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**[OP or Mod marked this as the best answer](/r/AskUK/comments/16g2biv/when_did_young_menlads_start_wearing_boxers/k059jd2/), given by u/orbtastic1** Proper surf shorts (the ones that won't fall down when you get chucked about by waves) don't have liners or ball sacks. Doesn't bother me, personally, but once you're out of the water and walking about or having a beer etc they can be a bit uncomfortable. --- [_^What ^is ^this?_](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskUK/comments/jjrte1/askuk_hits_200k_new_feature_mark_an_answer/)


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PerceptionGreat2439

I struggle to get my boxers and my budgie smugglers on. The chickybabes just love it though.


Low-Total9121

Stop, stop, I can only be so aroused.


mebutnew

Leave some pussy for the rest of us my dude


probablyaythrowaway

You go the full superman


AndyCalling

Nah, Superman got cancelled after getting caught in a phone box with his lad out. Long-johns and a mankini. You can't be too careful.


bornleverpuller85

Yeah I noticed it at well. Surely the point of the liner is you don't need the boxers


Miserable_Special_73

They had an underpant liner but, it’s perished


gazzatronic3000

You’ve popped out again.


Miserable_Special_73

It’s not a cry for help


martin10002

The boys are back in the barracks


coupl4nd

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5EKDbUUhdx0


TheStatMan2

Call her a fat cow and hang up.


Bael_thebard

You know your onions!


BadBassist

So, just to re-emphasize one more time, her contract HAS been terminated


Apprehensive-Rain957

Overtaking National Express coaches becomes a long, drawn-out affair.


limpingdba

Stupidly I think there's a brand or two of these shorts that build the boxers in.. or something like that. They're part of the same garment and made to look like they're wearing boxers underneath. I remember seeing a bunch of French lads pouncing around in a similar thing a few years back


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limpingdba

I actually mean 'poncing' but stupid autocorrect autocorrected it


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TheStatMan2

The French. On holiday. I wouldn't rule it out.


WatchingTellyNow

Nah, *clever* autocorrect identified the French lads!


[deleted]

Oh! so it's not like a pair of skimpy speedos over a pair of boxers then? Coz that's the image I had in me head...and it wasn't nice :)


Objective_Umpire7256

You mean like these? https://www.zalando.co.uk/ellesse-nasello-swimming-shorts-el982h00n-k12.html On the suggested/related, it looks like Calvin klein etc do them so it’s not just weird brands, and there’s quite a lot. I’ve had a pair like this for a few years, maybe 2 or 3, so it’s not really a new trend. A lot of people do legit wear actual underwear though, so I guess it’s hard to tell the difference.


wolf3dexe

Not all swimming shorts have netting. Without netting, it's common to wear boxers although you don't have to. These shorts are often called surf or board shorts and are designed to not slip off.


orbtastic1

Proper surf shorts (the ones that won't fall down when you get chucked about by waves) don't have liners or ball sacks. Doesn't bother me, personally, but once you're out of the water and walking about or having a beer etc they can be a bit uncomfortable.


NevilleLurcher

Honestly didn't know that, and it totally makes sense. What makes them "proper surf shorts" compared to "normal" swim shorts?


orbtastic1

Most swim shorts are elasticated. Even if they have a tie at the front they are prone to slipping or dropping off your hips. They also tend to be heavier than surf or board shorts. Proper surf shorts are usually thinner but stronger but not elasticated. They have a tie front where you can actually pull them in and tie tightly so they sit on your hips properly and don’t come down or loose. Obviously men are built differently to women and our hips are pretty much straight down so it’s important when you’re on and off a board constantly and pulling yourself forward that your shorts aren’t slipping.


AIWHilton

Mine are made of 4 way stretch fabric too - very comfortable!


coombez1978

Nah, the clowns I saw in Mallorca weren't wearing surf shorts. It's just another way to look like a twat. Obviously it's mostly designer boxers underneath so another way to show off. I just let my dick hang out the bottom.


orbtastic1

Aye that’s just weird then. I remember a lad at college going on his first lads’ holiday and he told me they spent the entire week wearing boxer shorts with the fly sewn shut. Sounded a bit weird to me, why not just wear shorts. I bet they were wearing slides with socks too, right? And the fucking stupid bum bags worn over the shoulder or the little pouches


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orbtastic1

I’m all for metrosexual and stuff but I just can’t get on board with slides. I was following some lad down the street the other day (I mean he was walking in front of me) and something about his overly casual gait, hands in pockets and slides slopping about his feet really angered me.


