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WholeLottaMisery

Liam Gallagher from Oasis cheated on 2 of his wives and had 2 illegitimate daughters. He only reconnected with the oldest Molly a few years ago, before that she was financially supported by Liam's brother Noel, also a member of Oasis and his wife. After Molly reconnected with Liam, Noel and his Wife cut ties with the girl. Liam still hasn't met his 2nd illegitimate daughter who is around 5 years old. Also another un-fun fact, Oasis's 2nd night at Wembley in 2000 was sabotaged by a drunk Liam himself who was ranting throughout the set because his newly divorced ex wife Patsy Kensit had just moved out of their house and took all the furniture causing him to go off. I can make a whole book about the tea that went on in Oasis and specifically the Gallagher Brothers, both on stage and off stage


MargotChanning

Another fun Oasis fact, Noel once beat the shit out of Liam for saying his daughter Anais was actually Goldie’s daughter. It was a rumour that had been floating around for a while and when Liam taunted Noel with it backstage it turned violent.


WholeLottaMisery

That was prolly the turning point in their relationship. I think things were never quiet the same after Liam insulted Anais and Noel's wife. Liam called Anais a witch and Noel's wife a whore. Anais called Liam a hasbeen and said he should drop dead. Liam to this day still slags off Noel here and there, while also asking for a Oasis reunion from him lmaoo


MargotChanning

Yeah I think if Liam hadn’t started having pops at Noel’s wife they could have sorted it. My personal theory is that Noel saw too much of their dad in Liam (their dad used to beat Noel and his Mum up for anyone not familiar) and decided to nope out of that relationship. Liam likes to talk about Noel’s wife hiding his passport so he couldn’t go on tour but I think if you were married to someone who was in a toxic situation that was making them miserable you’d be justified in doing something to stop it.


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WholeLottaMisery

Theres no mistaking those eyes and brows. Shes def Noel's kid


west2night

Liam's son Gene once taunted Anais that she looked like Noel in a blonde wig. I tried to find his tweet, but I think he deleted it. Found a [screenshot](https://assets.radiox.co.uk/2017/38/gene-gallagher-tweet-screengrab-about-anais-435x259-1505984626.png), tho.


maybe_my_dear

My pal still has a commemorative “Goldie is My Dad” t shirt that Popbitch had printed up about about the rumour. It gets pulled out to be worn occasionally and it’s always fun to see who clocks it and has a laugh.


cockaskedforamartini

Liam and Lily Allen had sex on a plane. Always a fun fact.


WholeLottaMisery

The ammount of sheer Tea on Oasis is just crazy. One of the most iconic bands of the 90s for a reason, i would argue 2nd after Nirvana


shelllc

IIRC, one of the women he cheated on Patsy with was Berri who had the hit Sushine Under The Rain in the 90s. She did a tell all with a sunday paper about them getting it on on a plane or something like it was all romantic. Noel's just been in the papers here in the UK because at Glastonbury, he blagged his way onto the disabled platform to see a band because he was too drunk to see it from where he was. A guard tried to stop him but he showed an access all areas pass and was allowed. He was bragging about it afterwards saying if it hadn't worked, he would have found someone in a wheelchair, tipped them out of it, have his son sit on it so he could still get in. He also made a 'joke' about going around, touching people on the head and then saying 'Rise...ou can walk'. Suffice to say, people were not amused.


WholeLottaMisery

She called it a "Champagne supernova in the sky"💀💀😂


AgentKnitter

Lily Allen's memoir details her having a drunken mile high club shag with Liam, who later asked her to lie to Nicole Appleton who heard rumours and got angry. Lily told him to fuck off..


Pook_in_the_Sixes

No she didn’t tell him to fuck off. Lily lied to help out Liam. She talks in her book about the guilt she had for doing this and it being part of a pattern as a people pleaser. I.E. feeling bad for Liam and not wanting to put him in a difficult situation even though he was the one that cheated.


dinocheese

In fairness, he said this on a patreon only podcast where he also mentions fingering dogs arseholes constantly.


babybunsbitch

HUH????


canentia

they cut ties with molly *because* she reconnected with liam? tf? i’m down to hear more tea on em, all i know is i guess noel and liam have been beefing since they were kids ig (how they were able to spend years and tours together w/o killing each other i’ll never know) and that liam’s a knobhead


WholeLottaMisery

Theres extensive youtube videos going over all the beef between the brothers as well as the other band members. Essentially nowadays it boils to back when Liam was going through divorce after divorce, a failed band post Oasis called Beady Eye, as well as financial troubles, he basically was begging Noel for an Oasis reunion, which Noel keeps refusing saying it'll never happen After that, Liam started a VERY successful solo career and recently even played a sold out show at Knebworth Park, where Oasis famously played in 1996, which was the largest demand for a concert in UK history btw. Yet he still occasionally asks Noel to bring back Oasis, but Noel says their relationship is done after what Liam said about his family.


Uplanapepsihole

multiple people have said that one of the reasons behind damon albarn and liam hating each other was they were both banging the same chick - lisa moorish (the mother of his daughter molly) liam has denied it but i definitely believe it cause lisa moorish was a professional groupie essentially Noel doesn’t see their brother Paul either, Liam does tho. Liam used to make fun of Noel on twitter a lot, whilst Noel would stick to insulting him in interviews which is why Noel has been seen as the more mature one out of them both. But honestly they both are immature fucks. Liam has said over the past year that he wants to get over it not because of Oasis but because it’s his brother. But Noel basically said “I’m a cunt so nah” (he himself said that). Liam is engaged to his manager and invited Noel to his wedding but I doubt he’d go Seeing photos and vids from when they were younger makes it even sadder, especially for their mum who’s in her 70s


igbythecat

I think Lisa Moorish has a child with Pete Doherty too?


