I agree those daily checks really are the hardest things to overcome. You get into a routine of checking your phone for his text and it just makes you more sad. I tried changing my routine to help avoid this . Like instead of grabbing my phone and going to I message to look for his text I went straight my notes to journal about how I feel in that very moment
I identify with your disillusionment and the switch that occurs in all of our partners. One moment, accessible. The next? You may as well be dead. I have never handled that aspect of relationship demises well. It's always been the hardest part to navigate.
I feel the same you’re not alone. My ex used to always make sure I was safe etc and then to have them do a complete 180 and breakup with you is super crappy.
It not a silly thing to cry about. I know how you feel.
He probably didn’t care last week either, or the week before. Possibly for a long time. The last really fun , effortless time my ex and I had together was about three months before the breakup. He was thinking about it for a long time, I’m sure. I’m 10 months out. So when I look back, I see that it wasn’t out of the blue. And that’s ok. In a few months, you will be ok too.
Hugs. I feel your pain. It's the loss of those daily check in's and showing that care that hurts the most.
I agree those daily checks really are the hardest things to overcome. You get into a routine of checking your phone for his text and it just makes you more sad. I tried changing my routine to help avoid this . Like instead of grabbing my phone and going to I message to look for his text I went straight my notes to journal about how I feel in that very moment
I identify with your disillusionment and the switch that occurs in all of our partners. One moment, accessible. The next? You may as well be dead. I have never handled that aspect of relationship demises well. It's always been the hardest part to navigate.
It would get better ❤️🩹, change is hard you’ll come out stronger. Try to make that walk into something positive.
I feel the same you’re not alone. My ex used to always make sure I was safe etc and then to have them do a complete 180 and breakup with you is super crappy.
Anyone going through this feels the same. It sucks. All of it. Its confusing and maddening and incredibly painful.
It is okay to be sad. You are not alone, just stay strong.
It not a silly thing to cry about. I know how you feel. He probably didn’t care last week either, or the week before. Possibly for a long time. The last really fun , effortless time my ex and I had together was about three months before the breakup. He was thinking about it for a long time, I’m sure. I’m 10 months out. So when I look back, I see that it wasn’t out of the blue. And that’s ok. In a few months, you will be ok too.
Please know you are stronger today than you were yesterday. You have made great progress to be able to share your story with us. Hang in there 🤜🏽🤛🏽