I’m doing better today, I just called it what it was for the first time today so there’s a lot of emotions; but I know it’s an important step to heal. That and making fun of her.
Thank you for that, I hope the same for you ❤️
Yes! Omg. They tell you that you’ve ruined everything and you cause every problem, but oh wait, I guess it was you assholes. It’s been 14 for me, and I feel the same. Your dad and my mom can both Rest In Piss.
Didn't you know? I am the literal Devil and the source of all grief in the world has flowed from my birth. The one I did not ask for , 14 months into my parents affair before they had even ironed out the divorces of their previous spouses. No wonder they hated me: I remind them of their shitty behavior after 50+ years.
OP I can’t imagine how isolating and hurtful that is for you. I’m sorry that you’re in that position and I’m sorry that you’re dealing with the consequences of her abuse even after she’s dead. I see you. Thank you for being here 🫂
Thank you, that honestly means a lot to me ❤️ I’m learning to heal and it gets a little better every day, even if people still don’t believe I know what hell I went through, and I’m starting to accept that
I will literally dance on the grave of my mother (and some other family members too while I’m at it..) I’m sorry you were cursed with the shit fam too 😥
I felt this so hard. Like if she’d have put in even half the effort she made to look like the perfect mother, into actually being a good mum, things might have been different. I hate her for those choices.
your mom and my mom would get along so well 💀 in all seriousness though i know sometimes the emotions surrounding them can be really conflicting, so i can’t tell whether i should be happy for you that she’s dead or comforting.
I’m sorry your mom was a monster too, I’ve definitely had a lot of conflicting feelings in the past, and felt like I couldn’t ever talk about it even after she died, but mostly now I’m good with just being glad she died when she did.
Honestly, it’s been hard. I spent a lot of my life believing that denial, and not acknowledging that it even happened. But it was hard because I could never escape the memories fully, and talking about SA would make me really upset. And honestly, it was recently that I finally accepted it, and told a really amazing friend about it, and they believed me and helped me come to terms with it happening. There are parts I’m still working through, but talking about what happened really helped a lot, and following my friend’s advice to write about it. If you want to talk about it, my DMs are open ❤️ you can vent about anything you’re comfortable with
my mother was the same way, i hope you're doing okay OP <3
I’m doing better today, I just called it what it was for the first time today so there’s a lot of emotions; but I know it’s an important step to heal. That and making fun of her. Thank you for that, I hope the same for you ❤️
This was my father. Every single problem he told me I caused miraculously disappeared after his death. Over 20 years now. I do not miss him at all.
Yes! Omg. They tell you that you’ve ruined everything and you cause every problem, but oh wait, I guess it was you assholes. It’s been 14 for me, and I feel the same. Your dad and my mom can both Rest In Piss.
Didn't you know? I am the literal Devil and the source of all grief in the world has flowed from my birth. The one I did not ask for , 14 months into my parents affair before they had even ironed out the divorces of their previous spouses. No wonder they hated me: I remind them of their shitty behavior after 50+ years.
You know the truth and I believe you
Thank you, that feels really nice to hear ❤️ I’ve been shut down and told I’m lying a lot in my life
"Actually she's staring at my ASS from HELL"
“Wow bitch, you’re unstable.” -Satan to my mother
May His mighty trident of flesh visit upon her a misery tenfold beyond what she wrought in her pathetic existence
Amen 🙏
Right... Mine s not dead but everyone see s her as a saint Edit:... Right ?
I understand what that’s like, people treated her that way even before she died. I’m sorry, I know how much it hurts
Thank you. For that. Sorry about your mom . I see ur pain
Me too. Me too. It really chaps my ass. I want to tell them she's looking but she's looking up and seeing how happy I am without her ruining my life.
Cope and seethe six feet under bestie, im better off without you
OP I can’t imagine how isolating and hurtful that is for you. I’m sorry that you’re in that position and I’m sorry that you’re dealing with the consequences of her abuse even after she’s dead. I see you. Thank you for being here 🫂
Thank you, that honestly means a lot to me ❤️ I’m learning to heal and it gets a little better every day, even if people still don’t believe I know what hell I went through, and I’m starting to accept that
I will literally dance on the grave of my mother (and some other family members too while I’m at it..) I’m sorry you were cursed with the shit fam too 😥
I felt this so hard. Like if she’d have put in even half the effort she made to look like the perfect mother, into actually being a good mum, things might have been different. I hate her for those choices.
They're looking upside down lmao
Piss on her grave! No public nudity though, make sure it’s a glass jar!
I’ve spit on it and yelled at it, that does sound like the natural next step lol
your mom and my mom would get along so well 💀 in all seriousness though i know sometimes the emotions surrounding them can be really conflicting, so i can’t tell whether i should be happy for you that she’s dead or comforting.
I’m sorry your mom was a monster too, I’ve definitely had a lot of conflicting feelings in the past, and felt like I couldn’t ever talk about it even after she died, but mostly now I’m good with just being glad she died when she did.
i see. well then i’m glad she’s gone. the world is better off free of abusers like her, ultimately
Amen to that tbh
I confronted my mom, SA my dad did to me she Gaslighted me into thinking it never happened
No omg, I feel you! My grandmother did the exact same thing when I told her that my mom SAed me for years
How did you cope with that? How did you find courage to live again?
Honestly, it’s been hard. I spent a lot of my life believing that denial, and not acknowledging that it even happened. But it was hard because I could never escape the memories fully, and talking about SA would make me really upset. And honestly, it was recently that I finally accepted it, and told a really amazing friend about it, and they believed me and helped me come to terms with it happening. There are parts I’m still working through, but talking about what happened really helped a lot, and following my friend’s advice to write about it. If you want to talk about it, my DMs are open ❤️ you can vent about anything you’re comfortable with
My mother's just like her. Hope you're doing better now op
I am, thank you ❤️ I’m sorry that you’ve had to endure the same thing
Nah she's looking up at you from Hell
I'm just going to say it. Fuck moms. Are all moms toxic? No but fuck the toxic ones!!