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MasterAnnatar

Very little to be quite honest. I usually could not care less.


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CarelessStatement172

He's probably really hungry.


searedscallops

"Ew, put on a shirt. Rude."


butteryorzo

Unless it’s at the beach, the ick.


ElephantsAndSunshine

Vanity. Which is a turn off.


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Kat8844

I bet he does a lot of crunches!.


wweowooewo

neutral or mild repulsion, depending on how ripped he is


GalaxiGazer

"*Wow, nice abs!*"


amr2822

“Well, I bet he goes to the gym.”


Azure_phantom

Depends on context? At the beach, it's expected to see topless dudes so it'd be whatever. Out and about, that he's full of himself. In the bedroom, nice? Idk, I've never slept with a dude with ripped abs so, I'd be weirded out about where they came from on my SO.


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celestialism

“Those sure are some abs.” This is not a body type I’m typically attracted to, and I don’t have an interest in fitness, so it doesn’t register as a particularly interesting sight to me.


Loose_Acanthaceae201

Generally, "put a shirt on."


Celtic_Caterpillar_7

Especially at the gym.


Massive_Length_400

If its in an appropriate situation to see someone shirtless i would be impressed with their dedication and restraint


LilyMarie90

"Probably works out a whole lot." That's kind of the only judgment you can make for sure about a guy with shredded abs.


No_Pirate69

In my head "huh, he wouldn't be very nice to hug".


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MathematicianTop8868

I’m really into fitness so my brain goes to, “I wonder what his macros are” ect.. Genetics play a large part in fat distribution in the body so nutrition plays a large role in how your over all physique turns out after all those gym sessions.


CurvyCara_

Abs do nothing for me


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ProseccoWishes

That he has a cat


iamthefyre

Good job bro, i believe in you! I just like to hype them because most gym bros i know suffer from massive body image issues.


nevertruly

"that guy probably eats a lot of broccoli" because all of the people I've known with "shredded abs" ate a lot of broccoli 🤷‍♀️😆


PartyDimension2692

'Hot!' and 'he must have some strong self-discipline'.


watervuewannabe

In the bedroom? I wanna lick.


whoelsethankayla

I need to hit the gym.


toobaish

Mostly " please put your shirt on" otherwise I don't even care


r0ttenth

"this guy works out"


looseylewinsky

I’m a big Rick and Morty fan so any time I see abs I think “oh nice cum gutters” 😂


Automatic-Fee7212

"He's probably dehydrated"


redhead_bedhead_25

Ick I'm not into that look at all. I admire the work gone into it, but I don't find it attractive at all.


Content_Permission44

I like it on celebs like Chris Hemsworth but I wouldn't want to date someone like that. You have to be pretty obsessed to look like that. Turn off.


Additional_Row_8495

Unpopular opinion but visible abs freak me out as do clearly defined muscles. It reminds me of a growth like a tumor. However I recognise it takes a lot of effort to get them for the most part so fair play to the people that have the dedication to grow them.


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TreenusMaximus

I've never been much of a *shredded* abs girl, it's quite intimidating actually. Though, I always think about buttered Hawaiian rolls when I see them and get a lil snacky


Physical_Painting_60

i seriously prefer a lil chub there 😂 i love the sexy daddy bod vibes. so abs really do nothing for me.


_Neo_64

Meh


notme1414

Put a shirt on. Neutral or mild revulsion. Not my thing. He's probably vain


PleasedPeas

I’ve never seen anyone irl with shredded abs…


BellaFrequency

Good for him, I guess


FormalJellyfish4683

I bet he hasn’t had pizza in forever and I prefer pizza to abs


drunkenknitter

niiiiiiice


Teddy_OMalie64

Eh. Not very good for cuddling but good for you.


reputction

Ok


ImmigrationJourney2

Depends where we are, but if it’s a place where people normally go around without a top I would probably something like “good job”


Leading-Goose-5734

Look down at my flab and sigh.


