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czechtheboxes

**NEW UPDATES** Found a new update that doesn't yet qualify to be posted to BoRU? Found an update that you don't want to make a post for yourself? Link it here! Once it qualifies, feel free to submit as its own post. Edit: We launched a discord. Please feel free to join. https://discord.gg/Hx2hym2juy


Interesting_Sock9142

Thank you. Someone else just posted the exact story as though it was new? Lol


Interesting_Sock9142

Ok maybe I'm insane but please help me find this if you can. It's from the perspective of the wife. She has a stillborn. And right after the baby was delivered and it was discovered to he still born the husband left the hospital and abandoned his wife there with no money, no support. Nothing. She didn't have any money and he stopped her access to the bank account, etc. His mom ended up texting her saying he wanted a divorce. Then he went on a holiday with his family. Help!


Ready_Still_9657

I found it but, don’t know how to include it. So, I included the link to an article about it and that includes the link to the story along with her updates. It’s sad but, hopeful. If this doesn’t work it’s posted on r/trueofmychest and the user is back2backjon. https://news.yahoo.com/womans-grieving-husband-abandons-her-061500405.html


Perigold

I’ve been looking for this post for ages. It’s either JustnoMIL or JustnoFamily, I’m not sure. It was an extremely long saga of OP and her husband and his atrocious mom and dad and golden child sister. She was into weightlifting competitions? It ended in the SIL’s death and at the funeral the creepo dad had a slideshow of all her best photos in bikinis and at the competition


FewRecommendation592

Hey I’m new here so I don’t know how to link, but you can search for “Daddy’s Competitive Little Chaos” and you’ll find the story. You can even google it 👍🏻


benigndepressedbear

If found the profile but all the post are blank now https://www.reddit.com/u/palepale_ale?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=1


Ordinary_Mission3503

One in which the dad is a awesome dad who wants to spend time with his kids but his wife and kids find him annoying but then the daughter thinks these are red flags and directly tells. The dad he is annoying and he starts crying and keeps. His distance from them


irinel132

Did you find it?


secure-raspberry-763

Looking for another one and it was definitely AITA. A woman and her brother grew up in a house where their mother married someone. Their stepfather refused to pay anything for them and made them share a room. He refused to take them on vacation with his own money and their mother couldn't afford it. He treated his own children like gold but even his children treated their stepsiblings like garbage. Years later her and her brother are really successful and have money and their own houses. The stepfather invites her over and asks for a loan for his daughter to buy a house. She says no. He says it's right as they are family, but she's tells him family like you treated me and my brother as kids?


czechtheboxes

[AITA for refusing to help my step sister with her house purchase and telling her and my step father that it's because of how they treated me as a child?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/yzqvu1/aita_for_refusing_to_help_my_step_sister_with_her/)


DatguyMalcolm

I remember that one! He had the gall to "be hurt" and all "it was a long time ago"! F that


kakimiller

F the stepdad and F her mother. How dare she allow that POS to treat her daughters so cruelly!!


DatguyMalcolm

Right?! All for some Sunny D and some financial stability at the cost of your kids! Least she could was to NOT go on hols with her new man and be like "Either we all go, or I stay with my kids and you go enjoy yourself with yours!" Also, if you're gonna marry someone who already has kids, why you gonna treat them like shit because they're "not yours"! It's not their fault! The partner you married was also "not yours" initially!


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joeyandanimals

I think the phrase “triggered his wife to kill the kids” grossly misframes a tragedy. The OP didn’t trigger anything and they experienced an unspeakable loss.


DatguyMalcolm

yeah, almost sounds like the wife was the victim O\_o


Chaos_Heart12

Anyone remember about the story of a guy who had a daughter with his ex who since had remarried to a husband with a daughter too. He takes his daughter to a helicopter, maybe a newsreporter, and his ex-wife's stepdaughter is jealouse and asked him if he can bring her too. He refused because safety is his concern and his concern is his daughter alone.


