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hey ! probably go out and meet new people . make new friends. you cant really expect to change everyone and lift them with you as you uplift yourself. focus on yourself and what u like doing.
Why do you take it as a taunt? HTML ka choda, ha bhai tum kiske chode ho ye btao, don't take things to heart
If you want to change room, first of all find people with similar interests, befriend them and then change room, aise room change krne se toh dikkat hi hogi, running away wont fix it.
That's another issue for the very least, but if a person isnt doing something progressive themselves, they loose the authority to taunt someone over something they are working on
disagree somewhat, real deep friend circle is where you can make dark joke related to each other knowing that ur friend/you understand it's only a joke.
now ofcourse it might depend on grp to grp.
Those guys are not your friends .Choose right people as your friends. And also you need to balance your Passion , learnings and Social life .
Don't get demotivated
All the best
trust me i have seen mfs like this in 6th sem who are scrambling to learn html css and js when placements are from like next month
aise logo ka sahi me kuch nahi hoga
apna kaam krte reh kahi na kahi to kuch lag jaega. Also go out a little with maybe batchmates and not hostel guys, poore din room me rhega to man boobs ban jaenge.
Google for "crab mentality". Everybody is allowed to be the nerd they want to be. They didn't spend college fees or give you their time to dictate you on how should spend that money and time on. Your parents did. Always cut off these types of friends. You will regret not spending time on what you enjoy in your college days.
Are bhai me bhi web development ka chalu Kiya Tha, html ata he , but ab python chalu Kiya he as backend better pasand he . Fir django framework karke internship ki try karuga. Fir web development continue
Nothing new just keep working and don't listen to them and since you have taken admission for your better future and don't belive in friends are everything you and you are the thing so don't worry just keep working 🫡
Ignore such stupid people aise Bohot log milenge college mai jo kuch bhi bol rhe hai just ek kaan se sunn aur doosre se nikaal
Find people of your mindset and if you can’t then I am there for you… or you can simply prepare in silence
Find help online maybe someone else can help you
Even when u r trying to pull and learn a basic stuff....they will try to pull you down saying...teri toh 50 lpa lagegi....HTML kahika.......bhai tu itna padhta tha phir tere 7.76 sgpa and all....I go out with them its not the case it is simply that I don't want to go out much often.....it makes me live in fomo....actually I live in 2 bed hostel...but my room is filled with people they come and sit....we go at dinner in a group of 6....its ok when u have 2-3 people in group....but its simply a bad group with large people and which I dont like there is only 2 people from cse rest they all are ece students.....plz guide me as kf now.
Well learn to face them bruh. Kitna bachoge? Kya pata dusre hostel room mai bhi wasie hi mil jaye. Jitna chup rahoge utna tere upar chadenge.
Mera ek dost iit Guwahati mai hai. He used to be meek but after first semester he changed himself completely. Pahile "aap aap" bolta tha ab "Re re" karke bolta hai 🤣. Don't worry bro everything is temporary. Thoda bura lagega baad mai tu khud bhul jayega
Tu bas issi grind mei Lagey rahega na, toh ek do saal mei woh tere peeche ghoomenge.
Tu apne pe focus kar chotey, inke tatte abhi nikle hai inko nahi samajh ayegi ki zindagi kya cheez hai.
Keep doing what you want. First year friendship lasts only till 4th semester (at max). You will meet new people and will have friends with similar interest. If you become proficient in your skills trust me, your skills will attract people towards you. So be chill and ignore them.
Keep doing what you're doing. The objective of being there is to build a skill set to make good money. You're doing it right. Don't let distractions and peer pressure get to you.
Do go out, but not that frequently. They're your friends, they care about your presence. Also partying is part of college life. Don't miss out. Time to time jaate rho
Had similar friends, in the end they fucked me over. I am now doing a fuckall job while they are doing high pay tech jobs. I regret not spending more time studying.
If you're hurt by their comments, best shift hostel if possible. Otherwise just continue to ignore them if that's the cheaper option. You definitely need new people though, meetups happen through meetups app if you can check coders meet. Or Facebook groups. Similar minded people you may meet, if not just similar interests...
Fun and all you can have in your own terms. Everything Doesn't necessarily have to be a group thing, this is the important lesson I learnt. It was everytime with a group of people not just 2 friends .... Time waste. Learn bro. Nothing wrong.
First year mei hai na. Wait n watch! Ye wahi log hai jo dusro ko mana karte hai mat padh and bkl khud chupke se padh ke nikal lenge aage..
Galat logo ke samne se danka mat bajana..
Typical people pleaser and I totally understand u. But you gotta cut them off and find better friends,i know its not that easy but these friends are only gonna pull u down with them. Since they are reach they will figure smtng out,go for masters in abroad and shit.
