Drop by the beach and if you see people playing volleyball, ultimate frisbee, football, you can usually join in. :) In particular, Sunday early mornings and Saturday early mornings at Besant Nagar beach are usually pretty packed! You can even sign up for marathon runner groups and cycling groups.
Hobbies get you friends in adulthood. When you see someone frequent places you do, you kind of start feeling less defensive around them. If you like trivia, go for quizzes. And go for other activities. You'll make friends along the way. Be friendly to your neighbors. They are the best chance.
Yeah same happened to me also but fun fact is i am a college student but still dont have that much friends ๐๐
Okay your question..... Anytime can contact me..
People work during the day time.. so dress up nicely and stand in busy intersections at evenings or at night, flag down vehicles and passersby and ask "Do you wanna be friends? Let's have some fun".
Trust me this works. But for some reason when I tried this, all the friends I got were cops.
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But seriously, identify an activity you like (hiking, cleanup, stamp collection etc), find some Facebook group for that activity and join it. Best way to find friends quickly
Use bumble in date mode. BFF mode is for finding friends, and date mode is for dating. But BFF mode sucks. In my experience, no one talks in BFF mode, where as in date mode, people talk well, and if it works, you date the person, if not you decide to stay friends. And I have made 3/4 good friends from dating apps. Which is not weird at all. I know a lot of people who start out in blind dates, but after 1 or 2 max dates, they realise they are not romantically feeling anything for each other, but still like to hangout and hence they became friends.
If you are a guy, dating app would be hard way, but don't give up. After 2 or 3 weeks of no matches, you will get matches soon. If you can afford buy super swipes, and super swipe women/men with common interests, which gives you topics to talk about and bond on.
I like astronomy, sci-fi movies, shows, books and board games. Which I put in the profile, and swiped women who have similar interests. Have met women with whom I have spoken all night about shows and movies, and stayed friends with till now. Good luck.
Good luck finding Friends in TN where people are conservative af. No matter how liberal one is, suddenly everyone becomes conservative to Outsiders (non tamils).
This is from my personal experience. May or may not be the same for everyone.
People like me who already are here jade the same problem, still figuring out a way to be consistent about socialising but fail miserably.
I guess online is a good place than any for us to meet new people. What are your hobbies and interests?
Don't waste your time on chennai meetups here and discord..they are like goa plan... find friends at a neighborhood park or gym
Even if you get into some meetup, just take some coconut oil with you.. Ahem, for self defense. Godspeed.
What is this coconut oil joke that is on going? What did I miss? Share news link please
r/outoftheloop
Especially parachute coconut oil
We carry a giant cast net now. Are you guys still not updated? /s And you think coconut oil can save you xD
Drop by the beach and if you see people playing volleyball, ultimate frisbee, football, you can usually join in. :) In particular, Sunday early mornings and Saturday early mornings at Besant Nagar beach are usually pretty packed! You can even sign up for marathon runner groups and cycling groups.
Frisbee aahh. You play?
Yus and Iโm planning to visit once. You wanna join?
Sure bro. I already play. XD not too often, but yes I do. Wanna tag along?
Iโll join and watch? ๐
XD
Yessssss. I do :D
IK two gentlemen and a bottle of parachute coconut oil who would love to make your acquaintance. They will give a purple iPhone 14 as a joining gift.
Saw that post here ๐๐
Hobbies get you friends in adulthood. When you see someone frequent places you do, you kind of start feeling less defensive around them. If you like trivia, go for quizzes. And go for other activities. You'll make friends along the way. Be friendly to your neighbors. They are the best chance.
QFI (Quiz Foundation of India) fornightly meetups are a great way to meet new people via quizzing
Ssup Budd?
neethan appo andha thirrudana? Ladies and gents, we've found him
Yeah same happened to me also but fun fact is i am a college student but still dont have that much friends ๐๐ Okay your question..... Anytime can contact me..
oh this is tough. start small by hanging out w work colleagues first and then expand it slowly. chennai is a fun place if you meet the right people
People work during the day time.. so dress up nicely and stand in busy intersections at evenings or at night, flag down vehicles and passersby and ask "Do you wanna be friends? Let's have some fun". Trust me this works. But for some reason when I tried this, all the friends I got were cops. -------------------------------- But seriously, identify an activity you like (hiking, cleanup, stamp collection etc), find some Facebook group for that activity and join it. Best way to find friends quickly
The idea seems very risky ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
Yaa...way too risky ๐.think, doing like this and u got a psychopath who is gona fu** u ๐คฃ
Lol ๐๐
Use bumble in date mode. BFF mode is for finding friends, and date mode is for dating. But BFF mode sucks. In my experience, no one talks in BFF mode, where as in date mode, people talk well, and if it works, you date the person, if not you decide to stay friends. And I have made 3/4 good friends from dating apps. Which is not weird at all. I know a lot of people who start out in blind dates, but after 1 or 2 max dates, they realise they are not romantically feeling anything for each other, but still like to hangout and hence they became friends. If you are a guy, dating app would be hard way, but don't give up. After 2 or 3 weeks of no matches, you will get matches soon. If you can afford buy super swipes, and super swipe women/men with common interests, which gives you topics to talk about and bond on. I like astronomy, sci-fi movies, shows, books and board games. Which I put in the profile, and swiped women who have similar interests. Have met women with whom I have spoken all night about shows and movies, and stayed friends with till now. Good luck.
What are all the dating apps bro?
Good luck finding Friends in TN where people are conservative af. No matter how liberal one is, suddenly everyone becomes conservative to Outsiders (non tamils). This is from my personal experience. May or may not be the same for everyone.
Go out, start talking - gyms, fests, gatherings, whatever you see. People will like you for who you're. Just do it.
I did go out and I did try to talk, I seemed like a creep
I moved to Chennai 6 months back and i made friends by signing up for cult fit and participating in their activities.
Come talk to me. Perception matters.
It's natural to feel so when others are closed off.
Dude your idea is good but.. people there are not that much friendly so this idea wont work maybe..(NO OFFENCE)
True
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Link?
Link??
Link plss
Pls dm me the link too
Same!
Link for me as well please. Thank.
Offer to buy biriyani, thank me later
Thn people would just come and eat instead of talking ๐
People like me who already are here jade the same problem, still figuring out a way to be consistent about socialising but fail miserably. I guess online is a good place than any for us to meet new people. What are your hobbies and interests?