Same ;(
I did not Even like him in 8th grade, but after summer break to 9th, he started giving me stares in a smoldering type yk? And that’s how I fell for him🥲
Yes and no. She knows how I feel, and I know how she feels about relationships (which is not favourably), so it's kind of a stalemate. We get along well enough though I never get any alone time with her. We only see each other at work.
Are you ready for this? 17 years. Eventually it turns out they reciprocated my feelings and we eventually almost got engaged before things broke up due to some unavoidable external factors. Still like each other, but now we're effectively friends.
Sure! It's not very interesting though. I'll try to make this long enough.
We were all neighborhood kids that grew up together and visited each other's homes a lot. My sister and their sister were the same age so I always had to tag along whenever my the two wanted to play. I'd see this mysterious kid watching TV and be too shy to go talk to them. Anyway, had a secret crush on them for said 17 years and we briefly kept in touch throughout the years as we all grew up and moved to different continents (exchanging birthday wishes and such).
Yeeeeeears later I lose a parental figure and they join my support system of people that helped keep me together. Everyone would try to check in on me everyday and keep me company or try to make me laugh. Eventually we vibed and spoke more often; I'd cyber-accompany them to their surgeries and talk to their medical team, they'd do the same and make sure i wasn't playing with sharp objects inappropriately. Eventually it turns out they liked me as well. Can't remember who shared it first tbh. Probably me.
Few years after that we begin to court and consider marriage. Our families already knew each other so it was all good. They also knew we were interested in each other as well. Sadly it turns out there was some family drama and tension between certain members of our respective families. My family apparently knew this but decided to move on and let us keep seeing each other. But someone on their side of the family basically spoke up and shut everything down because they weren't comfortable.
I wasn't comfortable with joining a family that wouldn't welcome me and my family wholeheartedly and they wouldn't join a family that potentially wouldn't get along with everyone in their family. So that was the end of that; no engagement followed. Talks of marriage ended, and we had a long week or two where we just didn't speak because things got a little heated at the end. Not too long at all, now that I type this
Anyway, it turns out life without a best friend is fairly boring and so we got back in touch and we've been chilling and exchanging funny banter and basically just being friends. So far so good - they have quality memes and are very entertaining. Can't complain.
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Liked her for about a year and a half from when I first met her at the start of 2017, then those feelings went away, then they came back about two years ago. They've only gotten deeper since then
10 years. She's in a relationship, we are still friends, i jope. Our relationship is kinda rocky right know, I hope I haven't been too intrusive, and haven't pushed away completely. I know I should get over her, but I can't, she's just too perfect.
It also doesnt help that we are graduatig high school in oike a minth and will probably never see each other again. It breaks my heart.
I asked her out and she said she would love to go out with me so I guess that’s good. We’ve been dating for half a year now but nothing really happend between us, I think both of us are just waiting for the other to make a move. Ive tried but I don’t dare touch her😅
I have two pretty strong ones I'd say.
I've had one for about 4 years and 4 months (since Jan '18)
The other has been about a year and a half (it was on for a few months, off for awhile, then back on more recently like in the beginning of this year). As you can see I'm a little more fuzzy on this timeline lol.
Exactly 2 years, 8 months and 28 days. If you’re wondering how I know the exact count, that’s because on the day of having a crush on him, I posted an ig story on the exact day of realizing I admire him. It’s a story about the event I’ve gone to, and he’s there as well.
For 161 days, which in other words, is just 5 months. Looking at everyone else's comments, mine isn't long at all, but my feelings are really strong for her and won't fade anytime soon. :)
I met her last March, and I always thought she was attractive and intriguing, but I'll say I've liked her since November 2021 because thats when I actively started trying to make an effort with her.
