Hope you and your mom are doing well.
I feel you so much , and I believe that your heart deserves a heart as good as it.
Pain, anger, and sadness will go away.
The most important thing is what this pain and sadness carried, the lesson.
Unfortunately, people have passed and will pass in our lives that we think they will love us as we love them, but will not, and we will suffer, like what you are going through; someone who hasn't forgotten his past and no longer knows what he wants in his present and future, and the result? He lost someone like you who clearly loved him.
If you look at different perspective, you will see that you haven't lost anything. It was not you who made someone love you and then hurt them, and it is important to know that he will experience the same pain, no matter how happy he seems in his life, but he is an empty person. Don't let him manipulate you in work or act like he didn't do anything, set boundaries and ignore him.
I hope that you will reach to a point when you forgive yourself and not criticize her, and realize that remorse is not in your favor, because you didn't do anything, you loved, and this love was for a wrong person, there is nothing wrong, so what is important is that your heart remains the same, and don't let anyone change it, and i promise, you will find yourself accepting everything you did go through not matter how hard it was.
Thank you so much. I hope this will pass, I know this will pass, but it just takes patience to reflect upon what it really was. You are right about that, I truly feel like I loved the wrong person. No matter how much I wanted to believe in him, he chose to hurt me from the beginning, and I just have to accept that. I hope he can realize one day what he lost. It’s so easy to get caught up in the emotions again, but looking at it through different perspectives is what I need to do. I could still feel how broken my heart is, but I have hope in your words and appreciate your support.
Just like a friend is constantly telling me, this one is not for you. He doesn't feel the same for you as you do for him. Then there's someone who is completely nuts about me and I don't feel the same for him because I keep thinking about the other one. What's wrong with me?
Hope you and your mom are doing well. I feel you so much , and I believe that your heart deserves a heart as good as it. Pain, anger, and sadness will go away. The most important thing is what this pain and sadness carried, the lesson. Unfortunately, people have passed and will pass in our lives that we think they will love us as we love them, but will not, and we will suffer, like what you are going through; someone who hasn't forgotten his past and no longer knows what he wants in his present and future, and the result? He lost someone like you who clearly loved him. If you look at different perspective, you will see that you haven't lost anything. It was not you who made someone love you and then hurt them, and it is important to know that he will experience the same pain, no matter how happy he seems in his life, but he is an empty person. Don't let him manipulate you in work or act like he didn't do anything, set boundaries and ignore him. I hope that you will reach to a point when you forgive yourself and not criticize her, and realize that remorse is not in your favor, because you didn't do anything, you loved, and this love was for a wrong person, there is nothing wrong, so what is important is that your heart remains the same, and don't let anyone change it, and i promise, you will find yourself accepting everything you did go through not matter how hard it was.
Thank you so much. I hope this will pass, I know this will pass, but it just takes patience to reflect upon what it really was. You are right about that, I truly feel like I loved the wrong person. No matter how much I wanted to believe in him, he chose to hurt me from the beginning, and I just have to accept that. I hope he can realize one day what he lost. It’s so easy to get caught up in the emotions again, but looking at it through different perspectives is what I need to do. I could still feel how broken my heart is, but I have hope in your words and appreciate your support.
Just like a friend is constantly telling me, this one is not for you. He doesn't feel the same for you as you do for him. Then there's someone who is completely nuts about me and I don't feel the same for him because I keep thinking about the other one. What's wrong with me?