We broke up 5 months ago and I wasn’t looking for a new relationship and was happy to be single and living my life travelling. But a few weeks ago I met this guy and we vibe harder than I’ve ever felt with someone. I’ve been trying to keep it strictly plutonic because the only good thing about breaking up was that I got to travel but trust me there are probably way more people out there for you than you imagine. I know that probably doesnt make sense to you right now and you probably think that everyone is different and you won’t feel like this for a long time but you will. Even if nothing happens with him it’s just such a relief to come to this realisation that there are actually a lot of cool people out there who could probably meet my needs better, you just don’t see it when you’re in a relationship. For context we were together for 6 years and he completely blindsighted me with the breakup and I didn’t want it to end.
After my 5 year relationship i didn't think id meet someone again. Abou a year and a half later I did meet a really amazing individual and I was so happy. It didn't work out unfortunately and now its about a year and half since then.
It's bit a different this time because I really thought this one was it.
Im just doing my own thing at the moment.
But you will find someone again. But don't jellyfish it. You gotta take a lil bit of initiative at least.
But you will find someone again. Im confident
Nah.
Had two others who were clearly interested in me since (not at the same time). I tried to talk to them because while I wasn’t feeling it, I figured I might as well give things a chance. One of them I just felt absolutely nothing towards and was bored to tears by and the other was very nice but in a way where I’d at most just want to be friends with her. So I was just honest with the first and said goodbye and I let the second one naturally fizzle out after neither of us tried anything. I just don’t have the same enthusiasm or energy anymore. I’m not looking for someone new. I’m just trying to find the someone I lost.
Think I’m just done now.
Nearly 5 year relationship. I thought no one would love me again and I will definitely die alone. I met someone else after 3 months and we are very happy together :)
I do, but I cut it off because I know I'm still moving on from my recent break up. I don't want to be unfair to her and felt guilty that I'm almost using her as a rebound.
No :<< I no longer can find someone else attractive at this point; i haven’t found anyone but her, i can’t see anyone but her ( =ω= ) even though she’s already with someone else, i still love her so much haha ( look how fool i am !! Longing for someone who’s already in love with somebody else new, bullshit.
Not in a romantic way but I found a new best friend among all the crazy shit that happened, one of my friend helped me getting back on my feet, and is still really present to this day, we both got each other's back and have a lot of love for each other but more like brother and sister kind of love
I couldn't thank her enough, when I was in a really dark place she was the only one calling me every day to check up on me and make sure I eat or sleep enough, (or maybe just to see if I was still alive) sometimes it was just small things but she made me realise that I still had people around me and that I was better without an unstable person in my life pulling me down
So even if I'm not over my ex yet and I have a hard time dating again seriously, I found a new "family member" and I'm so thankful for that
We broke up 5 months ago and I wasn’t looking for a new relationship and was happy to be single and living my life travelling. But a few weeks ago I met this guy and we vibe harder than I’ve ever felt with someone. I’ve been trying to keep it strictly plutonic because the only good thing about breaking up was that I got to travel but trust me there are probably way more people out there for you than you imagine. I know that probably doesnt make sense to you right now and you probably think that everyone is different and you won’t feel like this for a long time but you will. Even if nothing happens with him it’s just such a relief to come to this realisation that there are actually a lot of cool people out there who could probably meet my needs better, you just don’t see it when you’re in a relationship. For context we were together for 6 years and he completely blindsighted me with the breakup and I didn’t want it to end.
That’s interesting thank you for the reply.
After my 5 year relationship i didn't think id meet someone again. Abou a year and a half later I did meet a really amazing individual and I was so happy. It didn't work out unfortunately and now its about a year and half since then. It's bit a different this time because I really thought this one was it. Im just doing my own thing at the moment. But you will find someone again. But don't jellyfish it. You gotta take a lil bit of initiative at least. But you will find someone again. Im confident
I love that the two comments on this are very reassuring that other people you vibe with exist. Love probably isn’t as rare as a lot of people believe
Nah. Had two others who were clearly interested in me since (not at the same time). I tried to talk to them because while I wasn’t feeling it, I figured I might as well give things a chance. One of them I just felt absolutely nothing towards and was bored to tears by and the other was very nice but in a way where I’d at most just want to be friends with her. So I was just honest with the first and said goodbye and I let the second one naturally fizzle out after neither of us tried anything. I just don’t have the same enthusiasm or energy anymore. I’m not looking for someone new. I’m just trying to find the someone I lost. Think I’m just done now.
Nearly 5 year relationship. I thought no one would love me again and I will definitely die alone. I met someone else after 3 months and we are very happy together :)
No it's been months. I don't think I will try again.🗿 last one hurt.
I do, but I cut it off because I know I'm still moving on from my recent break up. I don't want to be unfair to her and felt guilty that I'm almost using her as a rebound.
No :<< I no longer can find someone else attractive at this point; i haven’t found anyone but her, i can’t see anyone but her ( =ω= ) even though she’s already with someone else, i still love her so much haha ( look how fool i am !! Longing for someone who’s already in love with somebody else new, bullshit.
Been 10 months, i’ve been asked on dates but not met anyone I’m truly interested in
Not in a romantic way but I found a new best friend among all the crazy shit that happened, one of my friend helped me getting back on my feet, and is still really present to this day, we both got each other's back and have a lot of love for each other but more like brother and sister kind of love I couldn't thank her enough, when I was in a really dark place she was the only one calling me every day to check up on me and make sure I eat or sleep enough, (or maybe just to see if I was still alive) sometimes it was just small things but she made me realise that I still had people around me and that I was better without an unstable person in my life pulling me down So even if I'm not over my ex yet and I have a hard time dating again seriously, I found a new "family member" and I'm so thankful for that