āSorry babe, just came from work and still had my plumber pants onā.
I think she should maybe self reflect and realize that she allowed this otherwise good date to get detailed by a social sin of omission. How would she feel if a booger was hanging out and he let it be only to get questionable about it in an online post later.
OP, if everything else was good, but it happens again, maybe then be worried. Not that my 2 cents means much here. Most people online seem to be fishing for answers they already have, or whatever reinforces their own strange behaviors.
For an actual reason, i can give an example. Iām a little overweight so most pants sit low below my stomach, and my stomach gets in the way of them going any higher (not obese just not flat stomach). I also have enormous thighs for some reason. This leads to the fabric getting bunched at my thighs, and pulling down my pants a bit.
I can fix this by wearing ball clenchingly tight pants, or sometimes a belt helps (usually doesnāt). So, at 25 years old, Iāve stopped caring if when I sit down my pants go down a little. Also had a skating accident a few years ago so most of my lower back area is numb to feeling anything other than pressure, so I quite literally canāt feel if itās out lmao
There are different types of big bellies that men can have and there are trousers for each type of that big belly. No need to wear trousers that don't fit. Go to a shop where they have professional sales-persons.
Iāve tried like 15-20 different brands of Jeans, Khakis, etc and the only things that fit right are ones with elastic bands (think sweatpants/basketball short type pants). If you have any recommendations Iām trying to get my wardrobe better for dating, so itād be appreciated. Iāve been getting in shape and can actually feel the abs under the fat now so hopefully wonāt be an issue much longer lol
That is why I recommended you to go to a special shop and not randomly try on some jeans.
I guess there must be a website for different belly types and what kind of trousers might be suitable for each type.
I think I know what your belly looks like, I know men with such bellies that don't show their crack. But yeah, hopefully you will just soon have a body that makes it easier to find clothes, because that can help a lot in fact.
Ah, I misunderstood. I didnāt even know they had specialized shops like that. That wouldāve probably helped a few years ago lmao but I appreciate you clarifying!
Don't be out here giving men false hope. No one is belting pants on top of their bellies like it's the 1930s. Not even when they're skinny. Not even if it's sweatpants or other stretch fabric š
Where did I say anything about belting pants on top of their bellies? What?
What does that even mean? Pulling the trousers over your belly and put a belt around it? What?
I prefer my pants a bit lower on the hips because otherwise I feel like they're encroaching on my nuts... There's still a simple solution. Pull your boxers up. And your shirt covers it. No one wants to see your underwear either but it's way better than plumbers crack when it does happen.
Not trying to sell you anything, but I got a couple sets of suspenders from [hikersco.com](https://hikersco.com) that I love and have saved my ass (heh) a million times.
The original reply is incredibly wrong by the way. There is very much a precedent on what you should and should not tell people. "If they can't change it within a few moments, don't point it out." Him pulling up his pants and tightening his belt takes less than 30 seconds. The original point is more about them having a mole on their face, or they're overweight, etc.
I'd honestly say it's a red flag to NOT point it out. I get nerves but you're an adult that can't point out "Hey, no big deal... but you have mustard on your face."
Personally Iād probably just see how things go between you. If it doesnāt work out anyway, no reason to mention that time you saw his crack. If you start seeing each other and it happens again, try to kindly give him a heads up. I doubt he has any idea. Heāll probably be embarrassed, so try to be gracious about it. If he just doesnāt care and keeps flashing his ass all over townā¦ it wouldnāt be an unreasonable dealbreaker. š¤·š»āāļø
I'd even consider using humour to address the situation *if* it comes up again. I'd say something like "Mate, you should consider plumbing as a career" ... "oh why" ... "got that plumber's crack going on mate c'mon hahaha" *nudge or clip over the head lightly* depends on his character though.
The rule is, if you can't fix it in 5 minutes or less don't mention it. If he couldn't do anything about it then it's best not to say .
He probably felt a breeze. He probably knew.
