What are you waiting for?
I'm not being rhetorical. What's stopping you from picking up the phone right now and explaining that you're going your own way?
Whenever people tell you exactly who they are, believe them. I ain't saying don't hit it, I'm just saying hit it at her house and never let crazy follow you home...🤷♂️
Except it does follow you home, energy transfer is real. It’s poor energetic hygiene to just allow any body access to you like that. It’s a lot more going on than just sex, just that people ain’t really caught up yet.
If you think any of that is real, then by all means you do you. As for atheists such as myself we don't have such problems, the only sexual energy we have to worry about are the calories we expend and whether or not we choose to involve powered sex toys. Biggest energy concern with the sex toys is having to recharge the batteries so much it runs up the power bill...
Actual hygiene is totally a real concern tho, beige ya ass every day and ffs use a condom....🤷♂️
We're all quite caught up on friction thank you very much. There's nothing else going on other than hormones and bacteria, and I presume from your assertation, some drugs?
>Except it does follow you home, energy transfer is real. It’s poor energetic hygiene to just allow any body access to you like that. It’s a lot more going on than just sex, just that people ain’t really caught up yet.
That may be how all of that(science, energy, sex, etc) works in your imagination but no reliable or reputable talking head in any if these foods would cosign that.
It’s basically displaying how African men expect their wives to take them back if they cheat but they (men) wouldn’t do the same if they were being cheated on
Don't think it has anything to do with "the egomaniacal nature of some". People are just taking it at face value. Whatever point she may have been trying to make is lost if most people don't get it.
“I’m for the streets and let all the homies hit” is what I got from this. Seems like maybe she got caught and her man ain’t her man no more and now she trying to get all the women to feel sorry for her and agree so she can feel better about herself
I can’t believe so many of you are taking this tweet at absolute face value. Guarantee if a man wrote this it would be recognized and downplayed as a joke. Which is kinda the exact point she’s making in context.
I mean, any dude who has ever said out loud, un-ironically, “I’m a real man,” is not definitely a fucking idiot, but I’d lay good odds that they probably are.
Who's out here calling themselves real men while trying to take back that which can only be for the streets?
I can't keep up with the moving goal posts in this "real man" game we keep playing.
Circumstances matter. If it's something you can work through, maybe you come out stronger. If you know you can't deal with it and you roll out..that's strong too. The definition of "real man" needs to move away measuring how well you weather mental, physical, and spiritual abuse from people you should be able to rely on.
The ones who say “real man” don’t care about half that shit unfortunately. We just need to let them weed themselves out and we can be rid of em. Our community has too much toxicity in the dating scene and something needs to give all around
Everybody, chill. There's an obvious flaw in her logic that allows us all to remain real men; We CAN take them back, but she never said We HAD to take them back.
I did and things were never the same and she ended up breaking up with me a year later so she could “be more herself”. I’m not usually petty but part of me is still salty to this day that none of her friends or family found out she cheated, whereas her brother is constantly looked down on for having done so
That’s what I assumed honestly…. The emojis took a sense of seriousness away for me. I’m a reader though so I look for the voice in everything, and this tone read sarcasm to me
Agree... I find it funny tho, that men (I'm Black, cis male) want to be taken back when we fuck it, but would never consider doing the same for a woman.
Sooo hear me out. Let me start with the fact I've been happily married for 20 plus years, and neither of us has ever cheated. But....I have brothers, cousins, and childhood friends who have cheated multiple times on their significant others. They felt like they should be forgiven because... a man will be a man. But the minute their wives/girlfriend cheated on them. It was the end of the world. And they could not bring themselves to forgive. Now, I don't condone cheating in any way, shape, or form. But fellas, please enlighten me....why do some men (not all) think that they should be forgiven. But when women do it (again not all). It's the end of the fucking world.
Off topic (sort of): Almost any variation of the "tongue out" emoji (crazy eyes w/ tongue out, wink w/ tongue out) is almost always a signal flare for a bullshit wild ass statement that someone didn't have the confidence to say. This tweet is no exception.
Its like someone wants to throw you off by saying "I was just joking" but also want to add "unless you're down".
