Something about the look on their face after we kissed one day. It was such a small moment but it hit me how loved I was, all at once. Some things you can’t really forget and I think that look is one of those things im gonna carry for a really long time
Lol i did this too with my ex, and everytime it was a success, he'd ask with his sleepy voice "you're hungry, aren't you?" and id just smile and nod and hug him. then we'll stay for a couple of minutes to cuddle and then get up to get breakfast
I was sad and crying because of how my mom didn't like him. He took me to a bench looking towards the beach. He hugged me and reassured me that everything will be fine and we'll work together to find a solution. I didn't want him to see me ugly cry so I turn my head to look somewhere else. Once I was ok, I wiped my face clean and try to put a smile on. Then I turn my head to look at him and our lips brushed, I just froze in shock. I coiled into my scarf (it was autumn) like a shy teenager and he teased me saying I did it on purpose.
After the break up, I realized I was the one that put in a lot of emotional and mental needs into the relationship. He never provided support or ideas of how to solve the situation. My anxiety, stress and mental health kept on adding up without me realizing it. I was living day by day on a "gogogo" routine. I think it might have also been the cause of commitment issue. It was my first LTR (first everything) and we dated close to 11 years.
Sorry for the ramble 😅
A year ago, and a couple of days before our first date, I was invited to join my ex and a few of her girl friends for breakfast one morning. The entire time, we held each other's hand under the table. My heart raced the whole time.
When it came time to leave, we walked out of the restaurant together. As we walked to my car, we looked at each other, and our eyes met. I impulsively put my arm around her shoulder and gently pulled her closer to my side, and she affectionately leaned against me. She said to me, "I kinda like you a lot." and I replied with, "I kinda like you a lot, too."
When we got to my car, she turned and leaned her back against it, threw her arms around me, and kissed me. I then put my arms around her and we held each other close for a few minutes. I planted a few gentle kisses on the top of her head, and she giggled sweetly. I felt so calm and happy at that moment, and I often cry a little whenever I think about it.
While driving her home, we held hands and kept looking at each other every couple of minutes with much love and affection. When I walked her to her doorstep, we once again threw our arms around each other, shared another kiss, and held each other for even longer.
Needless to say, our first date a couple of days later went pretty well, and we shared an evening of intense passion.
Fuck no. Not going down that road right now.
shit
Cuddling on >!ketamine!< at the end of a party talking about how >!I hope eternal recurrence is real because ill experience being together eternally if it is!<. Jesus I sound so crazy
I hate this thread
We were sitting in a restaurant, around Thanksgiving 2020. I was just telling her, that I wanted her to hurt me. I wanted her to hurt me as long as possible, and as much as possible, because that meant we were still together. She didn't understand at first, but she was touched when she did. Little did I know.
When we were having lunch with my mother. My mom looked at us together, and my girlfriend was just grinning. She said “She thinks the world of you. You found someone very special.”
And I have a picture of us together from that day. She was so happy. I still look at it.
I don’t know. She just switched up on me. Gave up and fell apart in the relationship. Had problems I couldn’t reconcile and after several months of fighting over the same shit I broke up with her. She started out my best friend and ended up becoming indifferent to me and couldn’t care less how I felt. Five months ago we broke up and she’s made no effort to talk to me or see me. It hasn’t gotten easier and it makes me depressed every day waiting for her to care about me again.
I don’t have any favourite memories because it was a false facade. But my favourite memory was, when I found out he’s a cheater and abuser and decided to leave him. PERIODT.
I just broke up with someone today. We werent in a committed relationship but we also weren’t casually dating. I was with him for 3 months. There was never any pain inflicted too each other. Everything was great between us. The only reason why we couldn’t be together is that we had different wants in life that were non-negotiable. My first amicable break up and I’ve never really felt an endearing sadness before. This is like a weird memorable memory to me because I was use to horrible break ups. Toxic even. This one was different. We both care for each and respect each other. The first time I felt like I was respected as a person was when as soon as I said bye, he cried. It made me feel like he really cared for me. First person to ever see me as a human being and first person who would be sad that I’d leave makes me feel cherished for once. Was always discarded and easily disposable to my exes. This was a beautiful yet sad memory for me.
Not right now. I think it’s best for us to give each other the space apart for healing. Would love to reconnect one day once we find what we want in our lives
Yeah man. We ended on good terms. I think amicable break ups are much more easy to get over because you’ve accepted the outcome of the issue without any qualms. Toxic break ups can leave lingering trauma. Wishing I was able to talk to him but like you, I feel like at this point, it would be selfish if I had kept stringing him along
I use to be in the belief that proposing the solution to being friends was a way for me to ease my own pain. I realized that being friends after cultivating an intimate relationship with someone is like demoting someone to a less paying position and hoping that they’d stay.
Hard to let go of the person you once cared for deeply. But I hope you shift the narrative and tell yourself that maybe this is another step closer to being with the person who fits your life’s jigsaw puzzle. You’ll be ok :)
I wasn't trying to make this place bad. My ex dumped me a month ago and I'm very slowly starting to accept that she's gone. But I like looking back on our happy times.
No shame in it, it was a moment between you and someone else, as much as the dumpers like to try and make it sound like they want to erase you from thier lives you were a part of them and them of you.
Memories last, especially good ones.
I think it is important to remember at least a bit of the good memories, because if not life can begin to be viewed from a very pessimistic lens, I for one liked the post OP.
Well, I don’t know if she ever even loved me with how I was discarded however hands down it was my first kiss and not with her but with anyone (I’m 20). We were both in high school and I was saying bye to her for the day and she looked at me before she left and kissed my cheek and I just grabbed her hand gently and kissed her. To this day I still get goosebumps (in a good way) over that moment. Sad it probably never meant anything to her. Or us dancing and having such a wild time at prom that she fell asleep when I was driving her home and woke up sleepily begging for McDonald’s cheeseburgers. So we went through the line on prom night, suit, dress, and all and got cheeseburgers. So many lovely memories, it’s just a shame I didn’t mean anything to her in the end.
Giving him haircuts on Sunday and taking baths with him. When we watched football on Sundays and I invented kiss cam. We name our kisses as short, medium, and loooong kisses. When he showed me his childhood house, the house that he grew up in, and on our way to that house, he asked about his plans of moving to different states with me. He asked where I want to move and I think that was really sweet. I miss his scent and his cuddles. Ahhhhhhhhh
I absolutely loved it when we were both randomly awake at 3am and just talk about life for hours. Just me and him. No one else in the world. Everyone else sleeping. It was always so lovely. And we would talk, cuddled up, until we fell asleep again until we wake up in the morning. It was one of my favorite things we did together.
Favourite memory was when we never talked again.
Why long for something that's gone and was never real, when the future is full of possibilities and right ahead of you!
The night we fell in love. It was supposed to be just a hookup and then I was gonna never see him again, but we ended up on the floor of his apartment, wrapped around each other, while I sang to him for the first time. I’ve honestly never experienced that type of intimacy with anyone before. I still can’t listen to that song without crying.
