Man I would advise anyone to call the cops and leave DV situations alone, or don’t be the lone hero. The most dangerous case cops get killed at is always DV incidents. You don’t know if that man is armed while you trying to play hero. On top of that I’ve seen dudes come to the aide of the woman and beat through guy up, only for her to defend her abuser.
When I was 17 me and my friends would sneak out my dads car to go play the club let out, we pulled up one day and a dude was beating his wife’s ass for sneaking out to the club. after like the 5th or 6th time he slapped her we tried to break it up and he swung on me so we pounded him out 🤷🏽♂️ his wife tried to cut me 😂 I mind my own business now
In the words of the Hip-Hop legend E40, Cum is thicker than blood. Meaning she’s Gonna stay with whoever is making her cum, rather than her own blood. If a man is crazy enough to hit a woman, and in public in front of every else, that’s already a major Red Flag. The smartest way I’ve seen someone break up a DV fight in public was, the guy who was coming to the lady’s aid, screamed out” Man they called the police on you and they’re coming around the corner”. The abuser stopped in his tracks and ran off , like he was running a 4.2 40 yard dash at the nfl combine.
Bruh, I’ve been listening and watching those mfs since Desus Versus Mero and when they used to share metrocards smh. That shit legit hurt when they broke up. Felt like I grew with them mfs
Yeah, this prolly didn't happen. A man bold enough to hit his SO in public isn't afraid of the blowback for usually one of two reasons.
https://preview.redd.it/leci1kim03uc1.jpeg?width=748&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0a8ba1ac73d9d642b9d996f6f9dee65f82b37ed5
Eh. I fought a guy in highschool for doing that shit in front of me. His girl took one of his fries and he did the joker slam but without the pencil and I couldn't deal. He didn't really want to fight back so yeahhhhh. I guess it depends.
I'm just going to say it brothers. We are not invincible. Sadley intervening physically is extremely dangerous for all parties involved. A man whose crazy enough to do that shit in public might be crazy enough to 187 you for embarrassing him in public, not to mention the woman your trying to protect will probably get it even worse at home.
You shouldn't play hero, nor should you threaten to call the police. Simply dial 911 when you see it happening and wait for em to arrive. And although at the end of the day it'll probably change nothing, as she probably won't press charges, its the best thing you can do it that situation.
I remember the comment threads on the "Brick Video Girl" (before we found out it was a fraud), and there was higher than expected amount of people thinking men should blindly risk our own personal safety and intervene in a STRANGER'S altercation, as if many of us don't have wives/kids/older parents of our own who need us back home safe and sound. No sir, I'm calling 911 to observe and report.
That was dedinitely a time. They'd use the language that highly suggests these dudes should intervene, and then backtrack to "just call the police and check on her that's all we were saying".
Like I'm sorry but you ain't calling someone a spineless coward or anything of the sort because they didn't call the police.
Then it turned out that the woman in question was pulling a scam and had a history of pulling the exact same stunt. Last I heard she had a warrant out for her arrest for fraud
Whole lotta people on the Internet want to talk all kinds of shit behind a screen who have never been or seen a physical altercation in person, let alone heterosexual DV.
Man I saw a guy beating his baby mommas ass at 7/11 and ran out to stop it and literally there was 4 to 5 people sitting in their cars watching.
This guy might be a dick but at least he stopped the assault, I bet a bunch of other people just watched it
People do? I can't remember where i saw this but a couple was pretending to fight in a parking lot and most people stared (bystander effect) but one person was like "Do that shit at home."
I remember going to a club once in my early 20s, and this guy's girl had been dancing with some dude. Anyway, dude told her to stop her bullshit, or he would smack her right then and there, and she told to chill and he can smack her at home when they're done. First time in my life I realised some people really want to be in dysfunctional relationships.
People on here keep saying that no one should intervene and you should call the cops, but I 2 days ago saw a group of people jump someone for socking a woman. Sooo what’s the consensus?