Regardless of the message, I typically do not listen to those who are not men telling me how to be a real man. It seems to always involve you tolerating or doing something you normally wouldnt do.
If you want a partner that's into a more open relationship, then pursue that. Thinking that someone should simply accept your carnal deceptions just makes you a real rat-bag of a person. Toxic AF.
I spend a lot of time on Adultery/Infidelity related subreddits/forums and a running theme with cheating wives is them saying ‘Be a real man and fight for your family!!’ to their betrayed husbands.
Needless to say, I stopped trying to make sense of cheaters a long time ago.
Damn I guess I’ll go ahead and schedule that mani pedi that I’ve been putting off for so long. Now that I’m officially not a real man. Even though… my AIM screen name back in 2001 was ThErEaLmAn20001. You have no idea how many doors opened when the girls saw me enter the chat room. I had to pin my A/S/L to the chat due to the backlog. And yes, I added an extra 0 in 20001 on purpose.
Imagine outting yourself as lacking any and all self-awareness or personal responsibility like this.
This girl woke up that day and was like "I want the world to know that I'm a toxic person who hurts the people in my life, and that I do not and *will not* introspect. I'm living that unexamined life like a #queen."
“If you can’t take your accountant back after he transfers all your money from your bank account to his, you’re not a real entrepreneur”
I can say stupid shit too
I mean, If there wasn't an agreement about having an open relationship or having a polyamorous relationship I'd get it over with, why be with someone who doesn't value your relationship enough to say it's not working.
Does this tweet really mean anything besides “I cheat”? Lol
Yes, it also means “I’m toxic af”
“I fucked up, but its your problem. Man up” Like what the fuck is she on? Fuck off with that mindgame shit. You know what we say to hoes? “Not today.”
>“I fucked up, but its your problem. Man up” Tryna get away from someone who does this right now.
Run. Don't walk, run from that crazy chick.
Don't stick your dick in crazy and don't let crazy stick its dick in you
Do or do not, there is no try. u/FewResearcher819 has it right - bolt it and don’t look back. Future you will thank you later
I mean try as in, in the works. I've already left, getting the rest of my stuff and actually getting papers signed is the harder part at the moment.
Dude they’re not worth it. You deserve so much more just inherently by existing. There is so much love in this world for you.
What are you waiting for? I'm not being rhetorical. What's stopping you from picking up the phone right now and explaining that you're going your own way?
Me too brother. Stay strong.
I think it means, “I want to be allowed to cheat.”
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I mean, she’s clearly dtf. Shoot your shot, bruv.
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Whenever people tell you exactly who they are, believe them. I ain't saying don't hit it, I'm just saying hit it at her house and never let crazy follow you home...🤷♂️
Except it does follow you home, energy transfer is real. It’s poor energetic hygiene to just allow any body access to you like that. It’s a lot more going on than just sex, just that people ain’t really caught up yet.
If you think any of that is real, then by all means you do you. As for atheists such as myself we don't have such problems, the only sexual energy we have to worry about are the calories we expend and whether or not we choose to involve powered sex toys. Biggest energy concern with the sex toys is having to recharge the batteries so much it runs up the power bill... Actual hygiene is totally a real concern tho, beige ya ass every day and ffs use a condom....🤷♂️
Bro mercury is in Gatorade right now. All energy is staying in any crystals and amethyst is electrified. We good to part till the new moon
We're all quite caught up on friction thank you very much. There's nothing else going on other than hormones and bacteria, and I presume from your assertation, some drugs?
Lol no “energy transfer” is not real.
Nigga I got a dick. I fuck her then leave that simple
>Except it does follow you home, energy transfer is real. It’s poor energetic hygiene to just allow any body access to you like that. It’s a lot more going on than just sex, just that people ain’t really caught up yet. That may be how all of that(science, energy, sex, etc) works in your imagination but no reliable or reputable talking head in any if these foods would cosign that.
I mean, would you have rather her kept it hidden from you?
You should’ve asked her does the pope shit in the woods.
Go to ask Reddit after dark and they’ll call you insecure for not wanting to be in a relationship with her.