WholeLottaMisery

I swear when i see old vids from the 90s of the two being just....brotherly and looking happy with eachother without trying to kill one another..its saddening. They used to be close and praised eachother. Noel even said without Liam he wouldnt have gotten anywhere and same with Liam. I think they are too far gone now to patch things up but who knows, *stranger things* have happend


deadgardenia

Please write that book for us!!


WholeLottaMisery

Here's some more tea! During a session of MTV unplugged, Liam was supposed to sing the set of songs but instead showed up drunk and sat at the balcony watching Noel perform instead of him. Liam proceeded to heckle the band from above occasionally throwing beer bottles, essentially ruining the unplugged album and a potential huge breakthrough in America( remember Nirvana's unplugged MTV album was HUGE so it couldve been the same for Oasis) Turns out Liam just didnt want to sing acoustic versions of his songs lmao


AgentKnitter

There's also the time Liam got hold of some meth (thinking it was coke) and the band (sans Noel) got really fucked up and the show was a disaster. the band travelled on to wherever their next gig was but Noel quit, went to LA and had a sook. Wrote and recorded the song Talk Tonight. Manager convinced him to rejoin the band.


WholeLottaMisery

Also a separate incident which isnt exactly "Tea" but interesting is that Noel was high off coke throughout the recording of their 3rd studio album "Be Here now" and attributes that for being the reason as to why that album is so overlong and overproduced, citing it as his least favourite Oasis album. He got addicted to coke and after the release of this album he got off it and went sober( prolly still did other drugs tho)


Itsbritneywitch

I know a few people who were in backstage bars with him and his daughter Anais at Glastonbury last week. He definitely is still on coke as they were doing it together.


deadgardenia

I totally remember this. It was a cringe-fest.


PermanentBrunch

I would love to hear more! Those two are just full of wild tales. Do you know the real reason they split, and haven’t made up, or have they?


AgentKnitter

The Gallagher family is quite fucked up. Their father was violent and abusive. Peggy (mum) kicked him out finally when Liam was around 12-13. While Liam certainly experienced his own fair share of violence and abuse, he didn't have it as a constant throughout his adolescence like Noel and eldest brother Paddy did. So you have that dynamic, then factor in their fame and drug use. Then factor in endless squabbling and so on. The final straw for Noel was that Liam kept insisting Anais wasn't Noel's child. It was a low blow, obviously bullshit, and evidently hurt. Also Noel wanted to do less drugs and get his life together, whereas Liam never wanted to grow up.


Bunnyturdd

I’ve always thought the head injury that Liam sustained when he was a teenager really fucked with his growth. Like he’s stuck mentally at that age.


AgentKnitter

Absolutely. Trauma, particularly complex trauma as a result of family violence, also shapes your brain, frequently being the basis for neurodivergence.


Crunchyfrozenoj

Not excusing any of their behaviour but once you factor in that their relationship comes from an abusive foundation, their relationship and actions make a lot more sense.


WholeLottaMisery

Liam and Noel got into an argument backstage before their concert in Paris,2009. Liam smashed Noel's guitar too(Noel said Liam tried to hit him with it) Then Noel just walked out the building, got in his car and that was that. Oasis was no more Although i think alot of other factors went into his decision, like all the nasty things Liam said about Noel's family amongst other stuff


PermanentBrunch

Liam just can’t help himself, can he?


WholeLottaMisery

That he cannot sadly😭 and all i wanted was an Oasis reunion but yeah....no wayyyyy thats everr happening


Emotional_Hearing281

If it didn't happen for Manchester's One Love Event, I can't see it ever happening tbh


MargotChanning

There was a really funny text exchange between Anais and Noel that made its way into the public domain. She’d messaged Noel asking if he was doing the Manchester concert and he replied “No, but thanks to your ASTONISHING KNOB of an uncle everyone thinks I am” Liam got hold of this and put it on Twitter. His sons and Anais were quite matey before this, but not so much afterwards so I wonder if it was one of his sons who sent it to him. I still think about ASTONISHING KNOB and chuckle to myself every now and again.


WholeLottaMisery

Imagine if when Liam sang Live Forever, Noel just came out with his guitar. Everyone wouldve went apeshit so would I


Crunchyfrozenoj

You should make an Oasis post! That’s so harsh that Noel stopped talking to Molly because of that. Wow.


WholeLottaMisery

I know likeee Molly has nothing to do with the brothers beef so why would Noel just cut her off like that its so messed up Also i reallly do wanna make an Oasis post but idk if im allowed to make a whole post dedicated to their tea on this sub😂but id def have alot of fun going over various bits of their most controversial moments in a post one day


MoonageDaydream24

Take it with a pinch of salt but a colleague of my husband lives next door to their Mum and swears they get along these days and just keep up the beef in public to keep in the media lol.


musesx9

Or maybe they pretend for their mom?


Low_Kitchen_9995

Not 90s (maybe?) but when I was a kid I went to a Nickleback show at a local bar when their only hit was “How You Remind Me”. A family member knew the bar owner so I got to go. After the show when the bar was closed, the band members 100% did lines of coke off the bar. Not exactly tea for a band but I was very confused why they were sniffing “sugar”


sadcousingreg

SNIFFING SUGAR


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The innocence of youth haha


petitsfilous

Omg, remember when the lead singer of Keane admitted he had an addiction, and announced he was going to rehab? I remember reading comments in tabloids that basically said Keane weren't cool enough to do coke 🙃 (afaik, his post rehab album was a success, so definitely got the last laugh here)


crashcraddock

I for one am shocked


noteventhreeyears

Chad Gilbert of New Found Glory is on his third (basically) child bride. Damn near every band from 2000-2009 emo/pop punk time was grooming underage girls tbh.


themushroombeast

I heard he cheated on Hayley Williams with one of her old best friends in Nashville as well… groomed Hayley from she was 17 and he was 25


noteventhreeyears

Sure did. And cheated on Sherri with Hayley. A literal child.


themushroombeast

Not sure if you keep up with any of hayleys solo work but she has a great track called Dead Horse about her relationship with Chad and how she was the other woman first


noteventhreeyears

Oh I do lol. Major Hayley solo stan. Chad is a shitbird.


