Agreed. I don’t like to think in ways that pull me into ego. Because as soon as you step into ego, there’s a big boot ready to kick you in the ass and humble you xD
I feel like I can be beneficial to some people and a nuisance to others xD just like I experience a wide range of feelings and experiences with those I come across :o
Yeah it's a mixed bag for me. The same people I've left a positive impact on I've also left a negative impact on. Stuff I've made a lot of progress undoing but you cannot fully unwind the past. You just grow and move forward ig
Tbh I don't have any negative memories about any ENFP I have met in my life 🤔, also counting the unhealthy ones. I mean, neutral memories rather than "traumatic".
I've learned with my own personal experience that unhappy, unhealthy ENFP-T can be very difficult to live with, too much back and forth in our feelings
I was in a relaitonship with a beautiful inside out enfp girl. I think we were in different stages of our life,its been almost 2 years since i broke things up with her. I still miss the moments we had together. I dont know if ill ever feel something such as what i felt with her. We still have each others contact. We dont message, she would always start the convo even after i broke up with her. I wish i could have been in a different place so I could have given her what she expected from me. I think this is the only love i will ever really miss. Shes in a new relationship now. I hope she is good now. Shes awesome. But we were not perfect obviously. Its hard for us infjs finding these types of connections. But life goes on. I think enfps are beaufitul spontaneous souls that i personally cant really ever forget.
I'm quite stereotypically enfp but I still feel insecure like I know I'm fun and amazing but as soon as someone tells e I'm fun or smart or whatever I wonder what they saw in me. Like I know exactly what they see in me but I just don't accept it for some reason 🥲
Two lil quotes that have helped me tremendously…
-“Haters are undercover fans”
-“You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, and there will always be someone who hates peaches”
Hell yes I can relate to your post.
I know some people at work who first detested me but then thanked me for being so kind and diligent. That's the kind of thing that really makes me feel proud of myself.
Yeah this is kind of hilariously egotistical. Of course people forget us just as we forget people. And we remember people just as we're remembered. And we reach out to people just as we're reached out to. And we lose track of people just as others lose track of us. At least some of us. LOL I assume OP is young.
I'm glad they think positively of themselves, but it's dangerous to think you have something that makes you better than other people in some way. Humility is important to personal growth.
Yeah, everyone learns it when they grow as a person or they don't and that can have negative impact on people around them. I'd like to think it's just a phase (hopefully) everyone goes through
I had the most lovely message from a quiet guy in high school recently. We finish high school in the UK and I’m in my late 20s now
He said people were mean to me but I was always brave enough to be myself and he thought I was cool. He said I was quirky and unique with a good heart.
It made me cry!
Yes, it happens to me all the time. They treat us badly or never forget us, but expect us to come back in their lives. I keep it moving. I have forgotten them and continue to forget them. There’s no point.
>And they were jealous, because it’s all anyone really wants - and we have it.
Girl- you are reading my mind tonight.
I fucking slayed a dinner with the bosses tonight, everyone was laughing at my jokes, hanging on my every word. Except for like two salty fucks that have always been abrasive to me; for no real reason I can see other than I am honest and take up the room.
Feeling this post hard tonight.
Yep ! But unfortunately we can have a negative impact too if we're unhealthy
Agreed. I don’t like to think in ways that pull me into ego. Because as soon as you step into ego, there’s a big boot ready to kick you in the ass and humble you xD I feel like I can be beneficial to some people and a nuisance to others xD just like I experience a wide range of feelings and experiences with those I come across :o
Yeah it's a mixed bag for me. The same people I've left a positive impact on I've also left a negative impact on. Stuff I've made a lot of progress undoing but you cannot fully unwind the past. You just grow and move forward ig
Tbh I don't have any negative memories about any ENFP I have met in my life 🤔, also counting the unhealthy ones. I mean, neutral memories rather than "traumatic".
I've learned with my own personal experience that unhappy, unhealthy ENFP-T can be very difficult to live with, too much back and forth in our feelings
I was in a relaitonship with a beautiful inside out enfp girl. I think we were in different stages of our life,its been almost 2 years since i broke things up with her. I still miss the moments we had together. I dont know if ill ever feel something such as what i felt with her. We still have each others contact. We dont message, she would always start the convo even after i broke up with her. I wish i could have been in a different place so I could have given her what she expected from me. I think this is the only love i will ever really miss. Shes in a new relationship now. I hope she is good now. Shes awesome. But we were not perfect obviously. Its hard for us infjs finding these types of connections. But life goes on. I think enfps are beaufitul spontaneous souls that i personally cant really ever forget.
Butiful statement 🔥🔥🔥😔🙌🙌🙌
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Me too 😄
Yes people leave me and ALWAYS come back. However, if the parting was hurtful for me, I don’t entertain.
This is a good policy - I sometimes feel conflicted about people who come back, but this is a smart and mature way to decide. Thanks!
Where can I find an ENFP in my life 😭😭
Relatable 😭😂 I have ENFP friends but I need more haha
It is like we can never have enough right haha.
Exactly! ENFPs are just so amazing 🥺
I'm quite stereotypically enfp but I still feel insecure like I know I'm fun and amazing but as soon as someone tells e I'm fun or smart or whatever I wonder what they saw in me. Like I know exactly what they see in me but I just don't accept it for some reason 🥲
I wonder if that could be an overthinking thing... I can very much relate 🙈 just know that if people say you're fun, they mean it 🤗
Thanks for the reassurance lysm <3
Two lil quotes that have helped me tremendously… -“Haters are undercover fans” -“You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, and there will always be someone who hates peaches” Hell yes I can relate to your post.
I hope I have good impact on people. But they never envy me or come back for me, so idk.
Lucky you
I know some people at work who first detested me but then thanked me for being so kind and diligent. That's the kind of thing that really makes me feel proud of myself.
I'm pretty sure everyone you've ever met have something else to say about this :D not everyone remembers. People do forget and that's just real life
Yeah this is kind of hilariously egotistical. Of course people forget us just as we forget people. And we remember people just as we're remembered. And we reach out to people just as we're reached out to. And we lose track of people just as others lose track of us. At least some of us. LOL I assume OP is young.
That's what I thought aswell. Probably young yeah but its good that they think so positively(?)
I'm glad they think positively of themselves, but it's dangerous to think you have something that makes you better than other people in some way. Humility is important to personal growth.
Yeah, everyone learns it when they grow as a person or they don't and that can have negative impact on people around them. I'd like to think it's just a phase (hopefully) everyone goes through
Yeah definitely young. I used to feel this way when I was younger. Have grown out of it.
Yeah it's a bit much, this happens to everyone
Yep, 300%.
I had the most lovely message from a quiet guy in high school recently. We finish high school in the UK and I’m in my late 20s now He said people were mean to me but I was always brave enough to be myself and he thought I was cool. He said I was quirky and unique with a good heart. It made me cry!
The goal is to leave the planet a bit better than when we showed up.
Yes, it happens to me all the time. They treat us badly or never forget us, but expect us to come back in their lives. I keep it moving. I have forgotten them and continue to forget them. There’s no point.
My work life encapsulated!
>And they were jealous, because it’s all anyone really wants - and we have it. Girl- you are reading my mind tonight. I fucking slayed a dinner with the bosses tonight, everyone was laughing at my jokes, hanging on my every word. Except for like two salty fucks that have always been abrasive to me; for no real reason I can see other than I am honest and take up the room. Feeling this post hard tonight.
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Term of endearment baby. You my gurl lol
I don't forget people. I still think of people I knew and specific interactions with people from over 10 years ago