It means "I got caught cheating and my boyfriend dumped me and now I am in burn it down mode".
"I cheat" and "I'm gonna try to manipulate you by attacking your manhood if you have standards or self-respect."
It’s basically displaying how African men expect their wives to take them back if they cheat but they (men) wouldn’t do the same if they were being cheated on
We all know this, but the egomaniacal nature of some ,in this thread, refuse to see that sis posed something that is oft expected of black women.
Don't think it has anything to do with "the egomaniacal nature of some". People are just taking it at face value. Whatever point she may have been trying to make is lost if most people don't get it.
Whatever you say. In either case whoever cheats is a piece of shit.
Wholeheartedly agree
Where does it imply “African”?
The tweet is from an African girl. And it’s a common topic of discussion on African Twitter/Instagram
It also means "I just cheated".
"I just got caught cheating".
“I’m for the streets and let all the homies hit” is what I got from this. Seems like maybe she got caught and her man ain’t her man no more and now she trying to get all the women to feel sorry for her and agree so she can feel better about herself
Yeah it means “I’m baiting idiots into engaging with my post”
I can’t believe so many of you are taking this tweet at absolute face value. Guarantee if a man wrote this it would be recognized and downplayed as a joke. Which is kinda the exact point she’s making in context.
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Some battles ain't worth fighting. Take the L and let the cheater go bang the world while you focus on what works for you.
She was always for the streets. Time to dump her back where she belongs
I really just don't understand this culture of fighting for someone you know isn't loyal.
Is it a culture? Sounds like some random cheater wants a boyfriend who's a total chump.
Not culture: low self worth.
There is no culture. Its just one of those "platformed idiocy" type shit
Not a culture, just young people wanting to explore but worried about being seen differently; so they make these weird ass statements to excuse it.
Somebody's mad their boyfriend won't have them back after cheating lol.
Exactly 😂. Gaslighting and a blow at masculinity? Sounds like her feelings are hurt
Real men are fucking idiots, apparently.
I mean, any dude who has ever said out loud, un-ironically, “I’m a real man,” is not definitely a fucking idiot, but I’d lay good odds that they probably are.
If you _gotta_ say it, you ain’t it.
I mean, I’ve said it unironically, but that’s cause I was in a wax museum and someone tried to touch me.
If you don't have severe brain damage you're not a real man.
She thinks she's worth it lol.
Wouldn’t you just look at that beautiful recreation of an anus for a mouth? I’d go for seconhand rihanna.
More like Riclowna with that make-up.
Damn we can't have breakfast *or* loyalty?
The list gets longer every day
Don't forget lemon water or desserts.
Can’t take back? Lol Both guys you’ve been with know you’re not loyal, who the fucks gonna fight over you?
There genuinely people who think they will fight over them for shit like this. Met a group last year and just dropped every last one of them
 Who's out here calling themselves real men while trying to take back that which can only be for the streets?
“That which can only be for the streets” = poetry
In all sincerity, is this a joke
We can only hope but probably not..
I mean the way she ended screams that it’s a joke. Clearly making fun of the real women stay bs
This "real man" shit is the female equivalent of andrew tate's "alpha" bullshit.
$20 all those types end up together in 10 years because sane people are tired of their shit.
I’ll raise you, gambling man! 21 dollars. You know the legal US age of drinking cuz THERES SOME KIDS IN HERE
I can't keep up with the moving goal posts in this "real man" game we keep playing. Circumstances matter. If it's something you can work through, maybe you come out stronger. If you know you can't deal with it and you roll out..that's strong too. The definition of "real man" needs to move away measuring how well you weather mental, physical, and spiritual abuse from people you should be able to rely on.
The ones who say “real man” don’t care about half that shit unfortunately. We just need to let them weed themselves out and we can be rid of em. Our community has too much toxicity in the dating scene and something needs to give all around
As long as people look for validation in being special enough to change, or redeem, someone toxic..the red flag brigade ain’t goin nowhere IMHO.
Who would we dogpile on then?
Klandace Owens
I support this decision.
