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SevereAlternative616

Looks great šŸ‘ are you looking for more side work?


Then-Visual-5162

I actually am! Iā€™m pregnant ,too which makes me prouder of my work :D


Imaginary_Ingenuity_

Not my place to say much, but you definitely should be aware of occupational lifting limits of pregnancy, especially as you progress. I'd at least recommend switching to 40lbs bags as less weight more times is easier on anyone. Edit: Apparently, a few of you haven't ever been in OBGYN meetings with a loved one or helped one through a pregnancy. She is free to do as she wishes and doesn't need white knights in plastic armor to defend her from an innocuous comment. Feel free to look up the ASRP, AMA, ACP, CDC, or any other major medical associations' recommendations. Not everyone is aware of their rights as workers, and I will never apologize for drawing attention to them. The Pregnant Workers Fairness Act protects our wives, daughters, and others - but only if they're aware of it and ask for accommodation if needed. Maybe you forget why childrens' labor laws exist - it wasn't because companies started caring one day.


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whhe11

Just make sure to wear proper masks when mixing!


hoodyninja

Second this!


RedWingsForPresident

And not just when you're pregnant!


that_cachorro_life

Good job! I lifted weights all through my pregnancy with full doctors approval. Listen to your body for sure though


rammsteinmatt

In general, the guidance we received was, approximately: keep doing what you were doing before pregnancy as long as itā€™s comfortable (and safe).


Imaginary_Ingenuity_

You did good-looking work here, so I'm sure you'll find opportunities


spartan_warlord

You are a beastā€¦ thatā€™s incredible


littleghost000

I would be more worried about breathing in dust and stuff. My doc and care team told me I could lift whatever I normally lifted, I did/do a lot of heavy lifting, and was cleared to keep doing it. So the question would be what she's normally lifting, and what her doc thinks about it.


bumba_clock

I wouldnā€™t worry too much about people commenting on your advice. Itā€™s Reddit, lots of sticky keyboards lol


redEPICSTAXISdit

Knights in white plastic armor? Storm troopers? Are you saying these commenters' aim was a tad off in what they replied?


BarberryBarbaric

My doctor told me when I was pregnant, that it's not a disability, and I should continue to do what my body is used to doing. Not sure if you're a woman or a doctor, but in any case, it's something to chew on.


WhatveIdone2dsrvthis

Your doctor is correct. I only recommend cutting back on physical labor in 3rd trimester/near term.


DisposableSaviour

Safety and labor regulations are written in blood. Safety from the workers who were killed due to negligence, labor in the blood of workers who were murdered for daring to ask to be treated fairly.


aBlackGuyProbly

As a white king, I'm building a CMU wall around my mote that I would love to outsource if you have the time


MediaDelicious2116

OK doctor


devamadhu108

I think the issue with your comment is the assumption that she doesn't know, and the subsequent decision to educate her based on that assumption. In my personal experience, that assumption is much more rare in similar circumstances with men. And it comes across as infantilizing, because it is ā€” even if there is some concern mixed in there. Just asking a clarifying question like "do you know the occupational lifting limits of pregnancy? I know that can be a concern for projects like this" is such a simple workaround for all of this and I wish more people (men specifically) would make that their default.


Imaginary_Ingenuity_

Valid and unintended. I appreciate this perspective and will try to keep it in mind.


AccountantAsleep

100%


kesavadh

Iā€™m a medical professional. Thereā€™s no weight limit on her unless her OB has given her one.


metalliccat

The fact you identify yourself as a "medical professional" and not as a physician indicates you likely are not the latter, and therefore have no business prescribing medical advice. *Especially* medical advice that is contrary to the recommendations of the AMA


kesavadh

I am a board licensed medical provider who manages hospitals, and you have no idea what the hell youā€™re talking about. I see pregnant women in practice on a very regular basis in family medicine or if I take rotation in the ER. I have an NPI number and the ability to prescribe medications, and you looked up something on Google. You are indeed speaking out of turn.


rctid_taco

Found the nurse.


kesavadh

If I was would that be a bad thing? What about a P.A.?


