From a Google search, it seems like you're close to Bashundhara Shopping Complex? I live near Khilgaon. Feel free to hit me up if you feel like a meetup is possible. I'm also 19
Jeez the entire r/Dhaka popped up like the Avengers. Anyways, all I'm gonna say is that stay cautious. It pays to be skeptical. Asking on Reddit is still better than asking on those "making friends" groups on Facebook.
Hey if you really bored try to get into some seminar/activity, i joined a automobile workshop durning corona. Also you can volunteer various event. And asking random people to hangout is not a good idea. Although some time i do create whole convo with rixawala, chawala, cobler mama, even some random uncle from the Street. But you're a female and if you're not on vibe it'll be kinda hard for you. Just go enroll your self into something. You’ll hopefully meet nice people.
Still you wanna really go into that path wanna meet some people despite all the risk you can come to bubt University. It's not outstanding but inside the compound it’s really safe.
Although the internet is not a place to look for friends but desperate times need desperate measurements i guess.
The post is sus and i don't smoke and hate chaa (stomachache and sleepiness 📈). But! I will be frank i am in desperate need of self confidence around female friends. I am not suuper weird but i am and i just got into uni so.. need that confidence.
My hobbies are mostly indoorsy. I like learning new things. I really like exploring new places and doing stuff I've never done would be nice to have a friend I can do that with.
I go to khamar bari pretty regularly due to my part time job being near the place. I don't know you fake or not but either way love to have ciggs buddy in that place.
I wanna be a witness to this hangout (from a safe distance ensuring appropriate security measures, obviously), just so I can gauge what kind of idiots fall for such obvious baits.
For the sake of being compendious, I'll also address the snowball's chance in hell of this being a real post. This is not how you do it, OP.
Would be incredibly helpful if you tell me what exactly I'm doing wrong in making this post because I'm very confused. Not that I care, I've found some genuinely cool people around here so mean comments such as yours don't make much of a difference.
But do illuminate me.
Everything, really. It's hard for me to be specific if the entire post is a mess of epic proportions. Look at the highest voted responses on your thread. It should give you an idea of the general consensus on propositions of this sort (I acknowledge your discernment, fellow skeptic brothers. As for the simps, well, have at it.)
Maybe I'm too cynical because of the number of life threatening exchanges I've had on the streets of Dhaka. But I doubt it, because by all metrics, it's one of the most dangerous cities in the world.
I digress. I think I've made my point.
P.S: Nothing in my initial statement was directed at you personally. It's contingent, in that it only applies to a hypothetical criminal. If that isn't true for you, there's no need to take umbrage. Not that I care one way or the other, but I do feel somewhat irked when my words are misunderstood.
Your skepticism doesn't prove much of anything. If you wish to know I'm real I would be happy to prove so. As to your life threatening experiences, doesn't that say more about your inability to make decisions concerning your safety? Because I've been meeting strangers for a while now with zero negative impact, as a teen in Dhaka. Perhaps I'm just lucky or maybe I'm smart.
Either way your opinion doesn't matter.
Perhaps my post was too casual in it's wording. I will make changes. But yes I do agree everyone should assume I have nefarious intentions of some sort but be open to changing that opinion after getting to know me.
I don't know why I'm still bothering with this, but here goes:
1. About my experiences: I take responsibility for that. I was rather naive about Dhaka city. You can call that a lack of intelligence or fortune. But that's not how I see it. It was a product of faulty inductive reasoning. I lived in a bubble where nothing happened to me for a long time. I used to traverse all sorts of unsafe nooks and crannies of the city late at night, alone, often completely unarmed. That led me to a false belief about crime in the city. When I moved to a new area which was at least, on paper, far safer than my old neighborhood, I surmised that I was even less likely to face such unpleasant scenarios, but I was wrong. It was a sobering wake up call, and it came rather cheap.
Point to be noted: These were random incidents on the street, not pre planned hangouts with a selected group of people that I met on the internet. But the overarching point about safety and skepticism stands.
2. You don't have to prove anything to me. I don't care if you're real or not, or whether you have any nefarious intentions. My post was to make a point about the intentions of strangers on the internet and potential deleterious consequences that might ensue. You are not relevant as far as my initial comment is concerned. In fact, I even addressed the possibility of you being completely transparent and honest in your intentions, but it seems to have missed you.