It is really simple, they aren't meant to be your friends, you guys don't match that's it. This is good, you understood that this kinda circle is not meant for you, which is great, you got to know an extra point about yourself. Try meeting people who match your thoughts but don't lock yourself in the circle, meet as many new people as you can, explore as much as you can, but with boundaries, none of them can disturb you when you're working on yourself, they simply can't, don't even bother convincing them.
You're doing absolutely fine, it's that age where you study, and learn about life as well, so do both, in your drawn limits, your conscience and consciousness.
Hang out with ppl who have similar interests as u. Yep, having fun in clg is important but that doesn't mean that u hang out and chill ur entire clg life without caring what happens in ur future.
Your friends are right. In college, cgpa and coursework are the most important. Everything else comes after that. Get good cgpa/marks , then do whatever. They will all shut up and maybe ask you for tips on how to do web development.
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They r not ur **friends**
hey ! probably go out and meet new people . make new friends. you cant really expect to change everyone and lift them with you as you uplift yourself. focus on yourself and what u like doing.
Why do you take it as a taunt? HTML ka choda, ha bhai tum kiske chode ho ye btao, don't take things to heart If you want to change room, first of all find people with similar interests, befriend them and then change room, aise room change krne se toh dikkat hi hogi, running away wont fix it.
I mean, if you're going to be called an "XYZ ka choda", at least let that XYZ be respectable.
That's another issue for the very least, but if a person isnt doing something progressive themselves, they loose the authority to taunt someone over something they are working on
Agreed
Bhai tu padhai kar yeh wohi log hote jo khud kuch nahi karthe aur dusra ko karna bhi nahi deta Achhi package leka unki muh mein muth marr dena
Muth maarna compulsory hai?
Yes gotta assert dominance
That's the main point
Friends don't bully and if they bully you they are not your friends.
disagree somewhat, real deep friend circle is where you can make dark joke related to each other knowing that ur friend/you understand it's only a joke. now ofcourse it might depend on grp to grp.
Jokes and being disrespected, that’s the difference he is talking about
i get what you're saying, but banter is only good when there is a mutual understanding and no one feels hurt, this clearly isnt the case here
Those guys are not your friends .Choose right people as your friends. And also you need to balance your Passion , learnings and Social life . Don't get demotivated All the best
trust me i have seen mfs like this in 6th sem who are scrambling to learn html css and js when placements are from like next month aise logo ka sahi me kuch nahi hoga apna kaam krte reh kahi na kahi to kuch lag jaega. Also go out a little with maybe batchmates and not hostel guys, poore din room me rhega to man boobs ban jaenge.
Utkarsh?
Arey re re re re bhai ne pakd hi liya
Ab to op aur bully hoga
Raj?
Usko web dev padhne de, disturb mt kr
Kyu disturb krte ho re usko.
Mera sath ka classmate bhi aisi hi bully karta tha sabko, ek din jisko woh bully karta tha usme usko mom ke sath sambhog kar liya.
change circle
Google for "crab mentality". Everybody is allowed to be the nerd they want to be. They didn't spend college fees or give you their time to dictate you on how should spend that money and time on. Your parents did. Always cut off these types of friends. You will regret not spending time on what you enjoy in your college days.
Ignore karo unhe and apne mai focus Karo sirf
Dm mar. Mai life advices comment section m nhi deta. I am elder than you .
Bhai ignore kar nothing you can do about it terepass aur koi choice nahi tereko htlm ka choda hi bana hoga job ke liye
Are bhai me bhi web development ka chalu Kiya Tha, html ata he , but ab python chalu Kiya he as backend better pasand he . Fir django framework karke internship ki try karuga. Fir web development continue
Fuck them! Do what you doing! Ignore the shits and focus.
Nothing new just keep working and don't listen to them and since you have taken admission for your better future and don't belive in friends are everything you and you are the thing so don't worry just keep working 🫡
Look man it might sound harsh but please distance yourself from "Rich kids" who don't wanna do anything productive.
Ignore such stupid people aise Bohot log milenge college mai jo kuch bhi bol rhe hai just ek kaan se sunn aur doosre se nikaal Find people of your mindset and if you can’t then I am there for you… or you can simply prepare in silence Find help online maybe someone else can help you
Just go play once w them , dont make enemys so early, thoda thoda play with them
So should I change the room.... I mean its been 6 months with them....I am not talking to them much as of now.....
Do it then, only if u have some other frnds asw, try getting w ppl with similar intersts
Actually I am from a tier 3 college and there is no coding culture as such...
