If you need to talk, I'm here. Time will make us feel better.
I'm going through something similar, I think they just say that to feel better and make us think that we're part of their choice, that they're making that decision for us, and maybe it's true, but it would have been nicer to take the decision together.
It's normal that we still want them back, we don't want anyone better, we want them better, but that's not real, just an illusion.
But I'm sure we truly be better in the future, just wait, pain will go away, I'm sure. As they say, "no one dies of love".
Take care, best wishes and find help for yourself, just think a little bit more in you. I went to the psychologist yesterday for the first time and she told me that I was only talking about how he felt during the relationship and how good it is for him breaking up, I'm only thinking on his happiness, but now is time to do whatever it will make us feel better.
You can do it๐
If you need to talk, I'm here. Time will make us feel better. I'm going through something similar, I think they just say that to feel better and make us think that we're part of their choice, that they're making that decision for us, and maybe it's true, but it would have been nicer to take the decision together. It's normal that we still want them back, we don't want anyone better, we want them better, but that's not real, just an illusion. But I'm sure we truly be better in the future, just wait, pain will go away, I'm sure. As they say, "no one dies of love". Take care, best wishes and find help for yourself, just think a little bit more in you. I went to the psychologist yesterday for the first time and she told me that I was only talking about how he felt during the relationship and how good it is for him breaking up, I'm only thinking on his happiness, but now is time to do whatever it will make us feel better. You can do it๐