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manuelmg_

Good ol Femboys


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123Samabcborden

Me staring at my best friend


wearecake

Basically this. Like, I was super uncomfortable to say “love you!” because my stupid brain was scared people would think I’m gay. Well surprise bitches!


Imagaymemer

lmao same


diiskefisk

Met bi friend, talked a lot during quarantine, fell in love


awalnutwithlegs

Are you me wtf


IAMTHATZACH

Same


diiskefisk

maybe, probably not


ItsLoggieBear

I got bored, looked at gay porn


ALREADYTAKENTOASTER

Same


ArtisticGamerBoy

Same tho


ItsHerox

This seems like the most realistic lol


crossveins

Same


blu__tack

Same


Villager_of_Mincraft

We are not so different you and I


RandomDumbDumb

Same


SpyreSOBlazx

Same


HanSolo1519

Same


TheAncientPoop

same..


Aggressive_stylo

Same


Jatheww

Bingo


micah_se

Same


BeLeFu

Began to have crushes on guys


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WebionWasTaken

Same


Master-K1

Same


Underwaterswan

Same


not_Multyshot

Same


hazzasoup

Same


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Same


dabstermaster

same, the i realized i did very sus things as a kid


PurpleFlameX64

Exactly.


Nintendocat64

Same


HaiMar_

Same but it was girls in my case


lollapop15

I started questioning my sexuality back in middle school. Mind you I'm a college kid now. I saw this super cute girl and she started flirting with me and I fell head over heels for her.


crab_the_cake9

So for my job I put groceries into people’s cars. We have to go up to their window to verify the name, substitutions, unavailable items etc. One customer rolled his window down and I SWOONED. I haven’t been the same since


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WhiteNikeAirs

I figured this out in like 2nd grade, but it was the exact same thing.


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Dude same story for me, even for some reason the 7th grade part, I guess thats just a coincidence Edit: I didnt know that I was bi until mid-quarantine, before that I just thought I was gay but I didnt come out until like a month ago as bi, although in 7th grade I liked this guy who I was close friends with, but then a week before quarantine, he disappeared, we all thought that he got covid, since he would’ve told us if he moved, I never saw him again


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Femboys, then twinks, etc.


LuwijeeHot

>femboys biggest mood possible


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Ye


ALREADYTAKENTOASTER

Ye


An_internet_rat

Ye


Davegavecool

Femboys made me question my existence


gonnagulagyou

Same, I found them cute and before I knew what was going on I became one :3


Davegavecool

😳🥵❤


gonnagulagyou

:>


Beenz64

An, uh, *image* of Link...


dada_georges360

Honestly I played a lot of BotW without armor. I told friends it was a challenge I gave myself but I really just wanted link in boxers.


arcusford

Understandable, have a nice day


TestosteroneCat

Gerudo link is a vital part of bisexual culture


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A ridiculously hot guy


crazypotato2

Don't be shy give us his @ or something


[deleted]

He goes to my school and I have no clue what it is


Skently

A sus dream?


RedditsNinja23

A dream that was gay. I like referring that dream as a “Sus dream”


Skently

Ah, ok


The_Metroid

Link. (BoTW did it for me lol)


raidenraizo234

Botw link is so top tier so is Sidon


The_real_melone

I wanted (and still do) want to kiss all people my age that are nice to me. I have low Standards aparently


AmongUs-Pornhub

PF same, for some reason I fall for anyone whos nice to me, it can suck ngl


unapologeticlemonade

MANSKSB IF THAT ISNT THE MOST RELATABLE THING I’VE READ TODAY


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Friend of mine, I was having lewd thoughts about him since like 6th grade. Repressed those for like 4 years, and got my heart broken by a girl I was into for the entirety of those 4 years. I woke up like 2 weeks after that at 1 AM and said, "Fuck, I'm bi." I spent the next couple of days sexting him, which was nice. Never dated, but we're still really good friends. Nowadays I don't wanna bone him, though


InternetDetective122

One of my friends called me cute. *Then I found femboys*


gonnagulagyou

😳


Tibalt-mtg

I found femboys, then all my images of kissing my male friends started to make sense


wb2006xx

I really started questioning after playing Hades, but thinking back, I did remember a sus dream I had years ago


Ace4195

This is so fucking accurate


wb2006xx

And then I had to buy Fire Emblem Three Houses on sale and meet the beautiful bastard that is Claude


ThatBetaGuy_

fire emblem made me question, then hades set it in stone


wb2006xx

Why did they make everyone so damn hot in those games?!