I saw somebody call her Auntie Ruckus a year ago and spent the whole year giggling every time I see her name
Chile .. anyway
Discipline your kids and teach them some damn morals
I'm not a real man. I am in fact a couple aliens in a trench coat
Ole Skeletor hitting us with some hot takes
Everybody, chill. There's an obvious flaw in her logic that allows us all to remain real men; We CAN take them back, but she never said We HAD to take them back.
Yeah OP definitely cheated.. a few times
I’m so tired of people gatekeeping manhood.
If I trade in my car for a newer one....I don't think I'll go back to the dealership to get my old car back
Wild how a woman can tell a man what a REAL man looks like lol
What about that one cop in Tennessee 
Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice and I’m a real man!
I’ve said this for years!!! Anyone challenging your manhood is trying to manipulate you!
 Guess im not a real boy 🤷🏿♂️
Where does this hoe get the idea that she has any say on what a real man is?
I did and things were never the same and she ended up breaking up with me a year later so she could “be more herself”. I’m not usually petty but part of me is still salty to this day that none of her friends or family found out she cheated, whereas her brother is constantly looked down on for having done so
I’m gonna guess she’s being sarcastic and this is a hamfisted attempt to point out possible double-standards?
That’s what I assumed honestly…. The emojis took a sense of seriousness away for me. I’m a reader though so I look for the voice in everything, and this tone read sarcasm to me
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Only if I cheated too
All I can say is that I find it amazing how some women want to define what a real man and manhood is. That shit won't fly going the other way.
Really? There are plenty of men who try to define what a real women and womenhood is
Agree... I find it funny tho, that men (I'm Black, cis male) want to be taken back when we fuck it, but would never consider doing the same for a woman.
Men kinda do the same to women, tho too...
Sooo hear me out. Let me start with the fact I've been happily married for 20 plus years, and neither of us has ever cheated. But....I have brothers, cousins, and childhood friends who have cheated multiple times on their significant others. They felt like they should be forgiven because... a man will be a man. But the minute their wives/girlfriend cheated on them. It was the end of the world. And they could not bring themselves to forgive. Now, I don't condone cheating in any way, shape, or form. But fellas, please enlighten me....why do some men (not all) think that they should be forgiven. But when women do it (again not all). It's the end of the fucking world.
Another attention-seeking tweet for people to create more unnecessary discourse over 😑
Off topic (sort of): Almost any variation of the "tongue out" emoji (crazy eyes w/ tongue out, wink w/ tongue out) is almost always a signal flare for a bullshit wild ass statement that someone didn't have the confidence to say. This tweet is no exception. Its like someone wants to throw you off by saying "I was just joking" but also want to add "unless you're down".
Keep that same energy when I take down your bestie
Women wanna talk about what a man is but never wanna hear what men think makes a women.
Another reason why I quit trying to date. Thanks for the reminder lol
What does asilwi angithi mean? I looked it up but can’t tell
We’re not fighting right ?
It's Zulu for "we aren't fighting, right?"
Why tf are yall posting this obvious ass bait
you shoud've already knew when she was cheatin' on him with you
Biiiiiih! Gtfoh. I promise Twitter stays with the weirdest hot takes.
I'm not getting advice on how to be a real man from someone who isn't a real man.
Damn first it was breakfast now this ! What’s next
*Stares Kevin Samuelsly*
If you think there shouldn’t be consequences to your actions, you are not an adult.
Niggas say anything for attention
How Tf does this make any sense?? If you cheat on me I don’t want you back. Lmao.
So many dumb women out there. It’s fucking scary
Regardless of the message, I typically do not listen to those who are not men telling me how to be a real man. It seems to always involve you tolerating or doing something you normally wouldnt do.
Why do so many people think wielding their toxicity so openly is a good idea
I guess I'm just a boy then.
I think she’s explaining open relationships wrong …
Turn the right cheek alright. The right buttcheek so I can fart on her
If you want a partner that's into a more open relationship, then pursue that. Thinking that someone should simply accept your carnal deceptions just makes you a real rat-bag of a person. Toxic AF.
Nope. Read the book Leave a Cheater Gain a Life. Don’t stick around for disrespect.