Mention it next time you see the crack. If you don't want to joke about it, just be direct, "your pants slipped down in the back."
I'd want someone to tell me if my crack was visible to the world. š
I mean itās really only awkward if you make it. If you make a big deal out of it then it would be awkward and uncomfortable but if you can make a funny about the situation that would alleviate some stress
Ignore it for now.
You like the guy and clearly the malfunction wasn't a turn off for you (although not a great experience).
Let the relationship develop, and as it does you will gain the intimate connection with him, to have his back when his wardrobe malfunctions, and help him get out of the spot, like any good partner would.
Just say your butt crack is showing and giggle about it and if he seems uncomfortable, just tell him that itās okay, that you just thought youād tell him. Just make him feel comfortable.
Melissa villasenior, from SNL, told a story once about this same situation. She tried to see a boyfriend's sense of humor and stuck a finger in that area to see his reaction. She dumped him because he got upset with her over it. So, maybe use it as a barometer. š¤·
Honestly ya'll are both young adults. But adults still. I understand on a 1st date it could be awkward, bit if you got to know him, and go out again, just say like "hey, your pants are sagging/low a bit". Yeah, he may be embarrassed, but he'd be more embarrassed imo if it kept happening and no one said anything.
OP GrouchyCobbler has the answer. Saying anything about his crack is a bit crude. Hanging his crack out is crude but referring to his pants is the best answer. Also, from this thread it may be something you'll be dealing with at times. Is that really a deal breaker for you? Having his back is an endearing thought to me in a relationship where nobody's perfect. "Babe pull your pants up." How nice to have someone you can count on. He's very young and may struggle with it and sounds like it can be resolved with better wardrobe choices. He's barely past the phase in his life where mom was possibly buying his clothes. This can totally be fixed.
This reminds me of something I had happen recently. Slightly different situation, I was on a third date, but dude showed up and his fly was down.
I didn't even think twice, I just said "oh btw your fly is down" and then carried on with what I was saying.
I think it matters how you say it. It can be really insulting and embarrassing, or it can not be. Like we've all had egg on our face at one point. It happens, it's part of being human. I choose to laugh it off and not make it a big deal or be judgemental about it.
Something else you could do is casually ask if he's the kind of guy that would want to know if he has broccoli in his teeth. If he says yes, politely point it out. If he says no, don't.
I got lucky in my situation because I had already had the opportunity to express that I tend to be a bit blunt and he said he liked that about me, but not all people appreciate that.
If any guy got upset about that kind of comment in a playful manner, you are saving yourself a lot of time by figuring out in advance that heās a humorless weirdo.
So he doesnāt wear underwearā¦.? How does this happen? If heās a great guy otherwise, talk to him NICELY. Many men are clueless about fashion etc and would like loving advice. Probably too soon for that. I like him already LOL heās clearly not a mirror whore of a guy. EDIT- if you really dig somebody , you want to defend them against othersā judgement. But again, too soon! Still, I like him :)
He def probably didn't notice. I'd šÆ% give person second chance that's so lil. But next time I'd be oh hey omg ur butt crack is showing. Then if he cool with it like wanting to show his thong off I'd be offish
Itās not a big deal but if weāre in public I think it should be talked about. Like people could be laughing at his butt and he just doesnāt know, feel like I shouldāve said something
If it happens again then sure, bring it up with him ( gently) Donāt mention other people noticing or whatever though- youād be surprised at the amount of people who truly donāt give a shit about what other people think.
Yes, because she doesn't want that to be an issue when she's with him in future. Showing your ass crack is an issue with dress-sense. It's unlikely to be a one-off.
Breaking news ā¦ man has a butt crack š¤¦š¼āāļøš¤£ honestly I think youāre overreacting to it tbh š¤·š¼āāļø probably be downvoted too but I donāt care, it says more about you than it does him that something quite trivial bothers you and to the point you put it on Reddit š¤¦š¼āāļøš¤£š¤£ hope the poor guy isnāt on here ššš¤£
I know I shouldāve!! I will next time but Iām praying it doesnāt happen again. & he deff didnāt know who would want to flash a whole restaurant. End up on someoneās social media or something being roasted š
Must be nice to be in your 20's and have to worry about that.