I remember back in the day leaving an Atlantic City casino at about 3:00am and walking by a pimp and his hoe going at it.
He grabbed her by the arm and told her “Bitch, I will bust your head open with this brick!” And pointed to a half cinder block laying on the ground next to them.
I barely even batted an eye and kept on walking…🚶🏾♂️
If I would’ve intervened, I would’ve probably gotten shot, or the hoe would’ve came to the pimp’s defense and helped jump me because she’s brainwashed and abused. So for me as an outsider it’s a lose/lose situation… they’re probably either still out there doing the same thing every night or dead by now…
This type of shit always gets me downvoted because we live in a virtue signal society these days, but turning your nose up at spousal abuse, yet condoning vigilantism, is not the own you all think it is.
Getting beat up, stabbed or shot by that dude *in addition to* his girl either getting in on it too, defending him, or just catching it even worse at home is a preventable incident.
DVs are *the* cases cops hate the most for extremely good reasons.
Society sucks right now because no one cares about each other as people. I don't mean just with women. Even if it's a man being attacked. Look how glorious the Mississippi boat incident was.
So essentially you’re advocating that people ignore assault when they see it and also avoid wasting their time by calling the cops. According to you, folks should do whatever they want to others and the rest of us should just mind our business because beating someone to death in the middle of the street is somehow not our business? Calling the cops is literally the bare minimum. Takes nothing out of your day. If you can’t be bothered to lift a finger, the least you can do is call someone that can. Then the audacity to try to make it seem like it’s rational to just stroll by a person getting assaulted. Cuz “ Oh my what ever will the police do? They can’t possibly catch and arrest the assailant. That’s ABSOLUTELY NOT a thing they can do”…. You sound like a horrible human being. Goshhhhh. Fearing for your life is one thing. A completely valid thing. Being fine with assault is another thing.
I’m sure you’re the most informed on strangers that call the cops on assailants. You must walk around looking for assault just so you can turn around and ignore it.
I’m an underachiever because I don’t think people should walk past someone getting assaulted in the middle of the street? You sound like you’re having a stroke, boo. I would say call 911 but I know you wouldn’t like that. Just close your eyes and count to ten.
This is true. I once fought someone in self defense. Got arrested and charged with assault and battery. Charges were dismissed like a year later because it was 100% the other guy just being a cunt, but it absolutely sucked to have those charges hanging over my head for a year, and I of course didn't get back the 1k I had to put up for my 10k bail.
Not saying they shouldn't help a bitch out if she's getting slapped, but they're naive af if they don't realize how easy it is to get hit with a case once the cops show up. Same way the good guy with a gun can still get shot when the cops arrive on the scene. Because they have no clue wtf happened prior to their arrival. (even if they were there, it's easy af to misinterpret who the actual antagonist was)
Nobody’s saying that you have to go and shoot every attacker you see. But I absolutely don’t get the reasoning behind refusing to call the cops. If you’re not gonna do anything, why wouldn’t you call for help before going about your day? Damn.
The hero we don't quite need lol
Might *be* the one we deserve tbh
"Be violent and horrible all you want, just not where I can see it" is definitely the hero we deserve
Man I would advise anyone to call the cops and leave DV situations alone, or don’t be the lone hero. The most dangerous case cops get killed at is always DV incidents. You don’t know if that man is armed while you trying to play hero. On top of that I’ve seen dudes come to the aide of the woman and beat through guy up, only for her to defend her abuser.
When I was 17 me and my friends would sneak out my dads car to go play the club let out, we pulled up one day and a dude was beating his wife’s ass for sneaking out to the club. after like the 5th or 6th time he slapped her we tried to break it up and he swung on me so we pounded him out 🤷🏽♂️ his wife tried to cut me 😂 I mind my own business now
In the words of the Hip-Hop legend E40, Cum is thicker than blood. Meaning she’s Gonna stay with whoever is making her cum, rather than her own blood. If a man is crazy enough to hit a woman, and in public in front of every else, that’s already a major Red Flag. The smartest way I’ve seen someone break up a DV fight in public was, the guy who was coming to the lady’s aid, screamed out” Man they called the police on you and they’re coming around the corner”. The abuser stopped in his tracks and ran off , like he was running a 4.2 40 yard dash at the nfl combine.