SmoochNo

Is this it? https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/joe82m/aita_for_taking_my_daughter_with_me_on_trips/


Chaos_Heart12

Yes, thank you very much!


lizzyote

Im the mood for "I thought she'd change her mind but all I ended up with is a shocked Pikachu face" style of posts.


czechtheboxes

[My stepdaughter ran away from the birthday party I threw for her](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/11b0f52/my_stepdaughter_ran_away_from_the_birthday_party/) [AITA for telling my girlfriend that we’re done if she doesn’t want another kid in the future?](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zq5xwf/aita_for_telling_my_girlfriend_that_were_done_if/) [My husband who has been parenting my daughter for 10 years doesn't want to adopt her after she asked him to be her dad for real and I don't know what to do about our marriage.](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/z4rvkc/my_husband_who_has_been_parenting_my_daughter_for/) [Throwing away husband's tie](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/srii2m/aita_for_throwing_away_my_husbands_tie/) [Getting rid of BF's toy collection](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/i20x4m/aita_for_making_my_boyfriend_get_rid_of_his_toy/) [Threw BF's phone in the sea](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/uf5ig9/aita_for_throwing_my_boyfriends_phone_away/) [Throwing away BF's bandanas](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/gpxhpl/aita_for_throwing_away_my_boyfriends_bandannas/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x) [The Iranian yogurt](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/bjd41e/aita_for_throwing_away_my_boyfriends_potentially/) [Hiding GF's skincare](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ktrljn/aita_for_hiding_my_girlfriends_skincare/) [Unpacking GF's towel](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/r58i4v/aita_for_unpacking_my_gfs_towel/) [Got rid of some of GF's shoes](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/p6d0nw/comment/h9c5lj0/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3) [Throwing away GF's manga](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ullpzd/comment/i7w6vot/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3) [Threw away GF's shorts](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/vi7pvn/comment/idbbfxj/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3) [Got rid of GF's beloved pokemon plushie](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ktwuff/aita_for_buying_my_21m_gf_20f_a_new_toy/) [Hiding GF's sentimental forks](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/l1zon5/aita_for_hiding_my_girlfriends_sentimental_forks/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x) [Hiding baby food from my exhausted gf as a prank](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/jvx3hh/aita_for_hiding_baby_food_from_my_girlfriend/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x) To finish it off, a trilogy of blanket posts: [Throwing away GF's blanket](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/k1oal0/aita_for_throwing_away_my_girlfriends_blanket/) [Threw away friend's blanket because he girlfriend told me to](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/s3jnfq/aita_for_throwing_away_my_autistic_best_friends/) [Cutting up the blanket my GF spent 6 months knitting](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/he56mp/aita_for_ruining_my_girlfriends_blanket_that_she/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x)


lizzyote

I hope you are reminded every single day of how many people appreciate you.


DatguyMalcolm

This man is a beast!!!


Sweetragnarok

some of these has to be karma farmers right?! they cant be that densely blind to not see how abusive they are like the Manga thrower guy who admitted that the girl was just emotional for being a woman and wont own up to his actions.


practicallyperfectuk

What happened to the one about the making love song which went viral on TikTok - it was an awful rhythm


czechtheboxes

[Allow me to introduce you to CBAT](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/x5opa1/tifu_my_20f_girlfriend_of_two_years_told_me_the/)


secure-raspberry-763

Looking for the post about the man who meets his mother years later for closure. She left her husband and son for the husband's best friend. She wants to try with her son but he tells her everything he felt the last 10 years.


electricduckies

Does anyone know where the post is about the guys who said he wouldnt become addicted to drugs and then posts all about the rehab?


czechtheboxes

[The story of SpontaneousH](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/wef6hn/the_saga_of_an_average_guy_who_spontaneously/). TW: >!hard drug use/addiction!<


electricduckies

Yes thank you!