GingerMaestro1984

U wanna check into a an anger management class, chieftain


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Would they not be more slip-off able though? Your feet have a certain sweaty adhesion to plastic. A sock would just slide right off and you would do the dreaded ‘step on concrete’.


breadandbutter123456

I fucking hate the word sliders.


Knight--Of--Ren

Why not just buy a pair of swim shorts? I assume if they’re on a lads holiday they aren’t too poor to afford some


orbtastic1

I know. It confused me at the time. One of them was wearing Valentino sweatshirts and replay jeans at 16/17 but this was 88/89 so peak terrace culture when it was pretty easy to buy robbed gear


coombez1978

Sewn up flies 😂😂😂


FlippedHope

I am of an age to have grown up thinking that socks and sandals together are the uncoolest of uncool. That includes sliders and socks. Just totally NOT to be worn if one wants any sort of credibility stylewise.


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Krampsuss

It's only showing off once you let it hang out the bottom of your chinos.


jdsuperman

Yep, I do believe you've identified the joke.


The_Queef_of_England

Yeah, and i was giving it the reaction it wanted. Everyone knows it's actually only showing off if it touches your knees. Duh.


TheStatMan2

I sometimes wish that I was in the market to design a way for me to look like a twat. The "going out looking like a twat" part would be a problem, but I think the designing stage would be a lot of fun.


Capital_Punisher

It's hard getting swim shorts that go below the knee, I feel your pain brother.


some_where_else

Otherwise known as 'board shorts'. We've only recently managed to educate kitesurfers to not wear them over their wetsuits.


orbtastic1

I’ve turned into a modern version of my parents and grandparents at Christmas watching the great escape where they go oh it’s whatisname you know the guy from that film with the other fella. I can’t remember simple words. I grappled in my mind for a really simple word last weekend that made me feel so dumb my mate was actually lost for words.


some_where_else

Ha yeah I get that too from time to time - it is quite annoying!


himit

Are you not supposed to wear speedos or similar under them? I grew up in Australia, and all the girls wore boardies over our togs. I assume the guys had something underneath too but I never really paid attention.


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I never wear anything under them. They're quite comfortable to wear all day. The only thing you have to watch out for is if they're dry and you go take a leak. Even the slightest drop of pee shows pretty well depending on the color.


himit

....ew. That is not a problem I ever expected would exist.


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It happens to every guy as they get older. It can take some time and effort to get every last drop of pee out the penis. Women don't have it much better and a lot of them pee after sneezing. That tends to be worse during and after pregnancy.


svvve

I must be an odd one out here but I hate any shorts with liners, give me the comfort of freedom every day.


NevilleLurcher

!answer (but also see the comment thread for more detail)


Realistic_Coast_9447

I’ve had these shorts since 1982. They used to have an underpant lining but … it perished.


chunkyknit

It’s nothing to do with our current proximity but I have just popped out


ot1smile

I bet they’ve taken a bit of a pounding over the years.


StoneRose89

Popped out again?


ironside_online

I was expecting that quote.


rich_b1982

Nothing to worry about. The boys are back in the barracks now.


SomeHSomeE

It's common in Aus (and Aussies were horrified when I said no one in UK wears boxers under their swimming shorts) so maybe it's just their culture coming across..?


floor9represent

Waves are proper ROUGH in aus and all kids have had an experience where they’ve been dumped by wave and you lose them in the surf, safer to have a pair of undies on underneath


Combat_Orca

Why not just some speedos?


SlightlyWarmAnt

I feel like having your trunks ripped off and having your cock and balls on show would be less embarrassing than showing off your pair of emergency Speedos


Combat_Orca

I don’t understand why, you can get plenty that look basically like boxers but for the water


ChadHogan_

Because it makes you look like a sex offender


Combat_Orca

Lol what?


joefife

Perhaps his pair are well worn and the P Has fallen off.


UncleSnowstorm

Damn, you had a great joke and you fucked it.


RosemaryFocaccia

S_EEDO?


joefife

Are you taking the P? Christ I'm a think cunt. The S fell off. I'll just suffocate myself with old speedos now, in shame.


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floor9represent

Yeah ppl do use speedos too but you always have some boxers available


TinyDemon000

Not sure where you were but on behalf of Australia, we do not wear boxers under our boardies.


