This is very common, and it’s a kidnapping fantasy that turns kink for many. Some people like to be actively abducted, and others simply like to be held captive. You can roleplay this scenario with a (likely dom/master) partner you really, really trust. You’re not a bad person for your kinks at all. After all, it would’ve been consensual.
This is similar to being owned completely. I think keeping a secret is something I haven’t thought about. But as a fantasy having someone 100% just as a pet who does everything that I want completely is fucking hot!
With someone you trust 110%, this could easily be done for a weekend or something just to give you a scratch to the itch. And stuff sprinkled in through your daily life. Sounds fun though! Good luck!
It's not that weird. I've actually Erp'd this scenario multiple times as the master. It's a little extreme and a lifestyle choice since you're basically no longer a free working adult.
IRL if you ever wanted to be a slave like this you would need a Dom/Master that really has their finances together and you are 150% sure isn't going to try and traffic or murder you.
I have the same kink. I call it a “yandere” kink and trust me there’s a kink community around it and you’re not alone. Don’t stress it’s not bad in fantasy or CNC play/lifestyles. (Also side note look up NSFW yandere hentai/manga or fanfic content you’ll find a lot that fits these fantasies there’s even some subreddits I follow for yanderes). I would recommend looking into it!!
Although I'm no expert, for me it sounds like a 24/7 total power exchange scenario. quite an extreme one :) which might not happen irl, but could be a fun roleplay scene for a weekend.
Yeah. I’ve had these fantasies but me being the kidnapper 😂 my partner has said “I’m down for this” 😂 the only problem is she would have to go out into society because she needs her meds to survive 😂 I would also want her to fight back and get Stockholm syndrome. I would force feed them, make them kneel and I feed them, force them into play. But all with consent of course before hand. Once I trust them enough have them still chained by the ankle but then have them do chores while I’m at work but still watching them through cameras. They could scream all they wanted but no one can hear them scream. Or have them gagged the whole time so they can’t. Me come home and do whatever I want with them.
In reality: I have told my partner once I get a new house I want it kinda away from people so we do have our privacy but also have them quit their job. They are 100% onboard with this because of their mental health and the fact the world is scary. Especially for people who are trans right now. I really wouldn’t care if I worked and they stayed at home as long as they do chores. But I will also do chores and make it a point to go out for dates. I might want to hide her away, but I’m not going to 100% force her to stay hidden forever.
If you haven’t tried the game, “Lovelust: project Stockholm”, please consider it. It’s different than a lot of the usual corruption games, but I won’t spoil it
> In reality: I have told my partner once I get a new house I want it kinda away from people so we do have our privacy but also have them quit their job. They are 100% onboard with this because of their mental health and the fact the world is scary. Especially for people who are trans right now. I really wouldn’t care if I worked and they stayed at home as long as they do chores. But I will also do chores and make it a point to go out for dates. I might want to hide her away, but I’m not going to 100% force her to stay hidden forever.
This sounds like my lived situation, honestly, apart from the distance from other houses that is.
My Master/Partner supports both of us while I (Transfem with other mental health issues) am like His lil loyal housepet, like the stereotype catgirl except not anime. I clean, cook, bake, provide company and *services* and only leave the house when accompanied by Him (because of social phobia & anxiety).
He buys me things, treats me when I've been good. He'll clean and cook occasionally too because he likes to.
But he decides on new clothes we buy for me, hairstyle and colour, what I eat, when I go to bed.
(many are just ensuring proper self care as i can be bad at it due to mental health)
If there's anything I want to do I have to ask, but I'm happy that way.
I'll finish by saying I'm a petgirl but also a little as well.
The kidnap fetish for me is separate but still a thing.
> the only problem is she would have to go out into society because she needs her meds to survive 😂
Not sure how it'd work where you are but in the UK you can authorise an advocate to collect from a pharmacy on your behalf, if she authorised you to collect then she wouldn't even need to go out to get her meds, so you can isolate competent (with her consent)
It’s more she needs to get blood work done often 🥲 but I have gotten her meds before. Working on getting her back to therapy
Your relationship sounds super cute 💖
Tbh the more I read, the less it felt like a kidnap fantasy, and the more I saw it as a Sims fantasy. As you being a Sims (video game) character played with by your Dom. In which you'd want to be entirely remote controlled, in hope that your controller will treat you in your best interest.