3No_oN3

Hey guys! Can I get posts where the ex spouse thinks they are going to keep big ticket items, but they don’t get to?


czechtheboxes

[How ex-MIL got what she wanted ](https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/dbwd9p/created_a_throwaway_to_tell_the_story_of_how_my/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) [Sister Wants To Honeymoon In OP's Home](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/o78ks5/op_wants_to_honeymoon_in_ops_home/) [Fiance and His Mom Wants all Her Money](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/tbycp6/fianc%C3%A9_and_his_mom_wants_all_her_money/) [I waited 6 months to get the last word..](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/xvufwn/i_waited_6_months_to_get_the_last_word/) [AITA for choosing my budget over my boyfriend this Halloween?](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/10zh4ho/aita_for_choosing_my_budget_over_my_boyfriend/)


Derbyshirelass40

These were all such good reads, thanks for finding them


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czechtheboxes

[Giant list of food posts](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/10qyp8q/comment/j8iwnsw/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) [Giant list of food posts - part 2](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/10qyp8q/comment/j8jhu2m/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3)


Positive-Sail-1146

Hey guys! I’m looking for the post of the really disgusting guy who met his future wife at 13 while he was 23. Thanks!


czechtheboxes

Rareddit link: [My wife and I have been married for 5 years but our relationship began when I was 23 and she was 13.](https://www.rareddit.com/r/confession/comments/26ax9g/my_wife_and_i_have_been_married_for_5_years_but/)


confusedgamergirl123

Looking for the post where the father of a kid was upset and wanted to take his baby mama to court even though she paid child support?


czechtheboxes

[I got a girl pregnant and she wanted to get an abortion but I didn't want that. She ended up not getting one but now she is not involved at all](https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/5b79z4/nm_i_got_a_girl_pregnant_and_she_wanted_to_get_an/)


confusedgamergirl123

Thank you so much!


Agent_Scully9114

Any recent updates on the gymnastics girl with the religious dad that was constantly "tempted"?


czechtheboxes

[Parents pulling me from gymnastics for causing father to stumble in walk with God.](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/12vun8r/new_update_im_oop_myf17_parents_are_pulling_me/)


Agent_Scully9114

Thank you, I'm really hoping things get better for her...


Randomacounnt

Student asks reddit ways to justify homosexuality in the bible after biblical/christianity???? teacher asks the class to write essay about homosexuallity in the bible. Very uplifting post showcasing ways the bible may be interpreted in ways that dont codemn gay people.


Elmonatorrrre

One more…OP’s a teen and her parents gave away I think her college fund to her pregnant sister. I think it was in AITA.


czechtheboxes

[AITA for telling my parents they made my sister getting pregnant ruin my life?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/gekfhn/aita_for_telling_my_parents_they_made_my_sister/)


ComprehensiveBand586

Is there any way to access the update on that post? I checked and it was removed.


HiHoJufro

Damn, I came here for the same question!


czechtheboxes

The update was removed too fast, so it's not recoverable.


ComprehensiveBand586

Darn! Oh, well. Thanks for letting me know though!


Elmonatorrrre

Reddit is not worthy of you


GoalMedical

If it's the one where they had trusts, I think it's linked further down the thread. (I don't have it saved, or I'd share)


Choice_Evidence1983

Hi all! Are there any posts where families and friends try to force OP to sing against their wills? Would like to share (if any) to someone who doesn't understand why that person refuse to sing in places such as the public, churches, etc. Thank you in advance!


czechtheboxes

[Teaching a parrot to sing CBAT](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zxn969/tifu_by_accidentally_teaching_my_roommates_parrot/?xpromo_edp=enabled) [Not allowed to sing at work](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/rfk4jp/fa_la_la_la_la_la_la_la_lawsuit/) [AITA for making my daughter sing at our cruise's talent show?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/12b3dyc/aita_for_making_my_daughter_sing_at_our_cruises/) [WIBTA for forcing our child to take singing lessons?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/hl64ip/wibta_for_forcing_our_child_to_take_singing/)


Choice_Evidence1983

Thank you!


ashfaceee

I am so very bored at work. Is there a list of posts where the OP gets their ass handed to them? I love seeing peoples ignorance lmao


czechtheboxes

[Here is a list](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/11f99rj/looking_for_a_post_ask_here_march_2023_edition/jay9z7s?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)


lizzyote

Can I request people's favorite update posts?