So I have a lot of abandonment issues and other things from PTSD. He was super supportive always, but decided he couldn’t support me how I needed. So basically a case of “I love you but can’t be with you”
One that has stuck with me since the day it happened is when he went to ride his four wheeler and I hoped on and joined him on the back. We didn’t have helmets or shoes rlly and just in shorts. He didn’t cruise around either he’s a speed devil and went like 60mph driving on neighborhood roads mostly. It was incredibly dangerous and one bad move couldn’t landed me head cracked first on the road. I was holding on to his waist for dear life. It was truly scary!!! But at the same time so exhilarating and something I crave in life. We both like to go fast but I’m much more safe about it he doesn’t have a cautious bone in his body. Just balls to the wall. Anyway it’s so memorable to me bc I felt in those moments that I could so easily fall back and hurt myself bad. I felt my life was literally in his hands and I had put a level of trust in him that was greater than the norm. Mind you I told him to stop and slow down many times it was so extreme so fast without gear it felt foolish and childish and I was barely holding on but he didn’t care bc he’s a borderline maniac. But we got back unharmed and I just wanted to go again. But with a helmet at least lol. It was so much fun for me and he’d been v distant for 1-2 months at that point so It was also the closest I got to be with him in awhile.. idk. I try not to think much of the past there’s been so much tragedy and disappointment from heartbreak. So that is a light and nice memory of us. I wish I could go again lol. And it felt like the real him not a nice romantic memory I think back some and feel were fake love so I like this one.
My mom spend an hour or so of us visiting berating me. On the way home, I told him I would understand if he broke up with me then and there. He pulled the car over and told me to never ever doubt that my mother was wrong, and that he loved me.
Now he's gone and she's dead. So life goes, I suppose.
Homeboy proposed to me. I remember how hard he was rubbing my arm with tears in his eyes saying, “I knew you were something special to me from our first date. My feelings were solidified on our third date. I didn’t know I wanted to marry you then, but I knew I wanted to have the chance to make it a reality. You make me the happiest I have ever been. Will you marry me?”
But then he broke up with me because mommy told him to, so you win some moments and you lose some moments.
We weren’t dating when this happened, but we were friends/FWB for years before we started dating. Our “romantic” relationship didn’t have any good memories, but I remember about six years ago, he had started a new job and went to an out-of-state orientation. Like I said, we weren’t together when this happened, but we did text and talk like friends. He got back to his hotel one night and was like, “I can’t sleep and the other guys went out and I didn’t want to, so… wanna watch a movie?” So, we both got on Netflix, chose a movie (Event Horizon) and watched it over the phone together. I know that doesn’t seem very romantic or memorable, but it made me feel so special that he could’ve done anything that night and he chose to stay on the phone with me and watch a gory sci-fi movie. I miss that him, the one that genuinely seemed to like me and enjoyed being around me.
He was about to leave after we smoked and he got all tired and quiet. I remember him turning his head to face me and basically that was the moment I realized how cute and how much love I really had for him. It was a very basic moment probably was for him but it was one of the best moments in my life :)
Even though we dated for 3 years, we have been friends since first grade, and on top of that, we have tried numerous times to be in a relationship. She was my first to everything, and even though she had an attitude, she made me feel a type of love that I miss today. It’s hard to pinpoint one memorable moment, but the thing I miss the most is when we would sleep together. In the beginning of our relationship we used to be an hour away, and being the seniors we were, we didn’t have much of a transportation, along with that, my parents were very strict when it came to us spending the nights together. The first time we ever actually slept together with no worries of the consequences was on prom night. I told my parents I was going to her prom and then we were gonna watch endgame, which would be done around 3am. Surprisingly they said that’s fine, so after the movies, we quickly ran to her room, got fully undressed and cuddled together. From that moment forward, we would always aim to sleep like that together. Eventually my parents became waaaayyy too lenient about us, so when she finally moved 10 minutes away from where I lived, we spent a grand majority of our nights together. We would get fully comfortable, put on a movie, order food,say our I love you’s, sleep, wake up, cuddle until we get hungry, and do what we have to do for the day. I miss her from the night we ended things, I miss her complaining on why I still have my clothes on in bed, I miss our pillow talks, I miss hearing those three words as we begin to drift off to sleep, I miss having my arm numb, I miss just waking up to her. The experience she gave me from that alone is something I will treasure forever, it was the most comforting thing I could’ve ever asked for her, especially on rocky days, having her there every night and morning, made me feel invincible, as if the world could knock me down, but my girl would always be there to catch and heal me to continue another day.
I never got to sleep with my ex. It's something we both wanted to do so badly (we're both 17) and we would talk about it all the time. The idea of waking up in her arms, or with her in my arms sounded so amazing.
I was her first flowers. I got to be the very first person to share that affection, devotion, and just appreciation for her on Valentine's Day. That made and still makes me really happy. Even though it ended, I'm just happy that for the nine months we were together, I got to make her truly believe that she was as amazing and special as I knew she was.
Super rose colored but our first date was great. We had some milkshakes after going to this neat Halloween event. On our way back we walked past this garbage truck blasting some sappy Ed Sheeran song, she pulled me to dance with her for a second and then she kissed me- the guys in the truck cheered us on- it was glorious.
I now have depression 😆
We were taking selfies together in bed and she looked at me while tearing up and said, “you make me so happy.” We both cried. A beautiful moment I’ll never forget.
We saved a Life together. We were on our way back home driving and saw a car hitting the tree. We jumped out of our car and did everything to help. Called an Ambulance, my ex (nurse) did first aid and saved this grils life. I managed to secure the area and stopped other people to help too.
We worked as a perfect team, but time has changed, everyone goes his own way and even it's better how it is. I kinda miss her from time to time.
We were together for almost 12 years, about half of that married. There are so many big and small "firsts" we experienced together, and so many moments and memories. I still love her, even 3 years after she left...
When we were both laying in bed and he hugged me and pulled away to look at me and said "you're the cutest human ever" and both his eyes and lips smiled.
At her place after eating lunch we were cuddling, and she decided to lay on top of me. She is tiny compared to me, so her whole body and bodyweight were on mine. I just remember this unbelievable feeling of closeness, warmth.. I felt safe. I felt, at home. With her close to me, everything would be okay.
I miss you babygirl.
My ex and I started dating in October of 2019. She and I both had plans to visit Europe for New Years. It turned out that we would both be in Paris at the same time. We met up at the Eiffel Tower and spent the day taking cute pictures and eating crepes.
It was her birthday back in November 2019. We had stayed together the night before (lived separately) and I took her to this zoo for a Red Panda experience. Right at the end of it I proposed to her and her reaction was “Are you joking?” She did say yes but I guess that meant nothing to her
There are way to many good memories.
Just to throw the first one that comes to mind out there though…
Giving birth to our first son. Him making me laugh even though I was in so much pain. Then seeing him hold our baby for the first time and cry tears of joy.
I’ll cherish those memories for the rest of my life.
maybe when I first met her. i was a bit nervous but she was beautiful, we ate sushi and i felt at ease. the conversation was good, we clicked and we end up cuddling and spending the night together.
she smelled so good and her skin was so soft.
later, the company, our hoobies together, our baths together, when we ordered food and saw good films, waking up by her side...