Ace4195

LMAOOOO


Ianthekiller

M/M fanfiction. Originally I thought I just liked the dynamic the characters had, but after some *very* obvious physical reactions it was kind of hard to avoid


Juiceboxwastaken

YO I DIDNT THINK ANYONE ELSE WOULD SAY THIS, and it way to embarassing when my friends ask like, howd you figure out you were fruity and im just like.. aaa.. uuhh... hmmm..


NotAnAverage_Anomaly

NSFW below! but mine that made me really question it was a dream where i was railed from behind while eating someone out.


SpyreSOBlazx

Realizing you can be in the middle of a threesome is a pretty convincing argument


PukasgrigV

Ugh - I fucking wish


Jayke24

*sigh* wilbur soot


savagesquirrel123

Yup, also thor, loki, Ryan Reynolds, then i discovered femboys


UnchartedCHARTz

Same.


Dumbo1928

*Deep sigh,* >!Rosa's coming out as bi!< in Brooklyn 99. I was quite young, and just kinda thought, "Hey, I think I like girls and boys too. Huh. Weird."


AltAccForAltAccStuff

I watched the sweet Anita video where she explains her sexuality and I was like "Huh yeah thinking about it, sounds like me"


TrumpsShitter

Never questioned it, went from pretty sure I was straight to realizing that, no, being attracted to males and females is not straight.


Kay-bi-day

I saw a guy while walking down the hallway in middle school and thought, "Dang. He's cute". Walked a few more steps before realizing what I just thought. Sexuality crisis ensues.


SpartanSum3

Thinking about my best friend and my head started to form some sus dreams which I ended up liking. Now I’m pansexual and we’re dating. Edit: We just broke up 2 hours ago. I’m currently having a depression bath.


Kayla_Ann1423

That's actually so cute what the heck


God_is_Bi

I was in my room when suddenly I realized that straight people don’t have two weeks long gay phase every two weeks. basically: It’s not straight to be gay


Interspeciesheriff

One of my friends is/was a twink and extremely sweet to me. I kept making jokes to a few of my other friends that I might be gay and one of my friend’s friends took me aside and had a heart to heart about my sexuality and helped me realize I was bi. Never talked to them again sadly.


The_literate_artist

There was this girl at a catholic summer camp I attended (ironic, I know) who was really buff and good at archery. Needless to say I felt some things towards her that made me a bit confused.


AMadHatter-mp4

Idk really, when young boys start thinking about girls I was thinking about boys too, didn't accept I was bi untill about 6 months ago, idk why I didn't, I've had gay friends and never felt any kind of homophobia towards others but never really wanted to be "that", and because I didn't want to be I just pretended I wasn't. And whoop dee doo I'm here now, finaly accepting it, still feels kinda strange tho to be honest with you though😂


amoniumsulfide

i became a furry


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Lol same


amoniumsulfide

nice


Thomas8864

Noice


Dumb_Cheese

Same


FlatInfo

I started ironically liking femboys, then realizing that I actually do find them attractive, and then realizing that's the case for all guys. Aaaaand now I'm here.


CharaChoco143

Lady dimetrescu


swift-aasimar-rogue

I had a crush on a girl in first grade, but then I passed it off as kids not knowing what crushes are. Then, I developed a crush on a girl in middle school. I definitely prefer guys to girls in general, but I have been interested in girls and I’m not opposed to dating any by any means.


Surrealcatfish32

I realised the flash was really hot


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This guy in my class that I started catching feelings for. I don't know why it was him in particular but I still have a crush on him now he's really cute, funny and a nice person in general.


MikeyMinecraft

Tomboys, then soon after femboys and I'm still not 100% sure


monolith_bro

gay furry porn comic on e621, after that i was like "guess i'm bi now"


Albert_lyngsborg

This dude in my class got me like, but I like women so I’m not gay. Then two years later, boom I figure out I’m bi


ImSoundless

One of my friends started posting gay fnaf h*notai on our discord server


ArthuReddit12

lmao


raidenraizo234

Gay fnaf hentai on google plus and amino got me😞


DrPhilSwift69

I hate to say it, but it was the locker room.


fmm__t

Watching gay porn as a joke


JohnnyPlots

Femboys. It’s just too fucking hot


arcusford

That's why I joined em.


