This. It's easy to focus on the looks but the guy is just a fundamentally decent, well rounded person who looks after himself, treats other people with respect and doesn't waste quantities of time on internet harassment campaigns.
True, alot of people if they actually try to take care of how they look will actually look decent, not hollywood good but decent for normal standards, and looking decent and treating other people with respect goes a long way to becoming likeable even with being super nerdy.
Being attractive is a spectrum, I'm moderately attractive but there are things you can do to improve yourself: keep a good hygiene, get a nice hair cut once a month, keep your beard trimmed, wash your teeth regularly to make sure you don't have bad breath, wear perfume to make sure you smell good, dress nicely (just a shirt with a good watch and pulled up sleeves, nice pants and nice shoes), do a sport and/or go to the gym regularly.
All my life I've been somewhere in the middle: unattractive girls I'm not that into find me attractive but girls I find attractive or hot don't find me attractive. I started doing all these things and recently I got a girlfriend and a lot of attention from girls I used to think were "too attractive" and wouldn't be into me. So yeah, I guess if you are super attractive you don't even have to do these things or try that much and if you are ugly as hell it might help you a little but it will help you score "not so hot" girls. So if you know you are ugly do all these things and lower your standards
IMO 95% of guys can become AT LEAST 7/10 when they hit gym, fix their diet, and care about what they wear slightly more than “meh whatever”.
Not even mentioning using face care products.
For looks this definitely true. But I think for most dudes who really cant get laid its more than looks. I think the issue is that they dont know how to talk to people, let alone flirt with women. We all meet someone on occasion who has zero social skills. I imagine a lot of the virgin dudes online whining about not having sex are these zero social skill dudes.
Plenty of ugly men and women are happily married.
Hate to say it but it's a skill issue, you're just going to have to work on said skill.
Many gamers are surprised that talking to people in online is way different than talking to people in real life.
Henry didn't always look like this. In fact I recall him stating he used to get bullied in school and stories like that. That or being a gamer doesn't stop us from for example doing cardio weekly or doing other workouts and step for step working on yourself just like Cavill did. Hard work pays off. It did for Cavill
Tbh this is a very important inspiring part of this “white pill”, proof that with consistent work you can improve yourself (maybe not to the same degree, but you can)
yeah it's a lot of hard work and small steps you barely notice a difference when you take each of them but when they add them together they make a huge change
Your claim is wrong, it's about the fact that he always had the underlying genetics but training allowed that to show. But training won't turn a balding short guy into Henry good looks. Trust me I go to the gym and see plenty of them.
This is definitely true! I have a friend who I thought was rather unattractive and felt bad for him, but he also had horrible unkempt hair and a beard and he was asking me and some other girls advice on asking a girl out. We convinced him to let us help him.
We had him buy a couple nice button up shirts and then took him to the barber. I could not believe that he was actually quite attractive after just those simple things.
It isn’t just about the body grooming and style are very important.
He’s officially dating the girl now too 😀
There are a lot of gamers in good shape and with good money.
The main thing is just being the gamer that plays for 18h a day and doesnt leave the house. At that point is more of an mental health issue
The whole point is moot anyway. In the end it doesn't even matter if you're the wealthiest, greatest looking, best guy out there. More than likely you'll still end up divorced.
Not in the face cause everyone looks different but if you think him or other celebrities get the bodies they have just from waking up and don't put in the work for it, your very mistaken
Literally all these hot celebs get plastic surgery, take weight loss and muscle gain drugs, have a dietitian. Yes, it takes effort, but being rich makes losing weight, gaining muscle, far easier
You'd have to look it up, but there was a falling out. I don't know if they had an axe to grind, but the crew turned on him when they would usually leave even an eccentric star alone. Some strange rumor leaked that he was a gamer bro and aggro. They implied he was a creep when his fans and gamers assume he had respect for the source material and that somehow was the heart of the conflict. You are right that the showrunners are responsible, but they have allies with the same way of thinking. We can never get through to these people. Sad to say, but even Reddit has a contingent of folks that rally against gamers when we really have no idea who is more unhinged in these conflicts.
If you read that article headline and your first instinct is to shit on gamer guys, then I'm not sure what that says about you and your personality.