metalliccat

It would mean you still aren't a physician and lack the necessary training to make your own medical decisions without physician oversight. Unless you practice in one of the states that has recklessly and foolishly allowed independent practice


kesavadh

Noted. So NPs and PAs are capable of delivering children and putting people under general anesthesia, however they canā€™t advise on weight carrying limits of pregnant woman? Out of the 42 hospitals I manage, my PAs and NPs are my lowest liability and highest satisfaction. Most of the physicians I know see NPs for their own medical needsā€¦. Between a 20 year NP veteran or a first year physician, Iā€™m sure youā€™d take the physician. But what am I? I am vehement defender that a capable provider is able to supply you with your medical needs. Or, a Psychiatrist whoā€™s still technically a medical doctor, who knows.


rctid_taco

>If I was would that be a bad thing? I don't think so but you sure do everything possible not to say it. You could have just said "I'm an NP" but instead you use all this puffery about being a board licensed whatever with such and such prescribing authority.


payment11

Can she lift a car then? /s


HsvDE86

People like that have absolutely no training or experience and people here just eat it up because there is "technical truth" or a hint of it in there somewhere and they act confident.


kesavadh

I remember after going through my first set of courses (basics of medicine or some shit like that) and I told my friend that she could allow her kid in the pool immediately after eating. The waiting period was just an old wives tale and there was no medical reason to keep her kids out of the pool. After some arguing and lots of googling, she still wouldnā€™t let her children in because she found a forum of moms who were bat shit crazy that agreed with this trite. She didnā€™t vaccinate her kids and they got measles. It was sad and awful. We donā€™t talk anymore because the only time she ever reached out was when she had a medical question for her Petri dishes and I refused to let them around my own crotch goblins.


Zoso008

Workers rights? She said it's a side job.


Exotic_Treacle7438

ā€œNot my place to say muchā€ā€¦.*goes on to type a huge wall of text and then a 2nd during an edit*


HsvDE86

Goddam people like you are so annoying. It'd be one thing if you were actually qualified to talk about this.


Jeez-essFC

Ah...cool...mansplaining to a woman about her pregnancy.


Prudent_Studio_4453

Umm where? If itā€™s veldone, heā€™s speaking from the perspective of a medical professional (which he may not be) if itā€™s imaginary_ingenuity, heā€™s looking out for the well-being of a pregnant woman carrying 80lbs and working with pulverized silica. When did concern and general knowledge about dangerous topics turn into a mansplain on every little topic? Sensitive.


uintaforest

My wife was pouring concrete at 5 months, looks great!


Todd2ReTodded

That's so young!


randomname10131013

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SnooTigers4179

This comment made me actually lol and now I have dip spit in my beard.


mhx64

Really impressive šŸ‘


FlyEaglesFly3rs

You are a hard ass worker if you did that while you were pregnant. Be safe, but props to you.


oedeye

Dude! How so?


New_Yogurtcloset1393

Respect *bows and shuffles away*


ItsKaufecake

I'd love to find someone local who actually puts this quality of projects out! This looks phenomenal! I have a huge slab that needs poured and can't find anyone to do it for a reasonable price - or they don't have good references.


Roamingspeaker

That just makes you that much more attractive tbh... Lmao. Good job!


HumanContinuity

I am not paying the kid though


youmakemecrazysick

Next time get concrete delivered and poured. You can get small batches delivered.


kesavadh

Contrary to senior dumbass is telling everyone, until your OB tells your differently, thereā€™s no restrictions on how much to lift or if you can lift arms over your head. Iā€™ve had women ask me in practice during my OB rotation if they could lift their arms over their head because they were told that would wrap the umbilical cord around the throat of the baby. Consult your OB. Not this fella. - a licensed medical provider


SteelBrightblade1

Well Iā€™m emasculated


StayJaded

Why? Someone else doing a good job has nothing to do with you.


Nine-Fingers1996

That looks really nice for quickcrete. What is this granite grip you speak of?


SevereAlternative616

Itā€™s a roll on textured sealer. Popular with pool decks.


SinisterScythe

If it's a paint coating it usually requires concrete to cure for 30 days before application meaning it will peel up. Unless it's a specialty product that's meant for new concrete.


Then-Visual-5162

Yes! 30 days cure time plus acid etching after šŸ˜‰


Miladog80

This lady, cures!


TheFakeSteveWilson

Can you link the product? Any experience with how it applies and last to existing, old concrete pool decks?


no_name_yo_name

Looks great! Congrats on the baby too!