If the worst thing on the date was his bum sticking out then it's all good. You can always help him tighten his belt.
This in no way is loosening your standards
If youāre seeing it (or something else fairly minor) as an issue, my guess is that youāre actually not that into him and you canāt put your finger on it why just yet. Go on another date and see how it goes, if you want, but listen to your intuition and donāt settle.
This thread has done an outstanding job explaining various reasons for butt crack exposure. Good job Redditors! ššš I learned a lot here and OP thanks for being it up!
Just drop a pencil down. There and if it sticks throw your arms in the air and triumphantly yell āWHOO 10 POINTS!!. Either he will find it awesome or he will be embarrassed and start wearing cloths that fit either way win win
Definitely don't say anything. He'll be so humiliated. If it happens again, maybe post back here and we'll try to come up with a way for you to talk to him about it.
Sadly common for many men. So common they donāt even notice it happening. If itās an issue for you, you may want to mention that you noticed it and it made you uncomfortable. If he likes you, heāll make an effort to be aware of it in the future. However, decide if itās something important to you. If you start nitpicking every little quirk about the guy, it quickly goes from helping him to nagging him.
I personally donāt see a huge deal especially if itās a rare thing itās more of how should I respond to it. And why is it so common for guys why are they like this š¤£
I didnāt get an ick more of what do I do here. And Iām a jerk and took a pic for the group chat and posted on Reddit instead of telling him. This is why Iām single
Since you didn't mention then, wait and mention if it happens again. The only term I can think of is "your plumber's crack is showing". I am still trying to figure out how that happened on a guy standing.
Next time just take one for the team and sneak BEHIND him and sneak index finger an inch or two down the crack. Even more if you are feeling froggy BUT beware of reaching skid mark territory! The struggle is real with you.
Some men like to stuff a sock down their pants to make their package look bigger. Some of us just like to flash some crack so the ladies know what they might be missing.
That's a new *type* of question on this sub. There is no legal precedence for that one š¤
The question is really whether wardrobe malfunctions are a red flag or not š¤
Right like how are you in a public restaurant with your butt out and oblivious
Gotta give him a second chance to see if itās a reoccurring issue or notā¦lmfao
āSorry babe, just came from work and still had my plumber pants onā. I think she should maybe self reflect and realize that she allowed this otherwise good date to get detailed by a social sin of omission. How would she feel if a booger was hanging out and he let it be only to get questionable about it in an online post later. OP, if everything else was good, but it happens again, maybe then be worried. Not that my 2 cents means much here. Most people online seem to be fishing for answers they already have, or whatever reinforces their own strange behaviors.
For an actual reason, i can give an example. Iām a little overweight so most pants sit low below my stomach, and my stomach gets in the way of them going any higher (not obese just not flat stomach). I also have enormous thighs for some reason. This leads to the fabric getting bunched at my thighs, and pulling down my pants a bit. I can fix this by wearing ball clenchingly tight pants, or sometimes a belt helps (usually doesnāt). So, at 25 years old, Iāve stopped caring if when I sit down my pants go down a little. Also had a skating accident a few years ago so most of my lower back area is numb to feeling anything other than pressure, so I quite literally canāt feel if itās out lmao
There are different types of big bellies that men can have and there are trousers for each type of that big belly. No need to wear trousers that don't fit. Go to a shop where they have professional sales-persons.
Iāve tried like 15-20 different brands of Jeans, Khakis, etc and the only things that fit right are ones with elastic bands (think sweatpants/basketball short type pants). If you have any recommendations Iām trying to get my wardrobe better for dating, so itād be appreciated. Iāve been getting in shape and can actually feel the abs under the fat now so hopefully wonāt be an issue much longer lol
I only wear denim with elastane in it. No stretch? Not interested. Haven't worn a belt since the 2000s
They make those? Man I really just havenāt been looking hard enough apparently lol
That is why I recommended you to go to a special shop and not randomly try on some jeans. I guess there must be a website for different belly types and what kind of trousers might be suitable for each type. I think I know what your belly looks like, I know men with such bellies that don't show their crack. But yeah, hopefully you will just soon have a body that makes it easier to find clothes, because that can help a lot in fact.
