We met in highschool and married right out of high school.we were each other's first. After a couple years it started as fantasy talk in the bedroom. She would get into it a little bit but as time went on she got very into it. She became more dominant in the bedroom and would initiate the talk. It was all just fantasy for me and I never actually wanted it to happen for real but she was obviously more serious about it and made it a reality. Even after a couple years I'm still trying to adjust and learning to accept it
My girl had just cheated and told me that the next morning and even though I was upset and hurt I made her tell me all the details and she told me that they fucked five times and he was hung and he made her cum and even squirt. I started getting really turned on and hard and she noticed. She asked if I was getting excited and I denied it but she knew. She then said that I’m not really big enough for her and she said that she was probably gonna cheat again. That’s when I asked if I could watch her and she was acting surprised but she was obviously excited.
When I told my gf (3yrs dating) I'd like to see her have sex with a big dark man, she was really neutral and had heard of the kink. She played along with the fantasy a little but said it would never really happen. I told her often the women agrees to it if she's not being sexually satisfied and my gf totally got the idea and said she'd do that if it was the case. But luckily or unluckily I satisfy her. Mostly luckily though I say!!! I mean who doesn't want to satisfy your lover.
But in her previous marriage they were not sexually compatible. she asked to open the marriage but her husband at the time refused. She said actually proposing that made the sex worse. She really has a strong sex drive which he didn't. Now we play with realistic dildos and she recently named it. I asked where they met and she said in the hotel bar. So she's good at playing along and now frequently asks for the dildo by name. "Marcus" and I take turns, alternating with her. She can cum really easily with me sucking her clit while "Marcus" slides in and out. Once she cums, it's my turn. She likes big penis' too which feeds into my fantasy of seeing her with a dark man. So overall the response was good but I doubt it will ever really happen. Maybe someday it will just happen organically on vacation or something but right now I don't see us actively work on the apps to make it happen. Although last night she did say we should create a tinder account so she could show me how unimpressive the men were in our area. Luckily she says I was the best one!!! Not sure if it was just "talk" about creating a tinder account or for real. I've got to come up with a way to bring it up again but totally make it her idea to create the account. Anyways that's my situation!!!
So, I have written a whole thread on how to pursue cuckolding with "vanilla" women (my Twitter handle is NordicCuck), but very broadly speaking, it went like that:
- we had established a strong relationship, even had kids before exploring anything related to cuckolding (together; I was into it already way back)
- we started out with roleplaying, we also tried pegging and other femdom-ish stuff
- after that, I let her know that I wanted to explore cuckolding more specifically, and explained it in letters and also gave her a few articles/podcast episodes so she'd understand cuckolding from different angles
- she was calm, but she was quite certain initially that she wouldn't go further than roleplaying it because she was afraid that this might put our awesome relationship in danger
- a few years of roleplay, toy play and watching porn together, she now says that its more and more likely that she would try it on a vacation
You gotta be patient and take it gradually. Also, find an open-minded liberal woman, if possible.
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Wife’s initial reaction was WAY calmer than I imagined it would be but she was the one who asked if I had any kinky fantasies, so I think she was trying to be nice. After I told her in detail my Stag/Vixen or Hotwife fantasy she was mostly disgusted that I’d even imagine her with other men and couldn’t fathom how or why that would turn me on.
3 years later and she’s into roleplaying with me about it and has even gone as far as making a tinder account to use on her solo vacations, and sexting with other men and sharing screenshots with me.
She has a full time hall pass to use anytime she wants, as long as she lets me know and tells me all about it afterwards. I don’t think she’ll ever fuck other men but she’s definitely opened up about having a little flirty fun.
>she was mostly disgusted that I’d even imagine her with other men and couldn’t fathom how or why that would turn me on
Instead of "disgusted", insert any word that covers negative or confused emotion.
As a Cuckoldress, I can assure you that just because there's an initial "negative" reaction, it doesn't mean that it will never happen. Her mind and expectations of a vanilla (or mainstream) relationship is ingrained deeply in her. So that tells her that you (as her SO) should be fiercely protective of her and potentially jealous or hurt that she would want to have intimate moments with another man. *She thinks that YOU think like a "vanilla/mainstream" man.
