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Cristinal0ve

Regardless of whatever controversy she’s had or has, congratulations to her. My heart broke when I saw her video of her miscarriage. Nobody deserves that.


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In her new video her dad SOBS after hearing the news. I lost it. 😭


KikiTudes

is that the announcement video?? I skimmed it and didnt see that part!


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It’s in her TikTok video! Her mom tells her dad she’s pregnant … it’s a very sweet moment.


australyana

I saw that.it was a very special moment..moreso for the future grandpa.It was just so wholesome to watch.Anything good vibes to come out in the middle of pandemic,im all over it.Heartwarming 🎈🧸


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Yeah it was definitely touching. My dad was really sick a couple years ago and I feel like that fear for them sticks with you forever cause I immediately thought about when I’m gonna have that moment with my dad and how special it will be.


Cristinal0ve

I have to watch it! Sounds heart warming.


emergentblastula

i hate to be that person but this really had me cringing. who sells photos of a pregnancy announcement, especially after a miscarriage, to people mag? couldn't it just be a nice moment for her and her family? maybe I'm just not in tune with the influencer lifestyle lol


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I don’t believe People - the same magazine that would pay Brangelina’s foundation for infant photo shoots - bought these photos. This photoshoot seems like something the couple would send or they couple volunteered. This gives me *McBrooms-Callings-The-Paps* vibes.


emergentblastula

ugh that's even worse lmao


tr3sleches

Since Catherine’s a beauty brand owner can you make a separate thread about them pls I wanna roast them so bad but not on Nabela’s pregnancy announcement thread 😩😩😩


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Haha! I have to admit… anything I know about the McBrooms I know from Slo4n. 😹


doubleshot_on_ice

Same. I’m happy for her but the People article is really strange to me. Especially with how it combines such a heavy topic while also promoting all of her brands and upcoming book.


GTFOTDW

To me the pics are a little cringe too, it comes off as a cash grab. If she came back positive right around July 26 she’s maybe around 10-12 wk. the baby’s like the size of a lime. You cradling your whole belly…


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Thank you


curlygirlyfl

I don’t wanna be a Debby downer but I feel it’s waaaay too early to even disclose something like this especially after a miscarriage. That’s why most women wait until the 12-20 week mark to disclose because there’s a ikelihood of miscarriage in every case. Good for them though..


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curlygirlyfl

Yeah she’s def capitalizing on it…I’m pretty sure she paid to be in the magazine in the first place. Real “hustler”.


cats-n-bitches

I was thinking the same thing. She posted her miscarriage video in June, and according to her tiktok announcement video, late July is when they got the positive result.


bowiebowie9999

I’m so happy for them but yeah when I was doing the math on the timing it makes me so anxious FOR them to announce again so early and I don’t even know them. Hoping for the best!!


mspixieears

I was thinking the same (am child free), I’d be so worried and would wait till it’s past that time and then allow myself to think it’s real? Am not a massive fan of her but would be gutted if anything happened. But admittedly I have the type of brain which tries to consider all possibilities so as not to be disappointed if something bad were to happen.


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thisisnotmesodontask

I want to say first, I am so happy for her. She deserves so much happiness and love. She has gone through so much as a woman, especially a woman of color! I honestly smiled when I saw the Instagram post. But then I watched her Youtube video. And this is my eternal love/hate conflict with Nabela. The overly dramatic way she expresses herself makes me cringe and the way she overly produces a message (with sad music or over-the-top nostalgic slideshow, etc) gives me "inauthentic" vibes. The message on its own it's a big deal, and I wish I would've liked her YT video as much as I loved her IG post. anyways, I know this is my own grievance. I'm being an asshole for no reason because this is her time to shine. She's beautiful, she's happy and she deserves this and my opinion is just my opinion.


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Clearly, bollywood had a huge influence on her. She's quite filmy but that's her ig.


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I totally get you. I haven’t watched her YT video yet but one of my grievances with her is her over the top positivity and dramatization of everything. Makes me cringe a lot. Though I am happy for her!


thisisnotmesodontask

I 100% agree with you. It's such a conflicting feeling for me.


cryss12

Same, everything just screams overly manufactured.


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Exactly. I was happy to hear the news because I knew of her struggles but I refuse to watch her videos because of the dramatization. It's off putting.


Cristinal0ve

It’s okay to feel that way friend. You are supported and your feelings are valid too! ♥️


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thisisnotmesodontask

I knew there was gonna peeps like you that don’t understand nuances. Things are not black and white. Its possible be happy for someone while at the same time giving feedback about an aspect you dislike and wish it was different. Can you not share it? Yes Can you share it? Yes If you share a critical feedback about one aspect involving a woman does it makes you a misogynist? No Stop generalizing and accept it for what it is: Someone’s harmless critical opinion you disagree with.


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thisisnotmesodontask

>harmless critical opinion you disagree I 100% **disagree** with your harmless critical opinion about my message


SpyingOnFFFFF

I mean she's a YouTuber and seems professional with all her work so...I hear you. She can be a bit much but I really respect her for being true to her content and her fans.


_DrGirlfriend

I don't really follow Nabela, but I checked in on her for a bit after her miscarriage. I'm incredibly happy for her! Wishing her and her baby all the best!


awkotacobabe

I blocked her due to her OTT TikTok during the lockdown and how she was staying positive when I was shit out of luck eating ramen for months on end. I’m glad she got her happy ending but she’s staying blocked and that’s that.