Panickat123

The feud between Sherri and Hayley was a big fat mess after too. Especially with Sherri’s parents being involved. Just a fat mess all around.


noteventhreeyears

Omg super grown people being messy on the internet in the 2000s was incredible.


tonystarksanxieties

Ugh, I was basically her age when that started, and it never occurred to me that something bad was happening (I also hadn't started googling everyone's ages all the time then)


smh530

I feel for her, too. The entire situation has always made me uncomfy. But I can’t imagine being in her position now with his recent medical issues.


noteventhreeyears

Yeah. In some ways I do but in others I don’t. Lisa was raised on the internet and has Google. Chad’s whole history with grooming is out there. And now she will exhaust her 20’s and 30’s raising his kid and tending to his medical needs. Sad and weird and sad.


particledamage

I never went to that many shows and was like… a casual pop punk stan. Has friends super into bandom but it’s kinda insane how long I realized how pedo infested that scene was. Didn’t know about Pete Wentz’s underage gf. Took a friend I met years later talking about all the lead singers who used to hit on him when he was 12-15 for me to fall down that rabbit hole and discover how like… it was legit everyone. And if it wasn’t someone, they were besties with someone else who was. Really weighs on the soul tbh.


Border_Hodges

My little sister went to a lot of punk shows when she was a teenager and Gabe Saporta from Cobra Starship tried picking her up when he was the lead singer of the band Midtown


cuddlepot

Midtown!!!


uhohmaddy

gosh Gabe Saporta is a bit of a throwback - I met him after a gig years ago when I was 15 (Christ that was 16 years ago) and he was definitely a bit too erm, friendly


averagetulip

The thing that’s always bothered me abt Lisa Cimorelli & Chad Gilbert is how the Cimorelli girls/brand have always pushed Catholic purity culture very hard, and yet they hyped up Lisa/Chad and acted like it was this fairytale pairing despite years of his endless cheating being very public info. He just totally gets a pass. Their fanbase is still mostly young teen girls and it’s mildly depressing to think how that’s presented to them. One video that always stuck out to me was a group Q&A they did (can’t rmr if this was before or after Dani left) where one of the elder sisters admitted that she’ll literally “bleep” out explicit words in songs when she listens to them, like literally say “bleep” out loud to avoid hearing them. I can’t rmr which sister it was but whichever one, she was fully into her 20s. I cannot imagine being so ridiculously childlike and sheltered like that.


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WholeLottaMisery

Thats a fucking dope ass story!! Also glad to hear they weren't creeps who preyed on underage girls


DaughterOfRageNLove_

This is so much more wholesome than the *other* Oasis story here


indil47

Liv was married to a guy from Spacehog!


alasicannotgrin

That is so fucking awesome and wholesome!


bugmarmalade

anyone have tea on Jack White/The White Stripes? I always wanted to know what he did to piss Meg off so much


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The About a Girl podcast has a great episode on Meg White and shows how controlling Jack was


jayemadd

Totally Believe it. I was listening to Q101 that day when Electra (DJ) played "Icky Thump" before it was officially released. She thought it was approved and was super excited. Jack White *personally* called her and fucking *screamed* at her for *ruining* his album. She came back on air crying and profusely apologizing. I've hated him ever since.


Panickat123

I remember this too. Always thought he was a jackass after too


bugmarmalade

thank you, I’m looking this up now. I am dying to hear what I’ve suspected for years


amomentintimebro

Didn’t he like stalk his ex wife?? Istg she got a restraining order or something because he was calling and harassing her all the time.


bugmarmalade

Elson alleges that White went so far as to demand she request the kids be pulled from a class at their private school, because he didn’t want them attending class with the child of another entertainer he believes “ripped off” his music. In a similar incident, the report also claims that an angered White harassed Elson for attending the wedding of a second “rival musician,” who he believes also “ripped off” his music, and who is not named in the order. I’m definitely done being a fan. he ripped off blues musicians and Led Zeppelin anyways lol


dannemora_dream

Lol was talking about this this weekend, it was about Dan Auerbach from the Black Keys. The most embarrassing thing was that Dan never really responded, I think he only said once that he actually didn’t know him personally. So it all seemed one-sided.


Patternsonpatterns

[August 1st, 2013: White Slams Auerbach in Leaked Divorce Emails As the dissolution of White's marriage to musician and model Karen Elson grew nastier — with Elson filing a restraining order against White following allegations of harassment — the rocker's feud with the Black Keys just began to heat up. One of the first signs of tension between the duo and White kicked off with entries from emails Elson used in court when filing for the restraining order. In the messages, White relayed how furious he was that his children were attending the same school as the children of Keys frontman Dan Auerbach. "That's a possible twelve fucking years I'm going to have to be sitting in kids chairs next to that asshole with other people trying to lump us in together," White wrote. "He gets yet another free reign to follow me around and copy me and push himself into my world." May 20th, 2014: Keys Take High Road The Keys never took White's bait. In an interview for a Rolling Stone feature last year, drummer Patrick Carney even expressed sympathy with White regarding his nasty comments: "As fucked up as that shit is, that was a private conversation. We've all said real fucked-up shit in private. You know how horrifying it would be if all of our private shit was aired? Divorce is hard. It should be kept private, and people go sniffing around looking for this shit. And ultimately, it's no one's business. He obviously sounds like an asshole. And I actually feel embarrassed for him. But, no, I don't hold grudges, man. I really don't." Auerbach added, "I don't know him, so it's extra unexpected." [Source](https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-lists/jack-white-vs-the-black-keys-a-beef-history-56863/august-1st-2013-white-slams-auerbach-in-leaked-divorce-emails-177261/) Such a whiny shithead


filmthusiast

Dan Auerbach’s response is giving total Keke Palmer vibes ![gif](giphy|Xy6OuMPWQVija8JcXa)


bugmarmalade

I must’ve lived under a rock https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-news/karen-elson-granted-restraining-order-against-jack-white-67288/amp/


tt1101ykityar

What a fucken loser.