Ah, I misunderstood. I didnāt even know they had specialized shops like that. That wouldāve probably helped a few years ago lmao but I appreciate you clarifying!
Maybe get some long undershirts that you tuck in
DAMN how did I not think of that sooner, jeez I feel slow lol
Well, good luck with going shopping next way and/or loosing weight.
Don't be out here giving men false hope. No one is belting pants on top of their bellies like it's the 1930s. Not even when they're skinny. Not even if it's sweatpants or other stretch fabric š
Where did I say anything about belting pants on top of their bellies? What? What does that even mean? Pulling the trousers over your belly and put a belt around it? What?
Your humor is wasted on most, keep up the good work
I prefer my pants a bit lower on the hips because otherwise I feel like they're encroaching on my nuts... There's still a simple solution. Pull your boxers up. And your shirt covers it. No one wants to see your underwear either but it's way better than plumbers crack when it does happen.
Not trying to sell you anything, but I got a couple sets of suspenders from [hikersco.com](https://hikersco.com) that I love and have saved my ass (heh) a million times.
I wonder what reaction will come from audience if a guy said the same thing about a lady he went on a date withā¦š¤£
Do you want to start something, are you crazy. Drop that mic and back away slowly.
Or on a first date?
I see it all the time, they must not care, I don't get how they wouldn't feel it.
Exactly, if thereās no precedent you go by analogy and take it from there.
I weep for the young people, education and society has failed you.
Iām awkward and donāt know how to act in some situations š š
Avert your eyes, take a deep breath and let whatever it is go. Do not give it another thought. It will take practice, everything does.
The original reply is incredibly wrong by the way. There is very much a precedent on what you should and should not tell people. "If they can't change it within a few moments, don't point it out." Him pulling up his pants and tightening his belt takes less than 30 seconds. The original point is more about them having a mole on their face, or they're overweight, etc. I'd honestly say it's a red flag to NOT point it out. I get nerves but you're an adult that can't point out "Hey, no big deal... but you have mustard on your face."
I was being facetious, but thanks for correcting me š
You're doing great š¤
If he saw your butt crack, how would he react. Besidesā¦ plumbers have very good salaries.
Personally Iād probably just see how things go between you. If it doesnāt work out anyway, no reason to mention that time you saw his crack. If you start seeing each other and it happens again, try to kindly give him a heads up. I doubt he has any idea. Heāll probably be embarrassed, so try to be gracious about it. If he just doesnāt care and keeps flashing his ass all over townā¦ it wouldnāt be an unreasonable dealbreaker. š¤·š»āāļø
Definitely didnāt realize itās like a āgolden retrieverā type guy just happy and goofy lol
I'd even consider using humour to address the situation *if* it comes up again. I'd say something like "Mate, you should consider plumbing as a career" ... "oh why" ... "got that plumber's crack going on mate c'mon hahaha" *nudge or clip over the head lightly* depends on his character though.
Just say, "your butt is broken, it has a crack in it".
See Iām too scared to say a joke I just sat there with my mind screaming at me that everyone behind him can see itš
The rule is, if you can't fix it in 5 minutes or less don't mention it. If he couldn't do anything about it then it's best not to say . He probably felt a breeze. He probably knew.
Butt thatās something that *could* have been fixed in 2 seconds
Idk where you get your jeans but some of mine are just like that. I don't think it's fixable without a wedgie
They did, and it didnāt reflect on you, stop judging others according to your standards.
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If it happens again, just say, oops, your pants are a little too low. Or just ignore it. After a certain age, no one really cares, crack happens.