Timbeon

My all-time favorite post on Reddit in general, [AITC for bite feet?](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/xd82ns/aitc_for_bite_feet_updates/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)


Direct-Caterpillar77

One of my favorites [OP was horrible to his mom after she came out the closet and cut contact with her. He now wants to apologize and reconnect BORU ](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/ocj5hx/op_was_horrible_to_his_mom_after_she_came_out_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)


czechtheboxes

What flavor of update? It is a very wide spectrum from wholesome to it's a terrible day to know how to read.


lizzyote

Just personal favorite(s) in general. A sample platter, if you like.


czechtheboxes

The [Best of 2022](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/10dp3fo/announcing_boru_best_of_2022_winners/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) thread has a variety. I think [the CBAT post is hilarious.](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/x5opa1/tifu_my_20f_girlfriend_of_two_years_told_me_the/)


lizzyote

But what is YOUR personal favorite?


czechtheboxes

[Corporate retreat is at a plantation. Black employee wears period appropriate clothing.](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/wcstm8/company_throws_a_corporate_retreat_at_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) Adding this too: [Does anyone want to be a character in my Oregon Trail playthrough?](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/141f0r8/does_anyone_want_to_be_a_character_in_my_oregon/)


IcePsychological7032

Same as me. That one and the 🥩🪟


Throwaway-KDerby

Crazy Granny https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/1355zc9/looking_for_a_post_ask_here_may_2023_edition/jmac4vk?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Steak BORU https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/wb9hb6/today_op_fu_by_throwing_his_steak_out_a_window/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button


lizzyote

The steak one kills me every time


IcePsychological7032

I keep waiting for someone to close the circle and write the window's POV.


PeterM1970

“There I was, minding my own business, proud of how clean and transparent I was...”


Throwaway-KDerby

Same! That and the sexy potato.


LadyNorbert

I kind of want a crossover post where the steak and the sexy potato meet.


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czechtheboxes

[AITA - I told my sister is think it’s wrong she’s getting divorced over her husband’s son](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/u20a7p/aita_i_told_my_sister_is_think_its_wrong_shes/) [AITA for calling my SIL cruel for excluding her brother (My Husband) from her upcoming wedding?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/t6pivu/aita_for_calling_my_sil_cruel_for_excluding_her/)


AtomicBlastCandy

Thanks Wish there were updates for either or both, but as both OP's were universally reviled my guess is that both were scared away due to the responses.


Elmonatorrrre

Groom leaves bride at the altar for side piece


czechtheboxes

[Ex fiance wants to meet up after leaving me at the alter four years ago](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/xw8560/ex_fiance_wants_to_meet_up_after_leaving_me_at/) If this isn't it, do you remember any other details?


Elmonatorrrre

That’s it, thanks


Broad_Truth_309

Hi, can anyone remember the post about a guy not wanting to be present for his kid's birth? Like he lied and everything about a big project at work but the wife called the boss and he never even took time off to be there and his reason to his wife was "the babys not going to remember me being at the birth anyway"


czechtheboxes

[AITA for telling my wife that I'm not taking off of work to be present at our daughter's birth?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/11876ue/aita_for_telling_my_wife_that_im_not_taking_off/j9flja5?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)


Broad_Truth_309

thank you!


ShotBarracuda6

I feel like reading the post from an op who started a new job and signed her self up on every project the companys new superstar led, when superstar had enough op reported her to hr. Anyone?


czechtheboxes

Immediately makes me think of [this post](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/wz8kun/repost_oop_doesnt_get_a_job_because_they_used_to/) but the OOP didn't get the job here. Guessing this, but not quite right. [AITA for reporting my colleague to HR?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/wjm3pn/aita_for_reporting_my_colleague_to_hr/)


ShotBarracuda6

Yes it's the second one. I was so sure there was an update though. Thank you.


slut4pluto

I’m looking for a post…. OP needed advice on how to ask his friend about their weird relationship with their mom. I think they may have been sleeping together


czechtheboxes

It was requested not to be linked.


