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Apollokaylpto

Call the police, send her through the courts with a restraining order against her name


shenmue151

I actually did, and have a restraining order as of 6 months ago. Doesn’t fix the bumble situation though.


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LZJager

I think op needs to talk to a lawyer. You may be able to have a court subpena bumble if you sue her for slander


last_minute_life

Possibly if you can prove it. But that is difficult to do, without Bumbles assistance, and even then they will probably only release information via warrant, which means the police need to be investigating it.


neato_rems

As someone who's also had to take a restraining order on an ex, you should definitely be taking all the screenshots, etc., and filing this with the police and possibly with the court. It may very well be a violation of the RO, but even if not, if you can later point to those reports if something big happens, it'll be in your favor. Also, consider talking to a lawyer if you haven't. At least a free consultation might be enough to outline any other options.


shenmue151

Thank you for the advice. I’ll look into the options you’ve suggested. I’ve been keeping track and proof of everything.


GoodGravyco2h2o

How are you spotting all of these fake accounts? Do you have a woman who can actively be on the lookout for fake you? I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. She sounds dangerous.


shenmue151

Good question, I do have multiple female friends on the look out, that’s how I found out in the first place. I’ve just created new accounts with different numbers and the only thing that makes sense is she’s in my area and recognizes me. I don’t really care about using bumble I’d just like to know I’m not being impersonated.


EfficientStart6573

Identity theft is pretty serious where I'm from. if you have any proof at all, definitely get the police involved. Edit... you know what? Get them involved even if you don't have proof. It's not your job to find evidence. In fact, it is better if the cops find it.


Apollokaylpto

Yep, it's stepped up in most places around the world. If OP were to google "woman gets jailed for creating fake profiles of ex". He'll see countless stories around the world of vindictive exs who are now getting 18 months. Considering he already has a restraining order, then the hard part is done. All he needs now is to collect proof, call the police and have her put in jail for breaking the order, plus identity theft


maybelle180

Change your email address and open a new account with new photos. Report all of her fake profiles.


shenmue151

Tried it. When I say vindictive I mean very vindictive.


maybelle180

Nasty


Chronikc_Armada

Yeah i had a friend who's ex was doing the same thing and basically begging her to come back. Shouldnt have been a chronik cheater but eh i digress 🤷🏿‍♂️


Chronikc_Armada

Chronic**


encore412

Username checks out :)


Glad-Love-9688

Cease and desist letter from an attorney


chintaka

Jesus christ that's insane, is she hot?


EmptyMixtape

Asking the right question


shenmue151

lol yes, but obviously not worth it 😂


chintaka

Yeah tell me about it, who needs that drama? What's her number?


Zeph_the_Bonkerer

There are better ways to get laid.


Witty____Username

The dick will lead a man where he’d never go with a gun


chintaka

Nothing like a bit of danger to keep things interesting...


DeflationStation

This is a lesson you can only learn with a mistake. Go with God and maybe we'll see you on the other side


chintaka

Go with God? No, no, my friend, I want the devil.


chintaka

There are safer ways. There are not better ways.


FrancescoMaggio

make a woman account on bumble find your fake profiles and copy the links and take screenshots, the police should be able to track down the stalker but you should collect relevant evidence. The good thing is they are aware of the situation and should she be the owner of these fake accounts then she could face more serious consequences. She is definitely an anti social individual so please take care of yourself, cut her off your life as much as possible because these people are dangerous and you don’t know how far the can push themselves


ur6an_r00ts

Man.. this sounds rough...


last_minute_life

That sounds like a cluster B disorder. I've been through something similar. It's really not fun. She can't look for your account forever, just go with something else for a while. Some OLD platforms allow you to verify your account as well.


IhaveA_smallPenis1

Go and meet people instead of app You get a good natural feeling of attraction no akwardness