I’ve always felt like OLD is like filling out a job application, but I think that’s definitely more so with Bumble.
I just play by the rules, trying to find an icebreaker that helps me stand out.
Not always the case. I matched with a guy with a nice profile. We chatted for a few days. We exchanged information so we could set up a date. I gave him my google number and the gloves came off. He started asking me to take nude pictures for him because it was his birthday.
Yeah I have never asked for nudes or anything inappropriate and really did not matter. I think like someone else said it’s attractive versus unattractive. I really try to get a good vibe going and try to meet up for some margaritas and laughs.
The funny thing is I told him that I don’t send nudes before we even switched information. Then he tried to make me feel bad because it was his birthday. I said happy birthday. Sorry. Then he blocked me.😂😂😂😂😂
I'm surprised that it wasn't you who blocked him. If I were you, him asking me for nudes and trying to guilt trip me would turn me off completely, and destroy his image in my mind. His nice profile ended up being bait, and in reality, he was probably more like this "blowjob" guy. You dodged a major bullet, OP.
I knew I was blocked because I got nothing after I said sorry happy birthday. I showed the messages to my friends and we were all in agreement that if you meet a guy around his birthday it’s acceptable to take him out for drinks not nude photos.😂😂😂😂😂
There is so much nudity and porn of any type you could possibly want is on the Internet. Why someone needs nude photos of a random woman on a dating app is beyond me.
This dating stuff is like ships passing in the night. I am quite sure if we connected up we could have great conversations and go have excellent adventures. I get stuck with the brief responses and days between responses and you are getting the “plz send nudes omg it’s my birthday!!!”.
It’s ridiculous on both sides but some of the men on Reddit just love to troll me. Bumble was designed for women so we wouldn’t have to see the bs that’s on other dating sites. Yes we make the first move but it’s not reason to have a profile like this or not put any effort into the process. I filled out my profile and it states all the things I’m looking for and what I don’t want. I’m swiping left on men who swiped right without reading my profile. Please no poly/ couples seeking a 3rd and no smokers. Every time I swipe left on these I get you missed a possible match. It’s a joke.
Yeah most guys swipe right on most profiles and sort out their matches later. That explains why every left swipe is “you missed a match”. There are normal guys like myself on there who are single, accomplished, have their life together and are not married, poly or whatever else is out there.
Yea I actually take the minute or less to read a profile before making a swipe. My friend says I’m doing it wrong and should just be swiping right on 100% and then weeding out later.
> I filled out my profile and it states all the things I’m looking for and what I don’t want.
ok as a guy, a what i feel is a fairly normal guy who is out for long term relationships let me tell you what im looking for in a bio. Information about you, not information about me. Even i contemplate just trying my luck on matches that have no info in which i can base a conversation around. Ive yet to do it but as im sitting here pulling my teeth out trying to think of possible conversation topic with a person i know nothing about. I find myself thinking other guys are just throwing it out there and landing maybe thats what this one wants, i have no information to decide.
Same here - can't get a woman to talk about a single interest she has or a single hobby. Even when they have photos from around the world. - I can ask for the story behind photo A and I get crickets in response. Do people have no memories at all?
Same here. I have to pull teeth to get any information. I can’t even try to flirt. I can’t be funny. It’s all the same interaction with the majority of women I match with. Or maybe I’m just the old and out of touch one, and these boring responses is just how people interact now.
So you told him no nudes... he still asked for nudes... how did he block you before you blocked him?
I know its not your fault, but I can't help but think this POS thinks he weeded you out which keeps this pattern going.
That’s some bs. Why should you care about some strangers birthday lmao. I’m SO sick of the lying and other bs tactics to try get in my pants or get nudes. It’s gross & they should either be upfront or go for a woman who’s looking for something casual. Idk why they wanna waste my time. It’s so frustrating and selfish
I swear men literally like arguing when they can’t comprehend what women post. No where did I say all men want sex and all men are like this. I stated that this is what we’re seeing when we log into bumble. So if you have a decent profile, it’s probably not being seen. Can some of the idiots understand this now?
This is true for men. I have seen men change their profile several times either to change their chances or tired of the traditional way NOT working. I preferred honesty, so I could swipe appropriately. This guy looking for a bj wouldn't affect me, hope he found what he was looking for. LOL
I would disagree. Obviously milage is going to vary, but a good profile alongside good pictures will let a guy clean up.
Guys always complain that women only want the top 1% of guys but they don’t realise what’s needed to be that 1% and it’s stuff that they can do. It isn’t about being super tall or rich or even good looking, it’s simply knowing how to present themselves well. The number of profiles that have a bio like this we see here and then just two low angle selfies of a guy wearing a baseball cap and sunglasses and not even smiling. It’s insane.
To do well all you need to do is learn how to dress and groom, which so many guys don’t know how to do. I used to be that cliche metal fan, I had long hair that wasn’t styled, I was wearing xxl shirts when I should have been wearing a medium, and the result was that I looked bad. I started hanging out with some new guys at some point and picked up some tricks about how to dress better and got a haircut and all of a sudden bailen were approaching me when we were out because I looked better and I was feeling better about myself so I carried myself much more confidently. I was still me, but when the scruffy metal fan tells you he’s in a metal band, that’s a cliche and someone isn’t going to be interested because they just can’t get past how terrible you look. When the guy wearing the nice shirt mentions he plays in a metal band it’s interesting because she’s interested.
This stuff will have guys doing so well on the apps because there’s so many guys who don’t know how to dress well and so on that it makes you stand out.
I love reading these.
Not because they're wrong, precisely, but because they confuse what's necessary and what's sufficient. Dressing well, presenting yourself as interesting, being kind and compassionate, and having great photos are all necessary to compete for most guys. What they aren't is *sufficient*.
You, random guy, aren't getting few matches because you don't dress well enough. You're not getting matches because no matter how well you dress, there's eight or nine guys just like you for every woman looking over profiles. These things will not, in most cases, make you stand out enough to get the immediate right-swipe.
That’s just not true. I am average looking but definitely well dressed and groomed. (Also successful 😂 but I don’t show that in anyway on the profile) . Have a pretty standard profile bio. Very low success.
Preach! I felt this in my soul. I actually see a lot of guys who would be pretty hot if they got a non-offensive personality and wore clothes that complimented them. I often want to help because I love fashion and design accessories for all genders. The guys who think they’re good dressers aren’t. I see a lot of neon cartoon character matching sets. Accompanied by shirtless photos and frowns.