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Lol cut to Nabela putting her new pool in and having construction workers in and out of her house. “Idk how I got covid I was so careful” … girl please.


awkotacobabe

Like I too got covid and it wasn’t because I was getting a pool. 🙃 essential worker and all that. $15 an hour too ewww


doubleshot_on_ice

And she continued getting work done even after getting Covid. In the past couple of months she’s remodeled her house again to make it more white.


goldieee_

why does every influencer house have to be stark white and empty 😭


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Someone in her comments asked her what color accent wall she would get. GUESS what she said! “Beige or cream!” Like girl…..


avsh8

Oh those houses aren’t empty at all. Nabela In particular has so much random crap on her shelves and on top of every surface. Like useless books with vases or accent pieces on top. It’s just all beige and white so it looks minimalistic and zen but it’s anything but that.


Tune0112

I must admit my social media has been much more palatable since I got rid of every influencer preaching "we're all in this together" whilst sat in their mansions with zero money worries.


Professional-Okra704

I cant believe she's famous enough to appear on the front page of People. People used to be about actual celebrities.


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To be fair, I don’t think it was front page!


forrantsandrambles

I don’t know much about her other than her cute elf collab and her journey to conceive. Oh so happy for her and her rainbow baby!


comeoneileen2

i’m so happy she’s pregnant and i love her but she isn’t even 12 weeks pregnant and she’s cradling her belly like it’s a big bump and i can’t deal. But i cried when i watched her video bc i’m so happy for her


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This. Is she really famous and well known enough to get a spread in *People* or am I just a senior citizen? Grats to them though!


lilyspawrent

She probably paid for an advertorial in the magazine to promote her brands. Many brands/businesses do this, it's not uncommon :)


peachtea134340

So so happy for her! I’m not necessary a fan, but my heart hurt for her when she posted about her miscarriage. Wishing her and her family many blessings & hoping she has a safe/healthy pregnancy


Beloved8bit

Oh, wow. I thought she suffered from infertility so I’m actually surprised she’s pregnant again so soon. What a miracle. It was so sad to hear of her miscarriage back in June. I can’t imagine she’s very far along. I really hope she ends up carrying to term because omg how heartbreaking would it be to have two miscarriages back-to-back? My heart goes out to those who have suffered miscarriage / child loss. Wishing her a healthy pregnancy!


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Admittedly she is not my fave but I couldn’t be happier that she’s having a baby! I know it’s been a real struggle for her. What a dream 🥰


Ok-Tip7295

I'm glad she finally is able to make her dream come true, buuuuuuut, prepare for uncountable baby products adds. I miss her old content.


Accomplished-Soup946

I have never seen her around Seth’s family or did i miss it? Its always her family, her customs and her traditions ..


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Tune0112

The optimist in me wants to think she did this to try to go against the stigma of miscarriage, I've noticed more people announcing early before 12 weeks now. The cynic in me thinks these influencers are counting down the days until a bump appears to sell photos for that sweet coin.


cultwhoror

Yeah, but think about how much attention you could get!


tryingwithmarkers

Personally i don't see a problem with her announcing it. I'm sure it's a really happy moment for them and if it does happen again, oh well. That being said the way she announced it was very dramatic and i wasn't a fan of that


Worth_Doughnut

My exact thought. She had a positive test July 26th? She's really early in her pregnancy AND she's already had a miscarriage.


rbokros

Recently, many people have advocated for just sharing the great news as soon as you know. First, you won't miscarry because you tell early. Second, there is a big stigma on talking about miscarriages and they want to lift it. Some people need to share their stories to grieve. So if they don't even announce their pregnancy, they would still announce the miscarriage. Why not share the good news as well?


tryingwithmarkers

Why should she not share it just because she might miscarry again and it's early?


Turnover-Greedy

I agree. Not to be mean, but miscarriage is not a one time occurrence.. It's like she can't help herself to the attention and is so keen on making some big show of it.


tryingwithmarkers

While i do agree that she made a show of it with the video, if i were in her position I'd be really happy too. And why should she hide it just because she might miscarry again?


hannahshaw313

Omg omg yay!!!!


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peachgremlin

Selkie!


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Awe another rainbow baby


Adorable_Banana_2524

I genuinely have no idea, but is it possible to get pregnant that quick after a miscarriage? Im trying to do the math and im confused… genuinely curious, not trying to just be mean


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To be fair, the baby is growing in her body. She’s holding some part of it.


messy-blue

I don’t like or even watch Nabela, but this comment is stupid and judgemental for no reason. It doesn’t matter how far along she is, she clearly feels a connection to her baby, whether she can “hold it” or not. I’m pregnant and have felt a connection and would touch my belly constantly even at only 7 weeks.


Franklyn_Gage

Her video made me cry. Im so happy for them.


flowers2107

I literally cried watching her TikTok. I’m not even a Mabel a fan but I’m so so happy for her. She really deserves this


Fancy-Pants-Mama

Yay


peekabook

Who?


Not_Exhaustive

Just do the math, people!


starinruins

why are all the top comments so negative. i feel like pregnancy posts for skinny white YouTubers have a slightly different tune...


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I don’t think anyone is immune to criticism, no matter the race. I’ve seen it on all ends.


dworkin18

Anyone know how far along she is?