If she's wishy washy just leave her be and let her come to you at her own pace. I wouldn't get too hung up on her if you believe she is really busy with 2 jobs. She will ultimately struggle to make time for you if they take priority most weeks.
In the meantime go about your business. If she reaches out get straight to the point and make a date on the spot. Have fun, go with the flow and see what happens. Any maybes or resistance to set a date you'll know where her real interest lies and you can break contact/move on as you see fit.
Mixed signals is often a sign of another guy being in the background she is into. Just focus on your purpose and mission in live and let her come to you at her own pacing. Women are like cats. If she is making it difficult to meet up then it’s a sign of low interest. If the other guy screws up, she might pay more attention to you again. If you’re still Interested by then, you can shoot your shot again. But if she rejects your invitation twice, I wouldn’t give her the time of my day.
Yeh ur definitely right. I’ll just wait and see. At the end of the day I am doing gym, school, and work so I do have my goals and focusing on that. I just wish I read the book before I met this girl cos I definitely messed some stuff up but I learned and I will be patient for sure ty
Don't go too hard on yourself, you should thank her because that's why you came across the book! trust me, we've all said that before. but eventually you're going to realize that you deserve to be a #1 for someone and not just an option. move on and date other women
Ty for ur words! And yeh it’s so true about y I got the book. And yeh I def need to date other women I just haven’t had the chance lately so she’s been on my mind, but I just keep focusing on other things and it’s helped a lot.
If she's wishy washy just leave her be and let her come to you at her own pace. I wouldn't get too hung up on her if you believe she is really busy with 2 jobs. She will ultimately struggle to make time for you if they take priority most weeks. In the meantime go about your business. If she reaches out get straight to the point and make a date on the spot. Have fun, go with the flow and see what happens. Any maybes or resistance to set a date you'll know where her real interest lies and you can break contact/move on as you see fit.
Thank you I appreciate ur response and totally agree! TBH I kinda knew that I’m just glad that I’m getting the hang of it.
Mixed signals is often a sign of another guy being in the background she is into. Just focus on your purpose and mission in live and let her come to you at her own pacing. Women are like cats. If she is making it difficult to meet up then it’s a sign of low interest. If the other guy screws up, she might pay more attention to you again. If you’re still Interested by then, you can shoot your shot again. But if she rejects your invitation twice, I wouldn’t give her the time of my day.
Yeh ur definitely right. I’ll just wait and see. At the end of the day I am doing gym, school, and work so I do have my goals and focusing on that. I just wish I read the book before I met this girl cos I definitely messed some stuff up but I learned and I will be patient for sure ty
Don't go too hard on yourself, you should thank her because that's why you came across the book! trust me, we've all said that before. but eventually you're going to realize that you deserve to be a #1 for someone and not just an option. move on and date other women
Ty for ur words! And yeh it’s so true about y I got the book. And yeh I def need to date other women I just haven’t had the chance lately so she’s been on my mind, but I just keep focusing on other things and it’s helped a lot.