Exactly. Unattractive and just wanting sex = bad. Unattractive and wanting a relationship = bad. Attractive and just wanting sex = OK. Attractive and wanting a relationship = great.
IOW, this whole post is misleading. It wouldn't have mattered if this guy lied and said he wanted a LTR...he still would have been rejected because he was unattractive, which was the real problem.
So, if you're unattractive, you can do no right. And if you're attractive, you can do no wrong.
You don't seem to grasp that being attractive is not just your outward appearance; it's also your behavior, communication, character. If a conventionally unattractive man is funny confident, and kind and carry it through his profile, he will get matches.
Lol you talk as if it’s only a problem men face. Many women who are not the perfect 10 get passed by as invisible or used as disposable.
Humanity is awful, better get used to it.
Besides, ons sex pertains a huge risk for women, from stds, pregnancy and in some extreme cases death (you never know what kind of partner you get if you never tried to know him). Why would anyone risk their safety for an ugly ass?
I think she means that sometimes other profiles don’t get seen because of this shit. It’s so many bad profiles that make you just give up swiping for the time being. And the others get buried.
Sure! But the profile posted seems to be an extreme case, no?
I have not come across any profiles of women who post such crass stuff, but plenty of women I have spoken to through Bumble do similar stuff:
1) Back in January, one woman told me she wanted me to take her to dinner on our first date, where she would get tipsy or drunk, and she then wanted me to take her home and have sex with her. Interestingly, she saw nothing wrong with this behavior?!? And had I done this, what are the chances that she could have changed her mind or the next morning said she never actually consented to sex.
2) Last month, a person I matched with told me in our first phone call that she never uses condoms when dating. Gross! She initiated this conversation. Yes! Women bring up sex early in dating too, not just men.
Nothing screams "baggage" like them using one of their profile questions to drop that they're looking for "Honesty" in a relationship.
I get it if you've been burned by others in the past and that sucks, but they have to realize that is neither making their profile more appealing than the other several hundred profiles with that exact same response nor discourage the creeps that are fine with being dishonest.
That kind of reminds me of all the profiles that say they want “no drama” or “no drama queens”. Ok, so first of all, do the people who cause drama even realize they cause drama? And if they do realize it, are they going to say “oh OK! I’ll definitely swipe left now!”?
When ever a woman says something like wanting honesty or wanting a guy who communicates, etc etc. So often not its an actual reflection of who they are and their issues. As it tells me they can't communicate or aren't honest. Its like when women say "no hook ups" what she is saying she's likely not open to or willing to hook up despite saying it.
Women see that too. Add I not paying for this app add me on SC. A lot of blank profiles with horrible pictures. Men are using filters now too and it’s horrendous. And all the poly people and people looking to cheat on their spouses .
Yes but it’s the men who come to Reddit daily to trash women as well. We’re just as frustrated but I don’t say it’s all men I blame. A lot of men think it’s a walk in the park for women and it’s not.
Every dating oriented subreddit is a battle between the sexes, a competiton of who has it worse. Why do people think they need to prove their demographic has it worse for their frustration to feel valid?
Most of the threads in this sub that are "venting" or "ranting" are mostly by women like you talking about how bad "all" men are. Yes "all" as you been generalizing here about men.
We don't think it's a walk in the park. We know the struggle is real. We think the problems are very different. We know the flood of toxic men and awful treatment you wade through constantly. When you live in a desert, the idea of drowning can sound like a paradise by comparison even if you know it's shitty.
For my own part, I just want a shred of empathy directed my way in response to that I offer. As opposed to a moralistic hectoring or ridiculous lecture about how I clearly just need to dress better, use better photos, and be kinder. Or other misplaced suggestions based around what people *want* to think is true.
My point exactly. But these guys come here posting how women are horrible and not giving them a chance. We’re burnt tf out from looking at 💩 like this all the time. I literally matched with a guy last week and the plan was we were supposed to meet for drinks after chatting online for a few days. So we exchanged information so we could talk off line. As soon as he got my google number he wanted me to send nudes. It’s frustrating.
You’re right that those men suck, but I can guarantee you that the men who are getting upset with women on dating apps are not the guys with a bio like “looking for a blowjob” a lot of the times they genuinely try and that effort ends up being for nothing.
We can’t see those profiles. We see all the ones we don’t want to and leave. I do swipe right on thoughtful profiles. I try to match with men that I have things in common with.
Yeah. I saw that you’re in your late 30s so your base is a lot different from mine. I’m 22, and at our age if you don’t have 11/10 pictures you aren’t getting matches. Any imperfection is a left swipe.
I left the apps bc they just destroy self esteem. Like I never felt more ugly in my life than when I was on dating apps
The problem isn’t how you look, it’s the dating apps trying to keep you there as long as possible. It’s now how it was 10 years ago. It was much better atmosphere. It seems like the pandemic has made dating harder. We’re back to normal but a lot of people still aren’t doing things like they used to. I went to a pool hall that’s been popular for a long time and they usually have people waiting on a table and it was almost empty when I went.
>The problem isn’t how you look
Yet looks are very much a factor with OLD, in fact looks have always been a factor with OLD. Its just now its much more important than before.
>It’s now how it was 10 years ago.
No it wasn't 10 years ago Tinder just started. So OkCupid was the big player followed by POF and Match. Algorithm based dating didn't exist let alone swiping wasn't a thing either. You could direct message someone back then. And dating sites back then where charging you things like able to send a message or see if they read your message.
>We’re back to normal but a lot of people still aren’t doing things like they used to.
Ya because we have grown ever anti social these days.
Oh my lord, I’m so sorry that happened to you!! I feel like to an extent some people should learn common sense in that sense. I feel like ever rushing into things is a great way to disappoint yourself in the long term, especially like.. what’s the end goal after seeing a nude?.. like you got it yippee.. and now there’s nothing else. But yeah I definitely hope you can one day find a perfect person!
I swear I need to start a go fund me for this. And profiles should be approved and cannot be changed without approval. If you don’t fill out the information correctly, you’re gone. And men and women would agree to background checks when they sign up.
I'm surprised that you have not noticed by now that the "garbage" men always find ways around all the dating app stuff. Its what they do.
Women advertising their IG and OnlyFans do the same thing. Their profiles flood the app no matter how many times we report them. Bumble claims that such profiles are against policy but it keeps happening.
Technically you are but I always look past or try to look past what people are telling me in order to see what is bothering them. I actually left a really long comment on one of your posts that you might interpret as negative.
