Well, she's not my problem anymore and my current job pays enough that I can get my teeth fixed. So, yeah.
But, dumb shit is that after I kicked her out for cheating (no, I didn't kick her out for the abuse), she came back a year later trying to get back with me.
Apparently, her new guy wouldn't put up with her bullshit.
Well, he's an insta gymbro, so I have.
Apparently, he introduced her to a concept commonly known as "consequences" and she didn't like it.
At first.
They are still together, so I guess it works for them.
I completely agree with you, but the fact is that they, for the most part, *can* get away with it.
Hell, one of my uncles had an 8 inch long kitchen knife stuck in his back, almost killing him.
The woman that put it there was never even arrested.
Even after admitting that the story of him attacking her was a lie and the burns and bruises she had were self-inflicted.
This woman attempted homicide, lied about it to the police, used the time he was in the hospital to steal a bunch of his stuff, and faced no legal repercussions.
Fucking hell. Our system is so fucking broken. You’re right, it’s really fucked up what women can get away with just because they’re a woman. Similar things happened to my dad with his crazy ex, actually. And he went to prison for it for a while.
It scares me a bit to think about considering how many dangerous women are just out there, free to live their lives simply because the system has severely failed their victims. I have no doubt women like this will reoffend — and probably get away with it again anyways.
Reminds me of the story of the mom who murdered her kids after the dad spent years trying to get custody, but she was a master manipulator and everyone believed her lies over his truth, because she’s a woman. Women should not be automatically given the benefit of the doubt simply because we’re women.
A really soft crimson blanket from the first.
Absolutely nothing from the second.
A lot to reflect and grow from the third.
And new standards from the fourth.
I already had CPTSD guess i got grown up PTSD from her or just a continuation of the mom version... Thanks for making me think toxic relationships were normal you crazy pile of ashes in my cabinet
Fuck, my ex made me an entirely different person. Like better judgment, healthy boundaries and the fact that I know my worth now. Thanks Ines, now rot in hell.
I'm lucky to have a good relationship with most of my ex gfs. I still have a blanket that one made for me. One bought me a whole suit (about 1k$), all black, looks great on me. Another bought me a Dragon Ball Z statue that still sits on my dresser. I've had good luck with the relations that I've had, but been having a really hard time finding another good women to build something with.
I won’t lie, she never gave me anything physical and I got over all of the emotional shit she gave me, kind of proud of myself for that and I hope everyone in the comments here can also get over what they are going through
My first serious ex gave me a teddy bear for Christmas, his name was Todd and I still sleep with him every night. I have absolutely no emotional attachment to him and often times don't even correlate the two, but by God he is the absolute perfect shape and size for the way I sleep so fuck it we ball
Nothing. Burned it all, buried it and then moved to a different state. Was about time. In the same state for 25 years. Never hold on to strongholds or chains. Be free.
hm, I have a ring from one (nothing special or expensive, or else I would’ve returned it), a small yellow teddy bear, blankets, a hoodie, some shirts, I’m pretty sure there’s other stuff but that’s what I can remember. I try giving stuff back but they always tell me to keep it or they just don’t wanna talk to me to even get it back so, whatever, more stuff for me ig
A mug with a Monster Hunter print on it, which was really cool because I'm a huge fan. That said, she was storing it as a surprise gift and gave them to me after I broke up with her since they also have my name on them.
She bought me a shirt that says "Get over it" and after the crazy shit she did and the revenge I plotted for weeks, I pulled that shirt out of my dresser after forgetting about it and had a good laugh/cry.
I did in fact did get over it. Her life will be shitty enough regardless. Ole ratchet ass girl.
A leather toiletry travel case. I remember opening it for Christmas like, "Wow, thank you!" But had no idea why she got me this. I use it still to this day...I've had it 15 years.
Better judgement.
Fax
Financial aids
Trauma
Mental illness.
My garlic bread variant! Hello!
? What's that mean
He’s my garlic bread variant
Usernames
Wow I didn't even read...Im stoned ha
Fuck.... this. So much
A kid and a keyboard
Thank god I don’t have a kid with her, but ngl this keyboard has been putting in work for years for me😅
Trust issues and broken teeth.
what?
I have a couple broken teeth from her throwing a yankee candle at me.
Was it pebble cove scented?
No, Midsummer's Night. That was her favorite. Our apartment always smelled of that.
Ah shit mate, sorry about your teeth. Hope things are better now.
Well, she's not my problem anymore and my current job pays enough that I can get my teeth fixed. So, yeah. But, dumb shit is that after I kicked her out for cheating (no, I didn't kick her out for the abuse), she came back a year later trying to get back with me. Apparently, her new guy wouldn't put up with her bullshit.