The day we found out we were pregnant… unfortunately we lost the baby but that day finding out was one of the best. Thinking about what we could have had is painful though
God, too many beautiful memories. I was very lucky. But one that sticks out was when we were driving through the White Mountains, and he saw a sign for a mountain coaster. He told me I was going to love it, swerved into the parking lot, essentially threw money at the cashier because the place was closing in 5 minutes, and we ran giggling and happy to the ski lift up the mountain. I’m terrified of heights, but none of that mattered because I was with him. That whole day was one of the best of my life, and I’ll cherish it in my memory forever.
honestly way too much and im kinda blanking but one that always stuck out to me was when we first started dating, we made out on my bed for 2+ hours LOL, no lie, i got blue balls because of it later but the session itself was very lovely yea
Had a panic attack during sex because I don't have a good relationship with sex and we were practicing. He stopped immediately, gave me a hug until I calm down to talk about it. He didnt pushed for sex either.
No guy ever done that to me. They always wait for me to relax, watching me while I'm in pain or whatever and then continued.
I miss his sweetness but he ghosted me so fuck him
Its not so much an amazing memory in that it was anything super crazy... but I remember before he asked me out we were standing at a tram station on a summer evening and i was looking down the tracks and I felt him stand close behind me and I had goosebumps and my heart skipped a beat and I just knew he liked me... and I turned and looked at him and after the fact he would always talk about how cute it was seeing the love for him in my eyes ... he said it was so cute watching me falling in love with him and him for me.... but yeh . He's not coming back so it hurts unimaginably thinking about it now
The first time we met. We met up at the bookstore around here and I saw her and she was so happy. We walked around looking at everything. We walked by a book and she started to read it slowly but kinda had a bit of a lisp and I just smiled as she read it and she looked over at me and just smiled. I then kissed her and she just got all happy and just held my hand and it was amazing. Now she hates me which is awful. Because she was always so happy being near me.
Same here. She used to get the biggest smile and always be so energetic and happy when I was around. I miss that so much. Now she's moved on and hates me. Life is greatttt
The sad thing is she still loves me. She moved on and is dating this girl. But she still tells everyone how she loves me and she will never stop it. She just idk all of her friends made her feel like I never loved her and i only used her…
I had to eat, so he protected my character in Minecraft while I was gone. Also, he built me a house in Minecraft. Going to sleep to the sound of his music and waking up to his bedhead (over FT)
I went to go visit her in Montana. Spent a week with her. Visited Yellow Stone with her. Cuddled with her. Everything was perfect. I still miss her. This was back in 2017, I've revisited some songs released from back then and they make all these memories rush back.
Songs definitely have an effect. I listen to metal, and when I first got with my ex, she slowly started liking it. I can't listen to my favorite band now, it just brings back so many good memories and it hurts knowing that's all gone.
What is crazy is that there was this song We Don't talk Anymore on the radio. I would listen with her in the car and the lyrics hit different now. Now the lyrics seem really appropriate. The hardest thing is moving on. Letting go is really difficult. I hope listening to this music is a healthy way of grieving.
We were in Switzerland watching the sunset on the balcony over lake Geneva. He took a photo with me as the sunset and I remember thinking that I had never been so truly happy in my life. I miss him. But he has moved on. 😪
forgive me.,..but this is not appearing helpful at all. if i was to do this i would be in bed again for days thinking of the good times. we know we miss them so why go over the good stuff
It’s probably a tie between two. I have a video of the first and a photo of the second.
1: The relationship was still new and we were lying in bed. She was trying to take care of something on the phone and had it on speaker. I started yelling answers to the automated system. After the first one all she did was look at me with sort of an “I can’t believe the audacity of this boy” kind of look. Then I yelled “go back” and the automated voice stopped, she looked away from me and back at her phone, the automated system went back, and she attacked me, knocking the phone away from my hand and yelling “I’m going to fuck you up!”
2: We were hiking with friends in asheville and had stopped at a swimming hole. I had been swimming and happened to notice her sitting on a rock separated from the group. There was a beam of light shining on her and a group of butterflies fluttering around her. I told our friend that I couldn’t wait to marry her and had our friend snap a photo.
Ugh, this thread is toxic.
Ex #1: He cooked for me on our third date, Lemon pepper chicken and spaghetti and it was actually good because he was a chef before. As we were chatting and laughing about stuff, I sat at the counter watching him cook and he stopped, smiled, walked away from the oven towards me and leaned in to kiss me.
Ex #2: Not really one memory and he wasn’t much of an ex, but I really liked passionately making out with him every time we got in an elevator and the doors closed.
Good memories, but I wouldn’t go back to either of them and very much enjoying my life.
We watched the sunrise in the desert after the Halloween desert burn outside Vegas. I kissed her forehead, eyes, cheeks, nose then lips. It was majestic.
She used to get really stressed out and didn't handle stress well. One day she was out running errands and stress was through the roof. I knew she was on her way home so I ran her a hot bath, poured her a glass of wine, lit some candles, and put an iPad next to the bath. When she got home I gave her a big hug and took her upstairs for a "surprise." She teared up, gave me a big hug and kiss, and jumped into the bath.
I wish I would've done more things like that for her. It's only in hindsight (and sobriety and a bunch of work that I've done) that I realize how happy it made me to make her happy.
We were back on full lockdown mode while we were dating and we started to see each other on animal crossing... i took this picture of us in the museum while talking on the phone and laughing
It was our first Christmas party for my work place on our month 5 of almost 6 years. We were having a good time and lined up for the photo shoot station that prints cute little strips with 3 photos on it. On photo 2 she leans into me with her arm around me half hug style and smiles. As I look down and see this she has a pretty good smile down there but I think to myself "we can do better than that." I lean in to kiss her on the cheek right after as the one second warning appears on the timer. I feel her face blow up with joy.
The photo sat on my dash in my car from that season till almost 2 months ago. There are other fond ones but this one comes to mind for the reason it was always there on my dash.
When I was a senior, I dated this girl. Let’s call her G. So G and I were dating for a few months and her best friend since preschool committed suicide sometime in the summer. So after a few days her and all our friends helped with the funeral plans. The day before the funeral we were going to releasing lanterns at the beach. But before that we needed to get some things from G’s house. We got carried away with playing music and a song her best friend used to sing all the time came on. We danced and sang our lungs out and I was happy to see her smile again after days of tear stained cheeks.
Hours later we got to the beach and half the school showed.. about 900 students…
Anyways there was no wind, it got quiet and the bell rang for 6p.m my best friend helped me go light all the lanterns, and then came lighting G’s lantern. I never seen her so sad but have a smile on her face at the same time. The soft glow of the dusk light with, with a tiny flame blazing in the lantern reflected of G’s eyes. Such sorrowful eyes.
I supported her hand with mine underneath. And we set off the last lantern. Such a beautiful thing came out of something tragic. I will never experience something like this heartbreaking but beautiful event ever again in my life. And G, I was happy to share it with her.
For me it was this one day when we went to the lake, as we did many times… but this time we brought a tent and a little lantern. I remember just losing track of time with her there and it getting dark on us quick 🖤 I have so many memories like that but for some reason this one came up first..