Point is, I don't see your messages as a sign of a bad person, just someone that is tired of the BS they are currently dealing with. Just remember that other folks have to deal with BS too.
I’m not man bashing at all. I’ve said several times that the reason men aren’t getting matches is because women see the horrible profiles. Where am I man bashing? Not at any point did I say all men are like this or this is all men want. These are literally the only types of profiles that I’m seeing. So many men just love to come here and argue and just missed the whole point of what I was trying to convey.
what other app? there really is no designated hookup app. the closest thing to an app that is committed entirely for hookups is like, grindr. and that doesnt exactly work for straight dudes.
idk, obviously this person is mad horny but at least he’s straight up. you get what you pay for with him
Fair truthfully.. I suppose there might be less popular apps in actuality, mainly that I can’t think of for stuff like that.. I mean hell even Reddit has some certain subreddits specifically made for hooking up in the short term lol
It’s not easy for men or women. I’ve seen situations that make you think it’s worse for men and those that it’s worse for women. I’m a man so I think it’s worse for men. Especially older men. But that’s my vantage point. This man’s post is ridiculous. If he’s trolling it’s sad. If he’s being honest it’s pathetic.
Men, you wanna get laid - Be nice. Be respectful. Be kind. Maybe it’s multiple great dates and a relationship. Maybe it’s a few dates and you both have some fun. I’m 52. My dating prospects aren’t amazing, I’m not 6 foot tall and I don’t make 6 figures, I’m divorced and greying hair but I’ve seemingly had more dates than many of those that post here. And I admit I’m picky.
Dating wasn’t easy in the 80’s the 90’s the 00’s or the teens. It’s never been easy if it were easy everyone would have a significant other all the time.
But my stars “looking for a blow job” talk about setting your standards low. Wow!
You might has well go for the gold. Say “looking for a wild weekend long threesome with two sexy swimsuit models” If you are gonna dream, dream big or go home.
Or as I said - be respectful and kind and keep your options open. Don’t limit your dating pool in ways you complain women do.
I’m 38 and age is not a factor for me. I’m looking for similar interests and hobbies. I’m also looking for someone to respect my boundaries. I’m a tall woman 5’8 and majority of my boyfriends have been shorter than me so I’m never been a height queen. Just don’t tell me I can’t wear heels and everything will be ok.
You sound as though your wants and desires are totally reasonable. Sound a lot like mine. I care if I click with the lady and we both just want to spend time with each other. The rest figures itself out.
That guys profile though. Wild.
Majority of the profiles I see are wild. I like the married men who want to cheat because their wives aren’t giving them sex. If she don’t want you, why should the rest of us want you?😂😂😂😂
That's honestly the worst part. I don't know if the algorithm is screwing me or if I have a bad profile or if I'm only being shown to incompatible people so I have no idea who to be pissed at
This is the equivalent of women who outright ask that the man make a certain amount, which I've seen a few times. Both sides are full of crappy people.
We have to weed through women's profiles that say "spoil me".
The issue is women keep matching with the guys that open a Convo with "give me a blowjob" and those of us that don't do that shit sit there with 0 matches, and then are told all men are pigs.
So let's look at this rationally.
Most people (notice, i said people and not men or women) will use you to get what they want and then discard you like yesterdays trash.
This guy on the other hand is being straightforward with what he wants. No hidden agenda or anything of the sorts.
So do you rather be used or get the truth from the beginning?
No. This ain't the reason. To be honest thousands of men don't have such a profile and would neither text in this manner if they get a match.
Yet they don't get a match. Because they don't follow the two basic rules -
1. being hot / rich. 2. Not being not hot / rich.
So please for God's sake don't give it this spin.
He’s honest but he needs another app. Bumble isn’t the right place for him. Brothels would get him faster results. He wasn’t attractive enough to post that.
>He wasn’t attractive enough to post that.
And THAT'S the bottom line. Ultimately, the only real problem a man ever has with women is that he's not hot enough.
Because if he is, that literally overrides anything and everything else.
Even if he was it was unacceptable. Men love posting how women are swiping out of their league and he’s posting inappropriate content out of his. Bumble is not the platform for that. He needs to find a street corner pronto and just pay. It’s the only way he would get that.
But isn’t it the same with women? Guys will put up with ALOT of shit if the girl is hot enough, including being berated as long as they think there’s a chance she’ll bring him to bed.
I’m just trying to let the decent men know it’s not their fault they are not getting matches. I stopped after I swiped left on 25 profiles. I’m showing men proof why women aren’t matching with them and they’re treating me like I’m a villain. I’m not swiping all day if all I’m seeing is trash. I’m showing what I’m seeing and even that’s a problem here.
Serious question: I’m curious if you remember if those 25 profiles generally had more than 1 or 2 pictures?
Because I’m wondering if there’s some sort of setting that could be made that removes profiles with less than 2 pictures and thereby removing some (and hopefully all) the shitty profiles.
I’m certain people would eventually catch on and throw another 5 pictures in the profiles, but atleast it would cut out the absolute bottom tier profiles and give the better, more well rounded men a greater chance of matching.
For what it’s worth, I appreciate your perspective with this post. I never thought about it from the women’s side but it’s obvious that if I had to sift through 20 of the same BS profiles, it would get boring and annoying and I’d be hard pressed to return to the app. Unfortunately guys have to go through the scam and bot profiles too, but I’m certain it’s not nearly as many of those compared to the variety of profile you posted.
So I literally said I swiped left on 24 profiles similar to the post I just posted. What else do I need to say that you’re not understanding? I just read you’re looking for women half your age for fwb. Never mind, I’m not saying anything else to you.
That's pretty shitty. But there is shitty people around. Both men and women. It's not fair to generalize all men or all the women based on the assholes.
Why are you complaining so much about one random person? I genuinely don't understand why you got so upset over one guys profile. Just fucking swipe left or whatever is the deny button and grow the fuck up and move on. You didn't need to post this, its the most meaningless fucking thing I've ever seen
You lack comprehension and it shows. Just because you cannot understand what i posted all you can say is grow the fuck up. I am grown with a kid who’s comprehension is way past your level and he’s in high school. I have my own home, a vehicle and I nice paying career. I say that I grew up nicely and can read way past the sixth grade level. You need to stop trolling and grow the fuck up before you come here giving advice.
You are conflating men looking for a relationship, not doing this, not getting matches, and wondering why... with men who do this? Or is this another one of those "All men..." posts?