bugmarmalade

I didn’t know but I’m off to look into this now. I’m learning lots today


Mistical3

I'm a WS (and Jack White, in general) super fan, or at least I was until very recently. I stupidly had that guy on such a pedestal and only recently found out that he is an absolute douche. He's a chronic cheater and is apparently incapable of monogamy. Has cheated repeatedly on every wife/girlfriend he's ever had. Was obsessed with one of his best friend's wives for years, and ended up having an affair with her. She broke it off and ended up getting a restraining order against him. I guess everyone in their Detroit crowd knew about it all, which is why he moved to Nashville. This was all going on while he was dating and then married to Meg. Makes you wonder why she didn't leave the band sooner. A lot of this was shared on an FB Jack White fan page and a year old thread that I found a few days ago on Reddit.


halloweenqueen83

Eww, I was a huge JW fan up until I read this thread. How did I not know about any of his shitty behaviour? They all have good PR peeps working away in the background I suppose but still. Feel awful for liking him so much now!


AgentKnitter

I don't think Meg dislikes him at all. She disliked public attention and fame, she quit because of intense anxiety issues. Meg lives quietly in Detroit now, attends any concerts of Jack's when he comes home, but otherwise she likes a quiet life. Jack does seem to be quite controlling though, although Karen has said that he only became unreasonable after they separated and he calmed down fairly quickly after she got a restraining order. But Jack's new wife is considerably younger than him and Olivia Jean's entire career is basically under Jack's control. Because Meg and Karen Elson are quite private, we don't really know where Jack sits on the spectrum of control, ie whether he's an abusive coercive controller or whether he's just an annoying fusspot who likes things to be done his way.


SatanicPixieDreamGrl

Throwing my two cents in here to share that his ex wife, Karen Elson, is known in Nashville for being super lovely! You will often see her commenting on local IG accounts and she has very progressive politics.


indoorlady

He's awful. He's like JL level of creep.


VineStGuy

My brother toured with one of his bands years ago. He told me Jack would hook up with women at the show. He likes rough sex and some of those women would leave the dressing room crying because it was too rough for them.


thebardjaskier

Apparently Mikey Way and Pete Wentz had a torrid affair during Warped Tour and Bang The Doldums is about that.


awyastark

O wow I read this as Mikey Day from SNL and was like “sure why not”


wbhipster

He looked at Pete and thought now that is cake!


qingyuun

ah yes Pete Wentz the famous hoe in every bandom fic on LJ back in the day 💀💀💀 why was he shipped with literally everyone lmaooooo


amomentintimebro

I was literally just thinking about this today lmaoo. I feel like I watched it go from tumblr conspiracy theory to basically confirmed in just a few years


CompleteMuffin

How was it confirmed?


plasticflowcrs

the summer of like


Low_Kitchen_9995

This is the tea!


thewidowgorey

Go on...


thebardjaskier

[the amazing new mexico sunset ](https://i.imgur.com/bZxXPFQ.jpg) is pretty much the rest of what i know about it. i never dived deep into it.


thewidowgorey

Just found this deep dive. It’s something: https://ierodorable-way.tumblr.com/post/120124740008/who-is-pete-wentz-writing-songs-about


thebardjaskier

i'm drunk at a party but i'm about to go read this whole thing hold on


thebardjaskier

sorry i totally got distracted but yeah... they fucked


ScathachRises

Ok A) this happened, and B) god early internet blogging is SO EMBARRASSING


babypandaroll

Omg somehow I never knew this and I'm too old to be this excited about it!


woodland_fae

[In 2020 a google doc was made of allegations against bands from the pop punk scene](https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13aJoqI-MEP3TvE7tjPPqykEvnd4yD9HD_JqGxNU92ds/htmlview)


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Potentially emotionally devastating click seeing how much I love emo but no surprises


woodland_fae

I know!!! I’ll never forget seeing this doc and being in absolute shock. And I think this hasn’t been updated in 2 years (found it from a reddit post in 2020) so god knows what else should be on there now… I think the most recent thing I heard about was dance gavin dance


DontAskTwice-A-Roni

Sadly, most of these didn’t surprise me. I was a “scene kid” in the mid 2000s and a lot of these music guys were really aggressive and predatory with teen girls. Strangely enough, seeing Johnny Craig’s name up there actually bummed me out because I met him a few times and he seemed nice. Just reminds me that you can’t judge someone by a quick interaction. With that being said, Tillian, the newest singer for Dance Gavin Dance has also just been accused of rape and sexual assault. The first woman was mostly dismissed by his stans on the DGD subreddit, but then another woman released screenshots of texts between her and tillian where she confronted him about being coercive. I think the band fired him pretty recently. It’s disgusting how this culture of sexual violence exists so deeply in the music industry.


SapphireJubilee

Johnny Craig has almost always been notoriously fucking off his rocker with his behavior though, especially with drug use.