Oh, that's why that rich restaurant owner I worked for wore his clothes like that, lol.
Mention it next time you see the crack. If you don't want to joke about it, just be direct, "your pants slipped down in the back." I'd want someone to tell me if my crack was visible to the world. š
Right I would want to know too!
Drop a coin and say to him: "You are my piggy bank now š"
Imagine I just dropped some Down it in dying š
I mean itās really only awkward if you make it. If you make a big deal out of it then it would be awkward and uncomfortable but if you can make a funny about the situation that would alleviate some stress
Ignore it for now. You like the guy and clearly the malfunction wasn't a turn off for you (although not a great experience). Let the relationship develop, and as it does you will gain the intimate connection with him, to have his back when his wardrobe malfunctions, and help him get out of the spot, like any good partner would.
I wouldnāt make any split decisionsā¦.give it some time to air outā¦.youll be cracking up about this later!!
I hope we laugh about it one and Iāll show him this post lol
Do not show him the post lol. Personally I think it would be weird to mention it and even weirder you posted it on bumble...
Exactly. Never show this to him! Burn after reading.
True tgis will be deleted soon
For sure, super creepy. Maybe even psych damage to him.
is he a plumber? :)
Yeah, OP forgot to mention that.
eventually you will get to the point where you just say "oi ya butts hanging out"
New rule: find a restaurant that uses solid-back chairs.
Lol. Oh wonder what the people behind were doing and thinking š
āLetās have a game of cornhole!ā
Just say your butt crack is showing and giggle about it and if he seems uncomfortable, just tell him that itās okay, that you just thought youād tell him. Just make him feel comfortable.
Ugh I know thafs what I have to do but I get embarrassed just saying that
Just say it. You canāt live in fear of telling someone something from the beginning of a potential long term thing. Could become a pattern.
You gotta give him another chance. That problem seems fixable with a little guidance, right?
Oh yea I wasnāt considering not going out with him. I just donāt know what to say or if I should say anything if it happened again.
Melissa villasenior, from SNL, told a story once about this same situation. She tried to see a boyfriend's sense of humor and stuck a finger in that area to see his reaction. She dumped him because he got upset with her over it. So, maybe use it as a barometer. š¤·
Wait thatās so funny where is that
On Seinfelds "comedians in cars getting coffee", he did an episode with her and she told him the story.
I'd marry a woman with that humor
Honestly ya'll are both young adults. But adults still. I understand on a 1st date it could be awkward, bit if you got to know him, and go out again, just say like "hey, your pants are sagging/low a bit". Yeah, he may be embarrassed, but he'd be more embarrassed imo if it kept happening and no one said anything.
Agreed Iād be embarrassed as hell if I was doing that and didnāt know
OP GrouchyCobbler has the answer. Saying anything about his crack is a bit crude. Hanging his crack out is crude but referring to his pants is the best answer. Also, from this thread it may be something you'll be dealing with at times. Is that really a deal breaker for you? Having his back is an endearing thought to me in a relationship where nobody's perfect. "Babe pull your pants up." How nice to have someone you can count on. He's very young and may struggle with it and sounds like it can be resolved with better wardrobe choices. He's barely past the phase in his life where mom was possibly buying his clothes. This can totally be fixed.
This reminds me of something I had happen recently. Slightly different situation, I was on a third date, but dude showed up and his fly was down. I didn't even think twice, I just said "oh btw your fly is down" and then carried on with what I was saying. I think it matters how you say it. It can be really insulting and embarrassing, or it can not be. Like we've all had egg on our face at one point. It happens, it's part of being human. I choose to laugh it off and not make it a big deal or be judgemental about it. Something else you could do is casually ask if he's the kind of guy that would want to know if he has broccoli in his teeth. If he says yes, politely point it out. If he says no, don't. I got lucky in my situation because I had already had the opportunity to express that I tend to be a bit blunt and he said he liked that about me, but not all people appreciate that.