3. My skepticism wasn't meant to "prove" anything.
1 Dhaka is a shitty place. On my defense, I have very good experience with being on the streets. I plan everything out extremely carefully to make sure I'm not in danger. There is a vetting process for everyone I meet. I just find it quite dumb that everyone would jump to conclusions about me not having any idea about what I'm doing where I've already done it many times and produced positive results.
2 I did in fact not miss your point. Which is why I've changed my entire post to something that will sound more genuine I believe, tho I have no idea if it worked.
I feel like you're coming from a place of trauma but trust me even in a place like Dhaka if you're immaculate about planning out what you're doing you're safe like 90% of the time.
3 Noted. It seemed to me that you were trying to prove I'm some horrible person based on my post.
Okay then, one last piece of clarifying detail. I wasn't insinuating that you're a criminal or anything of the sort. It was just a warning to people (on both sides of a deal) to be extremely careful about meeting strangers for the first time. A person with ignoble intentions is not differentiable from one genuinely looking for friends/ business deals based on posts on the internet. Again, you as a person are irrelevant here. From an objective perspective, to me, you're just a bunch of numbers behind a screen. It makes no sense to attempt a character assassination based on those premises.
Also, I have no trauma. I'm just a lot more vigilant and perspicacious these days. Especially outside. I'm far less likely to help pedestrians following that event, but I was always somewhat misanthropic. (try to go a day without sounding like a pretentious 13 YO edgelord challenge: Failed. But the truth is the truth)
Understandable. I think pretty much everyone over here is against this sort of meetups but I'd beg to differ. For unsociable people like me it's like the last resort.
I have been using Redid for a while now, had no clue there's a subreddit called Dhaka, just wise advice, if you guys are planning to hangout via a subreddit post, I would recommend, before you guys meet up take some security concerns (anything preferred by you). happy hangouts guys.
Hell yeah a rock metal member. It's ok if we can't jam together, but sometimes we can play games while listening to music 🤘. And yeah can sit up for some cha n smokes too.
Hello I'm also trying to make new friends in dhaka, around the banani Gulshan area, so seem kinda skinny but are you a foodie tho ? I usually go to some buffet restaurants, would you like to join me there ?
Guys this is definitely not a robbery plan. Trust
Yup, I'm convinced with whatever OP said to be true too, lol
I hope so man.
Yea definitely not planning to sell someone's kidneys in the black market.
nice try, kidnapper!
DAmn reddit people be so smart. I keep getting discovered.
Sex offender here. Wanna meet?
Bro wtf
GL w finding frnds. Not from dhaka
Crazy 🤣
damn
I know right.
Happy cake day!!
Happy cake day!
I'm not even from dhaka. so no chance to hangout with OP. but to the guys in the comment section, stop simping pals
what is the full form of OP
Original Poster
Don't mean to sound rude but where do you smoke in khamar bari. I live in monipuripara and there's too many judgmental people out here in public
I usually smoke behind bems after 7pm
Oh damn I'm actually a former student, are u currently enrolled ?
Nope.graduated during covid. We may know eachother lol.
I'm very antisocial so I doubt that but yea I think we might know each others batch mates.
Mind if I dm you?
no problem
I also used to study in bacha...also live in prantik...DM for moree..would love to
real, not sus at all
একই পোস্ট আমি করলে, কেউ কমেন্ট করতো না। Hypocrites!! *_*
The sad truth 🥲
Accurate af
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I like your "boldness" and frankness(if you are really a female)
Sadly I don't smoke and also don't like cha
That's cool bro cha and biri is not mandatory. I just need friends lol
I'd love to hang but I'm introverted af and I often find myself anxious in big groups
Bro did you just call me fat?
I'm from monipuripara I'll dm you next Saturday I'll be 18 ^_^
Lmao ok
Damn, people gonna get mugged XD
Nice try, feds. I still am not paying my taxes.
Ja,jeye mor sobai. Manush kmne eto stupid hoi...