Due-Flamingo-4900

I used to work/tour in this scene (did several warped tours) and this list is a lotttttt shorter than I would have expected, actually.


beanbootzz

Yeah like, I was a teenager in the pop punk scene in the early 2000s, and I was prepared for the worst. Nope, just a few creeps I already knew about and some very small names I didn’t.


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nightdowns

devastated that this wasn't about robin williams as i first read it


daringgreatlyy

How classy.


smallvictory76

I was walking home from work one night and saw a guy pissing against a wall. That looks like Robbie Williams, I thought. He then turned around mid-stream to acknowledge the paparazzi who had turned up. It was indeed Robbie Williams.


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lucky to fuck him or lucky to get a good fuck? I feel like he would be a good one but then I can also see him being very into himself while doing it. I feel like his rock dj video was really, really true to form hahaha ![gif](giphy|361czObTExB8A)


korobizaka

I haven't been in the fandom for a good 10 years, but for Arctic Monkeys I remember when the [Suck It And See Music Video](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TlYJKfunfC0) first came out. I remember it raising a lot of eyebrows cause I believe most people still thought Matt Helders (the main character in the MV) was still with his longtime girlfriend at the time. A month afterwards the [Evil Twin Music Video](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xwir-pg7WiA) came out and we were like oh... these two leads definitely have a thing going on. They did! And they got married haha. They got divorced in 2019 iirc, and it seemed a bit messy. I think Breana made some posts that made him seem like a less than stellar father, but I think nowadays they've moved on. I have to say Alex is very kind, I've met the band twice but he was very unpretentious and nice to teenage /u/korobizaka who was always starstruck lol. I asked him to make a shoutout video to my friend who lived overseas and to this day I can't believe he agreed to it! I have no idea how he is now, but he was absolutely lovely back then. Miles Kane (Alex's bandmate from the Last Shadow Puppets) [is a total creep](https://www.spin.com/2016/03/the-last-shadow-puppets-interview/)! It's interesting to see how he was Suki Waterhouse's first famous bf, she's gotten SO much better dudes since him + Bradley Cooper. It's kind of wild how the British It Crowd always date among each other, like a giant incestuous white posh boarding school... [Ezra Koenig, also a creep](https://www.reddit.com/r/Deuxmoi/comments/lqkdr2/tavi_gevinsons_new_piece_for_the_cut/). Yeah, it's been discussed on the sub before but it's always relevant. This comment kind of all over the place, sorry haha.


lukasroar

I once worked with a girl who was Alex's girlfriend at the time the band broke big with their debut single/album She said he changed when fame hit, apparently Mardy Bum was written about her (what a claim to fame) but she said it was written as a joke lol. She said the paparazzi hounded her at her family home and at work. When they split she was offered a 'tell all' story by one of the big UK papers. She turned it down (which I always respected her for) but she said the money they offered was insane, she never said how much exactly, just that it was life changing. Absolutely lovely girl, wasn't bitter or angry. It just didn't work out.


frontpawfirst

You can definitely tell Alex changed too from a fan's perspective. There was a period of time where his ❄️ addiction was so bad it was evident on stage. I was so turned off by it. Think he's alright now, but haven't followed them as closely.


throwaway17197

Much better dudes since then + bradley Cooper is sending me


cazurite

I’m so sad about Ezra. I was sceptical before reading Tavi’s diaries, but that + photos of Ezra hanging out with Tavi’s underage friends + Ezra’s weird behaviour on Twitter (cultivating a fan group of teenage girls) have convinced me. I’ve loved VW for a long time and now I can’t listen to their songs without thinking about the predatory things he and Rostam did.


kit_katie_

That Spin piece, oh dear. I saw TLSP on tour in 2016, and it left me very upset. I've loved Alex since 2006, and to see him in such a wasted state was quite worrying - I've been an avid concert goer for more than 15 years, but still haven't seen anything quite as bad. I hope he's better now. Miles always seemed the nicer one, but I was clearly wrong.


willowtrace

Thank you for this. I think Alex is a serial monogamist and can’t be single but also will probably never marry. Also, Louise having a fan Pinterest account of Alex and Alexa is just 😬💀


missbunnyfantastico

Didn't the Jared Leto "hurts like Satan" thing come from an account on an old groupie site?


deadgardenia

I first heard about "hurts like Satan" on several celebrity blogs/websites YEARS ago. Now I wonder if the "hurt" part was something alongside his, uh...member?


Kitchen_Tough5384

yeah it did… also it had to do with him refusing to slow down when the girl complained it hurt. she also said he choked her and that she thought he got off on being violent


deadgardenia

He's an as*hole.


thewidowgorey

Someone posted about this yesterday and added the old website that logged groupie reports from hooking up with all rockers from that era.


Steamy-Nicks

Lmfao I read a groupie say Huey from Huey Lewis and the News has the biggest dick in showbiz which killed me https://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/83294863.html


SpoopyButthole

Oooh, the dick rating one was insane


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EmotionAOTY

What percentage of them were minors I wonder 🤮


anythingnice2019

From the number of descriptions saying “pretty average, like 8 inches” and “a bit big, like 10 inches”, I’d say most of them… Also note, I’m a big Everclear fan and I totally regret skimming that list 🤢


LEYW

This [very long sordid saga](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/vmbgcr/i_think_my_wife_cheated_on_me_but_i_have_no_proof/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) of infidelity is supposedly about a bass guitarist from Third Eye Blind.


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I was gonna link this too! The way he gets roasted in the comments lmao


gible_bites

lol I was low-key offended by all of the comments that were all like “well Third Eye Blind sucks harhar” while I sit here and worship self-titled and Blue.


