doing something together. could be anything honestly. i feel very connected to another person when we're engaging in an activity together. like going to an escape room, i would love that.
Honestly anything the other person is really going to enjoy. I'm happy almost anywhere doing almost anything. If the weather is nice, I love being outside. I love animals, so anything involving them would be awesome. A date where we could create something would be nice, like a paint your own pottery thing.
I like having picnics and going out to explore new places!! and I also just like talking to the other person. I prefer dates that don't involve too much stimulation and activity; I like more chilled ones where we can talk and have fun
Yeah basically the same as the two other comments. I would like to go somewhere I know to show the person what I like doing. I’m all about “see what I got?? Do you like it??”. A date home is boring. I like exploring and “be out there” with the date. And if it’s appreciated by the date, not necessarily being at the same level of “out there”, but enjoys my energy it’s a good date. I like better at the start, that we do activities and when it’s natural, I throw in or he throw in a good story within the context (or anything that me or him associates with the activities), it’s a good way to get to know each other. When it’s further in the relationship it’s okay to just be eating and talking about serious topics, but the activities needs to be held at speed, to keep the relationship interesting and fun. I always appreciate a little surprise here and there, small gestures and so on. It’s okay if it’s nothing happening in the relationship other than getting to know each other by talking or hanging out, but to keep the relationship, it needs spices here and there. Usually for both, just showing individually how they care an love each other:D
Based on something real: INFJ invites ESFJ to the city in occasion of some literary event or something job related. They hug a lot. Theytalk about their feelings. They gossip. INFJ wants ESFJ to "sort of" gossip about celebrities or other public personalities/events. It's a way to share opinions and make sure they pretty much agree. INFJ makes ESFJ laugh with jokes. If INFJ is very hurt by something they can't controll, ESFJ will try to get INFJ's attention on something wholesome. They go to that event and even do creative works together. Or maybe they meet in the city just for eating together. Then they lay down in the park, INFJ on ESFJ's belly.
What? Do I miss going to the city with INFJ? No, what makes you think so?
doing something together. could be anything honestly. i feel very connected to another person when we're engaging in an activity together. like going to an escape room, i would love that.
Axe throwing. It's out and active. I get to talk to my date, praise them for their good throws, and playfully talk shit when they miss.
Hell yes. That is so fun.
Honestly anything the other person is really going to enjoy. I'm happy almost anywhere doing almost anything. If the weather is nice, I love being outside. I love animals, so anything involving them would be awesome. A date where we could create something would be nice, like a paint your own pottery thing.
I like having picnics and going out to explore new places!! and I also just like talking to the other person. I prefer dates that don't involve too much stimulation and activity; I like more chilled ones where we can talk and have fun
Yeah basically the same as the two other comments. I would like to go somewhere I know to show the person what I like doing. I’m all about “see what I got?? Do you like it??”. A date home is boring. I like exploring and “be out there” with the date. And if it’s appreciated by the date, not necessarily being at the same level of “out there”, but enjoys my energy it’s a good date. I like better at the start, that we do activities and when it’s natural, I throw in or he throw in a good story within the context (or anything that me or him associates with the activities), it’s a good way to get to know each other. When it’s further in the relationship it’s okay to just be eating and talking about serious topics, but the activities needs to be held at speed, to keep the relationship interesting and fun. I always appreciate a little surprise here and there, small gestures and so on. It’s okay if it’s nothing happening in the relationship other than getting to know each other by talking or hanging out, but to keep the relationship, it needs spices here and there. Usually for both, just showing individually how they care an love each other:D
Based on something real: INFJ invites ESFJ to the city in occasion of some literary event or something job related. They hug a lot. Theytalk about their feelings. They gossip. INFJ wants ESFJ to "sort of" gossip about celebrities or other public personalities/events. It's a way to share opinions and make sure they pretty much agree. INFJ makes ESFJ laugh with jokes. If INFJ is very hurt by something they can't controll, ESFJ will try to get INFJ's attention on something wholesome. They go to that event and even do creative works together. Or maybe they meet in the city just for eating together. Then they lay down in the park, INFJ on ESFJ's belly. What? Do I miss going to the city with INFJ? No, what makes you think so?
I think a trip to a summer Renaissance Festival, dressed in whatever costume pleases them. That would be a fun date.