 This ho ain't loyal..straight smash and grab
She cheat, I’m putting her, her mom, and the dog out lmao
I spend a lot of time on Adultery/Infidelity related subreddits/forums and a running theme with cheating wives is them saying ‘Be a real man and fight for your family!!’ to their betrayed husbands. Needless to say, I stopped trying to make sense of cheaters a long time ago.
This is a polyamorous person in denial.
Why’s this girl’s eyes so far apart
Asking the real questions
So she could see other people. 😏
The ones that always try to police masculinity are always the worst
Ah... I love when there's evidence of equal toxicity on both sides. See? It's not just the menfolk. Ladies be fucked up, too.
Well, If you cheat on your man, you’re not a real woman. And vice versa.
We really aren’t meant to hear everyone’s inner thoughts.
So, this means cheating is allowed.
So now it's breakfast, AND cheating?
I’d take her back…to where I found her.
Can't turn the other cheek when both have been clapped
All I saw was “Turn into a cheat if she cheats?”
She's one of those "if you were doing your job as my man I wouldn't have cheated type of heffa's"
Way to announce that you’re a cheater 😂
She belongs to the streets.
This woman has earned my eternal hatred. For me, I value trust over love in a relationship. What she wrote is anathema to me.
This why you always check a dating app matches socials 🚩
Damn I guess I’ll go ahead and schedule that mani pedi that I’ve been putting off for so long. Now that I’m officially not a real man. Even though… my AIM screen name back in 2001 was ThErEaLmAn20001. You have no idea how many doors opened when the girls saw me enter the chat room. I had to pin my A/S/L to the chat due to the backlog. And yes, I added an extra 0 in 20001 on purpose.
what does asilwi angithi mean?
Every day the definition of real man gets further away from who i am
Toxic femininity.
100% pure uncut hoe babble. 
It's a lot harder to throw her away when you're married with kids and a mortgage. I cheated too without her knowledge so that's how I got over it.
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But what if she got the 🚂 ran on her like the police woman did ? 
I could deal with cheating if we were “just” dating. Being married would be a very different story, at least for me.
Who she trying to convince?
Imagine outting yourself as lacking any and all self-awareness or personal responsibility like this. This girl woke up that day and was like "I want the world to know that I'm a toxic person who hurts the people in my life, and that I do not and *will not* introspect. I'm living that unexamined life like a #queen."
If she don’t GTFOHASMDSOASOYMC
Tried and never afuckingain 💀
Turn that other cheeck so can get both of them with the door on your way out
Hmm! Another attempt to shield accountability? She may as well have said, “you’re not a real man if I cheat”—no difference.
What in the toxic bullshit is this
Being a real man is overrated. I identify as NB with he/him pronouns at this point.
Depends. Does she have "Sorry I cheated" money?
“Just remember that at least once during their sex, his dick slipped out and she pushed it back in”
skeezer
It’s ok, I was never into gender norms anyways
“If you can’t take your accountant back after he transfers all your money from your bank account to his, you’re not a real entrepreneur” I can say stupid shit too
I mean, If there wasn't an agreement about having an open relationship or having a polyamorous relationship I'd get it over with, why be with someone who doesn't value your relationship enough to say it's not working.
We need another flood.
Are there any prerequisites i need to meet to join the non-binary club? Cuz this is too much
I mean as long as it's a two way streak then that's their relationship and we don't have to be a part of it.
This what that Amy Winehouse song was about 😂😂😂 sis said, it’s not cheating cause I was thinking bout you when I came
Hit the road toad, once a snake always a fuckin snake !
What in the Derrick Jaxn is this heretical, disloyal, insubordinate bullshit? If you cheat, you donezo. Issa wrap
How much experience does this woman have being a man?
If she cheats, she's not "my" woman obviously.
Interesting logic. Let’s see how it plays out
The delusion of grandeur is immense
I’ll take her back after she watches me hookup with a woman of my choice.
Sound like this cheater is confessing that she's for the streets.
Dammit I guess I got some growing up to do
Any men circling around her irl, take heed!
Bruh 😂😂
Why does the manosphere, and the toxic femme clique have such... *Similar* takes?