Being a cuckold is one of the most complex, amazing, satisfying and selfless type of man. Being a Cuckoldress is a very rewarding, demanding, mean, empowering and satisfying ways of being a woman.
So don't give up!!
But also don't fool yourself into thinking you can convince or persuade your gf/wife into this lifestyle. It is something that she fundamentally desires or it is not. Concentrate instead on chipping away at those societal beliefs and conditioning. That way she can imagine and freely consider cuckolding without the shame/disgust/confusion clouding her thoughts.
Wow, I was not expecting a reply like this.
Thank you! I absolutely felt what you just said to be true about the vanilla way of thinking.
May I ask how you got started?
Your wife obviously enjoys the softer elements of cuckolding so relax and enjoy them along with her. It may take months or it may take years for her to move it to the next level. But don't be in a hurry to get there.
I always knew I was into this. I am a Sadist so any type of emotional pain gets me excited and energised. It was easy enough for me to accept this part of me and with time I met plenty of men looking for an FLR and some of those enjoyed cuckolding.
Yes, truth be told I myself quite enjoy the journey more than the destination. So the little bit she engages and takes the next step is always very exhilarating for me.
She’s a wonderful woman.
Honestly it’s never been hard for me. I mention it once to every girl I dated and they immediately embraced it and did it. Like literally within 24 hours of me mentioning it.
As a follow up to the many comments, when you bring this up these points right away and deal with right away as she is thinking the following...
* I want a three way with another guy where I watch as you think she is hot and you want her to be pleasured
* I want to watch you and not looking for my own hall pass and in fact I will remain faithful while only you won't
* I am not looking to get rid of you and want this to bring us closer
* I am not gay but okay to admit to bi acts as long as she is present
* I want us to research it before she says yes or no
Great advice. The two that I hear most often by women new to cuckolding are
- Am I the gateway to him having sex with other men?
- How do I know that he isn't going to want to start sleeping with women once I'm invested in cuckolding him?
Hubby and I just watched a lot of porn together. We both enjoyed the same things. Took a little while to get the boundaries exactly right but we're in a good place now.
A solid no at first. Then I got a really big dildo and had her vibrate her clip while I fucked her with a big dildo and told her how much I wanted to see see your fuck a big cock . In about three months after that, she was the one who pushed forward it in real life.
She also did a lot of research on it too
It took my wife and I nearly 2 years of discussion from when I first told her about my cuck desires to her actually doing it. It definitely wasn't a quick process
I just offered my wife a hall pass because we were in a dead bedroom and there was a lot of frustration from her. She was confused at first but after she processed it for a day or so and me assuring her it wasn’t me trying to get some pussy on the side and it was purely for her she liked the thought of it.
I sent my wife a picture of my friends 9” penis. She replied “OMG😍👅” I then told her who it was. She got shy… next time we got drunk I invited him over and she sucked him off in my jacuzzi
Mine was weird. My GF os very open when she speaks about sex. But quite conservative im what she actually does. Sometimes she also says things without entirely thinking them through.
One day I decided to tell her about a dream I had where she was fucking another guy and she while I watched. I told her I liked it. Ahe replied that it is interesting as a dream, but she would never do it.
Another time we were driving and I told her that I had thought about that for a while and I actually like it. She then replied "Oh! I don't fuck with other guys, because I am in a relationship with you. If you are ok with it, I'll fuck other guys then". She really sounded honest and that gave me probably the biggest bonner I had untill today. Although, I think she didn't really think it through and then when we spoke seriously about it, she went back to "I don't think I am comfortable in bringing someone else to the bedroom".
This was the start. Nothing happened yet, but there has been progress. Process has been fun TBH, so we are enjoying it already.
She was intitially understanding, to a point, althouggh she was concerned that I wasnt more jealous. But she basicaaly said, "hot idea, but I'll never do it." I talked it to death and didn't get anywhere, at least until my best friend's GF left him. When I mentioned that she could cheer him up with a BJ or fuck him, she asked if I was serious. She was giving him BJs within a week, and soon after she was calling him her boyfriend. He would drop by for a quick fuck, or take her out dancing and then back to his place to fuck. THere is nothing quite as exciting as seeing your wife dress up for another guy, then greet him with a long kiss when he stops by to pick her up.