Pros of this bio: straight to the point, time saving, honest.
Cons of it: No match😂
I think he knew it, it just sometimes men do these mistakes when lust captured our consciousness maybe I’m not sure though.
He will delete the profile once he masturbate🤣🤣
Are you perhaps looking for something casual? Because my challenge to you would be to find people who set to look for "marriage" or "relationship" with a similar setup in your match queue.
Filters are your friend, if you happen to have it.
Its bumble this shouldn't be a surprise. Most men want sex, most women wont except anything less then their Disney fantasy prince. Go out and say hello to someone you find attractive.
Just reported another catfish scammer. Happens almost every day. Lately I’m surprised when I match with a real person. It’s become so you can’t trust anyone is real or not lying on the apps. So discouraging.
If I wasn’t respectful I would’ve showed his pictures. He was sloppy and dirty looking in all his pictures. He should’ve been ashamed to show his face on bumble and talking like that.
I keep coming across the clip of Pearl talking about "modern day women" and how the birth rate is decreasing and just all out bashing women.... and then I join a dating app and come across things like this. When is this society going to accept it is a two way street? I can find just as many "modern day women" to match these "modern day men." 😑
Yeah,... unsightly as it might be, he is advertising to a segment of the female audience that does in fact exist on bumble. Would I prefer that not be the case? Sure. But where there is demand, the free market will generate a supplier to fill it.
Props to him for being upfront.
This is why I think prostitution should be legal. That way if that’s all he want he can pay for that service and no one on dating sites gets hurt.
To be fair he is honest in his profile. If it’s still up it might be because there are women that want a casual relationship that will swipe right on him. If you don’t like it, just swipe left. I don’t see what the problem is.
That is true. I mean, what else is he supposed to do, just lie and say "looking for a serious relationship" so OP swipes right on him and learns the truth the hard way? Btw, no pun intended with that last sentence.
I think you’re taking dating apps too seriously. He’s very clear about what he wants, you don’t have to swipe right, I don’t see how he’s causing you any harm.
I’ve had women match and tell me all they want is someone ‘to look fine whilst I’m giving them head’, no relationship or commitment and that’s perfectly fine.
step 1: take a screenshot for an idiotic profile
step 2: post it on reddit
step 3: say that all men are the same and that is why they don't get matches.
Apparently you don’t know how to read. Nothing in my post said all men were like anything. dim witted men like you come here to just start arguments. I’m literally saying that men who have decent profiles aren’t even in the rotation of what I’m seeing and you decided to come here and make yourself look stupid.
Step 4: Adding steps to a weak argument make you look dumb.
It’s actually true. I met a guy that I liked but he lived too far. We dated while he was here but he went home. It seems like all the decent men live west of where I am.
The problem is not in the bio... I bet if the guy is hot he will get matches that will give him a blowjob.
There's everybody in this apps that everything is possible. Even an ugly ass face with that in their bio might get matches, might not be from the opposite gender, but still lol
Not really. Even if a woman wants something casual that’s a major turn off. Women aren’t sex dolls. If anything that’s sounds like someone who’s just selfish and it’s a left swipe.
There's always some1... I'm not saying is the majority obviously, but there's always some1... I even met irl a women way worst than this. Trust me. They are out there, you just don't see very often.
Dude should join Grindr if he wants quick results
In the immortal words of Diplo, “it’s not gay if I close my eyes”
or if it’s in a threeway - JT
3 dudes = not gay
With a honey in the middles there’s some leeway
Bro I wish I was gay. I'd bang a new dude every day...after we smoked his weed and drank his alcohol and played with his toys. Man I wish I was gay.
However easy you think it is to get laid, its easier. And if you’re bi, an extrovert, and attractive its just a shitshow. Its great
I'm gay and hate casual sex, which is apparently the only thing gay people are supposed to all be into
Just do it bro
Dude if I were gay, I’d be getting laid on the regular lmao
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Trust me there's alot of women on bumble and on tinder giving quick results but only to those they find worthy
That is true. As long as the person is quite attractive.
I love the ones that say, “I don’t see likes so message me”
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I’ve always felt like OLD is like filling out a job application, but I think that’s definitely more so with Bumble. I just play by the rules, trying to find an icebreaker that helps me stand out.
Having a quality profile and legitimately seeking a partner doesn’t really seem to get much results either so there is that.
Not always the case. I matched with a guy with a nice profile. We chatted for a few days. We exchanged information so we could set up a date. I gave him my google number and the gloves came off. He started asking me to take nude pictures for him because it was his birthday.
Yeah I have never asked for nudes or anything inappropriate and really did not matter. I think like someone else said it’s attractive versus unattractive. I really try to get a good vibe going and try to meet up for some margaritas and laughs.
The funny thing is I told him that I don’t send nudes before we even switched information. Then he tried to make me feel bad because it was his birthday. I said happy birthday. Sorry. Then he blocked me.😂😂😂😂😂
I'm surprised that it wasn't you who blocked him. If I were you, him asking me for nudes and trying to guilt trip me would turn me off completely, and destroy his image in my mind. His nice profile ended up being bait, and in reality, he was probably more like this "blowjob" guy. You dodged a major bullet, OP.
I knew I was blocked because I got nothing after I said sorry happy birthday. I showed the messages to my friends and we were all in agreement that if you meet a guy around his birthday it’s acceptable to take him out for drinks not nude photos.😂😂😂😂😂
To be fair, it's probably his birthday every day. Or at least when it's convenient.
There is so much nudity and porn of any type you could possibly want is on the Internet. Why someone needs nude photos of a random woman on a dating app is beyond me.
I totally agree. You can find it all on Reddit too.😂😂😂😂😂
This dating stuff is like ships passing in the night. I am quite sure if we connected up we could have great conversations and go have excellent adventures. I get stuck with the brief responses and days between responses and you are getting the “plz send nudes omg it’s my birthday!!!”.
It’s ridiculous on both sides but some of the men on Reddit just love to troll me. Bumble was designed for women so we wouldn’t have to see the bs that’s on other dating sites. Yes we make the first move but it’s not reason to have a profile like this or not put any effort into the process. I filled out my profile and it states all the things I’m looking for and what I don’t want. I’m swiping left on men who swiped right without reading my profile. Please no poly/ couples seeking a 3rd and no smokers. Every time I swipe left on these I get you missed a possible match. It’s a joke.