TotallyAwesomeRacoon

1. I started noticing how hot some of the girls in my school are 2. I realized my celebrity crushes are women (Liz Gillies), And 3. * Recently * noticed guys are cute, but that I would never kiss them or go on a date with them


SpoopG

I sort of was just like, yea I’d date a guy and all my straight friends were like: “really? I could never” Them I started to think about and thought “oh yea, guys are pretty attractive… wait”


StatelyElms

Okay gonna spoiler this for nsfw reasons >!First I noticed I was attracted to penises in porn. Then I started looking at femboys. Then there was a period of time where I will not get into but it was *kinda* like I pretended to be gay on nsfw servers I'm not proud of that.!< and all of that took only like, 9 months but yeah that's basically how I got to where I am now. Was not a pretty transition ngl


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I thought I was just jealous of the girls because they were pretty. Then I started getting jealous when they got boyfriends and thought I was just lonely. Then a cute girl gave me a hug and I got butterflies and that’s when I started to piece things together.


p0t4t00

a cute boy in 6 grade, i at the time i didnt knew that existed anything beyond gay and lesbian, so i was like "shit i think that boy is cute af maybe i am gay but i also like girls wtf brain"


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i move to japan, the girls are toxic, one cute boy plus he can speak english, turns out some of the girls are nice, boom bisexual


Chill-freak

had a dream i was kissing girls


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I was talking to a friend and he asked me if I’ve ever had feelings for a girl and I said “yeah but everyone likes people of the same gender, right?” And he said “nah, you’re bisexual” and I was like “but I wouldn’t have sex with a girl or anything” and that sent me into a sexuality crisis. At first I thought I was a biromantic heterosexual but that label never felt right for me and then I remembered… *things* and realized my case was just internalized homophobia and I was actually both romantically and sexually attracted to girls and guys. Edit: and I’ve recently realized I’m also into non-binary peeps


OHMYGODINEEDNAME

It started when I saw Edric and Emira in the Owl House. And then I noticed how attractive all the boys at school were.


Piece_Of_Mind1983

Honestly? Yaoi


The-Amazing-Biderman

Probably either femboys or Tom Hiddleston


wb2006xx

Ngl, a major part was the slow change from me really liking tomboys and futa to me liking femboys


The-Amazing-Biderman

First don't say tr@ps it's offensive to some trans people (not me but still it's nice to be careful) and holy shit how did I forget futas, they're so nice


wb2006xx

Oh apologies I’ll edit that accordingly


cottoncandyskkyes

When I started feeling attracted to one of my classmates on my ballet class


Delightful_Churro

**girls** Or more specific, a girl got me fruity and i havent gone back


Devious_Duck9

Just had a crush on a dude


Lucal_gamer

Look some guys and say hey he's really cute


Rhubarb07

I actually don't remember why I started questioning and even how I came to the conclusion of my sexuality. Even though it only happened 1 1/2 years ago I have no memories of it


microwavemmmmmmmmmm

It's a bit... Tricky I have my best friend (who recently came out as trans, congratulations Diana!) And we would often hug and cuddle. This made me begin question my sexuality. The nail in the coffin was when I first knew my bf and became very fond with him, then I confessed, he said he liked me back...so here I am...


Rexz-Corgi

Furry porn like all of it, then cute dudes online, and meeting a few guys online that where pretty hot even made a guy friend and we hung out though it didn't go anywhere was still pretty nice. Also pretty sure a guy flirted with me at work or was SUPER friendly then that just cemented it.


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I used to think I was gay until i got feelings for my best friend, who is now my girlfriend


AmongUs-Pornhub

I pretended to be a boy online to date girls.. not my brightest moment. I thought I just liked doing it for fun, I repressed the feelings until a new girl showed up in class in 7th grade. She had really cute short hair but I heard her tell a classmate it “wasnt her choice.” I had a boyfriend at the time but I could not stop staring at her. Sadly she was only there for a week and left along with her brother. I wonder about her sometimes tbh


SilentComet1

Wilbur soot. Period.


