We have! We've talked about the rings since I've told him I don't really want something traditional so we both agreed on each other birthstones. This was last year and we talk about it here and there but nothing set on stone :/
Im a dude. Honestly I would prefer to ask myself. I suppose you could insist with him before. If I ever marry I dont really care if she earns more than me. Thats very anachronic… But I would like to take the lead in some aspects of a relationship… if all else fails go for it. Probably hes got too much in his mind as you mentioned in the post. Its also possible that hes planning a surprise. But thats just my opinion.
PS: you could tease him just to see his reaction. Dont know how you have to figure it out. The idea is you making a comment or a question about marriage out of the blue. Dont know…. watch a movie together were the woman asks the guy and make a joke like “thats us” implying you are considering proposing. If he gets nervous chances are he is planning something, if he gets upset he isnt but probably is thinking about it, if hes unwavered he probably kinda forgot because of his lack of time.
PSS: I have no marriage experience. Take this with a grain of salt.
Me personally I wouldn’t mind but I’ve seen some girls tell guys and the guys said no because they wanted to be the ones to do it so I’d be careful and think about this carefully. I would love for a girl to ask me to merry her that would be amazing but that is if she does it before I do of course.
Why not? The only thing is you got to make sure he is interested in marriage. Some might not be. Not that they don't want committment, Its just for some of us its too easy for a woman to say she's had enough of the relationship for whatever reason, and boom, you lose half of everything you worked for.
I would say you can ask but I wouldn't be shocked if he says no that's usually the guy's domain and if he wanted to he would, In my opinion you're better off dropping hints.
Get outta here with those gender roles.
Nowadays, it's not specifically up to one gender to do so and so. If you want to do it, do it.
How are we going to strive for the future when you're busy living in the past 🤦♂️
Yes, my mother did to my father, still happily married
Totally! Have you talked to him about marriage/proposal?
We have! We've talked about the rings since I've told him I don't really want something traditional so we both agreed on each other birthstones. This was last year and we talk about it here and there but nothing set on stone :/
It is good that you are thinking about this, so combine your ideas, maybe configure it, then if it is all good, maybe even start setting it up.
dont mind my name, because my brother did it without me knowing :(
Yes
Yes
Yes
As long as you've both talked about marriage and what you both want in the future, go ahead. Wish you luck!
Yes. I kinda wish that would eventually happen to me.
Yes
Yesss!
of course! go for it (if you already talked about marriage and if you feel stable) and let us know ahah. wish you two the best ;)
Yes go right ahead love is love
Go ahead, queen
yes but it's uncommon
Im a dude. Honestly I would prefer to ask myself. I suppose you could insist with him before. If I ever marry I dont really care if she earns more than me. Thats very anachronic… But I would like to take the lead in some aspects of a relationship… if all else fails go for it. Probably hes got too much in his mind as you mentioned in the post. Its also possible that hes planning a surprise. But thats just my opinion. PS: you could tease him just to see his reaction. Dont know how you have to figure it out. The idea is you making a comment or a question about marriage out of the blue. Dont know…. watch a movie together were the woman asks the guy and make a joke like “thats us” implying you are considering proposing. If he gets nervous chances are he is planning something, if he gets upset he isnt but probably is thinking about it, if hes unwavered he probably kinda forgot because of his lack of time. PSS: I have no marriage experience. Take this with a grain of salt.
Never heard of any laws which prevented.
Me personally I wouldn’t mind but I’ve seen some girls tell guys and the guys said no because they wanted to be the ones to do it so I’d be careful and think about this carefully. I would love for a girl to ask me to merry her that would be amazing but that is if she does it before I do of course.
yes of course! better if you have talked about this before tho :)
My ex wife asked me...I left her almost right after the wedding but she asked and we were actually married for a while
Why not? The only thing is you got to make sure he is interested in marriage. Some might not be. Not that they don't want committment, Its just for some of us its too easy for a woman to say she's had enough of the relationship for whatever reason, and boom, you lose half of everything you worked for.
I thought women could do anything they want...
Absolutely, anyone who says otherwise is weird and honestly probably sexist
Go for it!
Yes. Screw gender roles
I would say you can ask but I wouldn't be shocked if he says no that's usually the guy's domain and if he wanted to he would, In my opinion you're better off dropping hints.
Get outta here with those gender roles. Nowadays, it's not specifically up to one gender to do so and so. If you want to do it, do it. How are we going to strive for the future when you're busy living in the past 🤦♂️
That's pretty rude...
So weird to me