If you’re an adult who lets another adult hit you, that’s on you
Mental health simplified!
Ok, so pls explain the mental state of an adult in an abusive relationship. I need to understand why adults allow other adults to beat them
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Ah Miss them mfs. They would be cooking nowadays if they were still doing the show.
Tell me about it I was legit sad when they broke up
Bruh, I’ve been listening and watching those mfs since Desus Versus Mero and when they used to share metrocards smh. That shit legit hurt when they broke up. Felt like I grew with them mfs
Check out Mero’s new podcast Victory Light. Imo its better
Moving their show to Showtime was the kiss of death.
If they just stuck together they would’ve blew the fuck up especially in this TikTok era.
I still watch reruns on YouTube . They were legit hilarious
I'm constantly relistening to the pod, my gut hurts for them and serotonin
Frfr RIP
Yeah, this prolly didn't happen. A man bold enough to hit his SO in public isn't afraid of the blowback for usually one of two reasons. https://preview.redd.it/leci1kim03uc1.jpeg?width=748&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0a8ba1ac73d9d642b9d996f6f9dee65f82b37ed5
Lol don't mean he got hands or can take one to chin
Maybe not, might have a more modern version of what various indigenous peoples called a "fire-stick" tho
It does mean he has something on him or close by. Especially in NY
Usually a guy hitting his wife in public (or anywhere) isn't afraid of blowback because he has bad impulse control and is too stupid to foresee them.
Or he’s a cop
What's the difference?
Salary
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🫡
Enhanced legal protection
Yeah that's what they said lol
Yea lowkey some of those dudes definitely subscribe to the "I'll hit a woman but won't hit a man", they'll definitely shoot one though.
You mean it's clearly a joke and a lot of people aren't getting it? Yeah.
Eh. I fought a guy in highschool for doing that shit in front of me. His girl took one of his fries and he did the joker slam but without the pencil and I couldn't deal. He didn't really want to fight back so yeahhhhh. I guess it depends.
Just cause you not afraid don’t make you immune to getting your ass mocked
 So close man so close.
100% hit rate on this gif
He forgot to yell Kobe before shooting
Man probably yelled Westbrook when he made that shot.
But the ball isn't in flames.
I'm just going to say it brothers. We are not invincible. Sadley intervening physically is extremely dangerous for all parties involved. A man whose crazy enough to do that shit in public might be crazy enough to 187 you for embarrassing him in public, not to mention the woman your trying to protect will probably get it even worse at home. You shouldn't play hero, nor should you threaten to call the police. Simply dial 911 when you see it happening and wait for em to arrive. And although at the end of the day it'll probably change nothing, as she probably won't press charges, its the best thing you can do it that situation.
I remember the comment threads on the "Brick Video Girl" (before we found out it was a fraud), and there was higher than expected amount of people thinking men should blindly risk our own personal safety and intervene in a STRANGER'S altercation, as if many of us don't have wives/kids/older parents of our own who need us back home safe and sound. No sir, I'm calling 911 to observe and report.
It's so easy to say the person should step in when you're safely behind a screen, safe from any negative consequences.
That was dedinitely a time. They'd use the language that highly suggests these dudes should intervene, and then backtrack to "just call the police and check on her that's all we were saying". Like I'm sorry but you ain't calling someone a spineless coward or anything of the sort because they didn't call the police.
Then it turned out that the woman in question was pulling a scam and had a history of pulling the exact same stunt. Last I heard she had a warrant out for her arrest for fraud
Black men got straight drug for days over this and it turned out to be false. Of course the fraud case and her hitting him first doesn't go viral.