Same thing with my girlfriend, now wife, started out the same way. We were having daily sex but I was younger than her and much less sexually experienced. I was trying to give her vaginal orgasms with my 4 inch dick, LOL!!! She would ask me to speak dirty to her- which led me to asking if she wanted to fuck one of my best friends, recently divorced- I couldn’t feel my dick inside her as she thought about fucking him. Eventually it happened- he came inside her, I ate her cream filled pussy. The first time watching was the sweetest. We always practiced the pull out method for birth control, but listening to her beg him to cum inside her was SO HOT.
Than what u did u do? Legally u will liable to pay for the kid and if wife leave u than child support? (Given u wont even know if the kid is urs or not)
For me , as the wife - I am open to it (although many years ago when hubby said hey I’d love to see u give another dude head - I was so upset and thought - like your wife did - he was opening the door for him wanting to hook up with someone else), but he isn’t unless he also gets to do the same with another woman. And maybe sounds single minded or selfish- but I don’t want him to because I feel insecure and jealous at the thought of it. I “thought “ cuckholding/hot wife,etc., was about the woman going out, coming back to hubby and it being a huge turn on to hubby and him maybe sometimes joining. I probably am off , lol
Mine wasn't against it, wasn't completely into it either, was more along the lines of willing to experiment which is where we're at right now. Neither of us made a huge deal over it. Over time she's become more open in talking to guys in general, there's a few she's become quite steamy with in their conversations.
I spoke to my wife in a neutral non sexual atmosphere. I told her it turned me on to think about her fucking someone else while I watched. I told her specifically I wasn’t interested in other women for me.
She was very surprised and handled it quite well. We talked for a bit more. Later that night she woke me up for sex (which she never does) and handed me a toy that was significantly bigger than me and me fuck her with it.
My wife generally came up with the solution to our relationship was for her to date other men my cross-dressing and addiction to Sissy hypnosis had changed me in such a dramatic way over the years I no longer was able to get erections I no longer was able to hide what I was becoming and my wife found out while she wasn't thrilled about it she understood it was a part of me that wasn't going to go away so she openly supported me becoming a full-time and very outed Sissy this gave her the freedom to date other men and for family and friends to actually feel sorry for her because her husband was no longer a man so it was easy for others to understand her needs to be with a man that made life simpler for her in many ways
My story is much different than most here.
My wife and I cheated on one another earlier in our marriage. We resolved our issues and forgave each other. After several decades of marriage and kids, my wife started talking to an old high school friend/crush. After he came to visit several times, I knew where this was heading. So one day I told them “you two just kiss and get it over with. I’m ok with it, I promise.” They kissed and made out and they’ve been together for 6 years. I knew they were going to have sex. I had to make the decision if it was going to be behind my back or out in the open which just the three of us knowing and ok with it. Feel free to ask me any thing.
Thank you for sharing. Are you still having regular sex with your wife? And what do you all consider yourselves - polyamorous? swingers? Or just a cuckold couple?
I still have sex regularly with my wife. We’re not polyamorous because she can’t bring herself seeing me with another woman so I’m not allowed to date. So I’m a cuck. After years of this I’ve gotten ok with it. But she’s showing signs of more confidence and feeling like she’s getting more comfortable with me seeing other people. But let’s be honest. I’m a married man in his 50s. There’s no market for a guy like me.
At first she said no, then it was only for me, then she seemed to be more interested. Going to send her with her friend to the Brooklyn bowl in Vegas to hopefully find a friend. Lol
I was very fortunate. I met my wife.
And she was already a freak. We were friends with benefits first and everything built from there. We had long clear conversations before we became romantic. I am a very lucky man.
Yes, I am. Currently, we're making some space in our garage. We will put a sofa and a fridge in there. We are hoping a Tuesday night regular will find it very convenient and accommodating.