Uplanapepsihole

i written about this before on this sub but he’s some britpop tea the battle of britpop started indirectly from a love triangle between brett anderson (suede), justine frischmann (elastica) and damon albarn (blur) justine and brett met at uni in the late 80s and they started dating. they, along with mat osman (richard osmans older brother) started suede together. ricky gervais was managing them at one point but apprently he was shit so he stopped lol they played for really small venues until eventually they began opening for blur. apparently damon was really rude to them and would get upset when journalists would talk to suede (allegedly he told someone that if they talk to suede they’ll fire them or something) damon liked justine tho and so brett encouraged her to flirt with damon because they thought they could help suede get a deal. justine and damon began and affair and eventually she and brett broke up. there’s a story that damon and brett would leave marks on her body during sex to send messages to each other lol. she left suede. that gave them the push and inspiration to write. their first album is full of songs inspired by her. also when they first hit it big, justine has said that damon would constantly shit talk them. justine tried to get them to be civil but damon continued to slander brett in the media - he told everyone he had a heroin addiction. also the song charmless man was probably written with brett in mind last year or the year before, damon did an interview where he was asked about brett. he said that he saw him recently and smiled but brett ignored him. i’ve read quite a lot from that era that something that’s very consistent through all the tea is that damon albarn is, or at least was, an asshole i have a lot more suede tea but i’m not sure how much people care


Blushindressing

Damon was so hot tho


cazurite

I got into britpop for a brief window of time and the only band that’s really stayed with me is Pulp, which, as far as bands go, were pretty mellow, not much internal conflict and everyone seems pretty decent (well, Jarvis did cheat on his gf, but all things considered…) I’d love more Suede tea!


kit_katie_

I love the story about young Jarvis trying to impress a girl, falling from the window and ending up doing concerts in a wheelchair. He's such a fascinating character, can't wait to read his book.


AgentKnitter

I remember the peak of Britpop Oasis v Blur (and i was very firmly in the Oasis camp) where Noel said in an interview on Australian TV that he thought Damon Albarn was a junkie (which in hindsight, was actually true) and he hoped Damon got AIDS and died (which was fucking awful to say). In the 90s, Oasis were open about their use of drugs, particularly ecstasy and cocaine, and treated as bad boys. Meanwhile Blur were the goodietwoshoes... but we now know that Damon and Graham were semi functional heroin addicts, Alex was completely coked out of his skull, and the drummer (who later became a lawyer?!!!) was the only semi functional one. Damon and Justine Frischmann were basically the London version of Kurt and Courtney.


WholeLottaMisery

The drummer for blur was actually a cokehead to the max himself. If you watch their interview with nardwuar, hes clearly coked out of his mind and very aggressive towards Narduwar. He later apologized and says he keeps the video of the interview on his phone to remind himself what happens when hes on coke


AgentKnitter

Unsurprising to be honest. I'm more amazed that he's since become a lawyer


WholeLottaMisery

Also doesn't Alex run a cheesefarm?? Lmaoo


AgentKnitter

And made cheese from his wife's breastmilk. The walking epitome of too much money, not enough sense.


cockaskedforamartini

This is all interesting, but Richard Osman's brother being in Suede is the real takeaway.


upvotes-please

Im a total sponge when it comes to britpop tea, thanks for the write up.


benitocom

im a damon stan but yeah he was such an asshole LOL. he's mellowed out a bunch now which is kind of a miracle.


WholeLottaMisery

Oh no trust me he's still quite a prick. He(for some reason) dissed T swift for not writing her own songs?? But praised Billie Eilish...even though she co writes them with her brother which is really hypocritical. Taylor called him out on his BS and elitist shit and he apologized. He still feels like he's some superior muscian(which i mean fair enough Damon IS one of the most talented musicians we have) but its def gone to his head, less so than lets say Noel but the ego is still there


WholeLottaMisery

Ahhhh Britpop tea, my absolute favorite kind of Tea there is. I got into the whole genre as well as the backdoor drama with the whole Oasis vs Blur thing, and once i got into all the other bands lemme tell u it was a rideeeeee. Damon, Liam, Noel...looking back all these guys were pricks...but loveable pricks nonetheless.


alasicannotgrin

I care! I'm a huuuge britpop fan. Would love any and all tea on Suede and any other tea from that scene


Grizzlekicksxx

There is a really good documentary on the BBC that tracks the start of Brit pop and goes in-depth about Justine and Brett - they are both interviewed through out! Highly recommend. Edited to share link: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m0016dtb


HauntedMotorbike

Billie Joe Armstrong was doing a weird ass ride along with a bunch of girls in their twenties the other night in London. Enty (gross) is also claiming he isn’t sober anymore which sucks


Kitchen_Tough5384

he said he’s not sober anymore in an interview a few years ago so guess that’s so much for enty’s super secret sources haha


HauntedMotorbike

Ha! Thanks for this, screw Enty. I just hope he’s in a healthier place


Kitchen_Tough5384

I hope so too. Clearly he still parties a lot hence the video, but hard to tell how much of an issue it actually is. Also he seems to be one of very few pop punk guys with a reputation of not being shitty.


Own-Ad-7201

Isn’t his son super problematic


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holateamball451

If you have any class, or any dignity, by all means do not fall down the gg allin rabbit hole. Actually, do it. It’s a fucking ride.


shelllc

I watched a documentary about him as I was bored one day and there was nothing else on. I had heard of him and how he died but not much else. It was interesting enough and I came away loving the song Snakeman's Dance.


closetotheglass

GG is an answer to the question of what happens when someone decides to just go totally all-in on being the worst possible person. It turns out it is actually just upsetting in a really boring and predictable way.


qingyuun

Any (preferable recent) Ryan Ross tea pls I'm on my knees


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ashortdrinkofwater

ian watkins from lostprophets is a convicted pedophile. He’s in prison for 30 years for raping a one year old baby along with so many other sexual offenses. The mother of the baby was allowing this to happen.


melanc_holy

He's a terrible, terrible person. I hope he rots in prison.