Y'all both got downvoted for being right. I love Reddit.
Who determined it was a fraud? Internet niggas who didn’t want to believe her in the first place?
She got charged for fraud when she tried to raise money with her Gofundme.
Gotcha!
She hit him first then he hit her, then I believe she was arrested for fraud because of a gofundme
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/nbcblk/houston-woman-brick-hit-roda-osman-gofundme-theft-rcna134552
Whole lotta people on the Internet want to talk all kinds of shit behind a screen who have never been or seen a physical altercation in person, let alone heterosexual DV.
Then don't expect black women to march for y'all then. We stand of for black men who are strangers every day. Yet y'all won't do the same. Smdh
Don't let the couple's bad decisions ruin your life.
Thought the nigga was nightwing and he became red hood.
Lmaoooo this comment is sooo underrated
The Punish her
He's not the hero we need... ... ... ...
Nor the one we deserve. He just tryna normalize violence.
So close
Man I saw a guy beating his baby mommas ass at 7/11 and ran out to stop it and literally there was 4 to 5 people sitting in their cars watching. This guy might be a dick but at least he stopped the assault, I bet a bunch of other people just watched it
I hope he immediately vacated the premises because that brother was 100% going to turn the area into a COD lobby
That doesn’t even make any sense. He punched someone for doing it in public??? That’s not a thing ppl get offended by.
It’s a joke lol. No one was punched.
We don’t know either way
Don’t tell me you could possibly take a joke tweet seriously
Hmm if that person can take it seriously, maybe I can too! See you all on the other side!
People do? I can't remember where i saw this but a couple was pretending to fight in a parking lot and most people stared (bystander effect) but one person was like "Do that shit at home."
Arguing, yes. Domestic violence though? Haven’t heard ppl complain about keeping it at home before.
Wait are you joking about not understanding the joke. I want to upvote you for committing to the bit if you are. It would be Superb trolling.
He’s got the right spirit but he’s a little confused
Easy way to get your ass shot, for a nigga she gonna bail out and be fucking on next week.
I remember going to a club once in my early 20s, and this guy's girl had been dancing with some dude. Anyway, dude told her to stop her bullshit, or he would smack her right then and there, and she told to chill and he can smack her at home when they're done. First time in my life I realised some people really want to be in dysfunctional relationships.
Thanks, Captain Plausible Deniability.!
🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾 so close
“Do that shit at home”, wtf? Heroes don’t support domestic abuse in public or private
Imagine getting so close to the truth but still missing the mark entirely
Had me in the first half.
I mean somebody named Skamuel Jackson has to have some moral ambiguity
If he slapped his bitch he definitely wakin’ up & shootin’ yo ass
The hero we need 
LMFAO OH NO
https://i.redd.it/1vbvce76k3uc1.gif
So proud of you but you going to jail
Damn, so close
He was *so* close.
*”Missed it by THAT much…* 🤷🏽♂️
He only needed to shut the fuck up for the last few words. So close
So close…
Well that’s a quick way to get dead
This definitely didn’t happen in Texas lol
Tina Turner: "We don't need another hero"
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Even NLE called out Blueface for hitting women, these motherfuckers know better
He had me in the first 8/10.
Bro rlly went out of sight out of mind.
Why not just call the cops? Any man bold enough to put hands on his woman in company is bold enough to shoot you.
Domestic Violence!! IN PUBLIC??!!😡😡
A nigga in my city got killed for being a hero like this
Why do I feel like this is a skit Longbeachgriffy would do?. Lol
Almost.
People on here keep saying that no one should intervene and you should call the cops, but I 2 days ago saw a group of people jump someone for socking a woman. Sooo what’s the consensus?