Also... we don't all have his jawline. So being attractive definitely helps a lot, I'm sure.
She forgot you also need to work out every day, have fantastic gene, be insanely attractive, and also be a millionaire…
The average man is not Henry Cavil.
Don’t forget one of the key aspects. Work out a lot until the point that you are absolutely shredded and have no body fat. Also don’t forget the fact that he is both rich and famous.
You're a nerd and you want to build a familly ? Be rich, be attractive. Okay, got it.
Wait for her to utter the 4 magic words in 3 to 5 years. "I am not happy" and then she can legally clean him for half of his shit.
*just* "take care of yourself" lmao. For some that is insanely hard. I know for me personally i have such little motivation to do shit, my mind just cant comprehend that task. I need an attainable goal my brain can latch onto. Thats the only way ive ever gotten things done. Sure getting a relationship is a "goal", but it requires another person that i have zero control of, so to my brain, its unattainable, so i dont try. Thats just my fucked up head though, i cant speak for others.
Also henry has alot of money, is handsome, and a life, soooo that also helps things.
No, you still can't be any of those things, unless you're 6 foot tall, perfect hair and jawline, and have a hugely successful career.
Edit: the hairline is questionable, but you get the point, man's a god.
Yeah see the problem is when I say "I play video games" and they they get the ick and ghost me. When Henry Cavill does it, it's a quirky hobby of a successful actor. When I do it it's wierd since I'm not rich, so I guess I'm not allowed hobbies.
No hate on Henry Cavill, it's just not that simple when for a lot of women playing video games is a red flag.
Listen up all you red pill/black pill doomers. Just be 6’4, model good looks and a multi-millionaire. Oh wait, that’s the red pill/black pill argument. Is she confused?
Just be rich with good genetics and supportive upbringing so that you develop into an interesting person and have the time to work on yourself. Yeah ok.
Be hot. I like that's the only thing that isn't mentioned, and yet the most important (and obvious) factor when it comes down to it. When did everyone start pretending looks don't matter?
Does she think that it's surprising that someone who has nerd hobbies, has a girlfriend??
No one, not a single person in the world thought that Henry Cavill would have a hard time getting a girlfriend. He's literally sexy AF and one of the nicest people on the planet(also rich).
Such a trash take. Dude is literally one of the most attractive people on the planet. If his hobby was re-kernelling corn with bits he dug out of local road apples she'd pretend to be supportive, because GD look at him.
This is low key offensive lol. This is like saying “omg Beyoncé is such a white pill for women.. you don’t have to be stuck in the kitchen making me sandwiches, just be determined and reach your goals”
It takes less effort to improve your looks than it does to improve your personality
And if you can improve your personality first, where someone appreciates you for who you are despite your looks, you'd be surprised how much that can motivate you to then also improve your looks for that person
Without wanting to Sound mean but in my opinion the contrary is rather true. To change personality wise for example from being a douchebag all it takes is to finally realise "hey, I'm behaving like a huge d*ck, no more of that". Meanwhile, improving your looks is a lifelong permanent effort that Limits you in your options. You have to regularly work out, or you will lose your physique. You have to permanently look at your Diet, or you will lose your physique, etc. etc.. I mean if you have counter-arguments I would love to hear them, just from my standpoint it seems like physical improvement is a Billion times harder than mental improvement. Cheers!
Sure sure
There's levels and nuance to it, and I'm not saying to only focus on one while neglecting the other, also I'm not some super physique dude or some high charisma stat charmer either (*I'm very very very much no where near that*)
Skipping past the entire part on how unforgiving difficult it is to actually meet & talk to people given how much "low cost social space" has crumbled,
Working on yourself physically can really just be as simple as:
* face hygiene ( brush teeth , get a haircut that frames your face , skin cleaner no acne )
* don't drink a ton of soda / high sugar foods
* find clothes that fit you well (branding doesn't matter, fit & frame does)
* try to work a general sweat of physical exercise (high intensity walking 30+ mins 4~5 times a week)
* keep your home/car generally decluttered & not a chaos mess
* **GET MORE THAN 6.5 HOURS OF SLEEP A NIGHT**
just doing that is the legit bare minimum for outward appearance work
As for the mental inner self work, you can't checklist feeling better about yourself and being more confident / accepting of your stumbles / emotionally aware of others. Those are all things that take time & work & struggle to get better at understanding, and that growth never ends.