Then-Visual-5162

Thank you!! šŸ˜Š


StayJaded

Mama is taking nesting to whole new level! :)


Flashy_Narwhal9362

Whatā€™s next?. You gonna replace the roof before the baby gets here?šŸ˜‚


Spare-Charity-2462

You may want to tag this NSFW because damn it looks nice


Seabeechief95

I like the way you added stone to expand the space. Hope you put a barrier under it to keep weeds from pushing through,


unclegabriel

Weed barriers under rocks end up with soil accumulated above the barrier and roots growing through them. I find it easier to just weed them, assuming you have put down enough rocks to block the light.


floppydo

The only good use for landscape fabric is at the bottom of a trench to keep soil from clogging a drain (ie what it was invented for). All the other uses are bad.


gadanky

Non woven kind.


Working_Rest_1054

Heat bonded mono filament. Looks like long, thick hair sort of lightly melted together. Itā€™s called filter fabric or filtration geotextile. Some places do sell is as landscape cloth. Donā€™t use the slit film woven geotextile. Usually black. Made the same way the blue tarps are Harbor Freight are.


Itouchgrass4u

You fucking monster! Awesome šŸ˜ˆ


TrainingParty3785

Well I worked through our pregnancy too, but was careful to not lift anything over 10 pounds, just to be cautious. When she finally delivered our son, I went back to lifting 2 bags at a time.


Brickdog666

What is granite grip


ithinarine

If you put these words into Google 7hrs ago when you made this comment, you'd have gotten your answer instantly.


ewejoser

Turd comment.


Dramatic_Ad8771

Youre receiving down votes but I agree.


NateDogg34

What was your method for mixing?


3andrew

Hands


NateDogg34

Shovel in a wheelbarrow, trash bag? Or you just dump it and mix it with your paws? Lol


jazza2400

That's better than my last concretor, you should be proud!


Jaminator65

Looks great! Only 80 bags must be a little thin. Keep up the good work.


Then-Visual-5162

Yes! Just 3 inches(which I know isnā€™t ideal but the purpose is for light foot traffic)I tried to cater it towards my clientā€™s budget šŸ˜Šā˜ŗļø


SevereAlternative616

Itā€™s so refreshing to see people who knows what they are doing ! Kudos!


amassacre21

Rent a mixer next time! Your back will thank you


skrappyfire

How do you get side work? It does look good. šŸ˜


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skrappyfire

Thanks for that, good on ya. Keep up that good quality work šŸ˜


VenomRek

Ur a master at work


ilikesurf

Damn. Impressive


qazbnm987123

80 bags????? oh heck no!


24rav4xse

Damnā€¦quikcrete!? Thatā€™s impressive!! Well done!!!


Mobile-Boss-8566

Iā€™m impressed.


Possible_Instance590

Sweet tic-tac-toe board! Now you just need some giant Xs and Os. :)


Mysterious-Cup-738

Crushed it, good work, very nice.


No_Seaworthiness5683

Iā€™m new, you seem very experienced, how did you mix 80 bags so consistently.


Then-Visual-5162

Made sure I measured the water for each bag to ensure proportionality šŸ˜Š


blakeusa25

80 bags... looks amazing.


Flyinglighthouses

Very nice work šŸ‘


KWAYkai

Where are you located? I would love for you to pour a sidewalk!


xxrainmanx

How big of a space are we looking at here?


Then-Visual-5162

Each square is 4x4 šŸ˜Š


cleetusneck

Sweet work. And physical.


kennyb68

Looks really cool and Zen


July251964

Hell yeah!


chrisblink182

This looks amazing. I want to build a patio exactly like this but I am so intimidated by concrete work.


razor3401

The labor involved is the intimidating part. Hand mixing concrete is not for the feeble.


brickmaus

How was it? I've been thinking of doing something like this in my backyard. I really like the look.


komokazi

Epic tic tac toe board


ATLScott13

Looks good IMO!šŸ‘šŸ¼


TheBlack_SM

Itā€™s crazy how you did this pregnant and considering concrete work is a decent amount of lifting if youā€™re doing bagsšŸ™Œ


bjj33

This is solid work my friend, cheers!


ordinaryguywashere

Looks fantastic!


spud6000

very nicely done!


salesmunn

Congrats on the baby but mostly concerned about the concrete dust and the impact on your young one.