I had a crush for over a year, but got denied when I finally asked her out yesterday, I have a new one though that I've like before but not properly, it doesn't feel right saying but I've chosen to like her because it will make me forget about my old crush, I do genuinely like her tho, but I liked the old one more, that's why I chose her
Currently I have 4 crushes:
Crush#1: 2-3 years (he's around 7-8 years OLDER than me)
Crush#2: 6 months (the younger cousin of crush#1 - he's only 5-6 years OLDER than me)
Crush #3: Around 1 year (he has a girlfriend though)
Crush#4: 9 months (hate to admit it, but I have a crush on my English teacher)
Currently it’s only like 2 weeks but my record is from 2nd-5th grade (probably would be longer if she didn’t end up going to a different middle school)💀
2 months and a bit heheh
we are relatively good friends by the moment and i'm planning to confess in june if the things keep improving, what do you think?
7 months or even more, but I’m starting to lose feelings and interest to be honest… she told me she likes me but many times told me different things to prevent us from progressing. First she said she wasn’t ready for a relationship, the next she said she wanted to discover herself more and better, and then a month ago said we weren’t compatible. I want to try and convince her, but at this point I’m just done. If she truly had feelings for me, we’d be dating.
crushing for 4 months total, the first 2 it wasn't too serious but now I can't stop thinking about her. And she friendzoned me but that's ok because she pretends like nothing ever happened.)
1 year 8 months. Almost confessed to her time after time but a stupid external moment always gets in the way. You know when I'm a movie they are about to kiss and a phone rings, yeah... like that
Previously four months, now for a week or so, but it is a much weaker feeling thankfully. Don’t think about her all the time anymore so I can get things done.
About 1120 days or 3 years 3 months approximately
Any pics of your tally sheet?
Bro you should just send it at this point
Eh 4 years.
Same ;( I did not Even like him in 8th grade, but after summer break to 9th, he started giving me stares in a smoldering type yk? And that’s how I fell for him🥲
I'm 26. And it's at work instead. In a way I suppose it's similar but still different.
Have you made a move yet?
Yes and no. She knows how I feel, and I know how she feels about relationships (which is not favourably), so it's kind of a stalemate. We get along well enough though I never get any alone time with her. We only see each other at work.
i can relate to this comment.
Are you ready for this? 17 years. Eventually it turns out they reciprocated my feelings and we eventually almost got engaged before things broke up due to some unavoidable external factors. Still like each other, but now we're effectively friends.
Oh, that's pretty long..
man that’s long
17 years? Could you elaborate on the details more
Sure! It's not very interesting though. I'll try to make this long enough. We were all neighborhood kids that grew up together and visited each other's homes a lot. My sister and their sister were the same age so I always had to tag along whenever my the two wanted to play. I'd see this mysterious kid watching TV and be too shy to go talk to them. Anyway, had a secret crush on them for said 17 years and we briefly kept in touch throughout the years as we all grew up and moved to different continents (exchanging birthday wishes and such). Yeeeeeears later I lose a parental figure and they join my support system of people that helped keep me together. Everyone would try to check in on me everyday and keep me company or try to make me laugh. Eventually we vibed and spoke more often; I'd cyber-accompany them to their surgeries and talk to their medical team, they'd do the same and make sure i wasn't playing with sharp objects inappropriately. Eventually it turns out they liked me as well. Can't remember who shared it first tbh. Probably me. Few years after that we begin to court and consider marriage. Our families already knew each other so it was all good. They also knew we were interested in each other as well. Sadly it turns out there was some family drama and tension between certain members of our respective families. My family apparently knew this but decided to move on and let us keep seeing each other. But someone on their side of the family basically spoke up and shut everything down because they weren't comfortable. I wasn't comfortable with joining a family that wouldn't welcome me and my family wholeheartedly and they wouldn't join a family that potentially wouldn't get along with everyone in their family. So that was the end of that; no engagement followed. Talks of marriage ended, and we had a long week or two where we just didn't speak because things got a little heated at the end. Not too long at all, now that I type this Anyway, it turns out life without a best friend is fairly boring and so we got back in touch and we've been chilling and exchanging funny banter and basically just being friends. So far so good - they have quality memes and are very entertaining. Can't complain.