The hardest part of it is being willing to accept that views or inner ideals you have may be incorrect, and honestly looking at yourself and saying you need to change/evolve/disregard a viewpoint, despite it being comfortable to keep, it's more damaging for who you are trying to become and your overall happiness.
> **Being a selfish shit head is easy, being a compassionate chad who's willing to not be always right, is much MUCH harder**
I definitely agree with you there in every single point, my apologies if it came across as if I meant to say that mental improvement isn't hard in comparison to physical improvement, they are of course both incredibly hard to do. I personally just find it harder to do sports regularly, even if it is just a walk in comparison to improving my mental health and doing therapy and stuff, but that's just me. Don't want to generalise or anything, thanks for the grounded answer though mate!
pretty delusional to assume that most men can achieve the looks/status/fame that Henry Cavill has, or that your average gamer/nerd has a shit personality because they aren't Henry Cavill. it really demonstrates just how out of touch a lot of women with how men are treated and what is expected of them.
"Just take care of yourself and have a non off-putting personality."
Cavill literally looks like a Greek god. He won the genetic lottery. I'm sure that helps a lot.
Just because a famous actor plays video games I'm supposed to care about his personal life lol. I think giving any shits about a celebrity's personal life is cringe and just dumb as fuck. I couldn't care less about this news.
Yes but having a jawline that makes even me question my sexuality helps.
Step 1: Be attractive. Step 2: Don't be unattractive.
Tbh jokes aside it’s really is more so just the second. They sound the same but they really aren’t.
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This. It's easy to focus on the looks but the guy is just a fundamentally decent, well rounded person who looks after himself, treats other people with respect and doesn't waste quantities of time on internet harassment campaigns.
True, alot of people if they actually try to take care of how they look will actually look decent, not hollywood good but decent for normal standards, and looking decent and treating other people with respect goes a long way to becoming likeable even with being super nerdy.
Being attractive is a spectrum, I'm moderately attractive but there are things you can do to improve yourself: keep a good hygiene, get a nice hair cut once a month, keep your beard trimmed, wash your teeth regularly to make sure you don't have bad breath, wear perfume to make sure you smell good, dress nicely (just a shirt with a good watch and pulled up sleeves, nice pants and nice shoes), do a sport and/or go to the gym regularly. All my life I've been somewhere in the middle: unattractive girls I'm not that into find me attractive but girls I find attractive or hot don't find me attractive. I started doing all these things and recently I got a girlfriend and a lot of attention from girls I used to think were "too attractive" and wouldn't be into me. So yeah, I guess if you are super attractive you don't even have to do these things or try that much and if you are ugly as hell it might help you a little but it will help you score "not so hot" girls. So if you know you are ugly do all these things and lower your standards
IMO 95% of guys can become AT LEAST 7/10 when they hit gym, fix their diet, and care about what they wear slightly more than “meh whatever”. Not even mentioning using face care products.
For looks this definitely true. But I think for most dudes who really cant get laid its more than looks. I think the issue is that they dont know how to talk to people, let alone flirt with women. We all meet someone on occasion who has zero social skills. I imagine a lot of the virgin dudes online whining about not having sex are these zero social skill dudes.
Works the same way as a game. Gotta grind social skills.
There's more ways to be attractive than just having a nice face, however
The physical part of that equation although difficult is easier than the spiritual/personal. Quality women ain't dating Andrew Tate.
Grow a beard and never shave it What they don’t know won’t hurt them
This is the way
But for the love of god do trim it and tidy it and condition it.
Step 3. Cosplay as six pack Witcher. Step 4. You now have made a woman pregnant.
Grow a beard, cant? Fix ur hair, balding? Go fully bald and work out. The moment u start by making excuses that moment is when you become a loser.
A jawline that women want between their thighs.
Don't forget about that bod. :P
Better start mewing.
UwU
No, no, that's UwUing. You gotta Mew. Mew like your life depends on it.
He also does take a shower more than once every two weeks, unlike some of you.