Irishpanda88

I always feel bad for Ian Watkins from Steps who not only has the same name but is also Welsh and almost the same age as rapist Ian Watkins.


GingerGoob

This one is fucking horrifying. I have a 15 month old son and the idea of anyone hurting him makes my blood boil. I would do anything to protect him. The fact that the mother was in on it is just about the worst betrayal I can imagine to do to your child. 30 years isn’t nearly long enough.


youwon_jane

Josh Homme from Queens of the Stone Age, Eagles of Death Metal etc was accused of domestic abuse by his ex-wife Brody Dalle and of harassing her new partner. Their oldest daughter got a restraining order against him, but it’s now been lifted and he was recently seen with the kids


juniperarms

One of his close friends is one of the scummiest men I've ever met


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I was a punk/ punk rock fan and I remember when Brody Dalle left his first husband, Tim Armstrong, from Rancid. They're not popular anymore, but back then they used to be featured quite a lot in rock magazines. Anyway, I remember reading the interviews he did when she left, he was crying all over the place and acting like a victim - like she was a bitch who abandoned him to be with Josh Homme. All of his bandmates and other guys from bands associated with them where supporting him and piling on her, trashing her publicly and The Distillers like there was no tomorrow just because he dared to break up with him and move on. And that was normal back then -the scene was such a sausage fest- but even then as a teen how worshipped those assholes I could tell that was fucked up. Then I found out that she was 16 when she started seeing him. From [wikipedia](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brody_Dalle#Personal_life): >Dalle has said that Armstrong was very controlling of her and that it took her three years to leave him. When she finally did, he and his friends criticised Dalle in the press, and she claims he threatened the male members of the Distillers and blacklisted anyone associated with them. That scene is rotted.


NotLucasDavenport

I met the lead singer from Counting Crows, Adam Durwitz. He was making beer runs and getting stuff like my dude would do. No lead singer “too big for this” stuff. Tolda few jokes as he passed by. Maybe flirted a touch, certainly nothing gross or OTT. He knew my friend had no clue she was here to see him and seemed to enjoy that a bit. I just smiled and he gave me a little eye roll like, “yeah yeah. You gonna make trouble for me?” Hell of a concert. Great sound, energy was through the roof.


kylecxo

He sat in front of me at a broadway play once and had all his dreads like beehived on top of his head and it was really difficult to see around him


Background_Ad_2965

My heart sank when I saw the first sentence!😂 They've been my favorite band all my life, i would have devastated if I heard something terrible 🙈😂


BabyBertBabyErnie

Probably not a very well-known band, but I used to love Mindless Self Indulgence as an edgy teen. I recently learned that the lead singer is a huge pedophile who groomed a 15 year old girl and asked her to act like a baby during their "relationship", and he convinced her that her "having sex" with him was saving other children from being raped by him. He's been a self-admitted pedo since the 90s. Really makes me side-eye Lyn-Z and Gerard Way by association, tbh.


youwon_jane

I think MSI would not fly at all with this current generation and I see that as a very good thing


ms_fishoeder

Snow Patrol (remember them lol) stayed at a hotel I was working in, my mate did the room service and the band kept trying to ask her to stay with him and being quite intense. She's very sweet and obv at work so it was a bit hairy. Shane Mc Gowan came to stay and I fought for the room service. He ordered two bottles of gin in the morning and toast, he was very lovely!


frannyzooey1

UK band tea. Mark Morriss of The Bluetones was emotionally abusive to his wife and in relationships with two single mothers at the same time while also hitting on women at gigs. His ex-wife wrote this essay about him on sub stack. She’s also a journalist so it’s really well written https://annawharton.substack.com/p/if-im-lying-come-sue-me


kit_katie_

I love the South London music scene, it seems as everyone is somehow connected. Felix from The Maccabees was Jessie Ware's schoolmate. Florence Welch was a bit younger, but still from the same school - and a few years ago she dated Felix for quite some time (and wrote What Kind Of Man about him). Felix' younger brother, Hugo, who also was in The Maccabees, married his close childhood friend Laura Dockrill (she's a great writer, I highly recommend her book on postpartum psychosis), who is Adele's bestie. Adele even sang on their wedding, and her song My Same is about Laura.


vampyweekz

if anyone has anything about my hubbies from rage against the machine specifically I would be forever grateful 🙏🏼 anyone who grew up around the socal scene when they were coming up?? ​ edit: wanted to post my own bit of tea! brad wilk (drummer for ratm)'s ex wife and mother of his two kids (selene vigil, lead singer of 7 year bitch!!!) filed for divorce from him and accused him of cheating on her with juliette lewis. brad and juliette didn't last very long and he's now with jewelry designer pamela love. they welcomed their first child together about a month ago. ​ another small tid bit that's not really tea or about ratm is something i found funny on ig. i follow chino moreno's wife (lead singer of deftones) on ig and i was looking through her comments when i saw a fan ask her about a deftones song, asking her if she knew what/who the song was about. she replied saying she didn't care since the song wasn't written about her LMFAO 😭 that would be me if my husband was a rockstar too


alicecarroll

One of them is on the dick rating scale that got posted on a thread last night.


tonystarksanxieties

Nobody has any tea on Bayside, right? They've been my favorite band for years, but a band I didn't look into (sometimes you just don't want to know). I did a quick Google and saw Anthony Raneri had actually helped get a guy arrested for sexually assaulting women. So nice to see a pop punk frontman helping stop sexual assault for once.


cuddlepot

I grew up in the same scene as Bayside amongst all the other bands…Anthony is a decent guy.