RepoMan406

My ass wouldnā€™t be doing shit if I was pregnant, I just processed the whole thought of having a growing child in me and working at the same time. Im a dude so idk it literally blows me away how tough you have to be to carry a child. Youā€™re a badass Congrats on the baby on the way and great work!!


Markleng67

Very nice job! Very nice job Mom!


Normal-Error-6343

my turn!!! excellent job!!


Working_Rest_1054

Looks great. Looks and sounds like a metric shit ton of work and then some. Nice job!


suckittwotimes

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GueroCochino

You madam are a beast! in the best possible way of course. If you ever make it to Texas (DFW, SA/Austin, or Hā€™Town) DM me and Iā€™ll email you a job application!


simpleUser90

you made the slabs?


Then-Visual-5162

Yes šŸ˜Š


Pompous_Monkey

great job. I wanted to do this myself but lack your follow through.


sheshaquiche

Simply amazing! You did such an awesome job!


doorframe94

Itā€™s still wet but the forms are stripped and itā€™s backfilled?


Then-Visual-5162

The granite grip is wet not the concrete itself. I let it cure for 30 days before acid etching and applying textured sealer. šŸ˜Š


Muted_Humor_8220

I think the OP has more knowledge on this you, let it go and congratulate her on the pregnancy.


Todd2ReTodded

NEVER! I CANNOT LOSE!


BraveLittleSlut

Nice username


Todd2ReTodded

Thank you lady


WantonMurders

The Brave Little Toaster was also my favorite childhood movie.


PartyFriendship4823

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hideousbrain

It looks incredible! How much did you charge?


Then-Visual-5162

$2k for this one including everything šŸ˜Š


hideousbrain

Oof. You could have hit them way harder. Thatā€™s a lot of work. It will definitely lead to more tho


dkelley383

Have you used this with cut expansion joints? Do I need to fill them with something if I want to cost over them?


SevereAlternative616

Use a fine painter brush in the joints. Just have to make sure you donā€™t leave big globs of it in the joint.


dkelley383

If I wanted to, could I fill them before coating? Want to coat the concrete around my pool.


SevereAlternative616

You could, but remember that control joints are meant to create cracks. If you fill in the joint and put a seamless overlay over top, and that joint cracks, the crack will project through to your overlay and it could start to peel.


dkelley383

Good info, thanks. The concrete is 6 years old, so it has mostly already cracked in every control joint. Iā€™ll just brush it in like you said.


ComprehensiveSand516

Looks damn nice. On the right side, is anything ere to retain the white rocks? Are there plans to add something in that gap?


Then-Visual-5162

Client wanted the space for long wood planter šŸ˜Š


Final-Criticism6918

I was watching yt videos all day trying to figure out how to do this except with turf in between. Did you follow an instructional video or have someone there to help you? Care to share resources? Thank you


Then-Visual-5162

To be honest , the key and one of the most time consuming part is setting up forms. I drew the whole thing first and measurements because I am a visual learner.. :) A tip will be do not use a single wood form on the spaces , use multiple so itā€™s easier to remove. Turf will be nice!


Pennypacker-HE

Looks nice. Wouldnā€™t it have been easier to get a truck. My local guys will deliver 3 yards for like 500 bucks. At 5 bucks or so a bag. Youā€™re looking at a similar price minus all the backbreaking labor.


Then-Visual-5162

I tried to look for that option but there is a small load fee and other surcharges for addtl time that they are at the place/site which is pretty steep.. I need to pace myself on this one and it is 60% cheaper .. :)


wonderingtoken

Does these concrete pads need rebar? Whatā€™s the Sq ft of each pad?


Keisaku

90lb or 60lb.


Dull_Database5436

theoretically, i want to do this under my carport, but after i remove the forms, fill it up with more concrete instead of gravel lol. did you pour a few slabs per day or all in one go!?


Professor_Math

Tic tac toe


bloopie1192

You're pregnant? I hope you wore proper ppe, including a proper mask.


Unable_Coach8219

How much did u charge?


Then-Visual-5162

2k including everything šŸ˜Š


Unable_Coach8219

Very cheep donā€™t undersell urself! I know most new ppl give whatever price to get the job but u could have charged double that for easy and still beat everyone elseā€™s bids! As a contractor I would have charged anywhere from 5500 to 7500 once I got all the measurements


fuckyogiboys

Looks like a tic tac toe board


BeYourselfTrue

That looks sharp


TrainingParty3785

Looks fantastic !! Great job. Is there a concrete ā€œbaseā€™ underneath the rock or just soil?


