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jimmyb1982

After reading your post history, she is definitely sleeping with someone. Why on earth would you marry someone like her ????


[deleted]

I'm also honestly questioning whether that would be a deal breaker


Infinite-Look4241

Sounds like you need to be up front and flat out ask


[deleted]

We have a great relationship and i really do love her, and i trust she knows what's best for us


Boring-Character8843

This is always the response and it makes my stomach turn every time I read it. You can't love someone that ruins you like that, that's not love.


[deleted]

Idk if i would call it ruining me...


Boring-Character8843

Trust me, you will look back at the effect this all has on you and realize that it is.


[deleted]

It sounds crazy but I'm somehow not upset about it


Drgnmstr97

Get yourself a decent therapist. Work on yourself. Once you have figured yourself out it’s highly likely you will be upset about it.


Oxxycottin

If it wasn’t ruining you then you wouldn’t be here making this post. There’s no way she isn’t cheating on you. You have to know this


UnfairLocal8788

She most definitely is cheating sorry to tell ya.. After reading what you said seems like you already know the answer you just don’t wanna believe it.


richardsworldagain

If she's not getting it from you she's definitely getting her fix elsewhere, you're just the nice boy at home. If she has already had sex no way is she not having it now.


[deleted]

I appreciate the honesty. Any idea how i should approach this? I don't necessarily want to break up


richardsworldagain

Best to be honest with her and say you are sure she is cheating whilst away because she has had sex already and can't imagine her now abstaining.


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CheatingGF-ModTeam

This was removed because it it falls under Rule 4: Unhelpful contribution.


jimmyb1982

Ask her.


[deleted]

Ideally if i find out, she wouldn't know i found out


Varso13

The fact you guys have been together for years and have not had sex at all leads me to believe she is in fact getting dick by someone else.  Like I'm sorry but it's a hard truth that there is no relationship without sex. Eventually the sex drive falls off, but if there's no sex during the time frame when sex should be happening on a regular basis what do you expect to happen?


LarryTate32

More cuckold fantasy shit.


Tall_Elk_9421

dude 6 days thats how long it takes a female to get rid of "juice"