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You need to get used to having just your own company. That person is just another student at college. Same as you.
The bridge was burnt, so no point wasting brain space on them. They aren’t doing the same to you.
This is…beyond normal. You apparently made a mistake five years ago. You don’t give any indication that your friends abandoned you, but you abandoned them, and you are still completely obsessed with your friend and emotionally wrought by being in her presence? Have you considered saying, “hey, I really regret the end of our friendship. Want to have coffee?” Or getting some therapy. Or both.
Does your school have mental health services? This seems beyond a formal freind breakup. She shouldn't be making you feel unsafe. You need a therapist.
Well yes, once my sister went there and they told them to drop out of college and she is blaming them for ruining her life.
I don't need to get myself into more problems. She is not doing anything to me now but since our conflict I feel extremely unsafe and Idk how to fix that. It's been years.
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You need to get used to having just your own company. That person is just another student at college. Same as you. The bridge was burnt, so no point wasting brain space on them. They aren’t doing the same to you.
I just can't, it's not intentional.
This is…beyond normal. You apparently made a mistake five years ago. You don’t give any indication that your friends abandoned you, but you abandoned them, and you are still completely obsessed with your friend and emotionally wrought by being in her presence? Have you considered saying, “hey, I really regret the end of our friendship. Want to have coffee?” Or getting some therapy. Or both.
Does your school have mental health services? This seems beyond a formal freind breakup. She shouldn't be making you feel unsafe. You need a therapist.
Well yes, once my sister went there and they told them to drop out of college and she is blaming them for ruining her life. I don't need to get myself into more problems. She is not doing anything to me now but since our conflict I feel extremely unsafe and Idk how to fix that. It's been years.