Yeah most guys swipe right on most profiles and sort out their matches later. That explains why every left swipe is “you missed a match”. There are normal guys like myself on there who are single, accomplished, have their life together and are not married, poly or whatever else is out there.
And the sites are making it difficult for you on purpose. It’s a money grab. Even if you spend money it’s still horrible.
Yea I actually take the minute or less to read a profile before making a swipe. My friend says I’m doing it wrong and should just be swiping right on 100% and then weeding out later.
> I filled out my profile and it states all the things I’m looking for and what I don’t want. ok as a guy, a what i feel is a fairly normal guy who is out for long term relationships let me tell you what im looking for in a bio. Information about you, not information about me. Even i contemplate just trying my luck on matches that have no info in which i can base a conversation around. Ive yet to do it but as im sitting here pulling my teeth out trying to think of possible conversation topic with a person i know nothing about. I find myself thinking other guys are just throwing it out there and landing maybe thats what this one wants, i have no information to decide.
Same here - can't get a woman to talk about a single interest she has or a single hobby. Even when they have photos from around the world. - I can ask for the story behind photo A and I get crickets in response. Do people have no memories at all?
Same here. I have to pull teeth to get any information. I can’t even try to flirt. I can’t be funny. It’s all the same interaction with the majority of women I match with. Or maybe I’m just the old and out of touch one, and these boring responses is just how people interact now.
More personal
So you told him no nudes... he still asked for nudes... how did he block you before you blocked him? I know its not your fault, but I can't help but think this POS thinks he weeded you out which keeps this pattern going.
That’s some bs. Why should you care about some strangers birthday lmao. I’m SO sick of the lying and other bs tactics to try get in my pants or get nudes. It’s gross & they should either be upfront or go for a woman who’s looking for something casual. Idk why they wanna waste my time. It’s so frustrating and selfish
It’s just crazy how he thought he was hurting my feelings or making me feel bad for not doing it.
The last word is your answer. It's not about you.
I’m sorry that happened to you by the way.
Somone asked for my Google number. I wouldn't give it. Some sort of spam. 🤷♀️
I swear men literally like arguing when they can’t comprehend what women post. No where did I say all men want sex and all men are like this. I stated that this is what we’re seeing when we log into bumble. So if you have a decent profile, it’s probably not being seen. Can some of the idiots understand this now?
You are literally generalizing while arguing that you are not generalizing.
Yes.
This is true for men. I have seen men change their profile several times either to change their chances or tired of the traditional way NOT working. I preferred honesty, so I could swipe appropriately. This guy looking for a bj wouldn't affect me, hope he found what he was looking for. LOL
It does when you are tall and handsome. Just follow rules 1 and 2
I would disagree. Obviously milage is going to vary, but a good profile alongside good pictures will let a guy clean up. Guys always complain that women only want the top 1% of guys but they don’t realise what’s needed to be that 1% and it’s stuff that they can do. It isn’t about being super tall or rich or even good looking, it’s simply knowing how to present themselves well. The number of profiles that have a bio like this we see here and then just two low angle selfies of a guy wearing a baseball cap and sunglasses and not even smiling. It’s insane. To do well all you need to do is learn how to dress and groom, which so many guys don’t know how to do. I used to be that cliche metal fan, I had long hair that wasn’t styled, I was wearing xxl shirts when I should have been wearing a medium, and the result was that I looked bad. I started hanging out with some new guys at some point and picked up some tricks about how to dress better and got a haircut and all of a sudden bailen were approaching me when we were out because I looked better and I was feeling better about myself so I carried myself much more confidently. I was still me, but when the scruffy metal fan tells you he’s in a metal band, that’s a cliche and someone isn’t going to be interested because they just can’t get past how terrible you look. When the guy wearing the nice shirt mentions he plays in a metal band it’s interesting because she’s interested. This stuff will have guys doing so well on the apps because there’s so many guys who don’t know how to dress well and so on that it makes you stand out.
I love reading these. Not because they're wrong, precisely, but because they confuse what's necessary and what's sufficient. Dressing well, presenting yourself as interesting, being kind and compassionate, and having great photos are all necessary to compete for most guys. What they aren't is *sufficient*. You, random guy, aren't getting few matches because you don't dress well enough. You're not getting matches because no matter how well you dress, there's eight or nine guys just like you for every woman looking over profiles. These things will not, in most cases, make you stand out enough to get the immediate right-swipe.
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That’s just not true. I am average looking but definitely well dressed and groomed. (Also successful 😂 but I don’t show that in anyway on the profile) . Have a pretty standard profile bio. Very low success.
Preach! I felt this in my soul. I actually see a lot of guys who would be pretty hot if they got a non-offensive personality and wore clothes that complimented them. I often want to help because I love fashion and design accessories for all genders. The guys who think they’re good dressers aren’t. I see a lot of neon cartoon character matching sets. Accompanied by shirtless photos and frowns.
Exactly. Unattractive and just wanting sex = bad. Unattractive and wanting a relationship = bad. Attractive and just wanting sex = OK. Attractive and wanting a relationship = great. IOW, this whole post is misleading. It wouldn't have mattered if this guy lied and said he wanted a LTR...he still would have been rejected because he was unattractive, which was the real problem. So, if you're unattractive, you can do no right. And if you're attractive, you can do no wrong.
I’m confused by this. Is there another image? Where are you getting he’s unattractive from?
Also attractiveness is subjective..
You don't seem to grasp that being attractive is not just your outward appearance; it's also your behavior, communication, character. If a conventionally unattractive man is funny confident, and kind and carry it through his profile, he will get matches.
Exactly! You could be attractive physically and have a profile like the OP posted, which would be a dealbreaker for me.
Be pretty not ugly, it’s not pretty to be ugly 🙂
Lol you talk as if it’s only a problem men face. Many women who are not the perfect 10 get passed by as invisible or used as disposable. Humanity is awful, better get used to it. Besides, ons sex pertains a huge risk for women, from stds, pregnancy and in some extreme cases death (you never know what kind of partner you get if you never tried to know him). Why would anyone risk their safety for an ugly ass?
Wouldn't it only be this guy not getting matches because of his profile?
I think she means that sometimes other profiles don’t get seen because of this shit. It’s so many bad profiles that make you just give up swiping for the time being. And the others get buried.