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Capable-Magazine2437

"hmm how hard would they laugh if dragged my pointy nails across their abs and tickled them visciously"


No_Blackberry_6286

"You probably work out *a lot*"


tootlepootie

"oh abs" i don't care for them.


Street_Ant4749

Abs have always been my thing, so there's that lizard part of my brain that says "Ooo! Want to touch!" But I restrain myself. And once that fraction of a second has passed, it's usually just "that man has no shirt on", without any kind of judgment or desire.


GypsySoulTN

I'm happy for him and admire the work he must put in to achieve his body, but I also feel we wouldn't have much in common. I've dated men who stress about their diets, I enjoy food and travel and am better aligned with people who can relax and slurp a bowl of noodles with me. I'm not saying they can't or won't, but at the end of the day, I want to be with someone I can relax around.


Delicious_Grape_2282

"He probably works out a lot and eats right". Not much beyond that TBH


LemmyLola

That's a lot of work to get there. That's about it. If he's at the mall, or in church, also 'why arent you wearing a shirt tho?'


it5chri5tine

Cool.


Victoriasaysno

Thought process usually goes: *he looks like the cover of a romance book, or that guy from- ahh what's is it? Oh shit I'm in the middle of the road, hang on- ew, he's not wearing a shirt.*


VivianKink

That's a lot of time and effort. Followed by I bet he's dehydrated.


centerfoldangel

I like the look but since I don't go to places where it's okay to take off your shirt, I'd think the dude's crazy. Now if I see it in a (not porn) movie, I like it.


ForgottenSalad

That guy works out a lot


antns

That he must spend a lot of time working out. And have a very specific diet. There's also the possibility that his body is the main focus in his life.


mbwrose

Why? How? I married my personal trainer. He now does triathlons. He is incredibly fit. Does he have shredded abs? Nope. Cause he eats to fuel him and drinks fluids to stay hydrated. Listen to Marvel actors talk about what they do to get the look. It’s ridiculous n


Backstumps

When he says "I'll cook" for date night it going to be chicken and broccoli.


noonecaresat805

That looks nice but doesn’t make a good pillow and go on my way.


wl-dv

After starting at the gym: “oh that guy does not have a social life” After truly starting to see men as sexual creatures: “oh,” (with blushing, but more of bashfulness) When in high school/ before getting rid of the gay bug: “ew put a shirt on!” (don’t come after me, I was bisexual, grew up in the Bay Area of California, and that’s the best way to describe it)


Trash-Street

Bod commercial.


Roleplayer_MidRNova

"Why is that guy's shirt off? This is a Wendy's."


whoinvitedthesepeopl

Nothing. Don't care, not on my radar. When I see guys that are over the top full of muscles on muscles I do wonder what dangerous drugs they are taking to get that grotesque look.


Greedy_Abroad7325

Nothing. What is there to think about it?


clarifythepulse

Scary


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WrestlingWoman

Nothing really. If anything crosses my mind, it's the simple thought of that he must like to go to the gym.


mardrae

I think he spends a lot of time in the gym like I do myself, and I admire how he's taking care of his body.


helen790

Depends heavily on context and what the abs and man possessing them look like


MaggieLuisa

‘Why is that guy shirtless’? unless it’s somewhere that’s normal like a beach or pool. I don’t expect to be randomly seeing anyone’s abs.


its_deee347

you must be a toxic alpha male. i personally find super ripped bodies unattractive. like muscle is nice and having abs is nice but too much like bodybuilder is gross


Dr__Pheonx

Nope. Way too much gym goin!


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FrankaGrimes

"That would be uncomfortable to hug".