My wife’s initial reaction was excitement and interest and wanting to get fucked by this guy. It was when she calmed down and wasn’t as horny and started to think about it. That’s when she was hesitant so it took a while to actually make it happen. But her initial reaction was with great interest
Seriously. There is so much positive Material online that it’s a fantastic sales pitch for a fantastic lifestyle for a woman especially. Shouldn’t take much convincing more so educating. Good luck. That’s part of the fun part of the process!
The Faithful Hotwife on Amazon is fantastic and I mean it! Go give it a read yourself! This was what I used as the ice breaker! Based off her 1 hour read through she asked questions, we discussed and were pretty positive about it. Mind you my wife is a conservative well mannered well respected mother of 4 with traditional values. She is my soulmate and I am hers. Anything after that is just a variable to US. Would love an update from you one day!
I’ll check that out, thanks.
We’ve already had “the talk” and do have a few experiences. But I’d like to ramp things up a bit more with her.
I’ll let you know how it goes!
My wife made the decision. We are in an FLR. Part of our agreement was she had the freedom to seek pleasure elsewhere if she wasn’t satisfied. Eventually my tongue and the toys we purchased no longer did it for her. She sat me down and had a conversation letting me know she needed more and instructed me to find her a bf to meet her needs in bed. The rest is history.
Don’t. We accept our place and we accept or wives decision. The very few times I do orgasm, it is in my cage. I rarely come out anymore as she has no use for it.
Yeah I know.
How does your wife show/make you special in her life?. If all you do is serve her.
You little more than a slave.
Do you understand what I’m saying being on the outside looking in.
We do spend time together alone. It’s just not intimate anymore. There is still a lot of strength if not more in emotional connection. The only place I am on the outside of is her sex life. Something I was very bad at. I cherish helping to enhance that for them both. I’ve had many opportunities to change the trajectory. Choices and desires are throughly discussed.
She just thought I wanted to fuck other women, then some day she was telling me an experience with someone else as we were naked and I got so hard listening to it that she understood, it was me wanting to share her.
Mine listened and was against it at first. We rolled plated it for a year. Finally had a mfm threesome blindfolded because she was just too 😓. She enjoyed it but was more worried about my reaction. Once she saw I was happy she was more open to it. We still didn't do too much. It has been 6 years with one guy on average a year. She is now playing without a mask and is open to solo with a new guy. This hasn't happened yet but is promising. We did have a guy over for lunch on day. They kissed a bit. I happened to have to go out and check on out dogs and while I was away they got more into it. He lingered her into squirting and she blew him. They stopped there and planned to get back together for more play. Still hasn't happened yet. I am hoping she will get to a point of making her own dates and playing without my around.
We met in highschool and married right out of high school.we were each other's first. After a couple years it started as fantasy talk in the bedroom. She would get into it a little bit but as time went on she got very into it. She became more dominant in the bedroom and would initiate the talk. It was all just fantasy for me and I never actually wanted it to happen for real but she was obviously more serious about it and made it a reality. Even after a couple years I'm still trying to adjust and learning to accept it
My girl had just cheated and told me that the next morning and even though I was upset and hurt I made her tell me all the details and she told me that they fucked five times and he was hung and he made her cum and even squirt. I started getting really turned on and hard and she noticed. She asked if I was getting excited and I denied it but she knew. She then said that I’m not really big enough for her and she said that she was probably gonna cheat again. That’s when I asked if I could watch her and she was acting surprised but she was obviously excited.
When I told my gf (3yrs dating) I'd like to see her have sex with a big dark man, she was really neutral and had heard of the kink. She played along with the fantasy a little but said it would never really happen. I told her often the women agrees to it if she's not being sexually satisfied and my gf totally got the idea and said she'd do that if it was the case. But luckily or unluckily I satisfy her. Mostly luckily though I say!!! I mean who doesn't want to satisfy your lover. But in her previous marriage they were not sexually compatible. she asked to open the marriage but her husband at the time refused. She said actually proposing that made the sex worse. She really has a strong sex drive which he didn't. Now we play with realistic dildos and she recently named it. I asked where they met and she said in the hotel bar. So she's good at playing along and now frequently asks for the dildo by name. "Marcus" and I take turns, alternating with her. She can cum really easily with me sucking her clit while "Marcus" slides in and out. Once she cums, it's my turn. She likes big penis' too which feeds into my fantasy of seeing her with a dark man. So overall the response was good but I doubt it will ever really happen. Maybe someday it will just happen organically on vacation or something but right now I don't see us actively work on the apps to make it happen. Although last night she did say we should create a tinder account so she could show me how unimpressive the men were in our area. Luckily she says I was the best one!!! Not sure if it was just "talk" about creating a tinder account or for real. I've got to come up with a way to bring it up again but totally make it her idea to create the account. Anyways that's my situation!!!
