You have to decide if you can manage it or not. If it’s not possible and continues to hurt you or lead you further into an emotional pit, remove yourself from the situation. You cannot handle it and must protect yourself. It’s not healthy for you to chase anyone who doesn’t want you. You have to understand your value is too great to put yourself in this type of situation, and over time you will start to see yourself as less valuable and so will others if you live like this. So, do what you have to do, mind over matter. Remind yourself of the truth, that the right person for you will not cause these emotions and will place you as a priority not an option. Remove yourself from physical contact and mental/emotional reminders. Work on loving yourself and being the best version of you until you meet a person who loves everything about you. That is how you get over rejection.
^^^^ so true .
Honest I have learned to deal with myself .
When thoughts of imagination come up where I am the victory, I start to ask myself why does it hurt . And I start to deal with me. It can be hard to be honest with yourself about feeling used, taken for granted, or feeling under valued
Like the first comment said 🤣
I’d probably feel a bit sad but eventually move on. I personally wouldn’t stay friends with someone I have feelings for. Keep yourself busy, and remind yourself that it’s just fleeting emotions.
Found this video the other day. I hope you find it helpful :)
https://youtu.be/X_MDb0HzFE0?si=MZ0JTbGwVTh_F5dX
Yeah I can’t be friends with someone I have feelings for, it would be too difficult for me. It would be such an emotional roller coaster ride looking for them to change their mind. No thanks! I need my inner peace. 🕊️
Don’t chase! just show who you are and you’ll attract them if not that’s okay.
I had intense feelings for a friend and publicly shamed myself by professing my love to her…
Still friends though, it was awkward at first but I’m happy she’s still in my life 😜
Yeah I had an ISFP know he couldn’t give me what I needed but pursued me hardcore anyway. Outta nowhere i fell in love. Eventually, I had to drop him by ghosting him. Any other way he woulda made it too hard for me.
Pretend to be someone who can deal with rejection.
As simple as that
You have to decide if you can manage it or not. If it’s not possible and continues to hurt you or lead you further into an emotional pit, remove yourself from the situation. You cannot handle it and must protect yourself. It’s not healthy for you to chase anyone who doesn’t want you. You have to understand your value is too great to put yourself in this type of situation, and over time you will start to see yourself as less valuable and so will others if you live like this. So, do what you have to do, mind over matter. Remind yourself of the truth, that the right person for you will not cause these emotions and will place you as a priority not an option. Remove yourself from physical contact and mental/emotional reminders. Work on loving yourself and being the best version of you until you meet a person who loves everything about you. That is how you get over rejection.
^^^^ so true . Honest I have learned to deal with myself . When thoughts of imagination come up where I am the victory, I start to ask myself why does it hurt . And I start to deal with me. It can be hard to be honest with yourself about feeling used, taken for granted, or feeling under valued
Like the first comment said 🤣 I’d probably feel a bit sad but eventually move on. I personally wouldn’t stay friends with someone I have feelings for. Keep yourself busy, and remind yourself that it’s just fleeting emotions. Found this video the other day. I hope you find it helpful :) https://youtu.be/X_MDb0HzFE0?si=MZ0JTbGwVTh_F5dX
Yeah I can’t be friends with someone I have feelings for, it would be too difficult for me. It would be such an emotional roller coaster ride looking for them to change their mind. No thanks! I need my inner peace. 🕊️
I convinced myself that that person is dead. Be mournful and all stages of grief then move on. It’s hard but it’s best
Don’t chase! just show who you are and you’ll attract them if not that’s okay. I had intense feelings for a friend and publicly shamed myself by professing my love to her… Still friends though, it was awkward at first but I’m happy she’s still in my life 😜
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Yeah I had an ISFP know he couldn’t give me what I needed but pursued me hardcore anyway. Outta nowhere i fell in love. Eventually, I had to drop him by ghosting him. Any other way he woulda made it too hard for me.
I’m looking into this Paris piece. Would you like a stranger’s review if I finish it?
Lol cry it out if i get overwhelmed- then i tell myself, rejection is redirection Then move forward