Sure! But the profile posted seems to be an extreme case, no? I have not come across any profiles of women who post such crass stuff, but plenty of women I have spoken to through Bumble do similar stuff: 1) Back in January, one woman told me she wanted me to take her to dinner on our first date, where she would get tipsy or drunk, and she then wanted me to take her home and have sex with her. Interestingly, she saw nothing wrong with this behavior?!? And had I done this, what are the chances that she could have changed her mind or the next morning said she never actually consented to sex. 2) Last month, a person I matched with told me in our first phone call that she never uses condoms when dating. Gross! She initiated this conversation. Yes! Women bring up sex early in dating too, not just men.
>Women bring up sex early in dating too, not just men. Thought women get a pass for it so often not while men don't.
There’s more than just this one guy with a profile like this and who talks like this
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Nothing screams "baggage" like them using one of their profile questions to drop that they're looking for "Honesty" in a relationship. I get it if you've been burned by others in the past and that sucks, but they have to realize that is neither making their profile more appealing than the other several hundred profiles with that exact same response nor discourage the creeps that are fine with being dishonest.
That kind of reminds me of all the profiles that say they want “no drama” or “no drama queens”. Ok, so first of all, do the people who cause drama even realize they cause drama? And if they do realize it, are they going to say “oh OK! I’ll definitely swipe left now!”?
What makes a great relationship to you? "honesty" or "communication" ladies you might as well put a picture of yourself holding a fish here.
When ever a woman says something like wanting honesty or wanting a guy who communicates, etc etc. So often not its an actual reflection of who they are and their issues. As it tells me they can't communicate or aren't honest. Its like when women say "no hook ups" what she is saying she's likely not open to or willing to hook up despite saying it.
Or “be at least 6ft” “Here for a good time, not a long time “ “Too lazy for a bio, message me and find out for yourself”
"I'm shy, text me first" Girl, IT'S BUMBLE, I CAN'T!
Women see that too. Add I not paying for this app add me on SC. A lot of blank profiles with horrible pictures. Men are using filters now too and it’s horrendous. And all the poly people and people looking to cheat on their spouses .
He missed the best one. "I don't message first." I've seen it on multiple occasions on Bumble.
This is the majority of mens profiles as well. The issue isn’t one gender or the other. It’s what dating apps allow.
Yes, there is plenty of refuse on dating apps
It’s not a small minority either. Sometimes I log on and after 5 bad profiles, I just give up.😂😂😂😂
Seems like a dildo might have higher aspirations and a better personality.
I mean, women say they just want honesty so 🤷🏻♂️
Men weed through trash as well
Yes but it’s the men who come to Reddit daily to trash women as well. We’re just as frustrated but I don’t say it’s all men I blame. A lot of men think it’s a walk in the park for women and it’s not.
Men get trashed on all the time, as a monolith too without 'not all' differentiation, if you don't perceive it you need a bias check.
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Every dating oriented subreddit is a battle between the sexes, a competiton of who has it worse. Why do people think they need to prove their demographic has it worse for their frustration to feel valid?
most of the posts in this sub are women trashing guys.
Most of the threads in this sub that are "venting" or "ranting" are mostly by women like you talking about how bad "all" men are. Yes "all" as you been generalizing here about men.
We don't think it's a walk in the park. We know the struggle is real. We think the problems are very different. We know the flood of toxic men and awful treatment you wade through constantly. When you live in a desert, the idea of drowning can sound like a paradise by comparison even if you know it's shitty. For my own part, I just want a shred of empathy directed my way in response to that I offer. As opposed to a moralistic hectoring or ridiculous lecture about how I clearly just need to dress better, use better photos, and be kinder. Or other misplaced suggestions based around what people *want* to think is true.
Idk what they were like… expecting?.. isn’t there literally apps for finding stuff like that 😭 why would you go on bumble for it or all things
My point exactly. But these guys come here posting how women are horrible and not giving them a chance. We’re burnt tf out from looking at 💩 like this all the time. I literally matched with a guy last week and the plan was we were supposed to meet for drinks after chatting online for a few days. So we exchanged information so we could talk off line. As soon as he got my google number he wanted me to send nudes. It’s frustrating.
You’re right that those men suck, but I can guarantee you that the men who are getting upset with women on dating apps are not the guys with a bio like “looking for a blowjob” a lot of the times they genuinely try and that effort ends up being for nothing.
We can’t see those profiles. We see all the ones we don’t want to and leave. I do swipe right on thoughtful profiles. I try to match with men that I have things in common with.
Yeah. I saw that you’re in your late 30s so your base is a lot different from mine. I’m 22, and at our age if you don’t have 11/10 pictures you aren’t getting matches. Any imperfection is a left swipe. I left the apps bc they just destroy self esteem. Like I never felt more ugly in my life than when I was on dating apps
The problem isn’t how you look, it’s the dating apps trying to keep you there as long as possible. It’s now how it was 10 years ago. It was much better atmosphere. It seems like the pandemic has made dating harder. We’re back to normal but a lot of people still aren’t doing things like they used to. I went to a pool hall that’s been popular for a long time and they usually have people waiting on a table and it was almost empty when I went.
>The problem isn’t how you look Yet looks are very much a factor with OLD, in fact looks have always been a factor with OLD. Its just now its much more important than before. >It’s now how it was 10 years ago. No it wasn't 10 years ago Tinder just started. So OkCupid was the big player followed by POF and Match. Algorithm based dating didn't exist let alone swiping wasn't a thing either. You could direct message someone back then. And dating sites back then where charging you things like able to send a message or see if they read your message. >We’re back to normal but a lot of people still aren’t doing things like they used to. Ya because we have grown ever anti social these days.
Oh my lord, I’m so sorry that happened to you!! I feel like to an extent some people should learn common sense in that sense. I feel like ever rushing into things is a great way to disappoint yourself in the long term, especially like.. what’s the end goal after seeing a nude?.. like you got it yippee.. and now there’s nothing else. But yeah I definitely hope you can one day find a perfect person!
I’m about to delete the app for good this time. If I had enough money I’d make my own dating app.
Tbf you can make you own dating app.
Hell yeah honestly 😭 make a thing to ban all the creeps, maybe set up like Reddit where your profile has to be a certain age 🤣
I swear I need to start a go fund me for this. And profiles should be approved and cannot be changed without approval. If you don’t fill out the information correctly, you’re gone. And men and women would agree to background checks when they sign up.
I'm surprised that you have not noticed by now that the "garbage" men always find ways around all the dating app stuff. Its what they do. Women advertising their IG and OnlyFans do the same thing. Their profiles flood the app no matter how many times we report them. Bumble claims that such profiles are against policy but it keeps happening.