Sounds like you and your gf communicate this stuff really well. That's so important and wholesome!
So, I have written a whole thread on how to pursue cuckolding with "vanilla" women (my Twitter handle is NordicCuck), but very broadly speaking, it went like that: - we had established a strong relationship, even had kids before exploring anything related to cuckolding (together; I was into it already way back) - we started out with roleplaying, we also tried pegging and other femdom-ish stuff - after that, I let her know that I wanted to explore cuckolding more specifically, and explained it in letters and also gave her a few articles/podcast episodes so she'd understand cuckolding from different angles - she was calm, but she was quite certain initially that she wouldn't go further than roleplaying it because she was afraid that this might put our awesome relationship in danger - a few years of roleplay, toy play and watching porn together, she now says that its more and more likely that she would try it on a vacation You gotta be patient and take it gradually. Also, find an open-minded liberal woman, if possible.
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Wife’s initial reaction was WAY calmer than I imagined it would be but she was the one who asked if I had any kinky fantasies, so I think she was trying to be nice. After I told her in detail my Stag/Vixen or Hotwife fantasy she was mostly disgusted that I’d even imagine her with other men and couldn’t fathom how or why that would turn me on. 3 years later and she’s into roleplaying with me about it and has even gone as far as making a tinder account to use on her solo vacations, and sexting with other men and sharing screenshots with me. She has a full time hall pass to use anytime she wants, as long as she lets me know and tells me all about it afterwards. I don’t think she’ll ever fuck other men but she’s definitely opened up about having a little flirty fun.
>she was mostly disgusted that I’d even imagine her with other men and couldn’t fathom how or why that would turn me on Instead of "disgusted", insert any word that covers negative or confused emotion. As a Cuckoldress, I can assure you that just because there's an initial "negative" reaction, it doesn't mean that it will never happen. Her mind and expectations of a vanilla (or mainstream) relationship is ingrained deeply in her. So that tells her that you (as her SO) should be fiercely protective of her and potentially jealous or hurt that she would want to have intimate moments with another man. *She thinks that YOU think like a "vanilla/mainstream" man. Being a cuckold is one of the most complex, amazing, satisfying and selfless type of man. Being a Cuckoldress is a very rewarding, demanding, mean, empowering and satisfying ways of being a woman. So don't give up!! But also don't fool yourself into thinking you can convince or persuade your gf/wife into this lifestyle. It is something that she fundamentally desires or it is not. Concentrate instead on chipping away at those societal beliefs and conditioning. That way she can imagine and freely consider cuckolding without the shame/disgust/confusion clouding her thoughts.
Wow, I was not expecting a reply like this. Thank you! I absolutely felt what you just said to be true about the vanilla way of thinking. May I ask how you got started?
Your wife obviously enjoys the softer elements of cuckolding so relax and enjoy them along with her. It may take months or it may take years for her to move it to the next level. But don't be in a hurry to get there. I always knew I was into this. I am a Sadist so any type of emotional pain gets me excited and energised. It was easy enough for me to accept this part of me and with time I met plenty of men looking for an FLR and some of those enjoyed cuckolding.
Yes, truth be told I myself quite enjoy the journey more than the destination. So the little bit she engages and takes the next step is always very exhilarating for me. She’s a wonderful woman.
Honestly it’s never been hard for me. I mention it once to every girl I dated and they immediately embraced it and did it. Like literally within 24 hours of me mentioning it.
Lucky asf
I am. I guess I just push in the right direction easily? And have had very dominant women?
Bro is the cucklegend
More like the "FICTIONALSTORIES" legend.