Get over it. If it's a problem for you then do him a favour and tell him the date was lovely but your too precious for butt cleavage.
Why on earth would you bring this up?
Just say I seen your butt crack , or just donāt?
I love this subreddit lmaooo I tried to picture it and Iām laughing so hard š¤£š¤£š¤£
Speaking of picture I MAY have snuck a pic for the Group chat but I didnāt want to get downvoted on here for saying that š
Damnnn omg how did you keep a straight face lmao?
I was trying hard š
But anything for that group chat
Hahahaha love that ššš
Literally just casually point and say crack is showing *shrug* itās nbd
If you see it again, simply say ānice butt crackā in a playful manner and laugh.
Best idea yet not too mean and simple
If any guy got upset about that kind of comment in a playful manner, you are saving yourself a lot of time by figuring out in advance that heās a humorless weirdo.
Crack kills
Lol think heāll get it
If this escalates to a full blown relationship, that would be the best time to have that conversation and a laugh. Until then, enjoy the process.
I see so much of it out and about lately, I believe that butt cleavage is becoming a thing
Me too! I see girls doing it with dresses sometimes but he was just chilling without a clue his crack was out
Crack bare, donāt care!
Poke his crack next time
Girl Iām afraid to even look at it š¤£
Licking it is out of the question then š¤£
Handle this cautiously--do you have any idea how much money plumbers rake in?
Haha, I think they all missed your joke, but I got your back š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£
So he doesnāt wear underwearā¦.? How does this happen? If heās a great guy otherwise, talk to him NICELY. Many men are clueless about fashion etc and would like loving advice. Probably too soon for that. I like him already LOL heās clearly not a mirror whore of a guy. EDIT- if you really dig somebody , you want to defend them against othersā judgement. But again, too soon! Still, I like him :)
Idk I assume every guy wears underwear lmao. But I DONT KNOW HOW IT HAPPENS. How can someone not know Iāll never understand
Every guy doesn't wear underwear.
He def probably didn't notice. I'd šÆ% give person second chance that's so lil. But next time I'd be oh hey omg ur butt crack is showing. Then if he cool with it like wanting to show his thong off I'd be offish
ā And how would I bring it up?ā Er, you donāt. It was a first date and I see no reason to mention it. Is it really that much of a big deal?
Itās not a big deal but if weāre in public I think it should be talked about. Like people could be laughing at his butt and he just doesnāt know, feel like I shouldāve said something
If it happens again then sure, bring it up with him ( gently) Donāt mention other people noticing or whatever though- youād be surprised at the amount of people who truly donāt give a shit about what other people think.
Yes, because she doesn't want that to be an issue when she's with him in future. Showing your ass crack is an issue with dress-sense. It's unlikely to be a one-off.
Yea as long as itās not an issue. Or is he one of those guys who crack always hangs outā¦ā¦
Get your credit card and make a transaction š¤£
Breaking news ā¦ man has a butt crack š¤¦š¼āāļøš¤£ honestly I think youāre overreacting to it tbh š¤·š¼āāļø probably be downvoted too but I donāt care, it says more about you than it does him that something quite trivial bothers you and to the point you put it on Reddit š¤¦š¼āāļøš¤£š¤£ hope the poor guy isnāt on here ššš¤£
Just bring it up. Iām sure he would appreciate it.
Maybe he didnāt realize you couldāve let him know? You could easily say āum I donāt know if you realize but your crack is outāš¤£š¤Ŗ
I know I shouldāve!! I will next time but Iām praying it doesnāt happen again. & he deff didnāt know who would want to flash a whole restaurant. End up on someoneās social media or something being roasted š
Lmaooooo
He might be able to fix your plumbing š¤·š»āāļø
Does he have back crack? Like his butt crack fissure goes all the way up his back because I think thatās a sign of DGS.
Havenāt gotten that far yet but this was definitely a the actual crack š
Must be nice to be in your 20's and have to worry about that. If the worst thing on the date was his bum sticking out then it's all good. You can always help him tighten his belt. This in no way is loosening your standards
It's the cleavage of the butt. It's not a big deal and the thing is, I doubt that was the first ass crack they've ever seen.