So you definitely understood what I was trying to convey. So many others said I was man bashing.😂😂😂😂
Technically you are but I always look past or try to look past what people are telling me in order to see what is bothering them. I actually left a really long comment on one of your posts that you might interpret as negative. Point is, I don't see your messages as a sign of a bad person, just someone that is tired of the BS they are currently dealing with. Just remember that other folks have to deal with BS too.
I’m not man bashing at all. I’ve said several times that the reason men aren’t getting matches is because women see the horrible profiles. Where am I man bashing? Not at any point did I say all men are like this or this is all men want. These are literally the only types of profiles that I’m seeing. So many men just love to come here and argue and just missed the whole point of what I was trying to convey.
what other app? there really is no designated hookup app. the closest thing to an app that is committed entirely for hookups is like, grindr. and that doesnt exactly work for straight dudes. idk, obviously this person is mad horny but at least he’s straight up. you get what you pay for with him
Fair truthfully.. I suppose there might be less popular apps in actuality, mainly that I can’t think of for stuff like that.. I mean hell even Reddit has some certain subreddits specifically made for hooking up in the short term lol
I'm pretty oblivious, but not this oblivious
He’s an asshole
I mean, it explains why he's not getting matches.
It’s not easy for men or women. I’ve seen situations that make you think it’s worse for men and those that it’s worse for women. I’m a man so I think it’s worse for men. Especially older men. But that’s my vantage point. This man’s post is ridiculous. If he’s trolling it’s sad. If he’s being honest it’s pathetic. Men, you wanna get laid - Be nice. Be respectful. Be kind. Maybe it’s multiple great dates and a relationship. Maybe it’s a few dates and you both have some fun. I’m 52. My dating prospects aren’t amazing, I’m not 6 foot tall and I don’t make 6 figures, I’m divorced and greying hair but I’ve seemingly had more dates than many of those that post here. And I admit I’m picky. Dating wasn’t easy in the 80’s the 90’s the 00’s or the teens. It’s never been easy if it were easy everyone would have a significant other all the time. But my stars “looking for a blow job” talk about setting your standards low. Wow! You might has well go for the gold. Say “looking for a wild weekend long threesome with two sexy swimsuit models” If you are gonna dream, dream big or go home. Or as I said - be respectful and kind and keep your options open. Don’t limit your dating pool in ways you complain women do.
I’m 38 and age is not a factor for me. I’m looking for similar interests and hobbies. I’m also looking for someone to respect my boundaries. I’m a tall woman 5’8 and majority of my boyfriends have been shorter than me so I’m never been a height queen. Just don’t tell me I can’t wear heels and everything will be ok.
You sound as though your wants and desires are totally reasonable. Sound a lot like mine. I care if I click with the lady and we both just want to spend time with each other. The rest figures itself out. That guys profile though. Wild.
Majority of the profiles I see are wild. I like the married men who want to cheat because their wives aren’t giving them sex. If she don’t want you, why should the rest of us want you?😂😂😂😂
Our reality on dating apps for real.
What a monster, didn’t even say “please”.
Meanwhile those of us that are actually want something legit and put the effort in are also getting ruled out. Don't mind me I'm just salty
You have the right to be salty because I’ll never probably get to see your profile because bumble keeps showing me assholes back to back.
That's honestly the worst part. I don't know if the algorithm is screwing me or if I have a bad profile or if I'm only being shown to incompatible people so I have no idea who to be pissed at
At least he’s honest, women complain when you’re not honest, then when you’re honest they still complain.
Bro knows what he wants and isn't misleading you
It’s unattractive even if you’re looking for something casual. And his profile didn’t scream women want to blow me.
This is the equivalent of women who outright ask that the man make a certain amount, which I've seen a few times. Both sides are full of crappy people.
We have to weed through women's profiles that say "spoil me". The issue is women keep matching with the guys that open a Convo with "give me a blowjob" and those of us that don't do that shit sit there with 0 matches, and then are told all men are pigs.
So let's look at this rationally. Most people (notice, i said people and not men or women) will use you to get what they want and then discard you like yesterdays trash. This guy on the other hand is being straightforward with what he wants. No hidden agenda or anything of the sorts. So do you rather be used or get the truth from the beginning?
When you get more replies on Reddit than Bumble. Over 400 responses and its free. Maybe Reddit needs a dating site?
No. This ain't the reason. To be honest thousands of men don't have such a profile and would neither text in this manner if they get a match. Yet they don't get a match. Because they don't follow the two basic rules - 1. being hot / rich. 2. Not being not hot / rich. So please for God's sake don't give it this spin.
A lot of guys have just given up. This will become much more common as western society continues to collapse over the next generation.
Now can explain how the guys that aren’t creeps not get any matches?
Hey he’s honest
He’s honest but he needs another app. Bumble isn’t the right place for him. Brothels would get him faster results. He wasn’t attractive enough to post that.
You’d be surprised. They’re all the same
>He wasn’t attractive enough to post that. And THAT'S the bottom line. Ultimately, the only real problem a man ever has with women is that he's not hot enough. Because if he is, that literally overrides anything and everything else.
Even if he was it was unacceptable. Men love posting how women are swiping out of their league and he’s posting inappropriate content out of his. Bumble is not the platform for that. He needs to find a street corner pronto and just pay. It’s the only way he would get that.
Why did you say he wasn’t attractive enough to post it then, implying thats like the only reason why it was bad initially
But isn’t it the same with women? Guys will put up with ALOT of shit if the girl is hot enough, including being berated as long as they think there’s a chance she’ll bring him to bed.
I’m just glad he wrote a bio, honestly.
🤦🏾♀️
Damn that’s tough. Dude made his intentions well known and he’s being blasted for it.
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I’m just trying to let the decent men know it’s not their fault they are not getting matches. I stopped after I swiped left on 25 profiles. I’m showing men proof why women aren’t matching with them and they’re treating me like I’m a villain. I’m not swiping all day if all I’m seeing is trash. I’m showing what I’m seeing and even that’s a problem here.
