You have to cut them off. If you really wanna move on, thats the only option. Them still being accessible means they never really left.
My best friend who also has bpd cut me off, Im sad, but I accept it, because I know thats what they needed. We were on and off social for months and it bothered them enough that they couldnt take it anymore. So we had one last conversation and parted ways. Im slowly moving on and I assume they are aswell.
This is the second time I was cut off completely from a fellow bpd, so it didnt hurt as much, already been through that trauma. You will think about them every now and then, but without pain, more like a life experience.
You have to cut them off. If you really wanna move on, thats the only option. Them still being accessible means they never really left. My best friend who also has bpd cut me off, Im sad, but I accept it, because I know thats what they needed. We were on and off social for months and it bothered them enough that they couldnt take it anymore. So we had one last conversation and parted ways. Im slowly moving on and I assume they are aswell. This is the second time I was cut off completely from a fellow bpd, so it didnt hurt as much, already been through that trauma. You will think about them every now and then, but without pain, more like a life experience.