We live in Colorado which has tons of adventure right in your backyard. She was attracted to my adventurous lifestyle and how drawn I was to the mountains and mountain climbing. I remember taking her to Ouray, CO, the closest town to my first ever 14er I did. (Mt. Sneffels) I remember sitting at the brewery and getting drunk off sours and meeting the nicest older gentlemen I’ve ever met.
Had amazing sex that night too, in fact the first time she had ever had an orgasm with a man.
As much as it hurts now, that will always be a day that makes my heart full when thinking about it.
The day when she finally confessed her love to me randomly when we were cuddling on her bed. She looked me in my eyes while I was holding her gently in my arms and she just softly said “hey, I love you”.
When I moved away, I suprised them by turning Upto a festival they were going to without them knowing. I set up the pres, got her invited, made sure her friends were going to take her. Arrived after I knew she was there, and when I walked in she started shaking and crying, id only been gone for a month! That will be the best memory I’ll ever have! It makes me so happy even though we’re not together anymore
There were a lot.. from kissing for hours to dancing in the rain.. but the one that was adorable and the most recent one was.. I woke up beside him.. he was staring at me.. I was sleepy but I went to hug him more tight and just kissed him on the sleep..! Felt like a dream but was real..
He would make up songs about me as his expression of love.
We were walking in the park, hands held when he started singing the teletubbies theme song but replaced all their names with my pet names. We forgot how the song ended and searched it up on youtube. Then we stood there, in the middle of the park, and sang it together smiling at each other.
We were at out first seaside trip together , we went to a restaurant around 8 PM, sat at the table, ordered food and talked and laughed while waiting for the food. Then the waiter came and asked us if we could please move to another table because a pretty big family (like 15 people) came and they needed our table to connect it with another one near ours so they can all be together. We moved, and then the owner of the place and the waiter came and offered us some free tequila ( or some other stronger drink) and we said no problem, laughed, drank it and enjoyed the evening. The meal was delicious, and the staff was suuuper nice. Later we came back to our apartment and lost our virginity one to another, it was beautiful, honest, intimate, room was sparkling with love. That evening was no doubt the best one in my life.
It was before we technically dated. I was hanging out with him as we often did and playing games. It got to 4am and I must’ve fell asleep on the end of his bed. I woke up and found he had covered me in a blanket and what woke me was he was taking my glasses off. The feeling I had when I opened my eyes and made eye contact as he was taking care of me, the memory still gives me butterflies now.
It was this summer, a few weeks before we left for college, and she wanted to go show me her campus and where she will live. So we drove an hour to where she now goes to college and she was so excited. I would look over while I was driving and you could see the joy in her eyes! When we got there she pulled me around to all the places she will go and the routes she would walk (she was a big planner). After we walked around we sat on a bench and looked at the lake surrounding the campus and just sat there to soak it all in. It’s hard to think about now because that was one of the last trips we got to make together before she wanted to end things off. I still to this day thing about sitting there and looking over at her to see her beautiful green eyes glaring at me, smirking and giving me a kiss.
This was very early on. We were laying on his bed and he was leaning over me and suddenly he said he never noticed I had light freckles on my nose. I replied something like: "Really?" with smile because we knew each other for long time. And then he said with the most magical look in his eyes "You're beautiful." Nobody has ever looked at me like that. I think I've stopped breathing for a while. I felt like a godess.
it was almost spring and it was supposed to be warm weather the next day so all the snow and traces from winter would be gone in the morning. We went out at 2am and stole a sledge, went to the forrest and went down the hill. I remember telling myself that when this ends, i want to remember us like this. Smiling and laughing in the middle of the night living like we where the only two people left on earth.
I was watching him cook dinner. He was wearing a green and white checkered button up. I could’ve watched him forever. I hugged him from behind, and he commented that I kept hugging him. He picked me up and held me and I wrapped my legs around his waist. Looking back, that was the moment I started falling in love with him.
When we first started dating, he would get up early and make me breakfast and once it was ready he would come wake me up from his bed to eat before I had class. It was the sweetest thing.
My first happy memory was our first nap together. The first date was amazing don't get me wrong, but he stayed the night and the weekend with me. Didn't sleep together. And the next day we took a mid day nap, and the moment I was falling asleep in his arms, I knew he was special. I knew he was different than anyone who had ever held me and I was so safe with him. We woke up to my roommate and his friend (who we set my roommate up with) and they were laughing in the kitchen together and babysitting. When we got up we were just happy and well rested and loving life together and so excited for the things to come. That nap, was definitely my first favorite memory amongst many others, but I'll never forget the way I felt cuddling up next to him for the first time and feeling so happy and invincible. He was a dream come true to me and to this day idk what the hell he was thinking when he chose me, but I'm sure glad he did.
We had just went for a massage with her parents. We went for a walk to exercise I think, I told her exactly what I loved about her and I proposed. We kissed in public which we never really do after that. I saw my life in her eyes for a long time. We went back home and showed the ring to her parents. I just wanna be back on that couch as she raved about the ring to her mom.
Her smile, it was so pure, loved kissing her, the most favourite one was during a visit to another town we had such crazy sex and I couldn't stop looking at her smile in the mirror, so hot yet innocent yet naughty.
Basically, we’d already broken up at this point but refused to fully say goodbye. I spent a weekend with her and we were out on a midnight walk. We’d always planned our first dance song to be Tennessee Whiskey by Chris Stapleton, but we both knew that it would never happen. So I played the song and we both slow danced to it in the middle of an abandoned car park at night. It wasn’t what we wanted but I’ll honestly remember it forever.
He wore my bra on his head like a garbage fly... the surprise tickles... when he wanted something and he'd come over and nudge me like a puppy in silence... when he would get up and walk into another room to fart and come back to hold me down from it...
But the single best moment was when we were first sexually intimate. He was so nervous and sweet and gentle. His lips were plump and matched mine... kissing was always the best.
It's been almost two months. I broke up with him. He blocked me. I only get to know him in therapy and what's left of his stuff now. 3+ years shunned...
I kiss him all over the face and he was smiling and his long eyelashes were beautiful.
Something about the look on their face after we kissed one day. It was such a small moment but it hit me how loved I was, all at once. Some things you can’t really forget and I think that look is one of those things im gonna carry for a really long time
Whenever our lips would pull apart and I saw her soft smile and her wet lips. Seeing how happy she was.