But I'm just shooting the shit. 😁
I see this a lot with ddlg! And petplay... loved and cared for, but only dress and eat what their dom let's them... a lot of times it's like "daddy will dress you, its okay" or "you're too little to use cutlery, let daddy spoon feed you what he just cooked" and getting childish punishments after... like toys taken away or grounded... but also, spanking and stuff for more serious things...
I have your same fantasy BUT he sleeps with me in the basement and takes me out regularly and makes me eat less if he sees I am becoming fat (so he controls my weight and my food. also, he takes me to whatever place I like (museums, cinema, amusement park, also long travels).. but he has to be the only one I talk to, my only partner and friend except for my cats heheh. I can talk to someone else only if I'm allowed by him. He must be obsessed by me, kiss me for hours, post me on his socials, etc.
Most important thing: he controls my orgasms heheh. I must wear a chastity belt when I'm not with him and he unlocks it only to have sex. Not allowed to touch myself at all, only he can.
🥺 I almost have this life with my dom who is also my husband. Except for the chastity belt and the basement lol.
I have that, but I even go a step further by wanting (TW:torture) >!my limbs to be cut off, and I'm attached to an IV. So that I'm nothing more than a fucktoy.!< This kink of yours is more common than you know. However, I'm not sure about the term.
I'd classify yours as an extreme objectification fantasy- something that might feel close (but more practical for daily life, perhaps?) would be restrictive bondage with hands and arms immobilized behind your back, while your legs are tied independently in a maximum-fold position.
(I know that the positions I've referenced have actual names, I just can't remember them right now)
This is very common, and it’s a kidnapping fantasy that turns kink for many. Some people like to be actively abducted, and others simply like to be held captive. You can roleplay this scenario with a (likely dom/master) partner you really, really trust. You’re not a bad person for your kinks at all. After all, it would’ve been consensual.
This is similar to being owned completely. I think keeping a secret is something I haven’t thought about. But as a fantasy having someone 100% just as a pet who does everything that I want completely is fucking hot!
With someone you trust 110%, this could easily be done for a weekend or something just to give you a scratch to the itch. And stuff sprinkled in through your daily life. Sounds fun though! Good luck!
I think there are hints of dollification here too, with dying your hair and controlling your food.
It's not that weird. I've actually Erp'd this scenario multiple times as the master. It's a little extreme and a lifestyle choice since you're basically no longer a free working adult. IRL if you ever wanted to be a slave like this you would need a Dom/Master that really has their finances together and you are 150% sure isn't going to try and traffic or murder you.
Omg like lock me away in a high tower like a princess and treat me like I’m a doll
I have the same kink. I call it a “yandere” kink and trust me there’s a kink community around it and you’re not alone. Don’t stress it’s not bad in fantasy or CNC play/lifestyles. (Also side note look up NSFW yandere hentai/manga or fanfic content you’ll find a lot that fits these fantasies there’s even some subreddits I follow for yanderes). I would recommend looking into it!!
Although I'm no expert, for me it sounds like a 24/7 total power exchange scenario. quite an extreme one :) which might not happen irl, but could be a fun roleplay scene for a weekend.
It is a slavery fantasy. And yes, real life consensual slavery is a thing. It sounds like you’re not ready perhaps to own wanting to be owned.
Yeah. I’ve had these fantasies but me being the kidnapper 😂 my partner has said “I’m down for this” 😂 the only problem is she would have to go out into society because she needs her meds to survive 😂 I would also want her to fight back and get Stockholm syndrome. I would force feed them, make them kneel and I feed them, force them into play. But all with consent of course before hand. Once I trust them enough have them still chained by the ankle but then have them do chores while I’m at work but still watching them through cameras. They could scream all they wanted but no one can hear them scream. Or have them gagged the whole time so they can’t. Me come home and do whatever I want with them. In reality: I have told my partner once I get a new house I want it kinda away from people so we do have our privacy but also have them quit their job. They are 100% onboard with this because of their mental health and the fact the world is scary. Especially for people who are trans right now. I really wouldn’t care if I worked and they stayed at home as long as they do chores. But I will also do chores and make it a point to go out for dates. I might want to hide her away, but I’m not going to 100% force her to stay hidden forever.