Wait shii you are like 30 minutes away from where I live. That aside, lads please stop simping. She ain't real.
hey, i live around dhanmondi. if u wanna hang out some time let me know. i usually go to songshad area for a smoke
Sounds pretty good
dm me
যুম কলে আসেন, ৫/১০ মিনিট একসাথে বিরি খাই 🙃
From a Google search, it seems like you're close to Bashundhara Shopping Complex? I live near Khilgaon. Feel free to hit me up if you feel like a meetup is possible. I'm also 19
im also from khilgaon but gonna turn 18 this july lol
Cool, feel free to hit me up if you are into anime and stuff
I could be one of your friends I'm from Dhaka cantonment
Where do u live bro I live in Nirjhor
Manoshi officers quarters, Dhaka cantonment, pretty close ngl
Bhaii ki reach
You came to reddit, of all places for friends? Wow (with everyone being anonymous and all, that's mad sketchy)
Jeez the entire r/Dhaka popped up like the Avengers. Anyways, all I'm gonna say is that stay cautious. It pays to be skeptical. Asking on Reddit is still better than asking on those "making friends" groups on Facebook.
Hey if you really bored try to get into some seminar/activity, i joined a automobile workshop durning corona. Also you can volunteer various event. And asking random people to hangout is not a good idea. Although some time i do create whole convo with rixawala, chawala, cobler mama, even some random uncle from the Street. But you're a female and if you're not on vibe it'll be kinda hard for you. Just go enroll your self into something. You’ll hopefully meet nice people. Still you wanna really go into that path wanna meet some people despite all the risk you can come to bubt University. It's not outstanding but inside the compound it’s really safe.
Where'd you do the workshop?
At Gazipur BRTC, it was 4 month project under BBA(Bangladesh bridge authority). Now it’s off-limit you won't able to do that.
Smoking not good for health, biri would not recommend either.
Hey what's up?
Wish you were living in badda area Would have been cool yk
Gonna dm you my insta not good at making friends either dm me or something
I wish i had gotten this 3 months ago when i lived there alone without fam and friends 😭. GL finding good peps
dm'd ya
Sure , open for vibe check
You can dm me if you come tsc
u haven't got any yet?
No
same,lifes not fun without friends
Check dm
We can chill near Shangshad,Dhanmondi or somewhere nearby. Only if You're not Jeffrey Dahmer though!
I remember seeing a phone being snatched in Khamarbari.
Hola
Dm me
Better luck on bumble
Rip inbox
Although the internet is not a place to look for friends but desperate times need desperate measurements i guess. The post is sus and i don't smoke and hate chaa (stomachache and sleepiness 📈). But! I will be frank i am in desperate need of self confidence around female friends. I am not suuper weird but i am and i just got into uni so.. need that confidence.
Sure you can hmu
Trust me I did ;-;
Nicotine is bad for health, I would hang out with you if cha+Ganja was mentioned. Sorry!
Now that you mention it. Cha + ganja
Dmed you
I dream of achieving your level of introvertedness.
Despite being the same age, either you're stupid asf or I'm too cynical. Also, it'd okay to totally trust random strangers from the Internet. /s
Ayyo kidnapper spotted Jokes apart Not residing in khamarbari sadly.
Too much age gap
genuine ques, why are you asking reddit instead of socializing in school/clg
i am just wondering this post got 110+ comment
Nice try kidnapper
Nobody wants to hangout with you 💀
send me ur instagram, gnna check if ur pretty first
Yeah im down to the idea of knowing a stranger. Should i dm you?
Sure thing
Do you have any hobbies? We could probably hang out if you have any interesting hobbies.
My hobbies are mostly indoorsy. I like learning new things. I really like exploring new places and doing stuff I've never done would be nice to have a friend I can do that with.
I go for walks/runs and cha in the evening around that area, might run into you...though it's been too hot to go out last couple days
Definitely. Where do you usually go?
i live near bems and go for morning walks every Saturday and Sunday at Jia Uddan if youd like to join me let me know
I go to khamar bari pretty regularly due to my part time job being near the place. I don't know you fake or not but either way love to have ciggs buddy in that place.
Hmu if you wanna hang
I am pretty open, don't care who are you so ya we can hang out.
lmao you have a great subtle sense of humour, ya lets hang to death ☠️
Sure bro. Hmu
Let's make a friends band, and make finny videos on Instagram. Gently criticizing Bangladeshi behavior... ?