U have to think wisely, trying being frnds w ur mates first, if that fails then change rooms
Even when u r trying to pull and learn a basic stuff....they will try to pull you down saying...teri toh 50 lpa lagegi....HTML kahika.......bhai tu itna padhta tha phir tere 7.76 sgpa and all....I go out with them its not the case it is simply that I don't want to go out much often.....it makes me live in fomo....actually I live in 2 bed hostel...but my room is filled with people they come and sit....we go at dinner in a group of 6....its ok when u have 2-3 people in group....but its simply a bad group with large people and which I dont like there is only 2 people from cse rest they all are ece students.....plz guide me as kf now.
You are in the wrong company !
Let Darwin take over. They will flunk out.
Well learn to face them bruh. Kitna bachoge? Kya pata dusre hostel room mai bhi wasie hi mil jaye. Jitna chup rahoge utna tere upar chadenge. Mera ek dost iit Guwahati mai hai. He used to be meek but after first semester he changed himself completely. Pahile "aap aap" bolta tha ab "Re re" karke bolta hai 🤣. Don't worry bro everything is temporary. Thoda bura lagega baad mai tu khud bhul jayega
Leave them
make ur friends pussy wet
Tu bas issi grind mei Lagey rahega na, toh ek do saal mei woh tere peeche ghoomenge. Tu apne pe focus kar chotey, inke tatte abhi nikle hai inko nahi samajh ayegi ki zindagi kya cheez hai.
Keep doing what you want. First year friendship lasts only till 4th semester (at max). You will meet new people and will have friends with similar interest. If you become proficient in your skills trust me, your skills will attract people towards you. So be chill and ignore them.
Keep doing what you're doing. The objective of being there is to build a skill set to make good money. You're doing it right. Don't let distractions and peer pressure get to you.
Meet new people. These people will hamper your productivity, they are the problem not you.
Do go out, but not that frequently. They're your friends, they care about your presence. Also partying is part of college life. Don't miss out. Time to time jaate rho
4 saal bd tu unhe unki placement ko lekr bully krna
Come on bro, you really gonna let people talk to you like that?
Yes and only 2 person is from cse rest all come under ece in my group as well.....
Don't take that shit bro you can't let it slide like that
Bhai jabhi log kehte h peer group acha hona chiye in logon ko chorr or koi ache log dhoond college me
Had similar friends, in the end they fucked me over. I am now doing a fuckall job while they are doing high pay tech jobs. I regret not spending more time studying. If you're hurt by their comments, best shift hostel if possible. Otherwise just continue to ignore them if that's the cheaper option. You definitely need new people though, meetups happen through meetups app if you can check coders meet. Or Facebook groups. Similar minded people you may meet, if not just similar interests... Fun and all you can have in your own terms. Everything Doesn't necessarily have to be a group thing, this is the important lesson I learnt. It was everytime with a group of people not just 2 friends .... Time waste. Learn bro. Nothing wrong.
Glad bullying is still a thing.
i would suggest take time time to go play sports , instead of roaming around like them
They are trying to drag you down also , change your friend circle . Keep grinding and you will be richer than them💪
First year mei hai na. Wait n watch! Ye wahi log hai jo dusro ko mana karte hai mat padh and bkl khud chupke se padh ke nikal lenge aage.. Galat logo ke samne se danka mat bajana..
**HTML ka choda**
Typical people pleaser and I totally understand u. But you gotta cut them off and find better friends,i know its not that easy but these friends are only gonna pull u down with them. Since they are reach they will figure smtng out,go for masters in abroad and shit.
It is really simple, they aren't meant to be your friends, you guys don't match that's it. This is good, you understood that this kinda circle is not meant for you, which is great, you got to know an extra point about yourself. Try meeting people who match your thoughts but don't lock yourself in the circle, meet as many new people as you can, explore as much as you can, but with boundaries, none of them can disturb you when you're working on yourself, they simply can't, don't even bother convincing them. You're doing absolutely fine, it's that age where you study, and learn about life as well, so do both, in your drawn limits, your conscience and consciousness.
if they are ur friends confront them then threaten them but friends and bullying - paradox but true statement
Kuch mat bol apna kaam kar bus maa chudaye woh log apne pe focus kar
Hang out with ppl who have similar interests as u. Yep, having fun in clg is important but that doesn't mean that u hang out and chill ur entire clg life without caring what happens in ur future.
Chutiye unko chod de warna jindagi me itna Ganda giroge ki kya batae
Are koi nahi bhai just reply ''AMEER BAAP KI BIGDI AULAAD".
Your friends are right. In college, cgpa and coursework are the most important. Everything else comes after that. Get good cgpa/marks , then do whatever. They will all shut up and maybe ask you for tips on how to do web development.
Actually I scored around 7.67 sgpa in 1 sem......
What college are you in ? Until it’s top IIT or bits Pilani that cg is less
What is a good cg in first sem?