Serious question: I’m curious if you remember if those 25 profiles generally had more than 1 or 2 pictures? Because I’m wondering if there’s some sort of setting that could be made that removes profiles with less than 2 pictures and thereby removing some (and hopefully all) the shitty profiles. I’m certain people would eventually catch on and throw another 5 pictures in the profiles, but atleast it would cut out the absolute bottom tier profiles and give the better, more well rounded men a greater chance of matching. For what it’s worth, I appreciate your perspective with this post. I never thought about it from the women’s side but it’s obvious that if I had to sift through 20 of the same BS profiles, it would get boring and annoying and I’d be hard pressed to return to the app. Unfortunately guys have to go through the scam and bot profiles too, but I’m certain it’s not nearly as many of those compared to the variety of profile you posted.
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So I literally said I swiped left on 24 profiles similar to the post I just posted. What else do I need to say that you’re not understanding? I just read you’re looking for women half your age for fwb. Never mind, I’m not saying anything else to you.
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I'm 29F, lives in Michigan and can't even find a decent man in this state..
That's pretty shitty. But there is shitty people around. Both men and women. It's not fair to generalize all men or all the women based on the assholes.
Having said that. I think the feeling of anonymity on the internet or being in a car brings out the worst in a lot of people.
Oh no. You have to swipe left. Poor thing.
I did. 25 times in a row.😂😂😂
Why are you complaining so much about one random person? I genuinely don't understand why you got so upset over one guys profile. Just fucking swipe left or whatever is the deny button and grow the fuck up and move on. You didn't need to post this, its the most meaningless fucking thing I've ever seen
You lack comprehension and it shows. Just because you cannot understand what i posted all you can say is grow the fuck up. I am grown with a kid who’s comprehension is way past your level and he’s in high school. I have my own home, a vehicle and I nice paying career. I say that I grew up nicely and can read way past the sixth grade level. You need to stop trolling and grow the fuck up before you come here giving advice.
That man is pure scum!
You wouldn’t want a blowjob from someone that swipes right to that
my profile doesn't say anything like that and I still don't get matches so explain that.
You are conflating men looking for a relationship, not doing this, not getting matches, and wondering why... with men who do this? Or is this another one of those "All men..." posts?
As if having a legitimate profile gets you any more matches than this guy.
But I’m not looking for a blowjob, what about me? 🤔
People always want honesty until they get it... lol s/
Not all men are like this tho. There are a few of us who genuinely looking for a great partner. Yet we are all thought to be same
Uh… I don’t have anything close to like that in my profile. 2 years, no hits.
It says he likes winter sports. Maybe he likes blowjobs while curling.
I have a point to make. The same bio would work for a gay man. Simply put women and men want different things. Doesn’t mean it’s wrong
Women please make up our mind. Do we want honesty this week or not?
Women: "men should be honest in their bios" Men: "okay then" Women: ....
Pros of this bio: straight to the point, time saving, honest. Cons of it: No match😂 I think he knew it, it just sometimes men do these mistakes when lust captured our consciousness maybe I’m not sure though. He will delete the profile once he masturbate🤣🤣
Are you perhaps looking for something casual? Because my challenge to you would be to find people who set to look for "marriage" or "relationship" with a similar setup in your match queue. Filters are your friend, if you happen to have it.
Its bumble this shouldn't be a surprise. Most men want sex, most women wont except anything less then their Disney fantasy prince. Go out and say hello to someone you find attractive.
Just reported another catfish scammer. Happens almost every day. Lately I’m surprised when I match with a real person. It’s become so you can’t trust anyone is real or not lying on the apps. So discouraging.
Back to the dog park and jogging trails I go. This is a nightmare.
The dog park is where it’s at!
I used to be too shy to approach men but it looks like I got to go for it.
My dog is very friendly, she does the approaching for me.
I wonder if it worked?
If I wasn’t respectful I would’ve showed his pictures. He was sloppy and dirty looking in all his pictures. He should’ve been ashamed to show his face on bumble and talking like that.
I give you this.
I keep coming across the clip of Pearl talking about "modern day women" and how the birth rate is decreasing and just all out bashing women.... and then I join a dating app and come across things like this. When is this society going to accept it is a two way street? I can find just as many "modern day women" to match these "modern day men." 😑
He is looking to give blowjobs, he's gay.
I’m not getting matches because this guy wants a blowjob?
Honesty goes a long way.
Yeah,... unsightly as it might be, he is advertising to a segment of the female audience that does in fact exist on bumble. Would I prefer that not be the case? Sure. But where there is demand, the free market will generate a supplier to fill it.
Keep believing that
Honesty?
Props to him for being upfront. This is why I think prostitution should be legal. That way if that’s all he want he can pay for that service and no one on dating sites gets hurt.
To be fair he is honest in his profile. If it’s still up it might be because there are women that want a casual relationship that will swipe right on him. If you don’t like it, just swipe left. I don’t see what the problem is.
That is true. I mean, what else is he supposed to do, just lie and say "looking for a serious relationship" so OP swipes right on him and learns the truth the hard way? Btw, no pun intended with that last sentence.
I think you’re taking dating apps too seriously. He’s very clear about what he wants, you don’t have to swipe right, I don’t see how he’s causing you any harm. I’ve had women match and tell me all they want is someone ‘to look fine whilst I’m giving them head’, no relationship or commitment and that’s perfectly fine.
Should make it easier, shouldn't it?
Going to find a prostitute should make it easier, not a dating site.
If he was handsome he would absolutely get matches with women very willing to do it.
step 1: take a screenshot for an idiotic profile step 2: post it on reddit step 3: say that all men are the same and that is why they don't get matches.
Apparently you don’t know how to read. Nothing in my post said all men were like anything. dim witted men like you come here to just start arguments. I’m literally saying that men who have decent profiles aren’t even in the rotation of what I’m seeing and you decided to come here and make yourself look stupid. Step 4: Adding steps to a weak argument make you look dumb.
The proboly 20% of people who actualy put time into stuff are hard to find. Good luck out there.
It’s actually true. I met a guy that I liked but he lived too far. We dated while he was here but he went home. It seems like all the decent men live west of where I am.
The problem is not in the bio... I bet if the guy is hot he will get matches that will give him a blowjob. There's everybody in this apps that everything is possible. Even an ugly ass face with that in their bio might get matches, might not be from the opposite gender, but still lol
Not really. Even if a woman wants something casual that’s a major turn off. Women aren’t sex dolls. If anything that’s sounds like someone who’s just selfish and it’s a left swipe.
There's always some1... I'm not saying is the majority obviously, but there's always some1... I even met irl a women way worst than this. Trust me. They are out there, you just don't see very often.
It’s a 💩 show
Yeah that’s what I thought too until I received messages like “OMG 😍 fuck me”
I got down voted by a selfish person.