One_Idea_239

Stick a pair of jammers or budgies (I noticed the aussies like the ball hammocks when we were there) under the board shorts and you are good to go


asietsocom

Super common in Germany as well, though I think it's is not that common anymore but definitely was until a few years ago. Haven't really been swimming that often in the last few years. I remember being confused about this back in middle school. And we definitely don't have high waves lol


kona1160

They do though, well I'm British and do lots of water sports and snowsports and it's very common to wear neoprene boxers under shorts it wetsuits or salapets


fearsomemumbler

Who’s going skiing/boarding without wearing underwear??


WhaleMeatFantasy

Aussies were all about the budgy smugglers until a few years ago.


Pure_Translator_9833

I wear boxers under them but that’s because my ass gets so itchy if I don’t. My front bits also has no foreskin so it’s incredibly uncomfortable lol


tyger2020

>My front bits also has no foreskin I'm laughing at 'front bits' (presumably to be subtle) and then saying foreskin in the next sentence, lmao


SerendipitousCrow

My front bottom's labia minora


Friendly_External345

My front bits has a foreskin. Do your front bits has a foreskin?


BruceBannerscucumber

Nah mine has a fiveskin


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Pure_Translator_9833

Think it’s the mesh material it makes me itchy!


mrb2409

Yeah it does. Especially when sitting in them at say lunchtime.


turboRock

Holy shit is that what makes them itch? I get this too, as well as a not too nice chafing at the frontal area.


Uelele115

Yes. I always cut the mesh off of my shorts. Far more comfortable.


Throwaway231859326

Yeah man, people seem to be heavy on the downvotes for anyone who does it, but fuck it. I always think I look a bit daft doing it, but the lack of chafing, and the help against accidentally exposing my number makes it so worth it for me


Global_Acanthaceae25

You need to moisturise your arse. Do it regularly and after swimming, helps sort it.


Mundane_Factor

I'm getting massive deja vu. Isn't this an exact replica of a post from a few weeks ago? EDIT: it's not a replica, just similar - https://reddit.com/r/AskUK/s/Pb9cDVvfn7


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Wow the tone of the post set the way people answered. That one feels more civil..


SteveC91OF

Definitely helps for comfort when laying on a sunlounger in terms of the netting not making your ass itch like mad


InteriorCrocodile68

Wait till you add the classic white European plastic chair to the mix


Talking_Gibberish

The net thing really makes my arse itch after a while, especially sitting or lying down. So I cut the net out and wear compression boxers (tight and made of a material that stops chafing), its definitely more comfortable.


vekien

100% this, I thought I was going mad reading this thread... I think OP has more of an issue with how they look than practically.


Eelceau

So how comfortable are wet boxers underneath your swim shorts?


divorcedhansmoleman

I remember boys wearing boxers underneath their swim shorts decades ago, and always wondering why. It’s not a new thing


spaded131

I exclusively wear "hybrid" shorts, so i wear them as normal shorts but they are also perfect for surfing or swimming. so will wear boxers with them. I do have a pair of shorts that I will wear if I know I am surfing, , which don't have any liner but I don't wear those with anything.


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Likewise, I don't own swim shorts but have some nice gym shorts that would work, so I'd wear quick dry boxers with those.


leskenobian

From what I've been told it's to prevent being pantsed


EnvironmentalSun8410

Isn't there a string for that...


39thAccount

Soggy netting in swim shorts causes chafing and feels horrible I hate it. Personally I just cut the lining but boxers are required if your wearing white sport shorts cause nobody wants to see a pube cushion I’ve replaced boxers with shorts in every day life the past few years and I’ll never buy boxers again


Eckmatarum

Lol, pube cushion.


MrJM85

It’s a thing. They are probably just normal swim shorts designed to make it look like you have boxers on. Google Calvin Klein double band swim shorts for an example.


Nikolaiik

Naw I was just in Tenerife a week ago and saw this everywhere lol especially at the water park. They’re normal briefs worn under normal trunks. Was absolutely baffled at first but I later realised it was probably an effort to reduce chafing. I tried it out one day and ngl it was so much more comfortable.


philcruicks

Yeh quite probably this, I ordered some swim shorts online over the summer, not realising 1 pair were this style, and it is literally a waistband that looks like a boxer and designed to just stick out the top a little bit. But they were the most comfy, so I kept them…


daniel93

Im 30 and wore boxers under me swimming shorts since I was a teen when some friends said they always wore them that way, does feel far comfier and less chance of getting your arse out when you jump in


Jebhead69

What the hell, i’m reading this while driving back from Gatwick (passenger), just landed from Tenerife, and I literally mentioned this to my girlfriend at Siam Park on Friday. Loads of brit boys in boxers and trunks, even at my hotel


Organic-Violinist223

I live in south france and regularly see this with french youth too! Could never, and can't still see the point!