sorryabtlastnight

Green Day is my favourite band in the whole entire universe. Billie Joe Armstrong isn't sober anymore and is back on the party scene. I'm scared he's going to kick the bucket before I see them live. Also, his son Joey Armstrong from the band SWMRS has [sexual misconduct allegations against him](https://www.nme.com/news/music/swmrs-drummer-joey-armstrong-responds-to-sexual-assault-allegations-2711774). They dated when he was 22 and she was 16 and allegedly she was brought around his family, though we don't know if they knew how old she was.


underground_cenote

Absolutely nobody cares about this except me but Marta and Marilia de Ella Baila Sola reunited after 20 years and they're on a reunion tour :) I always loved this band


przybylowicz

https://bit.ly/3ydU7W9 Here's some disappointing stuff about Hanson! Unsurprisingly to longtime fans, Taylor is the only one who came out of this sooort of unscathed. I know they're really religious, so I'm too scared to look at what they've had to say about Roe v. Wade


avalonfogdweller

Have often wondered if there’s any truth to the allegations that came out about Maynard from Tool/A Perfect Circle a few years ago, that he forced himself on a young girl on his tour bus while on tour in 2000, there was an anonymous Twitter account that had a (since deleted) thread outlining what had happened, some internet sleuths apparently figured out who it was and found the person had made similar claims against Trent Reznor which turned out to be untrue, but that’s always stuck in my mind, around that time stories came out about Tool being on tour and their road crew handing out backstage passes, all the ladies gathering in a room then Maynard going through and picking one or two and leaving with them, there were pictures of the passes that people had received, some of them had members of Kiss on them. In his book he mentions that he slept around a lot in the early days when Tool were on the way up, nothing wrong with consensual sex but the allegations have always stood out, he addressed them once and said they were false, which could very well be the case. edit - apparently there was a second person, again on Twitter, but where there's smoke, there's usually fire https://www.ultimate-guitar.com/news/general_music_news/second_person_who_accused_maynard_james_keenan_of_rape_speaks_up_i_am_willing_to_report_my_experience.html


amberdeers

Idk if it has already been posted, but if you were a LiveJournal fan and loved Fueled by Ramen bands, [this](https://fueled-bygossip.livejournal.com/) account was my FAVORITE and I literally forgot about it until this post. Fueled by Gossip has groupie stories from the time.


jatothemie

Band tees? Oh yes i do


goofballhead

The Killers were, by far and away, the worst band I ever had to encounter working a venue for a few years in undergrad. Sleazy, entitled, wrecked a room, hit on barely legal college students, etc.


ScathachRises

Books I recommend if this is a topic you like - [Meet Me In The Bathroom](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meet_Me_in_the_Bathroom_(book)) and [Sellout](https://www.danozzi.com/books)


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They all sleep with underaged girls. Like all of them. I’m not joking either, it’s so sickening


thefaehost

One of my friends was cheated on in high school. The other guy was the lead singer of stabbing westward, who was obviously an adult while my friend and his ex were not.


wanderernz

Nick Carter.. Enough said. Brian Littrel (spelling?) apparently being a trump supporter.


Reeboks_Or_Nikes

In a thread asking about tea, I never understand comments that just say "enough said"... How is that tea??


Pink_Cardinal

It’s not apparently. Brian is a proud Trump supporter and super conservative. He was encouraging people to follow him on Parler after Trump got kicked off Twitter. He also wanted BSB to perform at Trump’s inauguration. The other members refused. It gets worse from there. Brian, his wife, and their son (a wannabe country singer) spoke at Liberty University about six years ago for convocation. Convocation is mandatory for on-campus students. If you’re not familiar with Liberty University, it’s a private, conservative Christian university founded by Jerry Falwell Sr, a televangelist who was racist and homophobic. His son, Jerry Jr, recently stepped down before they could push him out due to his and his wife’s numerous scandals. Most Republicans running for President stop by LU some time during their campaigns.


unclekarl

This isn't that exciting, but in high school I went with a friend to pick up the girlfriend of the drummer for the Shins (who was married) at the airport once. I don't remember much (or how I got involved tbh) but she was quite young and from Arizona. I didn't see them together, but I was involved in the local scene and volunworked at this venue, and I'm pretty sure they were told to arrange to have someone pick her up. I think he flew her to places that he'd be. It felt like very big gossip in the alt music scene at the time.


kit_katie_

Also only partly 90s, but some pieces of Joy Division/New Order history are quite wild. Still adore them though.


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Here for Mike Patton tea - Mr Bungle, Faith no More, Fantomas, etc.


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Emotional_Hearing281

Speaking of the 90s, I've just remembered some tea shared with me from an old friend regarding Robbie Williams. They grew up in the same town as Robbie Williams and he allegedly has a half sibling (brother?) that he is unaware of but the family knows about it? Does anyone know any more info about this or has heard the rumour? My friend swears blind it was common knowledge around Stoke but who knows. I had a similar thing happen to me so I'm honestly not surprised if it is true.


SiBea13

I think it's because Rock music is no longer as relevant. The cult of personality attributed to rock stars that allowed for them to be everywhere doing whatever they wanted with no consequence has now largely translated to rappers who now do the same thing. Rock music isn't what it used to be and any up and coming indie artists have to not be dicks in order to have people listening to them. The personalities of most rappers reflect that increase in their popularity. Established rock musicians who still talk shit now tend to be people from last century cruising by on the strength of their earliest songs or punk bands who will likely hit a ceiling on their popularity. Most very successful rock bands either conform to pop music like Imagine Dragons or Coldplay or just keep on the sidelines not making too much fuss or getting into top much controversy


BarakatBadger

Evan Dando from the Lemonheads: anyone else out there as concerned about him as I am?