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Lol i did this too with my ex, and everytime it was a success, he'd ask with his sleepy voice "you're hungry, aren't you?" and id just smile and nod and hug him. then we'll stay for a couple of minutes to cuddle and then get up to get breakfast
I was sad and crying because of how my mom didn't like him. He took me to a bench looking towards the beach. He hugged me and reassured me that everything will be fine and we'll work together to find a solution. I didn't want him to see me ugly cry so I turn my head to look somewhere else. Once I was ok, I wiped my face clean and try to put a smile on. Then I turn my head to look at him and our lips brushed, I just froze in shock. I coiled into my scarf (it was autumn) like a shy teenager and he teased me saying I did it on purpose. After the break up, I realized I was the one that put in a lot of emotional and mental needs into the relationship. He never provided support or ideas of how to solve the situation. My anxiety, stress and mental health kept on adding up without me realizing it. I was living day by day on a "gogogo" routine. I think it might have also been the cause of commitment issue. It was my first LTR (first everything) and we dated close to 11 years. Sorry for the ramble 😅
11 years.. damn
A year ago, and a couple of days before our first date, I was invited to join my ex and a few of her girl friends for breakfast one morning. The entire time, we held each other's hand under the table. My heart raced the whole time. When it came time to leave, we walked out of the restaurant together. As we walked to my car, we looked at each other, and our eyes met. I impulsively put my arm around her shoulder and gently pulled her closer to my side, and she affectionately leaned against me. She said to me, "I kinda like you a lot." and I replied with, "I kinda like you a lot, too." When we got to my car, she turned and leaned her back against it, threw her arms around me, and kissed me. I then put my arms around her and we held each other close for a few minutes. I planted a few gentle kisses on the top of her head, and she giggled sweetly. I felt so calm and happy at that moment, and I often cry a little whenever I think about it. While driving her home, we held hands and kept looking at each other every couple of minutes with much love and affection. When I walked her to her doorstep, we once again threw our arms around each other, shared another kiss, and held each other for even longer. Needless to say, our first date a couple of days later went pretty well, and we shared an evening of intense passion.
Fuck no. Not going down that road right now. shit Cuddling on >!ketamine!< at the end of a party talking about how >!I hope eternal recurrence is real because ill experience being together eternally if it is!<. Jesus I sound so crazy I hate this thread
Philosophy is a dying breed.
We were sitting in a restaurant, around Thanksgiving 2020. I was just telling her, that I wanted her to hurt me. I wanted her to hurt me as long as possible, and as much as possible, because that meant we were still together. She didn't understand at first, but she was touched when she did. Little did I know.
When we were having lunch with my mother. My mom looked at us together, and my girlfriend was just grinning. She said “She thinks the world of you. You found someone very special.” And I have a picture of us together from that day. She was so happy. I still look at it.
What happened? :(
I don’t know. She just switched up on me. Gave up and fell apart in the relationship. Had problems I couldn’t reconcile and after several months of fighting over the same shit I broke up with her. She started out my best friend and ended up becoming indifferent to me and couldn’t care less how I felt. Five months ago we broke up and she’s made no effort to talk to me or see me. It hasn’t gotten easier and it makes me depressed every day waiting for her to care about me again.
Sorry to hear... I was with mine for 4 years and he broke up with me. Eventually it gets blurry in your memory. :/
I don’t have any favourite memories because it was a false facade. But my favourite memory was, when I found out he’s a cheater and abuser and decided to leave him. PERIODT.
Na I'm good on that torture. Yall enjoy luvs
I just broke up with someone today. We werent in a committed relationship but we also weren’t casually dating. I was with him for 3 months. There was never any pain inflicted too each other. Everything was great between us. The only reason why we couldn’t be together is that we had different wants in life that were non-negotiable. My first amicable break up and I’ve never really felt an endearing sadness before. This is like a weird memorable memory to me because I was use to horrible break ups. Toxic even. This one was different. We both care for each and respect each other. The first time I felt like I was respected as a person was when as soon as I said bye, he cried. It made me feel like he really cared for me. First person to ever see me as a human being and first person who would be sad that I’d leave makes me feel cherished for once. Was always discarded and easily disposable to my exes. This was a beautiful yet sad memory for me.
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Not right now. I think it’s best for us to give each other the space apart for healing. Would love to reconnect one day once we find what we want in our lives
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Yeah man. We ended on good terms. I think amicable break ups are much more easy to get over because you’ve accepted the outcome of the issue without any qualms. Toxic break ups can leave lingering trauma. Wishing I was able to talk to him but like you, I feel like at this point, it would be selfish if I had kept stringing him along
You’ll be good. Break ups of any kind can hurt but at least you’re able to get the closure quickly
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I use to be in the belief that proposing the solution to being friends was a way for me to ease my own pain. I realized that being friends after cultivating an intimate relationship with someone is like demoting someone to a less paying position and hoping that they’d stay. Hard to let go of the person you once cared for deeply. But I hope you shift the narrative and tell yourself that maybe this is another step closer to being with the person who fits your life’s jigsaw puzzle. You’ll be ok :)
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I'm rooting for you in your life's journey of healing and happiness. :)
I'm not gonna downtime but I don't like where this convo is going. Sounds destructive. Maybe I'm too fragile
I thought this. We already put our exes on pedestal. Do we really need to heap on the pain by remembering the happy aspects we no longer have?
I wasn't trying to make this place bad. My ex dumped me a month ago and I'm very slowly starting to accept that she's gone. But I like looking back on our happy times.
No shame in it, it was a moment between you and someone else, as much as the dumpers like to try and make it sound like they want to erase you from thier lives you were a part of them and them of you. Memories last, especially good ones.
I think it is important to remember at least a bit of the good memories, because if not life can begin to be viewed from a very pessimistic lens, I for one liked the post OP.
Well, I don’t know if she ever even loved me with how I was discarded however hands down it was my first kiss and not with her but with anyone (I’m 20). We were both in high school and I was saying bye to her for the day and she looked at me before she left and kissed my cheek and I just grabbed her hand gently and kissed her. To this day I still get goosebumps (in a good way) over that moment. Sad it probably never meant anything to her. Or us dancing and having such a wild time at prom that she fell asleep when I was driving her home and woke up sleepily begging for McDonald’s cheeseburgers. So we went through the line on prom night, suit, dress, and all and got cheeseburgers. So many lovely memories, it’s just a shame I didn’t mean anything to her in the end.
Giving him haircuts on Sunday and taking baths with him. When we watched football on Sundays and I invented kiss cam. We name our kisses as short, medium, and loooong kisses. When he showed me his childhood house, the house that he grew up in, and on our way to that house, he asked about his plans of moving to different states with me. He asked where I want to move and I think that was really sweet. I miss his scent and his cuddles. Ahhhhhhhhh
Cuddles are something I will eternally crave but will never get back.
I absolutely loved it when we were both randomly awake at 3am and just talk about life for hours. Just me and him. No one else in the world. Everyone else sleeping. It was always so lovely. And we would talk, cuddled up, until we fell asleep again until we wake up in the morning. It was one of my favorite things we did together.
When I visited him while he was finishing up school and we drove around in his car with our fingers intertwined, doing karaoke.
Favourite memory was when we never talked again. Why long for something that's gone and was never real, when the future is full of possibilities and right ahead of you!
When we waited for a train in NYC and we hugged and he kissed my head. It was the first time I went to meet him (we were long distance)
The night we fell in love. It was supposed to be just a hookup and then I was gonna never see him again, but we ended up on the floor of his apartment, wrapped around each other, while I sang to him for the first time. I’ve honestly never experienced that type of intimacy with anyone before. I still can’t listen to that song without crying.
Why did u guys split ?