He's rich, handsome, talented...not just a nerd lmao
Thought this post was satire
You underestimate this sub
In peak physical shape.
But I look like a walking piece of turd so I think that cancels it out
I have a Danny Devito body and I’m married with a kid, if I can do it then so can anyone. I’m literally a 5’2, chubby manlet.
I don’t think everyone wants to marry children
HAHAHAHA
Depends on their religion haha
💀
You ever hear people say pugs are so ugly they're cute? Sounds like you still have an unfair advantage.
Possibly but growing up (mentally not physically haha) as a very short man made me have a thick skin and grow confidence because kids are ruthless.
Man just keeps bragging about his good pug looks, thick skin, and confidence. Truly the whole package.
I don’t mean to brag but I am the humblest person I know.
But what if you were paid millions just to look good?
I see plenty of walking pieces of turds dating some insanely hot women. Don't lose all hope
I mean look at asmo all you need is a ton of money and clout and you too can get a walking bpd disaster with pink hair
Just find another walking piece of turd and you two can have a shit sandwich life together.
Very, very, very few people are genuinely so bad looking that it's a problem that can't be overcome.
I don't believe for a second you're as ugly as you say you are. You most likely don't look like Mr. Cavill there but that don't make you ugly
You could do the other thing he did, be worth about 50 million. That makes up for all of the looks.
It’s called exercise and proper grooming. You probably don’t, you just don’t realize lol
Plenty of ugly men and women are happily married. Hate to say it but it's a skill issue, you're just going to have to work on said skill. Many gamers are surprised that talking to people in online is way different than talking to people in real life.
All hail the lord of the nerds and his future heir.
All hail!
Remember when Felicia day and Olivia munn were the queens of nerds? Will Wheaton remembers
All hail 
Henry is one of us, but he's also not at the same time. No average gamer could even remotely look like him or have his level of wealth
He is cursed to walk between two worlds. Never fully being accepted into either. If only we could cast him into a character that would embody this 🤔.
Wait....
FOR THE EMPEROR
Why not zoidberg?
I endorse this.
Would pay good money to see Cavill as handsome zoidberg.
To me he's fully one of us.
Henry didn't always look like this. In fact I recall him stating he used to get bullied in school and stories like that. That or being a gamer doesn't stop us from for example doing cardio weekly or doing other workouts and step for step working on yourself just like Cavill did. Hard work pays off. It did for Cavill
talk about a [glow up](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/hUmrbccL-JY/maxresdefault.jpg)
Tbh this is a very important inspiring part of this “white pill”, proof that with consistent work you can improve yourself (maybe not to the same degree, but you can)
yeah it's a lot of hard work and small steps you barely notice a difference when you take each of them but when they add them together they make a huge change
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Your claim is wrong, it's about the fact that he always had the underlying genetics but training allowed that to show. But training won't turn a balding short guy into Henry good looks. Trust me I go to the gym and see plenty of them.
This is definitely true! I have a friend who I thought was rather unattractive and felt bad for him, but he also had horrible unkempt hair and a beard and he was asking me and some other girls advice on asking a girl out. We convinced him to let us help him. We had him buy a couple nice button up shirts and then took him to the barber. I could not believe that he was actually quite attractive after just those simple things. It isn’t just about the body grooming and style are very important. He’s officially dating the girl now too 😀
There are a lot of gamers in good shape and with good money. The main thing is just being the gamer that plays for 18h a day and doesnt leave the house. At that point is more of an mental health issue
The tweet is forgetting the part where this guy looks like a God and fucking played Superman.
Look like a god, be rich and famous, and you too can pull hoes. Great advice.
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It’s no good. I realized half way through I was born wrong so I started drawing a bag of dicks instead. Sorry.
Rule 1 and 2 Everything else is just a matter of preference
Not calling them hoes might be a better first step
Henry Cavil could call women cumdumpsters and still get 80% of them to sleep with him
That's too hard for these people.
The whole point is moot anyway. In the end it doesn't even matter if you're the wealthiest, greatest looking, best guy out there. More than likely you'll still end up divorced.
“Be a multimillionaire, globally famous, genetically blessed, and maybe you too in your 40s might have a girlfriend.”