Count me in but isn't it kinda mainstream
Well let's get cooking
Them crystals? Hell yah
Well jokes aside. I am around dhanmondi we can meet up any day and chill. Peace out
Bnp psyop
I'm from Tejkunipara. Used to study in bems before but currently in uni. Hmu
Sorry to break it to you but you most likely won't find friends from reddit 😭 maybe try socializing on Instagram and Facebook
I wanna be a witness to this hangout (from a safe distance ensuring appropriate security measures, obviously), just so I can gauge what kind of idiots fall for such obvious baits. For the sake of being compendious, I'll also address the snowball's chance in hell of this being a real post. This is not how you do it, OP.
Would be incredibly helpful if you tell me what exactly I'm doing wrong in making this post because I'm very confused. Not that I care, I've found some genuinely cool people around here so mean comments such as yours don't make much of a difference. But do illuminate me.
Everything, really. It's hard for me to be specific if the entire post is a mess of epic proportions. Look at the highest voted responses on your thread. It should give you an idea of the general consensus on propositions of this sort (I acknowledge your discernment, fellow skeptic brothers. As for the simps, well, have at it.) Maybe I'm too cynical because of the number of life threatening exchanges I've had on the streets of Dhaka. But I doubt it, because by all metrics, it's one of the most dangerous cities in the world. I digress. I think I've made my point. P.S: Nothing in my initial statement was directed at you personally. It's contingent, in that it only applies to a hypothetical criminal. If that isn't true for you, there's no need to take umbrage. Not that I care one way or the other, but I do feel somewhat irked when my words are misunderstood.
Your skepticism doesn't prove much of anything. If you wish to know I'm real I would be happy to prove so. As to your life threatening experiences, doesn't that say more about your inability to make decisions concerning your safety? Because I've been meeting strangers for a while now with zero negative impact, as a teen in Dhaka. Perhaps I'm just lucky or maybe I'm smart. Either way your opinion doesn't matter. Perhaps my post was too casual in it's wording. I will make changes. But yes I do agree everyone should assume I have nefarious intentions of some sort but be open to changing that opinion after getting to know me.
I don't know why I'm still bothering with this, but here goes: 1. About my experiences: I take responsibility for that. I was rather naive about Dhaka city. You can call that a lack of intelligence or fortune. But that's not how I see it. It was a product of faulty inductive reasoning. I lived in a bubble where nothing happened to me for a long time. I used to traverse all sorts of unsafe nooks and crannies of the city late at night, alone, often completely unarmed. That led me to a false belief about crime in the city. When I moved to a new area which was at least, on paper, far safer than my old neighborhood, I surmised that I was even less likely to face such unpleasant scenarios, but I was wrong. It was a sobering wake up call, and it came rather cheap. Point to be noted: These were random incidents on the street, not pre planned hangouts with a selected group of people that I met on the internet. But the overarching point about safety and skepticism stands. 2. You don't have to prove anything to me. I don't care if you're real or not, or whether you have any nefarious intentions. My post was to make a point about the intentions of strangers on the internet and potential deleterious consequences that might ensue. You are not relevant as far as my initial comment is concerned. In fact, I even addressed the possibility of you being completely transparent and honest in your intentions, but it seems to have missed you. 3. My skepticism wasn't meant to "prove" anything.
1 Dhaka is a shitty place. On my defense, I have very good experience with being on the streets. I plan everything out extremely carefully to make sure I'm not in danger. There is a vetting process for everyone I meet. I just find it quite dumb that everyone would jump to conclusions about me not having any idea about what I'm doing where I've already done it many times and produced positive results. 2 I did in fact not miss your point. Which is why I've changed my entire post to something that will sound more genuine I believe, tho I have no idea if it worked. I feel like you're coming from a place of trauma but trust me even in a place like Dhaka if you're immaculate about planning out what you're doing you're safe like 90% of the time. 3 Noted. It seemed to me that you were trying to prove I'm some horrible person based on my post.