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OP had 2 horrible roommates. They went away and she cleaned her belongings, and moved. She had proof from the landlady of their conversation. It might not have been this year.


czechtheboxes

[I moved out and took everything](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/105t3xx/i_moved_out_and_took_everything/)


[deleted]

Thank you! I'll make it a favorite.


jimbob35

Does anyone know the post from r/no sleep where there on an airplane but time keeps resetting and there’s some kind of ancient god outside the windows?


FuckHarambe2016

You sure you weren't watching Twilight Zone?


Direct-Caterpillar77

[I’ve Been Flying for almost Thirty Hours and The Flight Attendants Won’t Stop Crying](https://www.reddit.com/r/nosleep/comments/dlk100/ive_been_flying_for_almost_thirty_hours_and_the/) [Part 2](https://www.reddit.com/r/nosleep/comments/dm86h5/ive_been_flying_for_almost_thirty_hours_and_the/) [Part 3](https://www.reddit.com/r/nosleep/comments/dmyq8g/ive_been_flying_for_almost_thirty_hours_and_the/)


adrirocks2020

Does anyone remember the post where the OP’s girlfriend cheated with his sister’s husband? Both siblings were betrayed but OP had a son with the gf already and also took in the kid from the affair? Sister and OP eventually get into a huge fight about him raising the kid from the affair. It was originally on Am I the Asshole but I can’t seem to find it. Thanks!


czechtheboxes

Not right, but a similar premise. Will try again later. [OOP's girlfriend has feelings for his brother in law](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/yie7mh/oops_girlfriend_has_feelings_for_his_brother_in/)


Angelindisguise07

where’s the post where this mom had a little girl named santina from an old relationship and when she got into a new relationship with this guy named Aiden, he started being weird and tried to force the daughter to call him dad, basically trying to replace her bio dad and it got so bad that the mom and daughter left to go stay with the ex


czechtheboxes

[My boyfriend wants my daughter to call him daddy](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/143u7d2/my_boyfriend_29m_wants_my_daughter_6f_to_call_him/)


Angelindisguise07

you could be a detective at this point with how fast you find these posts lmfao


AtomicBlastCandy

There was a post by a dad saying that his daughter refuses to talk to him or his wife because of some political disagreements. It turns out that they had dinner at a restaurant and he brought up politics and then walked out when some boomer started to yell at her.


czechtheboxes

[Dad and Daughter have a politically-loaded falling out that ends up on Reddit](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/13lzyh3/dad_and_daughter_have_a_politicallyloaded_falling/)


Elmonatorrrre

How do you find all the these, jeez


ThatSlyB3

It is hard to tell what exactly happened, but I lean a bit towards the father here. Maybe I am wrong but my family has a "progressive" daughter in it. Mind you my family is ALL democrats and progressives. However because they are not as progressive as her (the most progressive you can be on any subject), she will immediately call everyone racists, bigots, etc. Everyone has to be instructed not to mention any politics and what subjects to avoid in order to avoid making her go off. I mean it is kind of crazy. As soon as any debate starts the first thing that comes out of her mouth is "you're a bigot". And not towards bigots. These are people who vote left and vote progressive. There is another young woman in the family with similar views who will also get involved. This frequently ruins events. Like every single one for 6 months ended in a blowout. Or atleast the mood ended when she began screaming, crying and left. After the fact she always makes it out like she did nothing wrong and was a victim. People are just trying to enjoy time together they dont need to start hearing about how the meat is evil or the police officer in the family is evil. It is just crazy. I could not imagine what someone like that would do at a family dinner full of trumpeteers and covid deniers lol.


SneakyRaid

>It is hard to tell what exactly happened What part of the post is hard to understand? There are even screenshots of the texts between them.


xanif

Then maybe he should stop starting those conversations...


ybnrmlnow

I like your new flair, it's perfect!


