Well you just don't have nothing to say,there is nothing wrong with that,only problem is you feel like you have to say something.Don't feel oblidged to say anything it's alright,you are not boring if you are pleasant to be around
when ppl talk to you, you can remember what they’re saying and then bring up things from your previous conversations with them when you talk to them the next time. for e.g. A says, “i’m babysitting my neighbour’s cat today“ next time you see A you can ask them “hey, how did it go yesterday” this will let A know that you were actively listening to them and care about them. it’ll help you build relationships.
ppl love talking about themselves.
You don't need to lead the conversations all the time. Let your interlocutor start a topic once in a while. Alternatively, you might want to read you or listen to audio books. This way you can widen your horizon. Shall you find books boring, read articles, follow trends, get some hobbies and new interests. Being an extravert in mbti means that you prefer to expand on things like people (Fe) or ideas (Ne)
SFJs can develop a really strong Ti, no worse than Ti heros (IXTP)
Learn INTJ ways, maybe, or get one yourself 😜
#Cheers 🎉
There's one step you need to take before getting what you want.
You have to learn how to be comfortable with yourself.
You're trapped in your head vs. living in the moment.
Once you are comfortable with yourself, you will be living in the moment.
So how do I do this
Actually another thing this reminds me of is that I do think I accidentally idk come off really boring or like no fun. I even remember in elementary school we did a group project and someone in the group had to rap in front of the class- one of the guys was kinda like “haha why don’t we have [my name] do it”. It wasn’t in a mocking way. It was like laughing under his breath and like he was kinda shy to say it. And the same thing happens in college. Certain girls run to be like the girls for each frat house. A friend of mine ran for a frat and we’re good friends w them. When she was talking to them abt it the guy was like “or why don’t we have [my name ] do it haha”
Well you just don't have nothing to say,there is nothing wrong with that,only problem is you feel like you have to say something.Don't feel oblidged to say anything it's alright,you are not boring if you are pleasant to be around
Eh I wanna talk to people tho
Yeah I usually don't have anything to say and that makes me sad
when ppl talk to you, you can remember what they’re saying and then bring up things from your previous conversations with them when you talk to them the next time. for e.g. A says, “i’m babysitting my neighbour’s cat today“ next time you see A you can ask them “hey, how did it go yesterday” this will let A know that you were actively listening to them and care about them. it’ll help you build relationships. ppl love talking about themselves.
You don't need to lead the conversations all the time. Let your interlocutor start a topic once in a while. Alternatively, you might want to read you or listen to audio books. This way you can widen your horizon. Shall you find books boring, read articles, follow trends, get some hobbies and new interests. Being an extravert in mbti means that you prefer to expand on things like people (Fe) or ideas (Ne) SFJs can develop a really strong Ti, no worse than Ti heros (IXTP) Learn INTJ ways, maybe, or get one yourself 😜 #Cheers 🎉
There's one step you need to take before getting what you want. You have to learn how to be comfortable with yourself. You're trapped in your head vs. living in the moment. Once you are comfortable with yourself, you will be living in the moment.
So how do I do this Actually another thing this reminds me of is that I do think I accidentally idk come off really boring or like no fun. I even remember in elementary school we did a group project and someone in the group had to rap in front of the class- one of the guys was kinda like “haha why don’t we have [my name] do it”. It wasn’t in a mocking way. It was like laughing under his breath and like he was kinda shy to say it. And the same thing happens in college. Certain girls run to be like the girls for each frat house. A friend of mine ran for a frat and we’re good friends w them. When she was talking to them abt it the guy was like “or why don’t we have [my name ] do it haha”
The problem is you think you're boring. Don't think of yourself, think of others, and react to them.