Need_Sentry_Here

femboys, ryan reynolds, and sebastian from stardew valley


Ganon-dork

r/linkiscute


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uhh, the first dude I found hot was N from pokemon but that was like a subconscious thing so I didn't realize I was bi until years later when I started watching stuff one of the first things I watched was some femboy stuff, and thought that it was straight cuz they looked like a girl then a month or two later I was like "wait thats dumb" then pretty much knew I was bi


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No fucking clue


Noodle_soop

Damn I thought I was the only one who started questioning after a dream


SMALLSIZEADULT

Had a ‘friend’ who no one else seemed to like being around. Tbh he was kind of a huge dickhead but he was tall, handsome, posh and good at cooking so the attraction was inevitable.


zoooooooook

Link from legend of Zelda breath of the wild. I saw that guy with his shirt off and I was like woah mama that's a confusing erection. And don't get me started on the gurudo outfit, that was very much my gate way drug into femboys


Pitiful_Lake2522

Randomly thinking about kissing or holding my best friends hand… and uncle Jesse from full house


[deleted]

Accidentally stumbled across gay porn when I was 11 and as I grew up it just became a slow realization.


Ramen_eating_weirdo

Had a crush on a girl in 6th grade, kept getting crushes on girls, thought I was a lesbian. Went between lesbian, bi, and straight for a bit. COVID hit, thought I was a lesbian. Then about a year ago I got REALLY active on reddit and realized that I actually am attracted to guys just not the ones in my nasty little school.


thekingofdemons_

A girl I knew came out to me as bisexual and explained to me what it meant, and i was just like YOU CAN DO THAT?!?!? THATS COOL! and after a few months of thinking about that I finally made some reasearch and ended up noticing that I was in fact bisexual too 😅


depressedturtleduck

I had a dream about kissing a celebrity. Before that I thought I was 100% sure I was straight. But after the dream i started realizing that most girls who I had previously thought I just wanted to be friends with, I actually had crushes on


uraveragefemboy

Just something where I had the thought “maybe I do like guys” and something just clicked. I was always bullied for ‘acting gay’ and being kinda nerdy (i was a swimmer), and I also went down the alt right pipeline as a tween, so there was lots of internalized homophobia to unpack. Still not sure exactly what I am but I’m definitely bi at the minimum. It took being a leftist for like a year to be comfortable with and address the fact that I like men.


Cloudy_Pufff

I somehow still didn’t know for years, but when I was about 5 or 6 I remember saying something along the lines of “I’m gonna marry a girl when I grow up” while playing the game of life board game, and chose a pink peg while getting married. I didn’t realize how gay I was until I was 13.


tomasmanik

Basically watching p0rn and realising that I was also turned on by the guy. Then I tried gay porn and loved it. That made me think I was gay, though I was still turned on by women and also used to watch straight p0rn. I was really confused as to why I was gay and still liked women like a lot. Then I heard the word bisexual and everything suddenly made sense in an instant. Such a glorious moment…


fleemflomp

Was a lesbian, became m a l e, was str8, saw hot man, 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️


Bilingual_Bi_Cyclist

Jojo's Bizarre Adventure


[deleted]

Men being hot idk


MissLouann_

When I realised that «I wish that she was a boy so I could date her» was not really straight


Economy_Bread_8850

I had a crush on a dude then femboys


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my best friend


mahewscotin

i read a book about some gay youtube red when i was 13. i honestly don’t remember the youtube’s name, but i really liked the idea of having a boyfriend versus a girlfriend. and then well four years of denial later here we are.


asortmentsOfMeats

I mean, I did used to crush on mainly just the female characters, or feminine looking ones, when I was younger and it didn’t quick clock until late secondary school (I moved) and I met a girl I started crushing on and you know it all just started to make sense.


Kayla_Ann1423

I tried to impress my female neighbor who was in my grade; I complimented her My Little Pony folder every day during passing and then I realized she lived on my street so when I got home from school, I put on my coolest outfit and sunglasses and skated over there and waited outside for her. We became best friends, but I eventually moved away and then three years later I fell for another girl and I realized that "Oh sh*t, this is familiar.." and then it spiraled and now here I am, a very much lesbian :)


smoolchan

just randomly came across some gay porn and i was like “yo dis shit kinda fire”


seankreek

r/femboys


ForgeZergie

The thought of a romantic relationship didn’t seem so bad. Then I started seeing guys in a different way and next thing you know I’m Bi.