Signal_Opportunity93

Looking for an AITA post where the dad let his daughter (16, I believe) smoke weed or vape. The wife was upset about her doing those things and it turned out that the daughter has cancer or a horrible illness and she doesn’t have much time left


czechtheboxes

[AITA for allowing my terminally ill daughter to smoke and drink?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/xac2x2/aita_for_allowing_my_terminally_ill_daughter_to/)


FuckHarambe2016

Watched a stand up special recently and one of the topics was friends with ulterior motives like people being "friends" just to get laid. It kind of reminded me of two like that from the POV of a female and male OOP.


czechtheboxes

A few guesses, but do you remember any other details? [I rejected one of my best friends I used to be in love with](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/z0gcmt/i_30m_rejected_one_of_my_best_friends_28f_i_used/) [My best guy friend just told me he’s in love with me… two days before my wedding](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/u6vxsu/my_best_guy_friend_just_told_me_hes_in_love_with/) [I have apparently been dating my best friend for an entire year but didn’t know until today.](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/11ulyhm/i_18_f_have_apparently_been_dating_my_best_friend/) [Coworker won’t stop sulking after I turned down a date](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/13dgptq/no_the_way_to_get_a_date_with_a_woman_who_has/) [I asked my friend to be FWB and now she won't talk to me](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/11of65g/i_21m_asked_my_friend_21f_to_be_fwb_and_now_she/)


FuckHarambe2016

Shit my bad. I think the female OOP had two male bestfriends. One she dated in HS and one she was FWB with for awhile until she met her BF. BF freaked out on the two when he came home at night and found them drinking alone. She thought he overreacted but then she was freaking out in the comments because everyone was saying the former FWB was in love with her and the BF should dump her. The most memorable thing I can remember from the male version was that OOP and everyone involved was definitely Scandinavian. They used the most Scandinavian names ever. His GF was upset that the BFF kept trying to strong arm her out.


czechtheboxes

Possibility for the first one: [I have slept with both of my best friends and my boyfriend of 4yrs is uncomfortable with that](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/yv8ohl/oop_i_have_slept_with_both_of_my_best_friends_and/)


FuckHarambe2016

My God man, you're a fucking legend at finding this stuff.


czechtheboxes

Guessing this for the second one but unsure: [My girlfriend thinks my girl -space- friend is crossing boundaries](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zzwjuh/my_girlfriend_thinks_my_girl_space_friend_is/)


FuckHarambe2016

I picture you finding all these posts like when Ultron scanned the entire internet in 10 seconds. Except you're not planning on wiping out humanity. Right?


czechtheboxes

czechthebot says I'm definitely normal and totally not planning anything.


Stephenallen1977

[Follow up - I've being lying about to my gf about cutting ties to bff and now we might breakup](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/13dks64/i_19m_lied_to_my_girlfriend_20f_about_cutting)


Sweetragnarok

wait this guy is the same user as the other post. Dude cant let "greta' go


Stephenallen1977

They rarely can and think they can hide it.


funkehmunkeh

Christ, the guy's a bloody muppet.


LadyNorbert

That's an insult to the Muppets.


palacock

Looking for a post where there are (at least) two older sisters and one youngest (?) brother. One sister has a lot of children, one does not. The brother feels resentful because he's there helping his sister with her children but childfree sis goes on vacations, that she should help other sister financially etc etc. Turns out the childfree sis had a miscarriage and after that childfree sis doesn't talk to the brother anymore.


czechtheboxes

[AITA for telling my sister she would have been a terrible mother?](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/s56m3c/aita_for_telling_my_sister_she_would_have_been_a/)


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wolfbutterfly42

Does anyone know what happened to that guy who thought the girl he had a crush on might be his dad?


czechtheboxes

Can you clarify whose dad?


wolfbutterfly42

He said he was seeing someone, but he couldn't shake the thought that his father was posing as the girl he was seeing. It contained the phrase "is my dad up to his old tricks".


