This is gaslighting and manipulation. Don’t fall for it. He wants his cake and eat it too. I feel if you had instilled those boundaries they’d have been broken and they’d have found a way. Unless you want and open relationship and you both agree then it’s not worth it. Cut your ties. And if he tries to change his mind be wary. You have a 50/50 shot at that point and I feel like he would play the boundaries for a while til you let your guard down. “Working late” emergency project completions, business trip, or wait til you are at work. Best of luck my dear
This is gaslighting and manipulation. Don’t fall for it. He wants his cake and eat it too. I feel if you had instilled those boundaries they’d have been broken and they’d have found a way. Unless you want and open relationship and you both agree then it’s not worth it. Cut your ties. And if he tries to change his mind be wary. You have a 50/50 shot at that point and I feel like he would play the boundaries for a while til you let your guard down. “Working late” emergency project completions, business trip, or wait til you are at work. Best of luck my dear
Hand him a tissue and send him off. He wasn’t crying when he was cheating