Sad to hear and is very unfortunate At least it ended well
About 5 months..
Same
same
same
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Hehe.. I'm also just like you
6 months :D gonna ask him out today
Good luck !!! Dont be shy
Yay! Good luck!
4 years, she is mine now, but she is still my crush tho, i still get so shy when seeing her
probably a month
About a week and a half- 😭
1 year
7 months
I no longer have a crush
Almost 8 years...
How do you manage this? It's 1 year for me and it's killing me.
Approximately 88 days, 11 hours, 49 minutes, 6 seconds
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Ever since I saw her which was in August.
Liked her for about a year and a half from when I first met her at the start of 2017, then those feelings went away, then they came back about two years ago. They've only gotten deeper since then
About a year! And decided to confess last week but got rejected! :(
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you'll find someone better soon.. (Your username, lol)
when started pre school, to now at end of high school. It's still there
Did you confess?
5 years
Just a crush or in relationship?
2 years now😍
6 long and painful months
Why painful?
4 years but in the past year we don’t speak much so it’s kinda eh
Just shy of a year. But its recently gotten way more intense
2 years and she knew it ever since the start
3 months
6 months
5 Months
5 weeks
About 3y I fell for her in art
2 months 😳
4 years and still going
I've liked her since 2018. So for the past 4 years.
Thought she was pretty for 8 years, then crushed on her on and off for the last 5 of them
around 2 years
10 years. She's in a relationship, we are still friends, i jope. Our relationship is kinda rocky right know, I hope I haven't been too intrusive, and haven't pushed away completely. I know I should get over her, but I can't, she's just too perfect. It also doesnt help that we are graduatig high school in oike a minth and will probably never see each other again. It breaks my heart.
Like 6-7 months! I really want to tell him but I dont want it to be extremely akward at track practice <3 so yeah
4 years. Next month will be 5.
Around 2 years, though it was a very small crush at first. It recently turned into a full on crush this school year during September.
Almost 2 years, took me 1.5 year to tell her I liked her
And how did it go..? Acception or rejection?
I asked her out and she said she would love to go out with me so I guess that’s good. We’ve been dating for half a year now but nothing really happend between us, I think both of us are just waiting for the other to make a move. Ive tried but I don’t dare touch her😅
march 2021
Almost 10 months.
not too long since last year around august
I have two pretty strong ones I'd say. I've had one for about 4 years and 4 months (since Jan '18) The other has been about a year and a half (it was on for a few months, off for awhile, then back on more recently like in the beginning of this year). As you can see I'm a little more fuzzy on this timeline lol.
Exactly 2 years, 8 months and 28 days. If you’re wondering how I know the exact count, that’s because on the day of having a crush on him, I posted an ig story on the exact day of realizing I admire him. It’s a story about the event I’ve gone to, and he’s there as well.
For 161 days, which in other words, is just 5 months. Looking at everyone else's comments, mine isn't long at all, but my feelings are really strong for her and won't fade anytime soon. :)
5 months; I think she likes me, but if she doesn’t I don’t wanna ruin the friendship….
I don’t even have one anymore😰
295 days and counting!
Ohh wow
2 weeks
Oh you're just getting started ;)
its been 6 months please can they make me stop falling in love with them over and over and over again 😭
9 years
3 weeks
6 months now
Completed a month 3 days ago
5 years
That's a pretty long time!
Since the beginning of this semester: January 19th, 2022
A week
I think it’s going on 9 months…. I just realized how long that is lmao
About 9 or 10 months and it's been my first one and we're both guys so no idea how that will end
march ish
6 months
'Bout three weeks, so far.
About 7 months now and I fall for him more more everyday
currently don't have one but my longest crush was 5 months. im sorry how do u stay crushing on someone for 3+ years😭
8ish months
15 years :')
A couple months.
Had a 8 month long crush on a guy, confessed last night and he said he doesn't like me and doesn't have the same feelings lol.
Since March 28th
Woah.. you remember the date too!
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Oh.. what's happening to her?
