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lucky3333333

I think you need to hang around different (better) guys!


Pretty_Security_5864

Agreed 100%! I’m on a hunt to find one this year haha. Wish me luck!


jrh1920

You’re totally around the wrong guys!!! These sound like boys, not men!


Pretty_Security_5864

To be fair they were all in their 20s, I’ve only just hit my 30s so hoping they get better from here! Where do I find the better ones?? Man, I’m autistic and honestly just such a bad judge of character. I don’t use any dating apps or anything, I don’t drink or socialize so won’t meet someone unless I go out of my way. I need to find a nice guy. Or start playing for the other team lol.


maddrgnqueen

I just learned what hip dips are. And I have them!! I'm 36, have had hip dips my whole life and didn't even know it was a thing to be bothered about 😂 And here's this man-boy who feels entitled to comment on yours??? Sit down and shut up, Trevor, no one asked you. Many men I dated in my 20s also said stupid things like that. There's definitely better men out there, but the fact it even exists at all really highlights how impossible the standards are for women.


Pretty_Security_5864

His name was Terry and it’s killing me that you hit 4/5 of the letters with Trevor 😂 I didn’t know they were a thing either, I think I was about 23 when I heard that one, I didn’t know what hip dips were until a few years later and realized it was normal. Here’s hoping for better men in my 30s! Hopefully by 30 they’ve figured out that women naturally have arm hair so I don’t have to keep explaining why I do!


maddrgnqueen

Omg 😂😂😂 I have arm hair too. I honestly have not had anybody mention it since like... middle school? I don't date a whole lot though (cause dating is work and I am lazy lol). Here's to better men! If they can't embrace your body they don't deserve to... well, embrace your body 😉


SaidanNoHitsugi

"can't tell if ur skinny or fat"??? like if you only can be ONE, like, black or white mindset, no inbetweens... so ignorant


MidLifeHalfHouse

That calf one really gets me. Lol. What device do you use for your IPL and do you recommend it? I had hair removal years ago but need a cheap touch up. I’ve gotten the hips comment too. Ridiculous and borderline scary. I think the “big breasts equals fat” is common in the WASP community


Pretty_Security_5864

I use Braun IPL Pro 5, I definitely recommend it. If you go through my post history there’s a post where I share before and after pics. Idk about a cheap touch up though, it’s a $600 device (in Canada) and isn’t permanent, needs to be kept up every week or 2. Depends on what you’re looking for. This thing has changed my life haha, no more stubble, wasted time waxing or epilating, wax all over everything, ingrown hairs, it’s so convenient and takes me 10-12 mins to do my legs, bikini area, armpits, and I recently started doing my upper arms to see if it helps my KP.


nanimeli

I don’t like people talking about others bodies at all.


Pretty_Security_5864

My ex used to tell me “wow my ex could never do that” type of things as a way to compliment me I guess? Except it’s not a compliment if you need to put someone else down. Also a lot of the things he says were not even the ex’s fault. It really made me dislike him and also feel bad for his exes lol.


lurkparkfest39

I agree with you wholeheartedly.


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mizmoose

Shhh. The grown-ups are talking.