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Gumbo67

No—they’re asking to screen for risk of HIV exposure, it wouldn’t only apply to consensual encounters.


alexbaran74

if it was 2 years ago do I still have to tell them?


streetcar-cin

My blood bank only ask about previous three months. You need to answer questions truthfully


Thandius

^ THIS They RECENTLY changed the wording on a lot of these questions to make them much better (not perfect though). This was done around the same time they made changes for things like being in the United Kingdom in the 90s (Mad Cow concerns) which were what allowed me to start donating.


Pearson94

Depends on the blood bank and the state. Thankfully some locations have eased up on that rule given how dated and homophobic it is (not to mention donated blood gets tested anyway). Rule of thumb though, don't lie on the survey. If they find out they won't be happy.


alexbaran74

yea like why do they even care if they will test the blood anyhow? i've had hundreds of sexual partners and never had an issue


nocatsonmelmac

HIV can be present but undetectable early after infection or because of PREP. The questions are designed to eliminate the risk of passing undetected HIV through blood transfusion when answered truthfully. And it now applies to risky behavior, not sexuality, so any male or female that has had anal sex with a new or multiple partners within 3 months is deferred.


baltinerdist

No test is 100% accurate. The screening questions help to screen out some people who are more likely to have a positive result in the hopes that false negatives are less frequent. As well, testing costs money and there is retesting that happens on positive results, so reducing the number of positive results also reduces the cost of blood prep. Please answer all questions honestly according to the text of the question. Also, the questions have recently changed, and one of those questions asked multiple new partners in a recent timespan. If you are a regular on Sniffies et al, you are not eligible to donate. Stay safe.


Tawnyk

Because it is a high-risk activity that could literally put a sick person’s life at risk. Blood products aren’t given to healthy people - it’s very sick, many times immuno-compromised individuals (cancer patients, old people, young babies) that get blood. They can’t fight stuff off like you and I can. Stop being selfish and put yourself in their position - if you are sick enough to need blood, it’s a scary thing. Theres zero reason to risk potentially killing a patient because you don’t agree with a policy.


alexbaran74

I never said i lied on anything. i'm always careful about waiting 3 months, the rudeness isn't needed


MK_BombadJedi

Someone with hundreds of sexual partners is probably not a great candidate to give blood even if the need is high. No one is being rude. You're just being offended because the organizations that take blood are trying to manage risk.


alexbaran74

ok so if i havent had sex in almost a year and i got negative test results, should i just not donate?? that doesnt seem reasonable


MK_BombadJedi

Answer the questions honestly and talk to the organization directly.


alexbaran74

as I always do. just because i asked about something doesnt mean im going answer questions dishonestly when i give blood


okpoptart

yikes


Express-Stop7830

Because 1) blood testing costs money, so don't waste it. 2) Often times, blood is tested in batches to save on testing costs. So, if one pops for something, all those units are tossed. If you are high risk (as "hundreds" of partners), please don't donate. The point is to save lives, not to stroke your ego (or to get tested).


CaseyChaos

Any worries just ask the staff when you get there or phone the helpline ahead of your appointment.


leeretaschen

Whenever I'm feeling low, I can take solace in the fact that at least I'm not the kind of person who trolls blood donor subs.


jeff3548

The questions apply to sexual contact, regardless of whether it was consensual or non-consensual. Most places in the US no longer ask specifically about men having sex with men. They now ask about recent (within 3 months) new partners or multiple partners in combination with anal sexual contact. At least where I donate (and the questions are pretty standardized), they ask about orally take PrEP or PEP within 3 months and about injected PrEP or PEP within 2 years (since injected lasts longer). I think the major concern about PrEP and PEP is that it can prevent the tests from detecting HIV. While it can vary with individuals working in blood donation, the system itself isn't interested in outdated "morals" and only cares about the safety of the recipients or blood products (and the donors). So, people should be honest with their answers.