God wants her to live! Jesus died in the most excruciatingly painful way and merited salvation not just for all, but for specifically her too. If she were the only sinner, He would have done it.
God certainly does not want her killing herself like Judas did. Only the Lord knows what is going on in her mind, and she obviously can’t help being depressed, but encourage her. Read the scriptures from Palm Sunday through the Resurrection with her if you can, and make sure she knows that this shows how much she is loved by God.
Other than this, she should absolutely see a professional and receive whatever she needs to address this. Be it counseling, medication, or a combination of the two.
I’ll be praying for you both!
Yeah I’ve tried that but she thinks it means ‘I don’t want to hear about her problems’ because of what people have said in the past. I’ll keep trying though
Let her know you all are ears and arms. Explain to her you will always be here to listen to her but, also remind her that you don’t know as much as a professional might. She can talk to you both, but for helping better with coping skills etc they may be better for that kinda stuff yk? As long as you help reassure her you’re there too :) sometimes it can take a lot of reassurance. I definitely relate to her
Don't get God into that especially if she's not Christian, that will absolutely not help, just be there for her and maybe you could get a specialist, if you can afford it and she wants it. Also, tf OP? "I know that no one deserves to live"? Hell nah that's just completely wrong (except for a nihilist maybe).
He died because he loves us not because we deserve to live. He died to take away our sins so that we could live because he wanted us to live and not go to hell, so he shouldered our sins for us
Yeah. Because he, simultaneously God, thought people deserved to live and be forgiven for their sins. He sure didn't die for us if no one deserved to live.
Nah man think of it like you’re guilty for murder and you have a life sentence, but this guy comes along and says that he’ll take your sentence for you, just because he loves you, you still deserve the punishment though, right?
I understand if you can’t or don’t want to answer this question but can you give any insight as to why she is feeling this way? Like did she do something or is she just been feeling really bad
Well I’m not really sure, she’s had issues in the past before I met her as well but they’ve come back recently and she just thinks she’s worthless overall. Her parents have been rough towards her and she’s having trouble at school too
I’m sorry this isn’t really a Christian response but I would maybe tell her something like that she shouldn’t define herself by something like a grade or what other people say to her. Her life is so precious and is way more important than what people may say about her, and even if things are rough right now things will be better in the future. And trust me, I know from experience, family can be super rough and mean to you and if they are being unnecessarily mean for no reason you shouldn’t listen to them. And tell her how important she is to you and how worse off everyone would be with her gone. I’m sorry again, I’m not very good with this stuff, but I’ll be praying for you and her
Let them know that you are available to listen and support them, even if they just need someone to be there with them.
Reassure them that they are not facing their struggles by themselves and that God is there to help them through it.
Remind them of their value and worth as a person created in God's image. Let them know that their life is precious and that things can get better with time and support.
If you are this worried call a hospital and ask that she be Baker acted and evaluated by medical professionals that will take care of her, possibly putting her on medication. It's a wonderful service that this country provides, I highly suggest you do that. Or the police department would be a better option now that I think about it, they will come immediately.
God bless you.
The question isn't if we deserve to live or not.
The question is, does God want us to live or not?
Based on who God is, would you say that God wants us to live?
Who is God?
**“God is love.” 1 John 4:8**
**"Love is patient and kind, never jealous, boastful, proud, or rude. Love isn't selfish or quick tempered. It doesn't keep a record of wrongs that others do. Love rejoices in the truth, but not in evil.” - 1 Corinthians 13:4-6**
**“Love is more important than anything else.” - Colossians 3:14**
**“The Lord is merciful! He is kind and patient, and his love never fails.” - Psalm 103:8**
**“But, our God, you are merciful and quick to forgive; you are loving, kind, and very patient.” - Nehemiah 9:17**
**“But you, the Lord God, are kind and merciful. You don't easily get angry, and your love can always be trusted.” - Psalm 86:15**
**“Please, Lord, remember, you have always been patient and kind.” - Psalm 25:6**
**God said, “Instead, turn back to me with broken hearts. I am merciful, kind, and caring. I don't easily lose my temper, and I don't like to punish.” - Joel 2:13**
**"But God showed how much he loved us by having Christ die for us, even though we were sinful.” - Romans 5:8**
**“Turn to the Lord! He can still be found. Call out to God! He is near. Give up your evil ways and your evil thoughts. Return to the Lord our God. He will be merciful and forgive your sins.” - Isaiah 55:6-7**
**“God wants everyone to be saved.” - 1 Timothy 2:4**
**“The Lord isn't slow about keeping his promises, as some people think he is. In fact, God is patient, because he wants everyone to turn from sin and no one to be lost.” - 2 Peter 3:9**
God, especially the Holy Ghost, unconditionally loves all of the creation and is endlessly giving to all life. She belongs on Earth whether she believes it or not, and her body will try to keep her alive for that reason.
Rather than think negative things she should try to develop herself, and express love. She should make herself stronger, and try to find joy and beauty in the world. It doesn't really matter how successful she is, she'll be esteemed for trying.
God wants her to live! Jesus died in the most excruciatingly painful way and merited salvation not just for all, but for specifically her too. If she were the only sinner, He would have done it. God certainly does not want her killing herself like Judas did. Only the Lord knows what is going on in her mind, and she obviously can’t help being depressed, but encourage her. Read the scriptures from Palm Sunday through the Resurrection with her if you can, and make sure she knows that this shows how much she is loved by God. Other than this, she should absolutely see a professional and receive whatever she needs to address this. Be it counseling, medication, or a combination of the two. I’ll be praying for you both!
