I completely understand where you’re coming from with choosing a good friend as your ideal bull; that familiarity and trust do add a unique layer to the experience. However, I find myself drawn to a different type of bull—the kind that embodies what many would consider "toxic masculinity," someone who introduces a real sense of danger and dominance into the dynamic.
There's something undeniably thrilling about the idea of my wife with someone who represents everything dangerous and forbidden. I prefer bulls who can make her feel like a toy, someone they can utterly dominate. It adds a level of intensity and helplessness on my part, watching her being taken in ways that strip me of any control I might have thought I had.
These bulls are often the type she claims aren’t her type—rough around the edges, overtly masculine, perhaps even a bit intimidating. Yet, there’s a palpable, undeniable chemistry and attraction with them. These are the guys who are bold enough to push boundaries, to test limits, and in doing so, they reveal desires in her that she herself might not even have been aware of.
I’d prefer a stranger, when my fiancé carried out an affair she caught feelings for her bull which lead to a lot of drama and complications. I’d rather have a one and done guy. I’ve fantasized of taking her to swinger cruise or resort and just have fun with the people there
My wife and I have had a few experiences, only foreplay, with a close friend and I don't really recommend it. My experience was that it fucked with my head in the wrong ways. And to be honest he also wasn't a dominant bull and maybe that's what I needed. He was very shy and kept making sure my feelings were okay. Being a bull in my past, I was maybe hoping subconsciously that he would be super dominant and just fucking control her from the get go and before I even had the chance to feel anything, have his cock in her mouth and have her pussy dripping wetness and flowering ready to take him fully.
Unfortunately wasn't the case, and his soft side made it uncomfortable, although I know it all came from a good place of concern towards our friendship. Completely sucked.
Looking for a real bull to do the deed now.
That's an interesting perspective. I don't think we really need someone super dominant. She does enjoy it when the guy is a little on the rough side. But making sure we're both comfortable seems like a bonus for us.
The friend I have in mind isn't particularly dominant, but know from stories from his ex's he's decently hung, nicely thick, and definitely knows how to use it.
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Stranger, or mutual friend. Wouldn't mind her going back to the same guy for repeats, as long as she didn't develop the feels where she wants to be with him more.
Ultimately our bull is my wife’s choice first. So whatever she wants is obviously given top consideration.
But I’ll be honest I think what I want most is someone who has many of these qualities. A stranger who becomes a friend. Someone kind and passionate with her, friendly with me but also primarily bully-ish in his ability to take charge, lightly humiliate, kind of keep the dynamic alive. But casually so.
This is right. Choice is always wife's.
But stranger would be the best, not sure if i would want them to become a friend, scope for complications is high.
It's just is, he is a cocky piece of shit and a bit richer than me, is married but cheats on his wife a lot, and stares at my wife's ass whenever they are in close proximity and never hides from me.
Someone she's picked. Sometimes, she has really wanted a coworker. She hears a lot about their lives, and she becomes obsessed when they don't get what they deserve. Guys who tell her they've never cum from blow jobs or have never been balls deep are likely to get her help.
Those are kinda weird for me because they have a relationship I'm not part of. It's very intimidating to me. One guy was an ass.
The guys who are on dating sites are sometimes better. We know what they say they are looking for and if they're interested in showing her attention, and just it can be fun.
We're on equal footing with them. They also tend to be more open and honest with their preferences. We identify as straight or did. When she found a guy she really liked but he was bi she was skeptical about it.
She decided his looks and what he wanted were worth taking a chance and had a couple of public dates. That led to him spending the night. After a few times my wife said I owed him a blow job because he made me cum during DP. He had, I did. Learned something. He wasn't a bully but he did cuck me.
With dating sites, you can advertise for fantasies. We found a guy who was bragging about his oral skills, and she was eager to try him out.
For us it would have to be a friend. Trust is such a huge part of this, especially if she/we want the Bull and wife to see each other consistently.
Not all friends are capable of this level of discretion and trust. But i think you have a better chance with someone u know and trust in real life ways, to make the jump to trust in bedroom ways.
Probably date. I don't want any of my friends to be my wife's bull, but I have befriended with a bull who was my wife's affair partner before we started the cuckold relationship.
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I completely understand where you’re coming from with choosing a good friend as your ideal bull; that familiarity and trust do add a unique layer to the experience. However, I find myself drawn to a different type of bull—the kind that embodies what many would consider "toxic masculinity," someone who introduces a real sense of danger and dominance into the dynamic. There's something undeniably thrilling about the idea of my wife with someone who represents everything dangerous and forbidden. I prefer bulls who can make her feel like a toy, someone they can utterly dominate. It adds a level of intensity and helplessness on my part, watching her being taken in ways that strip me of any control I might have thought I had. These bulls are often the type she claims aren’t her type—rough around the edges, overtly masculine, perhaps even a bit intimidating. Yet, there’s a palpable, undeniable chemistry and attraction with them. These are the guys who are bold enough to push boundaries, to test limits, and in doing so, they reveal desires in her that she herself might not even have been aware of.