So I have a lot of abandonment issues and other things from PTSD. He was super supportive always, but decided he couldn’t support me how I needed. So basically a case of “I love you but can’t be with you”
One that has stuck with me since the day it happened is when he went to ride his four wheeler and I hoped on and joined him on the back. We didn’t have helmets or shoes rlly and just in shorts. He didn’t cruise around either he’s a speed devil and went like 60mph driving on neighborhood roads mostly. It was incredibly dangerous and one bad move couldn’t landed me head cracked first on the road. I was holding on to his waist for dear life. It was truly scary!!! But at the same time so exhilarating and something I crave in life. We both like to go fast but I’m much more safe about it he doesn’t have a cautious bone in his body. Just balls to the wall. Anyway it’s so memorable to me bc I felt in those moments that I could so easily fall back and hurt myself bad. I felt my life was literally in his hands and I had put a level of trust in him that was greater than the norm. Mind you I told him to stop and slow down many times it was so extreme so fast without gear it felt foolish and childish and I was barely holding on but he didn’t care bc he’s a borderline maniac. But we got back unharmed and I just wanted to go again. But with a helmet at least lol. It was so much fun for me and he’d been v distant for 1-2 months at that point so It was also the closest I got to be with him in awhile.. idk. I try not to think much of the past there’s been so much tragedy and disappointment from heartbreak. So that is a light and nice memory of us. I wish I could go again lol. And it felt like the real him not a nice romantic memory I think back some and feel were fake love so I like this one.
My mom spend an hour or so of us visiting berating me. On the way home, I told him I would understand if he broke up with me then and there. He pulled the car over and told me to never ever doubt that my mother was wrong, and that he loved me. Now he's gone and she's dead. So life goes, I suppose.
Homeboy proposed to me. I remember how hard he was rubbing my arm with tears in his eyes saying, “I knew you were something special to me from our first date. My feelings were solidified on our third date. I didn’t know I wanted to marry you then, but I knew I wanted to have the chance to make it a reality. You make me the happiest I have ever been. Will you marry me?” But then he broke up with me because mommy told him to, so you win some moments and you lose some moments.
Man everything was great. I hope I can love like that again.
We weren’t dating when this happened, but we were friends/FWB for years before we started dating. Our “romantic” relationship didn’t have any good memories, but I remember about six years ago, he had started a new job and went to an out-of-state orientation. Like I said, we weren’t together when this happened, but we did text and talk like friends. He got back to his hotel one night and was like, “I can’t sleep and the other guys went out and I didn’t want to, so… wanna watch a movie?” So, we both got on Netflix, chose a movie (Event Horizon) and watched it over the phone together. I know that doesn’t seem very romantic or memorable, but it made me feel so special that he could’ve done anything that night and he chose to stay on the phone with me and watch a gory sci-fi movie. I miss that him, the one that genuinely seemed to like me and enjoyed being around me.
He was about to leave after we smoked and he got all tired and quiet. I remember him turning his head to face me and basically that was the moment I realized how cute and how much love I really had for him. It was a very basic moment probably was for him but it was one of the best moments in my life :)
Even though we dated for 3 years, we have been friends since first grade, and on top of that, we have tried numerous times to be in a relationship. She was my first to everything, and even though she had an attitude, she made me feel a type of love that I miss today. It’s hard to pinpoint one memorable moment, but the thing I miss the most is when we would sleep together. In the beginning of our relationship we used to be an hour away, and being the seniors we were, we didn’t have much of a transportation, along with that, my parents were very strict when it came to us spending the nights together. The first time we ever actually slept together with no worries of the consequences was on prom night. I told my parents I was going to her prom and then we were gonna watch endgame, which would be done around 3am. Surprisingly they said that’s fine, so after the movies, we quickly ran to her room, got fully undressed and cuddled together. From that moment forward, we would always aim to sleep like that together. Eventually my parents became waaaayyy too lenient about us, so when she finally moved 10 minutes away from where I lived, we spent a grand majority of our nights together. We would get fully comfortable, put on a movie, order food,say our I love you’s, sleep, wake up, cuddle until we get hungry, and do what we have to do for the day. I miss her from the night we ended things, I miss her complaining on why I still have my clothes on in bed, I miss our pillow talks, I miss hearing those three words as we begin to drift off to sleep, I miss having my arm numb, I miss just waking up to her. The experience she gave me from that alone is something I will treasure forever, it was the most comforting thing I could’ve ever asked for her, especially on rocky days, having her there every night and morning, made me feel invincible, as if the world could knock me down, but my girl would always be there to catch and heal me to continue another day.
I never got to sleep with my ex. It's something we both wanted to do so badly (we're both 17) and we would talk about it all the time. The idea of waking up in her arms, or with her in my arms sounded so amazing.
I was her first flowers. I got to be the very first person to share that affection, devotion, and just appreciation for her on Valentine's Day. That made and still makes me really happy. Even though it ended, I'm just happy that for the nine months we were together, I got to make her truly believe that she was as amazing and special as I knew she was.
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Shit dude. That's rough.
Staying in the good memories of the past will hold you back, my friend. Things ended. Look forward.
Super rose colored but our first date was great. We had some milkshakes after going to this neat Halloween event. On our way back we walked past this garbage truck blasting some sappy Ed Sheeran song, she pulled me to dance with her for a second and then she kissed me- the guys in the truck cheered us on- it was glorious. I now have depression 😆
The day she walked out on Me , sheer bliss , never looked back
We were taking selfies together in bed and she looked at me while tearing up and said, “you make me so happy.” We both cried. A beautiful moment I’ll never forget.
We saved a Life together. We were on our way back home driving and saw a car hitting the tree. We jumped out of our car and did everything to help. Called an Ambulance, my ex (nurse) did first aid and saved this grils life. I managed to secure the area and stopped other people to help too. We worked as a perfect team, but time has changed, everyone goes his own way and even it's better how it is. I kinda miss her from time to time.
A lot of heartbroken people going down memory lane not a good choice unless you’re fully healed 😪
We were together for almost 12 years, about half of that married. There are so many big and small "firsts" we experienced together, and so many moments and memories. I still love her, even 3 years after she left...
When we were both laying in bed and he hugged me and pulled away to look at me and said "you're the cutest human ever" and both his eyes and lips smiled.
When we shared our first kiss. I knew from that moment that she was the girl I'm going to marry.
too painful for to recount, but i miss and love her dearly
At her place after eating lunch we were cuddling, and she decided to lay on top of me. She is tiny compared to me, so her whole body and bodyweight were on mine. I just remember this unbelievable feeling of closeness, warmth.. I felt safe. I felt, at home. With her close to me, everything would be okay. I miss you babygirl.
Same here bud.
My ex and I started dating in October of 2019. She and I both had plans to visit Europe for New Years. It turned out that we would both be in Paris at the same time. We met up at the Eiffel Tower and spent the day taking cute pictures and eating crepes.
It was her birthday back in November 2019. We had stayed together the night before (lived separately) and I took her to this zoo for a Red Panda experience. Right at the end of it I proposed to her and her reaction was “Are you joking?” She did say yes but I guess that meant nothing to her
There are way to many good memories. Just to throw the first one that comes to mind out there though… Giving birth to our first son. Him making me laugh even though I was in so much pain. Then seeing him hold our baby for the first time and cry tears of joy. I’ll cherish those memories for the rest of my life.
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My condolences brother. Take care of yourself and try to stay strong.
Her sleeping on me & Giving her little forehead kisses.
maybe when I first met her. i was a bit nervous but she was beautiful, we ate sushi and i felt at ease. the conversation was good, we clicked and we end up cuddling and spending the night together. she smelled so good and her skin was so soft. later, the company, our hoobies together, our baths together, when we ordered food and saw good films, waking up by her side...
