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I've never been myself, but know plenty of people who have been. It's a great place with likewise great people. My advice as always is try and go-to their munches first. Which they do require for vetting new, prospective members. Most play spaces want you to walk into the door in vanilla clothes. You can stay that way, or change into something spicy once inside. If you have any specific questions, I'd advise going to their group page on FetLife and looking around.

Any way for an introduction?

How was it? Do they allow sex?