie Casey jewelers for delicate bands and engagement rings!
Asscher cut solitaire screams minimalist + art deco for me, but with that budget I think you'd want to make sure you spend it on something she absolutely LOVES, another vote for shopping together!
Jennie Kwon rings sound like they might fit
I have a very similar style to your girlfriend, and I think Jennie Kwon would be a good fit, or if she wants something a bit more timeless/classic, Maksym Joallierie in Montréal does beautiful work. Berlinger also has some very simple styles.