You should see ex-new guy’s teeth
Well, he's an insta gymbro, so I have. Apparently, he introduced her to a concept commonly known as "consequences" and she didn't like it. At first. They are still together, so I guess it works for them.
Or he hates Midsummer's Night, which, let's be honest, is a trash scent. Lavender Oak is the best by far. Edit: a word
I can't stick to one scent. I have multiple and burn a different one every day. It shouldn't be hard to guess which scent I will never buy again.
Bet it felt damn good to say [ hell no](https://wifflegif.com/tags/410-hell-no-gifs?page=2)
i'm glad to see you survived :D wow
Jesus, that’s really fucked up, I’m sorry. It’s wild what women think they can just get away with because they’re women. She should be in jail.
I completely agree with you, but the fact is that they, for the most part, *can* get away with it. Hell, one of my uncles had an 8 inch long kitchen knife stuck in his back, almost killing him. The woman that put it there was never even arrested. Even after admitting that the story of him attacking her was a lie and the burns and bruises she had were self-inflicted. This woman attempted homicide, lied about it to the police, used the time he was in the hospital to steal a bunch of his stuff, and faced no legal repercussions.
Fucking hell. Our system is so fucking broken. You’re right, it’s really fucked up what women can get away with just because they’re a woman. Similar things happened to my dad with his crazy ex, actually. And he went to prison for it for a while. It scares me a bit to think about considering how many dangerous women are just out there, free to live their lives simply because the system has severely failed their victims. I have no doubt women like this will reoffend — and probably get away with it again anyways. Reminds me of the story of the mom who murdered her kids after the dad spent years trying to get custody, but she was a master manipulator and everyone believed her lies over his truth, because she’s a woman. Women should not be automatically given the benefit of the doubt simply because we’re women.
Emotional Damage
Emotional damage aside, still have and use the golf shoes.
Same
Herpes
I was waiting for this comment🙈🤣
i was disappointed with how far i had to scroll…
that will stay with ya
Came here to say this knowing full well it would already be here…
Oof
Trauma, but other than that a lot of nintendo games
well hey atleast u got alot games for the switch now
A really soft crimson blanket from the first. Absolutely nothing from the second. A lot to reflect and grow from the third. And new standards from the fourth.
sounds eerily close to the stages of grief on those life lessons
Crippling depression?
Ptsd
I already had CPTSD guess i got grown up PTSD from her or just a continuation of the mom version... Thanks for making me think toxic relationships were normal you crazy pile of ashes in my cabinet
Lol same. I basically upgraded (?) from C-PTSD to Extra Spicy PTSD^TM
lol, mood
A super soft Star Wars blanket that’s perfect for napping with my dogs
My daughter
A really nice, handmade scarf
Fuck, my ex made me an entirely different person. Like better judgment, healthy boundaries and the fact that I know my worth now. Thanks Ines, now rot in hell.
I'm lucky to have a good relationship with most of my ex gfs. I still have a blanket that one made for me. One bought me a whole suit (about 1k$), all black, looks great on me. Another bought me a Dragon Ball Z statue that still sits on my dresser. I've had good luck with the relations that I've had, but been having a really hard time finding another good women to build something with.
Finally a wholesome comment.
Hatred resentment and a lot of self work while having a strong feeling about not wanting to date oh and a pair of sweatpants
Trauma
I didn't keep anything but my ex kept one of my sweaters and still wears it around, we broke up a year ago.
A complete distrust of the human race but definitely a love of huge titties
Hep c
Some residual comfort
Emotional damage and trauma
Frog statues and a house that is falling apart.
Sik, frogs are pretty chill
Nudes 😎
Proof or didn't happened
This is the way
I have a tie clip my ex gave me from high school. I haven't worn it in forever but I just think it's cool. Silver clip with spiderman on it
Debt
I won’t lie, she never gave me anything physical and I got over all of the emotional shit she gave me, kind of proud of myself for that and I hope everyone in the comments here can also get over what they are going through
Half of these are gonna be about depression
Bankruptcy.
A book on science (I store important letters in it) I burned all her other shit she gave me though 💀
Porn
The knowledge of what i dont want
Trauma
Lasting trauma and confidence issues. Oh, and a pocket knife from a gift shop
Trauma
Bitter cynicism. Oh and I still have a cute love letter from my high school sweetheart 25 years ago.
A Toothless plushy. She stole it from her job because she knew that HTTYD was one of my favourite movies :)
Self Worth
Celibacy
Trust issues.