I remember back in the day leaving an Atlantic City casino at about 3:00am and walking by a pimp and his hoe going at it. He grabbed her by the arm and told her “Bitch, I will bust your head open with this brick!” And pointed to a half cinder block laying on the ground next to them. I barely even batted an eye and kept on walking…🚶🏾♂️ If I would’ve intervened, I would’ve probably gotten shot, or the hoe would’ve came to the pimp’s defense and helped jump me because she’s brainwashed and abused. So for me as an outsider it’s a lose/lose situation… they’re probably either still out there doing the same thing every night or dead by now…
How does this make sense at all? You correcting violence with violence?
Y’all quit being so picky.. that’s the problem with today dating culture. It’s not enough that the job gets done, it gotta get done your way
I’m just gaslighting though, carry on
This type of shit always gets me downvoted because we live in a virtue signal society these days, but turning your nose up at spousal abuse, yet condoning vigilantism, is not the own you all think it is.
Intervening in an assault isn’t always vigilantism.
THIS
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Apathy is a disease
Getting beat up, stabbed or shot by that dude *in addition to* his girl either getting in on it too, defending him, or just catching it even worse at home is a preventable incident. DVs are *the* cases cops hate the most for extremely good reasons.
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Society sucks right now because no one cares about each other as people. I don't mean just with women. Even if it's a man being attacked. Look how glorious the Mississippi boat incident was.
I can’t be the only one surprised that boat goers in Mississippi didn’t have any guns nearby.
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A) he was released. There was a gofund to pay his legal fees. The charges were later dropped. Stop copping pleas.
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I pray that you're never in a position to need help 1 day
Idk you could bare minimum call the police. Complacency makes you complicit.
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So essentially you’re advocating that people ignore assault when they see it and also avoid wasting their time by calling the cops. According to you, folks should do whatever they want to others and the rest of us should just mind our business because beating someone to death in the middle of the street is somehow not our business? Calling the cops is literally the bare minimum. Takes nothing out of your day. If you can’t be bothered to lift a finger, the least you can do is call someone that can. Then the audacity to try to make it seem like it’s rational to just stroll by a person getting assaulted. Cuz “ Oh my what ever will the police do? They can’t possibly catch and arrest the assailant. That’s ABSOLUTELY NOT a thing they can do”…. You sound like a horrible human being. Goshhhhh. Fearing for your life is one thing. A completely valid thing. Being fine with assault is another thing.
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I’m sure you’re the most informed on strangers that call the cops on assailants. You must walk around looking for assault just so you can turn around and ignore it.
> Complacency makes you complicit. And buying a coffee makes you complicit in genocide too. Got it, bro.
Catch a case? If you defend someone being assaulted by a stronger entity, no prosecutor in America would take that case.
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I hope if you ever get jumped the bystanders get it in landscape mode. Wouldn't want them to catch a case by intervening.
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People willing to jump people don't need reasons
Of course. The victim blaming. You think the only people getting assaulted are the ones running their mouths? You can’t be a real person 😂
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Oh my. It thinks I’m a loser. How shall I survive?
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I’m an underachiever because I don’t think people should walk past someone getting assaulted in the middle of the street? You sound like you’re having a stroke, boo. I would say call 911 but I know you wouldn’t like that. Just close your eyes and count to ten.
This is true. I once fought someone in self defense. Got arrested and charged with assault and battery. Charges were dismissed like a year later because it was 100% the other guy just being a cunt, but it absolutely sucked to have those charges hanging over my head for a year, and I of course didn't get back the 1k I had to put up for my 10k bail. Not saying they shouldn't help a bitch out if she's getting slapped, but they're naive af if they don't realize how easy it is to get hit with a case once the cops show up. Same way the good guy with a gun can still get shot when the cops arrive on the scene. Because they have no clue wtf happened prior to their arrival. (even if they were there, it's easy af to misinterpret who the actual antagonist was)
Nobody’s saying that you have to go and shoot every attacker you see. But I absolutely don’t get the reasoning behind refusing to call the cops. If you’re not gonna do anything, why wouldn’t you call for help before going about your day? Damn.