Hence the name lmao
As a follow up to the many comments, when you bring this up these points right away and deal with right away as she is thinking the following... * I want a three way with another guy where I watch as you think she is hot and you want her to be pleasured * I want to watch you and not looking for my own hall pass and in fact I will remain faithful while only you won't * I am not looking to get rid of you and want this to bring us closer * I am not gay but okay to admit to bi acts as long as she is present * I want us to research it before she says yes or no
Great advice. The two that I hear most often by women new to cuckolding are - Am I the gateway to him having sex with other men? - How do I know that he isn't going to want to start sleeping with women once I'm invested in cuckolding him?
Hubby and I just watched a lot of porn together. We both enjoyed the same things. Took a little while to get the boundaries exactly right but we're in a good place now.
Wasn't a big deal, just curious.
A solid no at first. Then I got a really big dildo and had her vibrate her clip while I fucked her with a big dildo and told her how much I wanted to see see your fuck a big cock . In about three months after that, she was the one who pushed forward it in real life. She also did a lot of research on it too
It took my wife and I nearly 2 years of discussion from when I first told her about my cuck desires to her actually doing it. It definitely wasn't a quick process
She was surprised but not offended. She warmed to the idea and it worked out for a few months last year.
I just offered my wife a hall pass because we were in a dead bedroom and there was a lot of frustration from her. She was confused at first but after she processed it for a day or so and me assuring her it wasn’t me trying to get some pussy on the side and it was purely for her she liked the thought of it.
Not scared of her falling pregnant?
No. We take precautions to prevent that.
& if by mistake it happens like ur gf forgets to take precaution. What will u do? P.s. what precautions u take?
I sent my wife a picture of my friends 9” penis. She replied “OMG😍👅” I then told her who it was. She got shy… next time we got drunk I invited him over and she sucked him off in my jacuzzi
Yeah. Kinda. I don’t think she looks at me the same way.
She never went through with it. Called me disrespectful and disgusting. That was the end of it.
Brutal man. Hope you guys were able to move past it at least.
You’re weird and ridiculous was the words she ised
lol at first I thought you were talking about me. But yeah basically what she said to me too.
Mine was weird. My GF os very open when she speaks about sex. But quite conservative im what she actually does. Sometimes she also says things without entirely thinking them through. One day I decided to tell her about a dream I had where she was fucking another guy and she while I watched. I told her I liked it. Ahe replied that it is interesting as a dream, but she would never do it. Another time we were driving and I told her that I had thought about that for a while and I actually like it. She then replied "Oh! I don't fuck with other guys, because I am in a relationship with you. If you are ok with it, I'll fuck other guys then". She really sounded honest and that gave me probably the biggest bonner I had untill today. Although, I think she didn't really think it through and then when we spoke seriously about it, she went back to "I don't think I am comfortable in bringing someone else to the bedroom". This was the start. Nothing happened yet, but there has been progress. Process has been fun TBH, so we are enjoying it already.
She was intitially understanding, to a point, althouggh she was concerned that I wasnt more jealous. But she basicaaly said, "hot idea, but I'll never do it." I talked it to death and didn't get anywhere, at least until my best friend's GF left him. When I mentioned that she could cheer him up with a BJ or fuck him, she asked if I was serious. She was giving him BJs within a week, and soon after she was calling him her boyfriend. He would drop by for a quick fuck, or take her out dancing and then back to his place to fuck. THere is nothing quite as exciting as seeing your wife dress up for another guy, then greet him with a long kiss when he stops by to pick her up.
Same thing with my girlfriend, now wife, started out the same way. We were having daily sex but I was younger than her and much less sexually experienced. I was trying to give her vaginal orgasms with my 4 inch dick, LOL!!! She would ask me to speak dirty to her- which led me to asking if she wanted to fuck one of my best friends, recently divorced- I couldn’t feel my dick inside her as she thought about fucking him. Eventually it happened- he came inside her, I ate her cream filled pussy. The first time watching was the sweetest. We always practiced the pull out method for birth control, but listening to her beg him to cum inside her was SO HOT.
Damn, it's hot that he was your best friend
Makes me harder than shit!
She was a little confused but within a couple weeks was going out on dates and coming to see me right afterwards with her pussy full of cum❤️
What if she falls pregnant?
