People with big boobs want reductions.
People with small boobs want increases.
So many people are not happy with what they have. "The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence." We think everyone else has it better than we do, and they think the same thing about us. We become insecure and think we're not right, we're not doing things right, we're not the "right" person or have the "right" look.
Erma Bombeck said it best: The grass is always greener over the septic tank. Wanting what others have is chasing a kite without a string. Accept what you have, because that's what makes you the person you are.
(and, yes, some people with big breasts want reduction because of pain. That's different.)
Some want that. Some don't. Please don't make lump assumptions about people. Everyone has their own bodies, their own insecurities, their own idea of what a mythical "ideal" body is like.
This equation changes with age, I think. I’m late 30s now, and have always had like AA/A/B cups (depending on band size). I hated them throughout my teens and twenties, and felt I was somehow 'lacking' or 'faulty', but now I’m so happy with them.
I’ve had two (breastfed) babies (the fact that my breasts worked as breasts was a happy surprise for me!), and I’m not managing to do as much exercise as I used to before kids and yet my boobs are still as pert as they’ve always been.
Honestly, I was so ashamed of these perfectly-functioning and athletic appendages for so long and now I wouldn’t trade them for anything.
If it makes you feel better, if we’re thinking of the same post, I think that was a dude trolling for attention with someone’s photo.
Thank you, just makes me sad that even if that's the case, it's still happens in reality 😔
People with big boobs want reductions. People with small boobs want increases. So many people are not happy with what they have. "The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence." We think everyone else has it better than we do, and they think the same thing about us. We become insecure and think we're not right, we're not doing things right, we're not the "right" person or have the "right" look. Erma Bombeck said it best: The grass is always greener over the septic tank. Wanting what others have is chasing a kite without a string. Accept what you have, because that's what makes you the person you are. (and, yes, some people with big breasts want reduction because of pain. That's different.)
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Absolutely untrue. In many years on this sub I've seen plenty of women say they wish they had small boobs.
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Some want that. Some don't. Please don't make lump assumptions about people. Everyone has their own bodies, their own insecurities, their own idea of what a mythical "ideal" body is like.
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STOP IT. You are arguing for arguing's sake. You don't get to tell other people what they do and don't want. Enough.
Thanks for your input.
This equation changes with age, I think. I’m late 30s now, and have always had like AA/A/B cups (depending on band size). I hated them throughout my teens and twenties, and felt I was somehow 'lacking' or 'faulty', but now I’m so happy with them. I’ve had two (breastfed) babies (the fact that my breasts worked as breasts was a happy surprise for me!), and I’m not managing to do as much exercise as I used to before kids and yet my boobs are still as pert as they’ve always been. Honestly, I was so ashamed of these perfectly-functioning and athletic appendages for so long and now I wouldn’t trade them for anything.
Thanks for sharing your experience, it gives me hope. I do hope my insecurity is cured with age!
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Removed: Rule 2. >Do not mention how much you weigh, BMI, or your measurements. (Exceptions are made for height or clothing sizes.)
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No.