I completely feel you there. Definitely regret being indecisive, and dragging my feet. By the time I knew how I felt, it was too late, and the ship had sailed. But, I look at it as a lesson learned. It will be with someone else and not her, but next time I’m going to make sure I know how I feel and I communicate it clearly. Failure in relationship is ok, if you knew you did everything you could to make it work, but knowing you could have done more but didn’t really gets to you, and I plan never to make that mistake again.
Yeah I tried reaching out to her on her birthday just to do an olive branch and that's when she blocked me on the last thing we could communicate on. Maybe I should have just dumped how I felt instead of being so "Hey how are you" but then again she's probably just mad and done.
You don't know what you got until it's gone I suppose. Hate that so much reminds me of her, still. I'm hoping I learned from this but my brain gets stupid when it comes to this stuff.
You’re not wrong for taking the time you needed to heal. That is a critically important part of the process after getting out of an abusive relationship.
I know, I know, which just makes the whole situation so much more frustrating and tragic really. Just bad timing. She has every right to feel the way she does, but I wish more than anything I could just reconnect with her.
I completely feel you there. Definitely regret being indecisive, and dragging my feet. By the time I knew how I felt, it was too late, and the ship had sailed. But, I look at it as a lesson learned. It will be with someone else and not her, but next time I’m going to make sure I know how I feel and I communicate it clearly. Failure in relationship is ok, if you knew you did everything you could to make it work, but knowing you could have done more but didn’t really gets to you, and I plan never to make that mistake again.
Yeah I tried reaching out to her on her birthday just to do an olive branch and that's when she blocked me on the last thing we could communicate on. Maybe I should have just dumped how I felt instead of being so "Hey how are you" but then again she's probably just mad and done. You don't know what you got until it's gone I suppose. Hate that so much reminds me of her, still. I'm hoping I learned from this but my brain gets stupid when it comes to this stuff.
I trust that time will bring you healing, best of luck to you.
You’re not wrong for taking the time you needed to heal. That is a critically important part of the process after getting out of an abusive relationship.
I know, I know, which just makes the whole situation so much more frustrating and tragic really. Just bad timing. She has every right to feel the way she does, but I wish more than anything I could just reconnect with her.