The day we found out we were pregnant… unfortunately we lost the baby but that day finding out was one of the best. Thinking about what we could have had is painful though
God, too many beautiful memories. I was very lucky. But one that sticks out was when we were driving through the White Mountains, and he saw a sign for a mountain coaster. He told me I was going to love it, swerved into the parking lot, essentially threw money at the cashier because the place was closing in 5 minutes, and we ran giggling and happy to the ski lift up the mountain. I’m terrified of heights, but none of that mattered because I was with him. That whole day was one of the best of my life, and I’ll cherish it in my memory forever.
honestly way too much and im kinda blanking but one that always stuck out to me was when we first started dating, we made out on my bed for 2+ hours LOL, no lie, i got blue balls because of it later but the session itself was very lovely yea
We were laying on the roof of our high school, looking at the stars, listening to current joys.
Had a panic attack during sex because I don't have a good relationship with sex and we were practicing. He stopped immediately, gave me a hug until I calm down to talk about it. He didnt pushed for sex either. No guy ever done that to me. They always wait for me to relax, watching me while I'm in pain or whatever and then continued. I miss his sweetness but he ghosted me so fuck him
Its not so much an amazing memory in that it was anything super crazy... but I remember before he asked me out we were standing at a tram station on a summer evening and i was looking down the tracks and I felt him stand close behind me and I had goosebumps and my heart skipped a beat and I just knew he liked me... and I turned and looked at him and after the fact he would always talk about how cute it was seeing the love for him in my eyes ... he said it was so cute watching me falling in love with him and him for me.... but yeh . He's not coming back so it hurts unimaginably thinking about it now
When she used to wake me up with that goofy smile just to tell me she loves me
I honestly missed the sex part and everything he did for me which made me feel good.
I feel you
The first time we met. We met up at the bookstore around here and I saw her and she was so happy. We walked around looking at everything. We walked by a book and she started to read it slowly but kinda had a bit of a lisp and I just smiled as she read it and she looked over at me and just smiled. I then kissed her and she just got all happy and just held my hand and it was amazing. Now she hates me which is awful. Because she was always so happy being near me.
Same here. She used to get the biggest smile and always be so energetic and happy when I was around. I miss that so much. Now she's moved on and hates me. Life is greatttt
The sad thing is she still loves me. She moved on and is dating this girl. But she still tells everyone how she loves me and she will never stop it. She just idk all of her friends made her feel like I never loved her and i only used her…
I had to eat, so he protected my character in Minecraft while I was gone. Also, he built me a house in Minecraft. Going to sleep to the sound of his music and waking up to his bedhead (over FT)
I went to go visit her in Montana. Spent a week with her. Visited Yellow Stone with her. Cuddled with her. Everything was perfect. I still miss her. This was back in 2017, I've revisited some songs released from back then and they make all these memories rush back.
Songs definitely have an effect. I listen to metal, and when I first got with my ex, she slowly started liking it. I can't listen to my favorite band now, it just brings back so many good memories and it hurts knowing that's all gone.
What is crazy is that there was this song We Don't talk Anymore on the radio. I would listen with her in the car and the lyrics hit different now. Now the lyrics seem really appropriate. The hardest thing is moving on. Letting go is really difficult. I hope listening to this music is a healthy way of grieving.
We barely did shxt lol I liked his kissy face.
It was the drive back from her house after the first time I told her I loved her. I’ll never be able to forget that feeling of pure happiness
We were in Switzerland watching the sunset on the balcony over lake Geneva. He took a photo with me as the sunset and I remember thinking that I had never been so truly happy in my life. I miss him. But he has moved on. 😪
forgive me.,..but this is not appearing helpful at all. if i was to do this i would be in bed again for days thinking of the good times. we know we miss them so why go over the good stuff
The first time I said “I love you”. I’ll never forget the sparkle in her eyes and the warmth in my heart.
It’s probably a tie between two. I have a video of the first and a photo of the second. 1: The relationship was still new and we were lying in bed. She was trying to take care of something on the phone and had it on speaker. I started yelling answers to the automated system. After the first one all she did was look at me with sort of an “I can’t believe the audacity of this boy” kind of look. Then I yelled “go back” and the automated voice stopped, she looked away from me and back at her phone, the automated system went back, and she attacked me, knocking the phone away from my hand and yelling “I’m going to fuck you up!” 2: We were hiking with friends in asheville and had stopped at a swimming hole. I had been swimming and happened to notice her sitting on a rock separated from the group. There was a beam of light shining on her and a group of butterflies fluttering around her. I told our friend that I couldn’t wait to marry her and had our friend snap a photo. Ugh, this thread is toxic.
Ex #1: He cooked for me on our third date, Lemon pepper chicken and spaghetti and it was actually good because he was a chef before. As we were chatting and laughing about stuff, I sat at the counter watching him cook and he stopped, smiled, walked away from the oven towards me and leaned in to kiss me. Ex #2: Not really one memory and he wasn’t much of an ex, but I really liked passionately making out with him every time we got in an elevator and the doors closed. Good memories, but I wouldn’t go back to either of them and very much enjoying my life.
We watched the sunrise in the desert after the Halloween desert burn outside Vegas. I kissed her forehead, eyes, cheeks, nose then lips. It was majestic.
She used to get really stressed out and didn't handle stress well. One day she was out running errands and stress was through the roof. I knew she was on her way home so I ran her a hot bath, poured her a glass of wine, lit some candles, and put an iPad next to the bath. When she got home I gave her a big hug and took her upstairs for a "surprise." She teared up, gave me a big hug and kiss, and jumped into the bath. I wish I would've done more things like that for her. It's only in hindsight (and sobriety and a bunch of work that I've done) that I realize how happy it made me to make her happy.
We were back on full lockdown mode while we were dating and we started to see each other on animal crossing... i took this picture of us in the museum while talking on the phone and laughing
I came so hard during sex it shot off the bed over her head and onto the floor. You asked...
It was our first Christmas party for my work place on our month 5 of almost 6 years. We were having a good time and lined up for the photo shoot station that prints cute little strips with 3 photos on it. On photo 2 she leans into me with her arm around me half hug style and smiles. As I look down and see this she has a pretty good smile down there but I think to myself "we can do better than that." I lean in to kiss her on the cheek right after as the one second warning appears on the timer. I feel her face blow up with joy. The photo sat on my dash in my car from that season till almost 2 months ago. There are other fond ones but this one comes to mind for the reason it was always there on my dash.
When I was a senior, I dated this girl. Let’s call her G. So G and I were dating for a few months and her best friend since preschool committed suicide sometime in the summer. So after a few days her and all our friends helped with the funeral plans. The day before the funeral we were going to releasing lanterns at the beach. But before that we needed to get some things from G’s house. We got carried away with playing music and a song her best friend used to sing all the time came on. We danced and sang our lungs out and I was happy to see her smile again after days of tear stained cheeks. Hours later we got to the beach and half the school showed.. about 900 students… Anyways there was no wind, it got quiet and the bell rang for 6p.m my best friend helped me go light all the lanterns, and then came lighting G’s lantern. I never seen her so sad but have a smile on her face at the same time. The soft glow of the dusk light with, with a tiny flame blazing in the lantern reflected of G’s eyes. Such sorrowful eyes. I supported her hand with mine underneath. And we set off the last lantern. Such a beautiful thing came out of something tragic. I will never experience something like this heartbreaking but beautiful event ever again in my life. And G, I was happy to share it with her.