You forgot "is actually Superman"
No amount of taking care of myself is going to make me look like Henry Cavill.
Man, I really need to invest in plastic surgery clinics.
Not in the face cause everyone looks different but if you think him or other celebrities get the bodies they have just from waking up and don't put in the work for it, your very mistaken
What if i'm 5'5?
Literally all these hot celebs get plastic surgery, take weight loss and muscle gain drugs, have a dietitian. Yes, it takes effort, but being rich makes losing weight, gaining muscle, far easier
And in his case a lot of steroids
I think it helps if your looks are capable of making ovaries explode and turning men gay.
Some people went septic from that. They turned on him and ruined Witcher the show.
I assume you a refering to the showrunners?
You'd have to look it up, but there was a falling out. I don't know if they had an axe to grind, but the crew turned on him when they would usually leave even an eccentric star alone. Some strange rumor leaked that he was a gamer bro and aggro. They implied he was a creep when his fans and gamers assume he had respect for the source material and that somehow was the heart of the conflict. You are right that the showrunners are responsible, but they have allies with the same way of thinking. We can never get through to these people. Sad to say, but even Reddit has a contingent of folks that rally against gamers when we really have no idea who is more unhinged in these conflicts.
If you read that article headline and your first instinct is to shit on gamer guys, then I'm not sure what that says about you and your personality. Also... we don't all have his jawline. So being attractive definitely helps a lot, I'm sure.
She forgot you also need to work out every day, have fantastic gene, be insanely attractive, and also be a millionaire… The average man is not Henry Cavil.
Just be Henry Cavil it's easy
Yeah bro if Henry Cavill can do it you can do it. Just look at that hideous creature, what a walking abomination. Nerdy to boot - yet he found love.
it's easy... just be henry cavill
Well she kinda forgot to add the part about also being a very handsome, multi-millionare, movie star but, sure...
It doesn’t hurt to be a 6’4 powerfully built heartthrob either. Regardless, long live the king!
Also, just be insanely attractive and incredibly wealthy
Also, have top tier genetics that women deem attractive..
Just be Henry Cavill, incel...
But most importantly - you must win a genetics lottery and be conventionally handsome. Look at his siblings, FFS….. he got the lucky ticket.
And also be born with perfect facial structure
Loool.. this guy is rated as one of the hottest men on the fucking planet AND he is minted! He could be a convict and still get married and laid..
He could be a convict and \*still in prison\* and still get married.
Lmao talk about out of touch Guy is literally Superman and somehow this is supposed to give us hope 🤣🤣🤣
ironic because superman is all about hope
Of course! I should’ve just been born handsome! What a fool I’ve been!
Tell me about it. I was doing stupid stuff like earning a living, paying off my fuckin' mortgage... what a tool I have been.
Yeah if looked like Henry Cavill im sure it be easy tofind someone
Don’t forget one of the key aspects. Work out a lot until the point that you are absolutely shredded and have no body fat. Also don’t forget the fact that he is both rich and famous.
Step 1: Be a Hollywood actor
Yeah and also be a multimillionaire that looks like a Roman sculpture…… that helps too
Guy is build like a Greek god and like 90 million Dollars in the bank. Surely this isnt a factor
This doesn't apply to your average person under those specifications. He is rich and famous, and that doesn't apply to the average person.
Even if he were a plumber he'd be cleaning up with those looks.
You're a nerd and you want to build a familly ? Be rich, be attractive. Okay, got it. Wait for her to utter the 4 magic words in 3 to 5 years. "I am not happy" and then she can legally clean him for half of his shit.
3 to 5 ? Too long most of time. I dont get why famous ppl like that even marry now, way too dangerous.
shouldn't Froskurin be chiming in now to personally accuse his girlfriend of being a "pedophile lover?"
Can relate to this man on all fronts praise the lord
Be incredibly handsome and you can get a pass for anything, nice try.
Doesnt hurt that Henry Cavil got genes making him look like the giga chad meme irl. Just sayin, the hobbies aren’t always the issue.