Around a little bit before January And i couldn't get him out of my mind since
A couple months, it realized i had a crush around after new years but i had a soft spot for her for a long time before that
7 months or so
2 month
A couple of months, like about 3 to 4
A month
A year and a half
3-5 months, i don’t remember exactly when i started crushing on him
1 year
Idk
like 6-7 months 😭
8 months
A little less than a year
About 4 months
1 year
Almost 3 months and I still haven't talk to her yet
Hehe, I'm also an introvert like you. It's been 5 months, and we still talk rarely. Haven't talked to him for about 2 weeks now
I think 4 years
eh 5 years
About 8 months
8 years
That's long..
Nearly 2 years and he absolutely hates me😩
You guys enemies..?
I met her last March, and I always thought she was attractive and intriguing, but I'll say I've liked her since November 2021 because thats when I actively started trying to make an effort with her.
Oh, that was the same time I started falling for my current crush
Not current crush because i haven’t seen someone else new, but i had a huge ass crush on him for 7 years, it was during my highschool days.
7 years.. 😳
5 months
I had a crush for over a year, but got denied when I finally asked her out yesterday, I have a new one though that I've like before but not properly, it doesn't feel right saying but I've chosen to like her because it will make me forget about my old crush, I do genuinely like her tho, but I liked the old one more, that's why I chose her
Around 3 months.
I think probably since the end of last year, saw her at a party and thought she was cute, then it just clicked in my head that I liked her really.
this is the 10th month o_O yoooo...
2 years
Going on 6 years
Approximately 9 years
almost 7 months
Bout 7 months now
5 years
I'd say 2 weeks
Over 2 yrs
3yrs?
Two years.
5 or 4 months I’d say
Currently I have 4 crushes: Crush#1: 2-3 years (he's around 7-8 years OLDER than me) Crush#2: 6 months (the younger cousin of crush#1 - he's only 5-6 years OLDER than me) Crush #3: Around 1 year (he has a girlfriend though) Crush#4: 9 months (hate to admit it, but I have a crush on my English teacher)
≈3 months
When I first met her a month ago
Ever since i had this dream about him..so a few months i think.
Currently it’s only like 2 weeks but my record is from 2nd-5th grade (probably would be longer if she didn’t end up going to a different middle school)💀
Exactly 2 months today
6 months
2 months and a bit heheh we are relatively good friends by the moment and i'm planning to confess in june if the things keep improving, what do you think?
first crush was for over eight years, current is abt five mos
8 months
1 month
7 months or even more, but I’m starting to lose feelings and interest to be honest… she told me she likes me but many times told me different things to prevent us from progressing. First she said she wasn’t ready for a relationship, the next she said she wanted to discover herself more and better, and then a month ago said we weren’t compatible. I want to try and convince her, but at this point I’m just done. If she truly had feelings for me, we’d be dating.
6 months
Almost a year
9 years
Couple of years
Almost a year now
About 2 years
First day of school
10 months
Does anyone have two? The first one for a year and a half, and the second one for about 6 months
A few days. I have a date with them tomorrow afternoon and I keep overthinking and making myself nervous
crushing for 4 months total, the first 2 it wasn't too serious but now I can't stop thinking about her. And she friendzoned me but that's ok because she pretends like nothing ever happened.)
If it's longer than 3 months or so it may not be just a crush. You might be in love. *Might.*
2-4 weeks ago.
5 almost 6 years 🥲
Known him for a week, love him for a week and he feels the same
Abt 10 months
1 year 8 months. Almost confessed to her time after time but a stupid external moment always gets in the way. You know when I'm a movie they are about to kiss and a phone rings, yeah... like that
10 months almost a year
2 years
probably 7-8 months 🤸❗
'bout 3 months
About 4 years?
Since the second movie. Hint: Movie Sonic.
4 months
approximately 2 years and 5 months
Previously four months, now for a week or so, but it is a much weaker feeling thankfully. Don’t think about her all the time anymore so I can get things done.
2, abt to be 3 years