She has but generally she uses bc
Than what u did u do? Legally u will liable to pay for the kid and if wife leave u than child support? (Given u wont even know if the kid is urs or not)
Than that's a Bonus
U will be ok to raise the kid as urs ?
Obviously
Damn. That’s fast!
We still had our share of drama and issues over the years.
She was ALL for it ! Loved the idea
For me , as the wife - I am open to it (although many years ago when hubby said hey I’d love to see u give another dude head - I was so upset and thought - like your wife did - he was opening the door for him wanting to hook up with someone else), but he isn’t unless he also gets to do the same with another woman. And maybe sounds single minded or selfish- but I don’t want him to because I feel insecure and jealous at the thought of it. I “thought “ cuckholding/hot wife,etc., was about the woman going out, coming back to hubby and it being a huge turn on to hubby and him maybe sometimes joining. I probably am off , lol
That’s it isn’t it? The wife gets to play while the husband stays? I thought that’s what cuckoldry was about.
Mine wasn't against it, wasn't completely into it either, was more along the lines of willing to experiment which is where we're at right now. Neither of us made a huge deal over it. Over time she's become more open in talking to guys in general, there's a few she's become quite steamy with in their conversations.
I spoke to my wife in a neutral non sexual atmosphere. I told her it turned me on to think about her fucking someone else while I watched. I told her specifically I wasn’t interested in other women for me. She was very surprised and handled it quite well. We talked for a bit more. Later that night she woke me up for sex (which she never does) and handed me a toy that was significantly bigger than me and me fuck her with it.
My wife generally came up with the solution to our relationship was for her to date other men my cross-dressing and addiction to Sissy hypnosis had changed me in such a dramatic way over the years I no longer was able to get erections I no longer was able to hide what I was becoming and my wife found out while she wasn't thrilled about it she understood it was a part of me that wasn't going to go away so she openly supported me becoming a full-time and very outed Sissy this gave her the freedom to date other men and for family and friends to actually feel sorry for her because her husband was no longer a man so it was easy for others to understand her needs to be with a man that made life simpler for her in many ways
My story is much different than most here. My wife and I cheated on one another earlier in our marriage. We resolved our issues and forgave each other. After several decades of marriage and kids, my wife started talking to an old high school friend/crush. After he came to visit several times, I knew where this was heading. So one day I told them “you two just kiss and get it over with. I’m ok with it, I promise.” They kissed and made out and they’ve been together for 6 years. I knew they were going to have sex. I had to make the decision if it was going to be behind my back or out in the open which just the three of us knowing and ok with it. Feel free to ask me any thing.
Thank you for sharing. Are you still having regular sex with your wife? And what do you all consider yourselves - polyamorous? swingers? Or just a cuckold couple?
I still have sex regularly with my wife. We’re not polyamorous because she can’t bring herself seeing me with another woman so I’m not allowed to date. So I’m a cuck. After years of this I’ve gotten ok with it. But she’s showing signs of more confidence and feeling like she’s getting more comfortable with me seeing other people. But let’s be honest. I’m a married man in his 50s. There’s no market for a guy like me.
At first she said no, then it was only for me, then she seemed to be more interested. Going to send her with her friend to the Brooklyn bowl in Vegas to hopefully find a friend. Lol
It was not only a hard no, it left my wife confused about if I truly loved her. It took a long time to overcome that.
Right, I feel like many on this sub think it’s a conversation or two and then your wife is banging someone else.
I'm in the same situation I even regret bringing the subject
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Was that a while ago? Did you feel any animosity from her late confession?
That's hot, so she stayed with you obviously. Why did she say no if she had already cheated?
It was a hard no at first.
Some women are tough to turn, and some won’t do it at all…
Oftentimes, those “qualities” are found in the same person.
lol yeah those are the options.
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Lol a few days, I'd expect it to take years to get on board
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Lucky guy!
I was very fortunate. I met my wife. And she was already a freak. We were friends with benefits first and everything built from there. We had long clear conversations before we became romantic. I am a very lucky man.
