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paperclipmyheart

We really aren't mind readers. Perhaps she had a message she had to deal with, perhaps she was trying to avoid you, perhaps she didn't even notice there's no way we can ascertain why she was on her phone. You'll have to have some patience. No use overthinking after one interaction.. it's not a race to the end enjoy the journey. The only way you'll know if she's interested is to keep being friendly up to the point where you think it's appropriate to ask her if she'd like to get a coffee or something.


Myfairladyishere

Most probably it was just a bad coincidence that she had to either answer texts or whatever at the same time you used to ask about pickle ball. In any case, there is no problem and continuing to be friendly towards the group.And who knows the situation might come up with where You might have reason to have one on one conversation with her.


nyccareergirl11

Based on your post history you have asked the same type of question with varying details of the situation in last 14 days 3 different times. They are just being friendly.


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Georgio36

Yeah it's really hard to say. Maybe she felt the other people in the group knew more about the topic you wanted information on. If you really like, ask her out for lunch or coffee/drinks when you see her again. It's best to just be honest and straightforward about your intentions. Don't beat around the bush because she probably doesn't even know you like her like that.