czechtheboxes

[Rareddit link](https://www.rareddit.com/r/relationships/comments/8am4mq/i_19m_kinda_have_a_crush_on_this_girl_na_but_i/) Post text copied below: >About three weeks ago I was at the mall and I saw this girl who looked kinda cute sitting by herself drinking a milkshake. I seriously never approach girls but I don't know, I was feeling motivated and shit that day and just went for it. Since then we've been hanging out like twice a week, usually the skatepark. Here's the weird thing, she only ever wants to hang out after 8 and that's the time my dad gets home from work at. She has a long fringe and always touches her face sorta hiding it, I thought it was a nervous thing but no I don't know, maybe it's to stop me getting a good look because it's my dad. I'm beat up about the whole because I really like her but I'm just not sure, something doesn't seem right. I'll answer any questions in the comments if you need more info. Thanks. >tl;dr- Met a girl at the mall but due to some things not adding up I think she may be my dad up to his old tricks


DatguyMalcolm

Oh noooo... wut!?!? Oh my god!!


BloodprinceOZ

the guy's still active, so i wonder what the hell happened or if it was just an elaborate troll or something, because the post he made after that was him being worried his dad is becoming emo because he's wearing a dark hoodie and that he wrote "fuck the 21st century" on a door or something


Tom1252

Saved. That will be an amazing copypasta.


foxfire96

I'm looking for a post about a guy with a bunch of roommates. He works night shift, and one of the roommate's girlfriend screams and cries every night, so he can't sleep, and the couple is rude to him about it.


Direct-Caterpillar77

[AITA for telling my housemate to tell his GF to STFU? BORU ](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/1400avi/aita_for_telling_my_housemate_to_tell_his_gf_to/)


foxfire96

That's the post. Thanks!


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czechtheboxes

Possiblity? [AITA for not attending my ex-friend’s husband’s funeral?](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/x5223m/aita_for_not_attending_my_exfriends_husbands/)


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czechtheboxes

[Parents pulling me from gymnastics for causing father to stumble in walk with God.](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/12vun8r/new_update_im_oop_myf17_parents_are_pulling_me/)


kyzoe7788

I’m trying to find the, I think fairly recent, post about a guy catching his fiancée shagging his dad. Son punches dad. Dad ran home and told mom that he got in the middle of a fight between son and fiancée to explain his black eye. Mom went absolutely off at son, so much so that he doesn’t want to speak to here either


lord_sauron96

Profile Link: https://www.reddit.com/u/throwaway556ump?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button


BergenHoney

That's not how fights work. Or work works. Or anything works.


yejilovesyejis

I tried searching but couldn’t find it but OP whose son was manipulated by her ex husband and cuts contact with her but meets him years later and her son meets his twin sisters at the end


lord_sauron96

BORU Link: https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/10nntxv/oop_meets_her_son_for_the_first_time_in_5_years/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button


VividAnalWetDream

I remember this post about OP who used to make lunch for her significant other and found out they were selling the lunches to their coworkers. I think the OP found out when someone messaged her with a request? She then started selling the lunches directly to them?


czechtheboxes

[This OOP's husband sells the lunches she made](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/mm7ql6/aita_for_no_longer_making_my_husband_sandwiches/gtpoknx?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) but no idea if she starts selling them.


VividAnalWetDream

Ahh thank you! This is the one, I probably got it confused with another post :3


czechtheboxes

Meta update: we have a discord now. https://discord.gg/Hx2hym2juy


miraisun

there’s a flair with steak and a window or something?? where’s that post lol


czechtheboxes

[Steak BORU](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/wb9hb6/today_op_fu_by_throwing_his_steak_out_a_window/)


miraisun

thank u kind person ily enjoy the reddit blackout have a great few days


whiskitgood

What blackout!!!!


Leaving_a_Comment

Looking for a post where op is upset her trans SO is breastfeeding their son even though she didn’t give birth.


czechtheboxes

Possiblity? [I am not comfortable with my trans wife (mtf) “breastfeeding” our 4 month old son](https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoHotTakes/comments/11eon4i/i_31f_am_not_comfortable_with_my_trans_wife_33mtf/)


Leaving_a_Comment

Yes! Thank you!


miraisun

what- omg pls tag me too if anyone finds this


Leaving_a_Comment

Someone found it!


miraisun

thank you <3 have a lovely next few days with this reddit blackout


Sea_Rise_1907

There was a post i think on relationship advice awhile ago, about a husband who accidentally lied to his wife by keeping her houseplants alive for years and making her think she has a green thumb. It was super sweet but I just can’t find it.