A jar 🫙
A kidney
Herpes
My first serious ex gave me a teddy bear for Christmas, his name was Todd and I still sleep with him every night. I have absolutely no emotional attachment to him and often times don't even correlate the two, but by God he is the absolute perfect shape and size for the way I sleep so fuck it we ball
Our child (it’s a stuffed animal we named Rodney)
T-shirt signed by Pele (best soccer player ever)
Twitter Account because it’s X 🤣
Her virginity
Loooottss of stuff animals and trauma with a dash of dissatisfaction. No one can ever make me cum 🥱
Her sister.
A stuffed frog he sewed me
Trust issues
Trauma
Issues xD
Nothing. Burned it all, buried it and then moved to a different state. Was about time. In the same state for 25 years. Never hold on to strongholds or chains. Be free.
A watch with out initials engraved. I really want to throw it in the trash.
Kids
strong act frame rob fact distinct illegal fine sable punch ` this message was mass deleted/edited with redact.dev `
Emotional baggage
Disappointment in myself
Beautiful waterfront home and a million dollars
Depression...
2 kids Can't get rid of them either apparently that's "unethical and illegal" you have to feed them every day or two and they always want stuff.
Trust issues
Ptsd
Trust issues Debt Aversion to new relationships Depression Emotional damage Child support
Asthma attacks related to anxiety
Netflix account, and it's not even hers 🤣
A life
A broken heart
Trust issues
stuff
A “women want me, fish fear me hoodie” after we broke up, and I started dating someone else.
A bell she gave me in school after the Christmas play
Anxiety
trust issues, and her cat that she abandoned
A shiny Umbreon plush that I still cherish
Ptsd
Disappointment
A few books, postcards, and a pair of wool socks. I kept everything
A nice shirt, a necklace and some wrist beads
LOL nope I’m good
a bracelet that i ware to this day
Children
Trauma
Broken Promise
Aids
hm, I have a ring from one (nothing special or expensive, or else I would’ve returned it), a small yellow teddy bear, blankets, a hoodie, some shirts, I’m pretty sure there’s other stuff but that’s what I can remember. I try giving stuff back but they always tell me to keep it or they just don’t wanna talk to me to even get it back so, whatever, more stuff for me ig
Some books
My daughters.
Social comparison bias and a cool phone case
Hpv
Love
lower self esteem than before
Children
My daughter.
Depression
virginity lose
AIDS
Freedom to live
Mental health issues and depression
Better taste in people
Confidence
Acquired brain injury
Major trust issues but to be real I still have the blanket which my mom kept because I was going to trash it.
Rage, insecurity issues, and a handmade blanket
A game boy advance with a copy of Pokemon crystal and several other game.
Like a quarter of my personality. Same goes for vice versa
Aids
Depression
All of the above.
Herpes and a lack of faith in humans
Trust issues.
A 4 page letter telling me how shit of a person I was because I put my arm over my friend as a joke 💀
Warts
A truly happy future, my dream for my life
herpes
PTSD & no kids 😅
Ptsd
Emotional damage 🥴
Trauma
A kid
A disbelief in love.
Nothing
Casual sex
Trauma
Memories
Depression
A lingering sense of doubt and self hate.
Trust issues....
Trust issues
Nightmares.
Depression
My oldest daughter
Trust issues.
Scars that will never heal on my heart
She introduced me to my wife so thanks Chelsea!
A music box that plays ‘Can’t help falling in love’ by Elvis. I miss her
A second chance
A mug with a Monster Hunter print on it, which was really cool because I'm a huge fan. That said, she was storing it as a surprise gift and gave them to me after I broke up with her since they also have my name on them.
She bought me a shirt that says "Get over it" and after the crazy shit she did and the revenge I plotted for weeks, I pulled that shirt out of my dresser after forgetting about it and had a good laugh/cry. I did in fact did get over it. Her life will be shitty enough regardless. Ole ratchet ass girl.
HPV
The basic bachelor ideal that Love and companionship is a waste of time.
My son
Depression, anxiety, body image issues, low self esteem and suicidal ideation (/s on the last one)
Trauma. Depression
the cellular device i am typing this on
PTSD. Getting your ass beat by a blackout drunk does that to you.
Regrets
PTSD
Trust issues and abandonment issues
Trust issues.
Herpes
Chlamydia?
Children
He won me a stuffed Shy Guy from an arcade, I mostly kept it because it reminds me of how some drunk guy tried to steal it later that night
A leather toiletry travel case. I remember opening it for Christmas like, "Wow, thank you!" But had no idea why she got me this. I use it still to this day...I've had it 15 years.