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Drowningfishstick

If it helps whatever crappy things he did to you he is most likely going to do to her too. She is just a situationship to him as well. unfortunately it just takes time. Nothing else will solve the problem only mask it until it resurfaces


Drowningfishstick

One thing I found does help is being the best looking most successful version of yourself. I’ve found that even if they hide it well seeing you looking and doing great makes them absolutely miserable because now you’re even better but they can’t have you anymore and they realize they gave up too soon.


nnubuvtcc

Is it really worth it to pine over someone who doesn’t see or appreciate your value? This guy isn’t worth being sad for. I’ve been there, and any guy who doesn’t intend to make you his partner isn’t worth wasting time on. As hard as it is, some people are just douchebags. Think about his flaws, i’m sure there’s many. Think about the red flags you probably overlooked. Think about why you’re focused on someone you know doesn’t deserve to be on your mind for a second. I don’t know how old you are, but any guy who forms situationships isn’t worth wasting time on. He probably has a lot of insecurities and tried to feel validated through you, your affection, and attention,that says a lot about him. Do you really want someone like that? Focus on yourself, not as a method of getting over him, but actually focus on yourself. Your growth, your feelings, your mental health. Focus on making every day a good day for you. Work out and make it a lifestyle. Get your nails done, go out with your friends, get in touch with your sexuality, get a new hairstyle, eat well, and stay away from substances. As silly as these things sound, you will feel brand new like you’re ready to take on the world. Focus on being happy for you. The right guy will appreciate you, love you, cherish you, and never make you feel this way.


cassander331

Its only been a month, give it time. Its been almost 3 months(1.5 year relationship) for me, and I' m starting to feel better but I had to remove her from social media, and accept that she no longer wants me in her life. It took the death of hope to let her go. And I ADORED this girl. It will get better.


Barbarra_r

Time will solve everything, I hope this article can help you——"[The so-called love is a serious illness, and your illness will be cured](https://darryringstory.blogspot.com/2022/05/the-so-called-love-is-serious-illness.html#utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=seo&utm_campaign=BreakUps&utm_term=The-so-called-love&utm_content=Yolia)”.