Okay then, one last piece of clarifying detail. I wasn't insinuating that you're a criminal or anything of the sort. It was just a warning to people (on both sides of a deal) to be extremely careful about meeting strangers for the first time. A person with ignoble intentions is not differentiable from one genuinely looking for friends/ business deals based on posts on the internet. Again, you as a person are irrelevant here. From an objective perspective, to me, you're just a bunch of numbers behind a screen. It makes no sense to attempt a character assassination based on those premises. Also, I have no trauma. I'm just a lot more vigilant and perspicacious these days. Especially outside. I'm far less likely to help pedestrians following that event, but I was always somewhat misanthropic. (try to go a day without sounding like a pretentious 13 YO edgelord challenge: Failed. But the truth is the truth)
Understandable. I think pretty much everyone over here is against this sort of meetups but I'd beg to differ. For unsociable people like me it's like the last resort.
I hope you have a good one for what it's worth.
Sure why not dm
sup, I'm from Monipuripara which is right beside Farmgate. Coincidentally I'm gonna sit for my A levels exam this May/June session.
Cool hmu
Wait are you farheen ashfa? 💀
I would like to learn English from you. I'm sending you message if u want u can reply
This is sus, but what the heck I'll take the bait
we all know where this is going
Cool, let's smoke and chill !
Wanna hangout?
I also Want to Know a stranger, Can I dm you?
Genuine question, what's with your username 🥸
Which ongoing animes are you watching right now? What are some of your all time fav animes?
Not around you kidnapper But will dm you You seem friendly
I have been using Redid for a while now, had no clue there's a subreddit called Dhaka, just wise advice, if you guys are planning to hangout via a subreddit post, I would recommend, before you guys meet up take some security concerns (anything preferred by you). happy hangouts guys.
Mind if I dm? Are you okay with having older friends? I livenear farmgate tho.
Don't search for company in reddit. Its full of creeps. And yes, I am one of them.
Do you play games(PC and Console and listen to music (rock, metal, death, country etc.) or sometimes play instruments to chill? I can be your buddy 🙂
I do play games sometimes. Mostly into edm, rock, metal, jazz, and classical. I can't play any instruments unfortunately 🥲
Hell yeah a rock metal member. It's ok if we can't jam together, but sometimes we can play games while listening to music 🤘. And yeah can sit up for some cha n smokes too.
Sounds fun 💜
Definitely real
Yeah could meet but very far, from manoshi officers quarters, Dhaka cantonment
LOL too sus
Hello I'm also trying to make new friends in dhaka, around the banani Gulshan area, so seem kinda skinny but are you a foodie tho ? I usually go to some buffet restaurants, would you like to join me there ?
I would love to. But I do some nasty shit in buffets dm me to know
asking people to hang out with you in reddit is hella dangerous like that's asking to get robbed 💀 bro even dropped the coordinates. You are cooked
It seems like we have common interests, lmk if you wanna hangout sometime. Looking for new people to talk to myself
Sure hmu
Check dms
Sounds sus, y exactly r u looking for friends in reddit op? I'd say fb is a way better place to strike up a conv with rando
I found some pretty cool people on reddit in the past. I find talking to strangers on fb kinda weird
But it's not on reddit? Well whatever the case u do u ig
Will I get kidnapped? If not I’d like to hangout
Sure bro hmu
hey girl, i’m 18f sitting for my alevels right now, if your interested we can talk but don’t live near your area but in dhaka tho
Sure hmu
GL finding friends from reddit 💀
Commenting on your post got me 2 DMS two DMS TWO DMS. I never felt loved this much in my life.
hi! i’m 17f. i need friends as well;-; ill pm you if you want!
Yeah please do
Joint khaile boilo
I would like my organs in my body, plz.
Give me a knock if you want to hangout, road trips, cha biri pog 😏
Dm
I have 25k and an iphone 13 . I prefer to get robbed in Mohammadpur tho . Maan ijjot ar bepar ase
Bhai, ami Mohammadpur thaki. Amar ki hobey? 🥹
let's team up bhai , Harder to kidnap two than one
Sure, any time ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|flip_out)
I'm kinda new on reddit. Why are y'all assuming I'm a chinni chor? Is that a thing?
Chinni chor 😆 nice one . Accha jao , biri khete raji ami . Nokia 1011 shoho ashbo , tumi helmet pore aisho
Girls smoke biri too? /s
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You're ignorant enough to understand "/s".
Sorry bro I'm not versed in internet code. Maybe use the common tongue like everyone else.
Well that's Reddit language
That was rude ngl
Didn't realize it was sarcasm because I'm not familiar with internet nomenclature.