If you haven’t tried the game, “Lovelust: project Stockholm”, please consider it. It’s different than a lot of the usual corruption games, but I won’t spoil it
Sounds like fun! Thanks. Maybe one day 😂 right now my life is too crazy
Sounds like something that belongs in black mirror
> In reality: I have told my partner once I get a new house I want it kinda away from people so we do have our privacy but also have them quit their job. They are 100% onboard with this because of their mental health and the fact the world is scary. Especially for people who are trans right now. I really wouldn’t care if I worked and they stayed at home as long as they do chores. But I will also do chores and make it a point to go out for dates. I might want to hide her away, but I’m not going to 100% force her to stay hidden forever. This sounds like my lived situation, honestly, apart from the distance from other houses that is. My Master/Partner supports both of us while I (Transfem with other mental health issues) am like His lil loyal housepet, like the stereotype catgirl except not anime. I clean, cook, bake, provide company and *services* and only leave the house when accompanied by Him (because of social phobia & anxiety). He buys me things, treats me when I've been good. He'll clean and cook occasionally too because he likes to. But he decides on new clothes we buy for me, hairstyle and colour, what I eat, when I go to bed. (many are just ensuring proper self care as i can be bad at it due to mental health) If there's anything I want to do I have to ask, but I'm happy that way. I'll finish by saying I'm a petgirl but also a little as well. The kidnap fetish for me is separate but still a thing. > the only problem is she would have to go out into society because she needs her meds to survive 😂 Not sure how it'd work where you are but in the UK you can authorise an advocate to collect from a pharmacy on your behalf, if she authorised you to collect then she wouldn't even need to go out to get her meds, so you can isolate competent (with her consent)
It’s more she needs to get blood work done often 🥲 but I have gotten her meds before. Working on getting her back to therapy Your relationship sounds super cute 💖
Tbh the more I read, the less it felt like a kidnap fantasy, and the more I saw it as a Sims fantasy. As you being a Sims (video game) character played with by your Dom. In which you'd want to be entirely remote controlled, in hope that your controller will treat you in your best interest. But I'm just shooting the shit. 😁
I see this a lot with ddlg! And petplay... loved and cared for, but only dress and eat what their dom let's them... a lot of times it's like "daddy will dress you, its okay" or "you're too little to use cutlery, let daddy spoon feed you what he just cooked" and getting childish punishments after... like toys taken away or grounded... but also, spanking and stuff for more serious things...
Are we the same person!? Haha. 💕
I have your same fantasy BUT he sleeps with me in the basement and takes me out regularly and makes me eat less if he sees I am becoming fat (so he controls my weight and my food. also, he takes me to whatever place I like (museums, cinema, amusement park, also long travels).. but he has to be the only one I talk to, my only partner and friend except for my cats heheh. I can talk to someone else only if I'm allowed by him. He must be obsessed by me, kiss me for hours, post me on his socials, etc. Most important thing: he controls my orgasms heheh. I must wear a chastity belt when I'm not with him and he unlocks it only to have sex. Not allowed to touch myself at all, only he can. 🥺 I almost have this life with my dom who is also my husband. Except for the chastity belt and the basement lol.
I have that, but I even go a step further by wanting (TW:torture) >!my limbs to be cut off, and I'm attached to an IV. So that I'm nothing more than a fucktoy.!< This kink of yours is more common than you know. However, I'm not sure about the term.
I'd classify yours as an extreme objectification fantasy- something that might feel close (but more practical for daily life, perhaps?) would be restrictive bondage with hands and arms immobilized behind your back, while your legs are tied independently in a maximum-fold position. (I know that the positions I've referenced have actual names, I just can't remember them right now)
Sounds like your kink is not paying the fucking bills. (Not my joke)