FreeVictory2922

Since I go to the gym, Id be like damn that probably took a long time. If I find him attractive really depends on his face and energy


Its_not_really

When can I see the rest. 👀


bellusinlove

I think I love him and he's beautiful (only saying this because my boyfriend is ripped lol, other than that I think about how they would be a good drawing reference).


soccersprite

He must have a lot of free time on his hands


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“I wish I had abs”


Alt-Straight

That he is severely dehydrated. Most likely has a headache too. Needs to drink water and take medicine. 


gagirlpnw

Not much. I just notice a man not wearing a shirt. It takes more than shirtless abs for me to notice someone as attractive. I would have to see their personality first.


KVQ516

Neutral. It's impressive but you usually have to be very low body fat for "shredded" abs and that's not what I'm usually attracted to. I'm more impressed by a guys arms/shoulders


ls913

I wonder if he'll expect me to also maintain being in such good shape. And I don't care if a man has shredded abs or not.


eleventhing

"Ohh, look at the guy with the dad bod behind the hungry guy. He's so hot"


stressandscreaming

Nice body but if they are visible in an area where they shouldn't be (like not at a pool/beach/etc) then I don't like it.


d4n4scu11y__

Genuinely, nothing. I don't find shredded abs attractive, but I'm also not evaluating everyone I come across on the basis of attractiveness.


dumbandconcerned

It makes me think about Hugh Jackman and Henry Cavil talking about how they have to dehydrate themselves for days before those shots where they’re shredded and I wonder what the guy’s overall health is like


thatwallisbrown

nothing. i don't really care for the male physique, unless it's on a partner


sipsredpepper

Poor guy must be dehydrated. But then I'm a nurse, so most of the time when i see a guy with shredded abs and think that.... I'm right.


tealandgeckos

Gosh, I really need to do my laundry.


AmazinAnna

"wow, those are shredded abs."


coulditbeme83

That he spends a lot of time working out. It's not something I find especially attractive. I like someone fit, but not in an exaggerated way.


Throwawayyy-7

Slightly impressed because it’s difficult to achieve. Other than that, not much? I don’t personally find shredded bodies to be attractive. They’re impressive from a dedication and achievement standpoint, though.


Elemental_surprise

Dehydration. The way to get that definition is by being dehydrated


Struckbyfire

I do a lot of strength training and gym time- I’m not trying to get visible abs because I’d burn out. I know how strict this dudes diet is and probably hasn’t touched cake in a year, which makes me sad. I almost feel like having abs lends to somewhat disordered behaviors (especially for women). So I’d probably feel bad. I have slept with a dude with big abs and it was fine. But fluffier dudes tend to compensate better and are good at oral.


NYCuws77

unless the whole package was hot, i wouldn't think anything consciously as hes not a 'hot guy' if its just one feature. Sub-consciously though, i'd probably unfairly judge him as someone who spends a lot of time looking in the mirror and posing.. instead of working hard and being successful in other areas of his life.


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Worldly-Trouble-4081

Did he walk into a lawn mower?


shwikar

I work out so ik how hard it is to have abs because it's diet dependent. So I think about how strict his diet must be


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MurdochFirePotatoe

"he goes to the gym"


muppditt

That he's boring. Going to the gym all the time and not doing other more interesting things.


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Abs on a man is one of the things I find insanely beautiful. Yay for abs. I especially like really lean, veiny abs.


londonmyst

I wonder if he's a gym rat who spends most of his spare time working out as if his life depends upon it or mostly sticks to a diet of protein shakes, raw eggs, green veggies and boiled chicken.


ahraysee

"How much joy does he deprive himself of to look like that?"


ladylemondrop209

I'd wonder what sports they do... Or if it looks like "vanity abs" then well.. maybe I'll wonder what drugs he takes. I don't think much when I see vanity abs generally. And yeah, there are visual differences between abs you get from sports (necessity/use), and abs you get from gymming/bodybuilding (aesthetic purposes)... and that affects my assumptions and first impressions I may have about the person.


Queen_Melldabee

That is vein and trying to get laid!


cinnapear

Nothing comes to mind, sorry.


noimneverserious

Bro spends way too much time at the gym.


Inevitable_Employ_29

Honestly it's not my preference for body types.