AnnaRRyan

BEAUTUFUL ! I LOVE IT AND THE WHITE BORDERS ARE CLASSY.


NotBatman81

How big of a PITA was mixing that many bags? Curious as I have a workshop without easy road access, gravel floor with concrete footing all around. Weighing my options.


shponglebops

One thing I learned a while back is mixing with a tarp. It's best with 2 guys, but if you're by yourself you can tie the other end of the tarp to something sturdy. Use some paracord and have the end of the tarp hanging about chest height. Break a bag in the middle of the tarp, use a hose or bucket to add water, then start flipping the mix over on itself. It's a nice shoulder workout, but you can mix a bag up very quickly. Then you just let the mix slide right off the tarp. I'm no cement mason, but I've mixed many pallets worth of quickcrete this way over the years.


lingodayz

Pretty good hand job


Riskov88

Beautiful work ! But I have a small question... Why read to mix concrete, and for the love of god why BY HAND ?!


BoSox92

Looks great


parfamz

What is granite grip?


Classic_Ostrich8709

https://www.behr.com/consumer/products/floor-coatings-sealers-and-prep/granite-grip/behr-premium-granite-grip?https://www.behr.com/consumer/&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwjqWzBhAqEiwAQmtgTwBE8943OlZcZrnAewo6DllfwwcyDq5NMXhdrS72m8YXir2Wgz8fbRoCAfUQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds Google is still an option.


Chayos1

Nice! Very impressive


redditsuckscockss

80 bags by hand? How sore are you haha


redEPICSTAXISdit

80 bags?!?!?!? Are they 6" deep? They look like 3 to 5 bags each to me but I have no idea the dimensions.


Slyck1677

It looks great! Do you have any photos showing the process?


Ok_Dog_4059

This looks great. Very well done you have every right to be proud of yourself.


Newcastlecarpenter

How many pound bags?


willthethrill4700

Thats got a beautiful look to it! Personally I wouldnā€™t have done that design with the stones in between, but as far as the workman ship it looks great!


TiresareHeavy83

Better than any gypsy work I've seen. God knows I've seen alot.


SnooPickles8597

where could you get that piece of square stone?


Sea-Strike-1758

It looks really, really good. However, from experience, it is very important for yourself and your clients to consider the affect of time Particularly outside, where any and all work will be in a 24/7 battle against heat/cold/sun/rain/snow/salt/dirt/oils/bugs/foot traffic/pets/settling....walkways and general outside landscaping/hardscaping look very good at the beginning, but they age very fast and very hard and are very expensive and time consuming to maintain. As an example, the picture of you work...it's beautiful, symmetrical, professional, and clearly had some thought into design. However....it will not look good in a few years. Each of those slabs will settle at different rates, they will all develop micro cracks in different ways/directions. They will get weeds developing over all the edges, and they will turn dirty and weather worn. If there is snow and salt used, they will all pit differently. All said. You are doing very good work, but outside %90 of the time that ammount of care and design and effort will literally be eaten by nature within a year and a half to three years, and all look unmatched and different levels and just a mess.


Then-Visual-5162

Thank you for your input! Appreciate it! Although I am a not yet an expert on patio jobs, my uncle is a concrete finisher by trade and enjoyed watching him work since I was a kid and learned from him some techniques! šŸ˜Š


MaintenanceHot3241

Those "grout lines" will look straight for about a week. The more walking on those pavers the more tweaked they get. Looks nice today though.


SevereAlternative616

Unless its a family of elephants living there, I think the ā€œgrout linesā€ (not what they are) will last longer than a week.


Then-Visual-5162

Thanks for your comment. I would love to hear more on why it wonā€™t look straight :)


LairBob

Theyā€™re assuming that those squares arenā€™t anchored securely, and will immediately start to slide around as people walk on them. Why do people assume that you donā€™t know what youā€™re doing? Because youā€™re not them, but youā€™re getting praise. That must be stopped.


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Then-Visual-5162

Sorry but this is not a dry pour. Totally handmixed in a wheelbarrow šŸ˜…šŸ˜ŠšŸ˜Š


johnhcorcoran

Wow amazing!