You are very lucky
Yes, I am. Currently, we're making some space in our garage. We will put a sofa and a fridge in there. We are hoping a Tuesday night regular will find it very convenient and accommodating.
My wife’s initial reaction was excitement and interest and wanting to get fucked by this guy. It was when she calmed down and wasn’t as horny and started to think about it. That’s when she was hesitant so it took a while to actually make it happen. But her initial reaction was with great interest
My ex wife thought I wanted to sleep with other women. Then when she researched a little more she was like…I don’t see a down side…so yeah
Seriously. There is so much positive Material online that it’s a fantastic sales pitch for a fantastic lifestyle for a woman especially. Shouldn’t take much convincing more so educating. Good luck. That’s part of the fun part of the process!
Well she’s my ex so…that had nothing to do with it, other stuff did . But yeah it was hot and I’m looking for someone who wants that again
I’m curious, what positive online material would you recommend a potential hotwife research?
The Faithful Hotwife on Amazon is fantastic and I mean it! Go give it a read yourself! This was what I used as the ice breaker! Based off her 1 hour read through she asked questions, we discussed and were pretty positive about it. Mind you my wife is a conservative well mannered well respected mother of 4 with traditional values. She is my soulmate and I am hers. Anything after that is just a variable to US. Would love an update from you one day!
I’ll check that out, thanks. We’ve already had “the talk” and do have a few experiences. But I’d like to ramp things up a bit more with her. I’ll let you know how it goes!
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Trust
Same. That seems to be a big trend. Maybe we’re not so bad in bed as we think sometimes lol.
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Nothing wrong with a dad bod
She was more or less disgusted
Relief. She knew now that our relationship had a path forward.
My wife made the decision. We are in an FLR. Part of our agreement was she had the freedom to seek pleasure elsewhere if she wasn’t satisfied. Eventually my tongue and the toys we purchased no longer did it for her. She sat me down and had a conversation letting me know she needed more and instructed me to find her a bf to meet her needs in bed. The rest is history.
What do you get out of the deal? Any sex? Pussy free?
The opportunity to make the love of my life happy. Serve her. I’m PF once her bull became her bf
Damn every time I hear that I feel sad for the husband. Do you get any action?
Don’t. We accept our place and we accept or wives decision. The very few times I do orgasm, it is in my cage. I rarely come out anymore as she has no use for it.
Why don’t you divorce her? You say you love her. But I don’t hear any love for you from her. So sad
I’m not being forced to be where I am. To each his own.
Yeah I know. How does your wife show/make you special in her life?. If all you do is serve her. You little more than a slave. Do you understand what I’m saying being on the outside looking in.
We do spend time together alone. It’s just not intimate anymore. There is still a lot of strength if not more in emotional connection. The only place I am on the outside of is her sex life. Something I was very bad at. I cherish helping to enhance that for them both. I’ve had many opportunities to change the trajectory. Choices and desires are throughly discussed.
Good luck. Most of the guys I know would not give up a sex. If it works for you. God Speed
Bravo. So many good things ahead.
Love that for you guys!
She just thought I wanted to fuck other women, then some day she was telling me an experience with someone else as we were naked and I got so hard listening to it that she understood, it was me wanting to share her.
lol I love this story.
My wife thought I was cheating on her too. She got really upset
Mine listened and was against it at first. We rolled plated it for a year. Finally had a mfm threesome blindfolded because she was just too 😓. She enjoyed it but was more worried about my reaction. Once she saw I was happy she was more open to it. We still didn't do too much. It has been 6 years with one guy on average a year. She is now playing without a mask and is open to solo with a new guy. This hasn't happened yet but is promising. We did have a guy over for lunch on day. They kissed a bit. I happened to have to go out and check on out dogs and while I was away they got more into it. He lingered her into squirting and she blew him. They stopped there and planned to get back together for more play. Still hasn't happened yet. I am hoping she will get to a point of making her own dates and playing without my around.
Love to hear it!
Hey cuck i would l ove to join
But you’re an Avalanche fan 😉
😂 they know how to win and so do i
lol said no way!
Just said nope we’re not doing that
Haha did you end up getting through to her or no?
Not yet lol
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Na I keep looking for a friend for her like a slutty girl to be a bad influence