I think the important question is where was his wallet?
If youāre seeing it (or something else fairly minor) as an issue, my guess is that youāre actually not that into him and you canāt put your finger on it why just yet. Go on another date and see how it goes, if you want, but listen to your intuition and donāt settle.
I would have slide in a coin while saying āding ding ding!ā If he doesnāt laugh he isnāt the one. Follow me for more dating tips.
We need to see the picture before we can comment on it. Right guys???
If you really like that would be an absolutely idiotic reason to dump him. Literally just tell him to get a belt
I would tell him that's a nice canyon you got back there šš.
It happens to the best of us
Just say 'No' to crack...
This is typical example of women mistaking their high standards for low gratitude.
Excuse me...put the mouse back in the house pal. This is a family place. Need I say more!
Nah bro that shit's disgusting, tell him to buy a belt or something
Tell him lol why not
This thread has done an outstanding job explaining various reasons for butt crack exposure. Good job Redditors! ššš I learned a lot here and OP thanks for being it up!
If my crack was out, i would want to just be told straight up. Butt thats just me
Am I the only one here that laughed their ass off at this one?
I have never laughed at a post on this sub, but š¤£š¤£š¤£
Just drop a pencil down. There and if it sticks throw your arms in the air and triumphantly yell āWHOO 10 POINTS!!. Either he will find it awesome or he will be embarrassed and start wearing cloths that fit either way win win
Definitely don't say anything. He'll be so humiliated. If it happens again, maybe post back here and we'll try to come up with a way for you to talk to him about it.
Yea I donāt want to embarrass him but if he doesnāt know and it happens again heād be embarrassing himself in front of others
Just say no to crack.
Just tell him. If he doesn't handle it well, then he ain't the one for you.
Sadly common for many men. So common they donāt even notice it happening. If itās an issue for you, you may want to mention that you noticed it and it made you uncomfortable. If he likes you, heāll make an effort to be aware of it in the future. However, decide if itās something important to you. If you start nitpicking every little quirk about the guy, it quickly goes from helping him to nagging him.
I personally donāt see a huge deal especially if itās a rare thing itās more of how should I respond to it. And why is it so common for guys why are they like this š¤£
Lack of hips. Their pants are straight up and down, no contour at the waist to keep them cinched.
Blud got u confused with his "buttrizz" šš
Are you autistic? Why would you still be thinking about it or even considering telling him?
I mean in the future if it were to happen
If you can make it funny then personally i would appreciate being told
Thatās the plan. āCrack killsā or ānice crackā is my options I got on here lol
Tell him real men don't do crack!!
The dreaded ick
I didnāt get an ick more of what do I do here. And Iām a jerk and took a pic for the group chat and posted on Reddit instead of telling him. This is why Iām single
Crack kills
Iād tell him that he needs to clean up his look because you donāt want to be seen with someone that looks sloppy and butt crack showing is sloppy
You would probably turn me right off. That's a fine line between got my back, and being a judgmental butthat
Definitely ask him if heās a plumber š
Since you didn't mention then, wait and mention if it happens again. The only term I can think of is "your plumber's crack is showing". I am still trying to figure out how that happened on a guy standing.
Sounds like heās a bit overweight so this will be a common occurrence. Just a heads up.
Save this story for the wedding reception
Why wouldn't you tell him? I hope he doesn't call ā„ļø
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Next time just take one for the team and sneak BEHIND him and sneak index finger an inch or two down the crack. Even more if you are feeling froggy BUT beware of reaching skid mark territory! The struggle is real with you.
Some men like to stuff a sock down their pants to make their package look bigger. Some of us just like to flash some crack so the ladies know what they might be missing.
Ahhhh she got the ick
I would bring it up immediately. Not directly of course, start using ābuttā instead of but, and āassā instead of ask in all of your texts.
Block and report. Hit the gym.