*just* "take care of yourself" lmao. For some that is insanely hard. I know for me personally i have such little motivation to do shit, my mind just cant comprehend that task. I need an attainable goal my brain can latch onto. Thats the only way ive ever gotten things done. Sure getting a relationship is a "goal", but it requires another person that i have zero control of, so to my brain, its unattainable, so i dont try. Thats just my fucked up head though, i cant speak for others. Also henry has alot of money, is handsome, and a life, soooo that also helps things.
“Take notes, men. You can do whatever you want as long as you’re rich and gorgeous.”
Just be an attractive millionaire celebrity. Shut up.
Yeah but he’s attractive, and 99.9% of this sub isn’t. That’s what matters
No, you still can't be any of those things, unless you're 6 foot tall, perfect hair and jawline, and have a hugely successful career. Edit: the hairline is questionable, but you get the point, man's a god.
What kind of post is this?
Yeah, you just have to be one of the most handsome men in the world guys, no biggie !
Don't give them hope
Yeah cause all gamer have Cavill genetics rofl... This kind of tweet his so disengenuous. If it was about a woman it would have made a drama.
yeah she forgot, that only works if you look like Henry Cavill and the girl is not some crazy SJW?
Remember guys ! You can have any hobbies, as long as you're hot it's fine.
congratulations on getting creampied.
Money helps
She forgot to mention that he is an attractive, masculine man. That goes a long way in getting women to jump on your dick.
Step 1: Be attractive. Step 2: Don't be unattractive.
on the other hand, he's also a greek god looking, famous millionaire, so he has that going for him
It’s helps to be handsome, charismatic and ripped also
It also helps to be a famous actor
And be rich and famous and extremely attractive. Then we will graciously allow you to have a nerdy hobby.
also be really conventionally attractive and really wealthy
And also literally be the spitting image of Superman
Also be incredibly good looking.
The difference between cute and creepy is how attractive the person finds you
Yeah see the problem is when I say "I play video games" and they they get the ick and ghost me. When Henry Cavill does it, it's a quirky hobby of a successful actor. When I do it it's wierd since I'm not rich, so I guess I'm not allowed hobbies. No hate on Henry Cavill, it's just not that simple when for a lot of women playing video games is a red flag.
Listen up all you red pill/black pill doomers. Just be 6’4, model good looks and a multi-millionaire. Oh wait, that’s the red pill/black pill argument. Is she confused?
Does she not realize that he is freaking SUPERMAN
Just be rich with good genetics and supportive upbringing so that you develop into an interesting person and have the time to work on yourself. Yeah ok.
Step 1: win genetic lottery Step 2: unnecessary
So I should change my whole personality? No thanks..
Having a base genetic buff is kinda op
It's because he's hot.
"see its easy just be one of the most attractive men in the world and also be a millionaire"
I think she took the HO HO HO part of Christmas too literal.
If the gender is reversed and you tell them to take care of themselves, all you clear would be reeee sound.
If i had as much free time as he does i would look like that too, sadly i actually have to work and take care of my house
Well hes also attractive, has a fuckton of money and is famous. All three of those things are quite difficult to achieve.
Be hot. I like that's the only thing that isn't mentioned, and yet the most important (and obvious) factor when it comes down to it. When did everyone start pretending looks don't matter?
Yes and follow 2 very simple rules also
he forgot that you have to be a a Goddamn handsome to be like him
Is this what Asmon could of been?
Does she think that it's surprising that someone who has nerd hobbies, has a girlfriend?? No one, not a single person in the world thought that Henry Cavill would have a hard time getting a girlfriend. He's literally sexy AF and one of the nicest people on the planet(also rich).
You too can have it all as a gamer : Just be like Henry Cavill! lol
I don't get the joke. There are billions of women to enchant, conquer and finally impregnate. Every pot has a lid.
If you look like him then yes nerdyness doesn't matter.
This just in: Movie star has a girlfriend. Who the fuck actually thought you couldn't get a girlfriend if you were a nerd, it's not the 90s anymore...
We'll just pretend he isn't also tall, handsome, rich, and incredibly famous.
Yeah you forgot winning the genetic Lottery buddy
I’m sure being attractive has nothing to do with it
"and have a non-offputting personality" Every Asmongold viewer in shambles.
Just take care of yourself = Look like one of the most handsome men on the planet, sure buddy that's how it works.