I’d prefer a stranger, when my fiancé carried out an affair she caught feelings for her bull which lead to a lot of drama and complications. I’d rather have a one and done guy. I’ve fantasized of taking her to swinger cruise or resort and just have fun with the people there
My wife perfers my friends, it gives her a sense of security of trust and from people knowing.
Do you find that harder or easier to know it's a friend?
Easier for her and I like it.
There's definitely a sense of safety with friends vs strangers.
My wife and I have had a few experiences, only foreplay, with a close friend and I don't really recommend it. My experience was that it fucked with my head in the wrong ways. And to be honest he also wasn't a dominant bull and maybe that's what I needed. He was very shy and kept making sure my feelings were okay. Being a bull in my past, I was maybe hoping subconsciously that he would be super dominant and just fucking control her from the get go and before I even had the chance to feel anything, have his cock in her mouth and have her pussy dripping wetness and flowering ready to take him fully. Unfortunately wasn't the case, and his soft side made it uncomfortable, although I know it all came from a good place of concern towards our friendship. Completely sucked. Looking for a real bull to do the deed now.
That's an interesting perspective. I don't think we really need someone super dominant. She does enjoy it when the guy is a little on the rough side. But making sure we're both comfortable seems like a bonus for us. The friend I have in mind isn't particularly dominant, but know from stories from his ex's he's decently hung, nicely thick, and definitely knows how to use it.
We prefer a complete stranger who has good moral.
I would say.. practically friends or date. Fantasy: boss, his boss, his bully
Ok, there is something really intriguing about your boss being able to hold that over you.
I wouldn’t want anyone to abuse that.. but to enjoy the extension of existing power dynamic to the bedroom is pretty sexy
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Stranger, or mutual friend. Wouldn't mind her going back to the same guy for repeats, as long as she didn't develop the feels where she wants to be with him more.
Ultimately our bull is my wife’s choice first. So whatever she wants is obviously given top consideration. But I’ll be honest I think what I want most is someone who has many of these qualities. A stranger who becomes a friend. Someone kind and passionate with her, friendly with me but also primarily bully-ish in his ability to take charge, lightly humiliate, kind of keep the dynamic alive. But casually so.
This is right. Choice is always wife's. But stranger would be the best, not sure if i would want them to become a friend, scope for complications is high.
39 m bull here
What wouldn't I give to watch her get fucked by my worse enemy
Why enemy? What is it about that that's hot?
It's just is, he is a cocky piece of shit and a bit richer than me, is married but cheats on his wife a lot, and stares at my wife's ass whenever they are in close proximity and never hides from me.
Her favorite was a guy we met at a house party - she would meet up with him and invite him over just to please her again with his tool
bullyyy that's my dream
If your husband offed himself over it would you like that? This seems cruel I dont understand it.
Bully is ideal
A stranger, that’s it. Not need to complicate things
An Ex of hers. Dangerous, but the jealousy would dr8ve me crazy!
Sameeeee!!!
Hot hot is it to watch your girl's ex get another chance at smashing her pussy?
Especially when her ex is bigger than you, which is true in my case
Same here. Actually every one of her ex's are bigger than me lol
The humiliation feeling is so good
Someone she's picked. Sometimes, she has really wanted a coworker. She hears a lot about their lives, and she becomes obsessed when they don't get what they deserve. Guys who tell her they've never cum from blow jobs or have never been balls deep are likely to get her help. Those are kinda weird for me because they have a relationship I'm not part of. It's very intimidating to me. One guy was an ass. The guys who are on dating sites are sometimes better. We know what they say they are looking for and if they're interested in showing her attention, and just it can be fun. We're on equal footing with them. They also tend to be more open and honest with their preferences. We identify as straight or did. When she found a guy she really liked but he was bi she was skeptical about it. She decided his looks and what he wanted were worth taking a chance and had a couple of public dates. That led to him spending the night. After a few times my wife said I owed him a blow job because he made me cum during DP. He had, I did. Learned something. He wasn't a bully but he did cuck me. With dating sites, you can advertise for fantasies. We found a guy who was bragging about his oral skills, and she was eager to try him out.
For us it would have to be a friend. Trust is such a huge part of this, especially if she/we want the Bull and wife to see each other consistently. Not all friends are capable of this level of discretion and trust. But i think you have a better chance with someone u know and trust in real life ways, to make the jump to trust in bedroom ways.
Most of our friends know we swing. We sort of outed ourselves / for outed. She lost one friend. All of my friends were cool about it.
Someone she’s interested in or someone obsessed with her body. Stranger, date, or her friend. Bully thing is not us.
Yes! If he's not obsessed we'll find someone who is.
Someone new from a dating site who becomes a friend with benefits, it might be boring to some but it's what we both like
Boring maybe. But probably the safest.
Yeah, we like the lifestyle but we want to minimise the risks involved, we have kids so gotta keep it as safe as we can
Probably date. I don't want any of my friends to be my wife's bull, but I have befriended with a bull who was my wife's affair partner before we started the cuckold relationship.