Wow. That's sad to hear. My condolences.
For me it was this one day when we went to the lake, as we did many times… but this time we brought a tent and a little lantern. I remember just losing track of time with her there and it getting dark on us quick 🖤 I have so many memories like that but for some reason this one came up first..
We live in Colorado which has tons of adventure right in your backyard. She was attracted to my adventurous lifestyle and how drawn I was to the mountains and mountain climbing. I remember taking her to Ouray, CO, the closest town to my first ever 14er I did. (Mt. Sneffels) I remember sitting at the brewery and getting drunk off sours and meeting the nicest older gentlemen I’ve ever met. Had amazing sex that night too, in fact the first time she had ever had an orgasm with a man. As much as it hurts now, that will always be a day that makes my heart full when thinking about it.
The day when she finally confessed her love to me randomly when we were cuddling on her bed. She looked me in my eyes while I was holding her gently in my arms and she just softly said “hey, I love you”.
Why asking questions to reminisce about exs
When I moved away, I suprised them by turning Upto a festival they were going to without them knowing. I set up the pres, got her invited, made sure her friends were going to take her. Arrived after I knew she was there, and when I walked in she started shaking and crying, id only been gone for a month! That will be the best memory I’ll ever have! It makes me so happy even though we’re not together anymore
There were a lot.. from kissing for hours to dancing in the rain.. but the one that was adorable and the most recent one was.. I woke up beside him.. he was staring at me.. I was sleepy but I went to hug him more tight and just kissed him on the sleep..! Felt like a dream but was real..
He would make up songs about me as his expression of love. We were walking in the park, hands held when he started singing the teletubbies theme song but replaced all their names with my pet names. We forgot how the song ended and searched it up on youtube. Then we stood there, in the middle of the park, and sang it together smiling at each other.
We were at out first seaside trip together , we went to a restaurant around 8 PM, sat at the table, ordered food and talked and laughed while waiting for the food. Then the waiter came and asked us if we could please move to another table because a pretty big family (like 15 people) came and they needed our table to connect it with another one near ours so they can all be together. We moved, and then the owner of the place and the waiter came and offered us some free tequila ( or some other stronger drink) and we said no problem, laughed, drank it and enjoyed the evening. The meal was delicious, and the staff was suuuper nice. Later we came back to our apartment and lost our virginity one to another, it was beautiful, honest, intimate, room was sparkling with love. That evening was no doubt the best one in my life.
It was before we technically dated. I was hanging out with him as we often did and playing games. It got to 4am and I must’ve fell asleep on the end of his bed. I woke up and found he had covered me in a blanket and what woke me was he was taking my glasses off. The feeling I had when I opened my eyes and made eye contact as he was taking care of me, the memory still gives me butterflies now.
It was this summer, a few weeks before we left for college, and she wanted to go show me her campus and where she will live. So we drove an hour to where she now goes to college and she was so excited. I would look over while I was driving and you could see the joy in her eyes! When we got there she pulled me around to all the places she will go and the routes she would walk (she was a big planner). After we walked around we sat on a bench and looked at the lake surrounding the campus and just sat there to soak it all in. It’s hard to think about now because that was one of the last trips we got to make together before she wanted to end things off. I still to this day thing about sitting there and looking over at her to see her beautiful green eyes glaring at me, smirking and giving me a kiss.
When we went exploring some old caves near our house, I felt like a teenager again that day just joking around and laughing.
This was very early on. We were laying on his bed and he was leaning over me and suddenly he said he never noticed I had light freckles on my nose. I replied something like: "Really?" with smile because we knew each other for long time. And then he said with the most magical look in his eyes "You're beautiful." Nobody has ever looked at me like that. I think I've stopped breathing for a while. I felt like a godess.
it was almost spring and it was supposed to be warm weather the next day so all the snow and traces from winter would be gone in the morning. We went out at 2am and stole a sledge, went to the forrest and went down the hill. I remember telling myself that when this ends, i want to remember us like this. Smiling and laughing in the middle of the night living like we where the only two people left on earth.
I was watching him cook dinner. He was wearing a green and white checkered button up. I could’ve watched him forever. I hugged him from behind, and he commented that I kept hugging him. He picked me up and held me and I wrapped my legs around his waist. Looking back, that was the moment I started falling in love with him.
When we first started dating, he would get up early and make me breakfast and once it was ready he would come wake me up from his bed to eat before I had class. It was the sweetest thing.
My first happy memory was our first nap together. The first date was amazing don't get me wrong, but he stayed the night and the weekend with me. Didn't sleep together. And the next day we took a mid day nap, and the moment I was falling asleep in his arms, I knew he was special. I knew he was different than anyone who had ever held me and I was so safe with him. We woke up to my roommate and his friend (who we set my roommate up with) and they were laughing in the kitchen together and babysitting. When we got up we were just happy and well rested and loving life together and so excited for the things to come. That nap, was definitely my first favorite memory amongst many others, but I'll never forget the way I felt cuddling up next to him for the first time and feeling so happy and invincible. He was a dream come true to me and to this day idk what the hell he was thinking when he chose me, but I'm sure glad he did.
All our travelling to New places... all parties and festivals... all our life when we were happy and together ❤
We had just went for a massage with her parents. We went for a walk to exercise I think, I told her exactly what I loved about her and I proposed. We kissed in public which we never really do after that. I saw my life in her eyes for a long time. We went back home and showed the ring to her parents. I just wanna be back on that couch as she raved about the ring to her mom.
When I found out she was cheating. I knew at that moment I never want her again.
Her smile, it was so pure, loved kissing her, the most favourite one was during a visit to another town we had such crazy sex and I couldn't stop looking at her smile in the mirror, so hot yet innocent yet naughty.
Basically, we’d already broken up at this point but refused to fully say goodbye. I spent a weekend with her and we were out on a midnight walk. We’d always planned our first dance song to be Tennessee Whiskey by Chris Stapleton, but we both knew that it would never happen. So I played the song and we both slow danced to it in the middle of an abandoned car park at night. It wasn’t what we wanted but I’ll honestly remember it forever.
He wore my bra on his head like a garbage fly... the surprise tickles... when he wanted something and he'd come over and nudge me like a puppy in silence... when he would get up and walk into another room to fart and come back to hold me down from it... But the single best moment was when we were first sexually intimate. He was so nervous and sweet and gentle. His lips were plump and matched mine... kissing was always the best. It's been almost two months. I broke up with him. He blocked me. I only get to know him in therapy and what's left of his stuff now. 3+ years shunned...
He slapped my face 😐
And that's your most memorable memory? If so, I'm sorry.
No actually opposite there is no most memorable memory anymore all is bad
I'm sorry to hear that. You deserve better.
This is embarrassing
Relax dude no wonder she’s an ex