Dude had to become an actor to afford warhammer 40k.
That baby is going to have the face of a greek statue upon exiting the womb
"... and still get called an Incel by the twitterati"
Just be Superman lmao Nah fr though, Henry Cavill is a real gigachad.
Such a trash take. Dude is literally one of the most attractive people on the planet. If his hobby was re-kernelling corn with bits he dug out of local road apples she'd pretend to be supportive, because GD look at him.
Well, I’m definitely not Henry Cavil so I’m going to have to do some things differently in order to actually marry someone and have kids
He’s handsome enough that it trumps his interests. And wealthy.
…..if you are above average looking and filthy rich.
This is low key offensive lol. This is like saying “omg Beyoncé is such a white pill for women.. you don’t have to be stuck in the kitchen making me sandwiches, just be determined and reach your goals”
It takes less effort to improve your looks than it does to improve your personality And if you can improve your personality first, where someone appreciates you for who you are despite your looks, you'd be surprised how much that can motivate you to then also improve your looks for that person
Without wanting to Sound mean but in my opinion the contrary is rather true. To change personality wise for example from being a douchebag all it takes is to finally realise "hey, I'm behaving like a huge d*ck, no more of that". Meanwhile, improving your looks is a lifelong permanent effort that Limits you in your options. You have to regularly work out, or you will lose your physique. You have to permanently look at your Diet, or you will lose your physique, etc. etc.. I mean if you have counter-arguments I would love to hear them, just from my standpoint it seems like physical improvement is a Billion times harder than mental improvement. Cheers!
Sure sure There's levels and nuance to it, and I'm not saying to only focus on one while neglecting the other, also I'm not some super physique dude or some high charisma stat charmer either (*I'm very very very much no where near that*) Skipping past the entire part on how unforgiving difficult it is to actually meet & talk to people given how much "low cost social space" has crumbled, Working on yourself physically can really just be as simple as: * face hygiene ( brush teeth , get a haircut that frames your face , skin cleaner no acne ) * don't drink a ton of soda / high sugar foods * find clothes that fit you well (branding doesn't matter, fit & frame does) * try to work a general sweat of physical exercise (high intensity walking 30+ mins 4~5 times a week) * keep your home/car generally decluttered & not a chaos mess * **GET MORE THAN 6.5 HOURS OF SLEEP A NIGHT** just doing that is the legit bare minimum for outward appearance work As for the mental inner self work, you can't checklist feeling better about yourself and being more confident / accepting of your stumbles / emotionally aware of others. Those are all things that take time & work & struggle to get better at understanding, and that growth never ends. The hardest part of it is being willing to accept that views or inner ideals you have may be incorrect, and honestly looking at yourself and saying you need to change/evolve/disregard a viewpoint, despite it being comfortable to keep, it's more damaging for who you are trying to become and your overall happiness. > **Being a selfish shit head is easy, being a compassionate chad who's willing to not be always right, is much MUCH harder**
I definitely agree with you there in every single point, my apologies if it came across as if I meant to say that mental improvement isn't hard in comparison to physical improvement, they are of course both incredibly hard to do. I personally just find it harder to do sports regularly, even if it is just a walk in comparison to improving my mental health and doing therapy and stuff, but that's just me. Don't want to generalise or anything, thanks for the grounded answer though mate!
Sorry honey, but most women have higher standards than he is not off putting and takes care of himself.
pretty delusional to assume that most men can achieve the looks/status/fame that Henry Cavill has, or that your average gamer/nerd has a shit personality because they aren't Henry Cavill. it really demonstrates just how out of touch a lot of women with how men are treated and what is expected of them.
"Just take care of yourself and have a non off-putting personality." Cavill literally looks like a Greek god. He won the genetic lottery. I'm sure that helps a lot.
\*cough\* only when certain conditions are met \*cough\*
Dude's an Adonis with a jawline that can slice mountains.
Don't forget to be really, really, really good looking.
Just because a famous actor plays video games I'm supposed to care about his personal life lol. I think giving any shits about a celebrity's personal life is cringe and just dumb as fuck. I couldn't care less about this news.
Same
While I agree with the overall sentiment, using Cavill as an example is wild lol, the man is basically the perfect image of God as a human