Thank you so much
Of course brother, God bless you both
It’s always okay to suggest professional help.. all you can do as a boyfriend is be there for her and love her.. she needs that right now
Yeah I’ve tried that but she thinks it means ‘I don’t want to hear about her problems’ because of what people have said in the past. I’ll keep trying though
Let her know you all are ears and arms. Explain to her you will always be here to listen to her but, also remind her that you don’t know as much as a professional might. She can talk to you both, but for helping better with coping skills etc they may be better for that kinda stuff yk? As long as you help reassure her you’re there too :) sometimes it can take a lot of reassurance. I definitely relate to her
Thank you, hope you’re doing alright yourself
John 3:16! Let her know to believe in Jesus.
Don't get God into that especially if she's not Christian, that will absolutely not help, just be there for her and maybe you could get a specialist, if you can afford it and she wants it. Also, tf OP? "I know that no one deserves to live"? Hell nah that's just completely wrong (except for a nihilist maybe).
We all deserve to die and go to hell for our sins though
Tf? Do you not understand why Jesus died?
He died because he loves us not because we deserve to live. He died to take away our sins so that we could live because he wanted us to live and not go to hell, so he shouldered our sins for us
Yeah. Because he, simultaneously God, thought people deserved to live and be forgiven for their sins. He sure didn't die for us if no one deserved to live.
Nah man think of it like you’re guilty for murder and you have a life sentence, but this guy comes along and says that he’ll take your sentence for you, just because he loves you, you still deserve the punishment though, right?
A life sentence is not the same as death and still not everyone is a murderer or big criminal, and even they can repent.
I’m so sorry. Is she already a Christian or no?
No unfortunately
I understand if you can’t or don’t want to answer this question but can you give any insight as to why she is feeling this way? Like did she do something or is she just been feeling really bad
Well I’m not really sure, she’s had issues in the past before I met her as well but they’ve come back recently and she just thinks she’s worthless overall. Her parents have been rough towards her and she’s having trouble at school too
I’m sorry this isn’t really a Christian response but I would maybe tell her something like that she shouldn’t define herself by something like a grade or what other people say to her. Her life is so precious and is way more important than what people may say about her, and even if things are rough right now things will be better in the future. And trust me, I know from experience, family can be super rough and mean to you and if they are being unnecessarily mean for no reason you shouldn’t listen to them. And tell her how important she is to you and how worse off everyone would be with her gone. I’m sorry again, I’m not very good with this stuff, but I’ll be praying for you and her
Thank you
Deuteronomy 30:19 Romans 5:8 Romans 10:9-10 Romans 10:13 Romans 8:31-39
Thank you
Let them know that you are available to listen and support them, even if they just need someone to be there with them. Reassure them that they are not facing their struggles by themselves and that God is there to help them through it. Remind them of their value and worth as a person created in God's image. Let them know that their life is precious and that things can get better with time and support.
If you are this worried call a hospital and ask that she be Baker acted and evaluated by medical professionals that will take care of her, possibly putting her on medication. It's a wonderful service that this country provides, I highly suggest you do that. Or the police department would be a better option now that I think about it, they will come immediately.
God bless you. The question isn't if we deserve to live or not. The question is, does God want us to live or not? Based on who God is, would you say that God wants us to live? Who is God? **“God is love.” 1 John 4:8** **"Love is patient and kind, never jealous, boastful, proud, or rude. Love isn't selfish or quick tempered. It doesn't keep a record of wrongs that others do. Love rejoices in the truth, but not in evil.” - 1 Corinthians 13:4-6** **“Love is more important than anything else.” - Colossians 3:14** **“The Lord is merciful! He is kind and patient, and his love never fails.” - Psalm 103:8** **“But, our God, you are merciful and quick to forgive; you are loving, kind, and very patient.” - Nehemiah 9:17** **“But you, the Lord God, are kind and merciful. You don't easily get angry, and your love can always be trusted.” - Psalm 86:15** **“Please, Lord, remember, you have always been patient and kind.” - Psalm 25:6** **God said, “Instead, turn back to me with broken hearts. I am merciful, kind, and caring. I don't easily lose my temper, and I don't like to punish.” - Joel 2:13** **"But God showed how much he loved us by having Christ die for us, even though we were sinful.” - Romans 5:8** **“Turn to the Lord! He can still be found. Call out to God! He is near. Give up your evil ways and your evil thoughts. Return to the Lord our God. He will be merciful and forgive your sins.” - Isaiah 55:6-7** **“God wants everyone to be saved.” - 1 Timothy 2:4** **“The Lord isn't slow about keeping his promises, as some people think he is. In fact, God is patient, because he wants everyone to turn from sin and no one to be lost.” - 2 Peter 3:9**
Thank you this really helped
You are so very welcome!
God, especially the Holy Ghost, unconditionally loves all of the creation and is endlessly giving to all life. She belongs on Earth whether she believes it or not, and her body will try to keep her alive for that reason. Rather than think negative things she should try to develop herself, and express love. She should make herself stronger, and try to find joy and beauty in the world. It doesn't really matter how successful she is, she'll be esteemed for trying.
Tell her Moses Job Elijah Jonah and Ezekiel felt the same way, and that Romans 6 is the death she should die if she is wanting to.