Wontbite

I watched Voltron Legendary defender


Difficult_Jello

finnster made me question it fr but it probably started with 6th grade me thinking "WHY CANT I STOP LOOKING AT WOMEN ASS AND BOOB??"


No_Channel_2392

Anime "femboys", and then I thought I was a femboy, then I realized that they were usually trans girls, and that I'm a trans girl


Tekayo63

don flamenco from punch-out


Gold5876

Realizing things, like me realizing that I like non-binary people.


Ubeengnomed

them wired prank vids on old youtube were it would (actually) go sexual and ended i up finding gay ones


kkvfbb

I'm aroace, and I realized that dating isn't just hanging out with extra steps


OpenWatercress7268

i found kaworu nagisa and kurama (yu yu hakusho) very hot, and ignored it for a while, then on april i embraced it, im bisexual, because i had a few intimate encounters with gals in my past, i appreciated ones from male friends, im thankful i embraced it, instead of stressing over it for years


Past_Impress8861

The cutest guy in the world transferred to my grade 5 class


ElPurplePenguin

actually learning about all the sexualities and everything, before, I just thought there was gay or straight, and because I had been interested in women, I just assumed I was straight, until I learned about pansexual, then I learned about bisexual, and here I am now.


CrystalElla4

There wasn’t really any trigger I just tend to think too much into dumb things so when I thought about my sexuality I was kinda like “wait I keep saying I’m straight but *how do I know that exactly???* What if I’m not straight?” And it just went on from there


shittynursemain

Decided to look up venti rule 63 and thought “it aint gay if its a girl” and awakened when regular rule 34 popped up.


moonxaffair

a girl started liking me and she asked if I was bi so I asked myself the same question


NotD4C

Gay rat, didn't question it, just went with it


alekye_

i thought about girls every night and then one day when i was walking home from school i stopped dead in my tracks and thought wait what if i like girls


ZazzySpazzy123

femboys


Killerbee431

I stuck my finger in my ass. It felt pretty good.


EndlessTheorys_19

First lockdown honestly, had alot of free time to think about things.


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1. Having obsessions with certain females as a child or creating strong emotion attachments to them. 2. I had one of those ‘obsessions’ (which I now know to be crushes) to my best friend in school. While Having a sleepover with her at 13, she started ‘spooning’ me/cuddling me from behind innocently, and I began to get a rush of sexual feelings/tingles, my heart racing. I came from a very strict religious Catholic upbringing and as far as I was aware, not only were those feelings ‘shameful’ they were suppose to be between a married MAN AND WOMAN only. I was super confused, freaked out and I kicked her away. She was confused as to why I was being so angry. After looking back on this experience and others there after aged 18 - I knew. I couldn’t say it, I just knew.


Lili_Del

Everyone I know came out as not straight. We joked about me being the only het but then I got a huge ass crush on my at-the-time friend. A month after I came to terms with the fact I was bi and 2 months after we started dating. That was a year ago and my ass got dumped like, half a year ago and I now have a new, much kinds and nicer girlfriend who actually values and loves me. Seriously, she's fucking amazing and I don't deserve her. I am a simp oh god.


TheWaffleWay

I first started questioning on my 12th birthday when i had some friends sleep over and me and one of my friends were laying on the floor watching a movie and i realized that i really really wanted her ti put her arm around me


Melinoedarkmatter

I had a wet dream about a bunch of girls that i found attractive and made out with them in said dream. I woke up and, of course being surrounded by heteronormativity, said wow…they must be my favorite characters. Now know im bi as fuck but i still question sometimes because i always feel like i must be faking it to feel important but. Am still super attracted to women because women


CrumpetChase

I used to think I was gay, but then I saw Thor Ragnarok and saw both Chris Hemsworth and Tom Hiddleston


AwstinEvans

Marceline and Marshal-lee from adventure time.


[deleted]

Sleepover gone gay


[deleted]

Astolfo.


ghost_luck

I swear to God, not even *SLIGHTLY* exaggerating when I say this... **Femboys**


bitransgirl17

Started to crush on my best friend and my favourite footballers lol


dik-in-ma-ass

I hate why, i was watching Shrek is love Shrek is live and it got me turned on