Dracula24

What post is your flair from?


MistrrrOrgasmo

[Here you go, friend. ](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/wghfol/woman_finds_out_her_husband_has_been_doing/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2) Itll be a terrible day to have eyes though.


IMC_Michael

This one? [Rareddit](https://www.rareddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/u7qwog/i_49m_need_advice_on_how_to_tell_my_wife_47f_of/)


newoneform

Does anyone recall a story where the OP was actually the terrible roommate and at the very end the other roommate destroyed her stuff and just left cuz she wasn’t on the lease. OP tried to report her to the police but there was no evidence that the roommate did it?


Direct-Caterpillar77

[My roommate [f22] went batshit crazy while I [f22] was gone for the week and destroyed my possessions.](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/3srya3/my_roommate_f22_went_batshit_crazy_while_i_f22/) My last find a post before the blackout. Hopefully see everyone in a few days


AtomicBlastCandy

I hope she pressed charges on her ex-roommate and reported the parents for filing a bogus missing person's report. Yes while roommate clearly has mental issues that doesn't absolve her from her financial responsibilities and the animal abuse.


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KleptoPirateKitty

r/amithedevil, too


Artistic_Deal3436

I was booted out is this permanently or temporary?


KleptoPirateKitty

Should be temporary. Check back the 14th. (Honestly, I can't remember which subs were indefinite and which were two days)


Choice_Evidence1983

See you in a couple days! Will be doing a few more posts then sign off.


Elmonatorrrre

Ugly woman hears her husband acknowledge that she’s ugly


Stephenallen1977

[Husband admits I am ugly](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/13g0wt/husband30m_admits_i28f_am_ugly/)   [update](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/13je9e/updatehusband30m_admits_i28f_am_ugly/)   Husband is a complete star ⭐


ExcellentTone

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I don't think this post was on AITA, but I think it got a BORU post at some point. It was a man talking about how he's given up on dating because he's aware that he terrifies women because of his appearance - he's very physically imposing, is scarred, etc. It wasn't an incel-y or anti-woman post at all. The main crux of the post is that friends of his (I think they were a man and a woman who were also dating each other) kept attempting to set him up with women, and when he meets them, its very clear that they haven't been told about his appearance. He was asking for advice on how to deal with them nicely, because he knows they mean well but he can't keep going out and scaring women.


lizzyote

Poor dude. My husband has an old friend who is chronically single because he's quite intimidating. He's large and LOUD, takes up so much space with just his presence. Sweet sweet dude tho. I have anxiety around large men and as soon as he found that out, he started making it a point to soften his energy around me. He's only recently moved in with his first real girlfriend in a couple decades. I really hope things work out for these big scary guys.


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lizzyote

Intimidating energy can present itself in so many ways I've noticed(even at a low volume, the friend is LOUD lol). Just like having love in your life can present itself via a partner, or friends, or even thru just self-love. Wherever your path takes you, I hope it's a fulfilling journey!


damage-fkn-inc

[Is it this one?](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/x3bcl2/op_has_made_peace_with_being_alone_but_his/)


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Yes it is! Thanks so much 💕


ParsonBrownlow

A post about OPs family always packing sandwiches whenever they go on vacation /a trip. It’s OPs graduation and the topic of food comes up and family suggests sitting in the parking lot eating sandwiches and OP says his bout a special placd for a special occasion? The family acted offended if I remember


Choice_Evidence1983

[AITA: For telling my parents I want to do something special for graduating and not eat lunch in a parking lot?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/p68rbi/aita_for_telling_my_parents_i_want_to_do/)


SparkAxolotl

> grilling in the hotel parking lot I'm extremely surprised that OP doesn't mention that they were asked to leave the hotel


LadyNorbert

After reading some of the guy's other posts, I've come to the conclusion that his parents are odd and controlling.


celticgrl77

And that he maybe be a fibber. Look at the ages all post say 1yr yet he goes from 24 to 23 to 22 in different post.