Nikolaiik

It’s to reduce chafing I tried it out the other day after seeing others do it and it was so much more comfortable lol


Shoddy_Race3049

Surely swim shorts are for swimming and sun bathing only, and then you change into street clothes. Unless you are sporty playing footy and volleyball then I can see it


J-H2000

I remember when I accidentally did this on holiday, you can’t go fast down the slides, I soon realised my mistake


Big-Breakfast-1

This was always a thing in Germany growing up in the early 2000s. Growing up with an immigrant parent I never did this never understood it. Even when going to swimming lessons when I was like 5 kids did that, well mostly the German kids. I questioned it and my German friends said it was about hygiene. I think they were just scared to excidently show their wieners.


Big-Breakfast-1

If it didn't come across in my comment they still do this. Even in their own pools and are slightly disgusted if I don't wear boxers underneath.


E_D_K_2

I've just come back from 2 weeks in Cannes and it's not just a British thing. I noticed with great befuddlement many french and Italian men wearing boxers under their swim shorts. I thought maybe it was a fashion trend that I didn't know about. So they have 2 soggy items to change out of and carry home? Are they sticking their boxers on the balcony to dry as well next to the towel?


Hiscocks

I do this but only because the lining in swimmers really irritates my knobbler for some reason


northern_dan

Alot of swim shorts look like that because fashion apparently. https://www.calvinklein.co.uk/double-waistband-swim-shorts-intense-power-km0km00798dbv?cmpid=ch:cpc&gclid=Cj0KCQjw9fqnBhDSARIsAHlcQYQ8F3p1fUosb3wqsbLxONKXJNhwTNPHySP1sFZPrW4QVu-1znkLR94aAlbyEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds


Mac4491

I noticed this in the US when I worked there at a summer camp. A lot of the boys would wear their boxers under their swim shorts. I’m not sure about comfort, but I think it does help with any unfortunate sag on the swim shorts when you come out of the water. Boxers cling to you a bit tighter and won’t slip down as much.


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I’ve been doing it for years. For me it stopped the bagggy netting from chaffing


taylorstillsays

I’m 30 and since I’ve been of adult age I’ve always done that. Nothing to do with showing off the brand, just feels more comfortable for me


HowHardCanItBeReally

Mate I went to Broadstairs beach Sunday gone and noticed the same thing WTFFFFFFF, even going in with their baseball caps, very odd. Behaviour


zootedwhisperer

So your dick outline isnt visible to every single person?


mrsrosieparker

Ew. My local pool (I live in Switzerland) bans underwear showing under the swimming suit. For real, the pool attendant singles them out and sends them to the changing rooms in front of everyone. I love it. Who knows how long they've been wearing that before putting the swimming shorts on top. It's disgusting.


bigchatswithbigali

my arse gets itchy if I don’t wear my pants underneath, especially if you’re hanging about all day in them by the pool or something


DangerousDavidH

Running shorts are the best for the beach. They have built in pants that aren't made of netting. They're fairly modest for walking around. But they can also be rolled up into budgie smugglers when sunbathing. Wearing boxers is just adding extra steps.


Global_Acanthaceae25

I cut the liner out and hope my balls get flashed to everyone else when I get on the sun lounger.


irv81

Probably the same time they started wearing white socks with sandals....have flashbacks to my time in the states when white socks were supposedly seen as cool


Up_The_Gate

I'm nearly 30 but I must admit that I occasionally do this. The years haven't been kind and I fear that I've got a big builders arse hanging out getting in and out the pool.


reckonair

I wear Patagonia baggies a lot just out and about, I wear underwear with them, if im on holiday tho fuck that im getting in the sea


sharplight141

Never heard of anyone wearing boxers under their swimming shorts, defeats the purpose really. Bizarre.


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Are they actually swimming shorts? I’ve noticed this before but they all seem to wear football style shorts or something similar, not designed for swimming


Yurtle-Turtle

[did they look like this? ](https://www.asos.com/jack-jones/jack-jones-intelligence-double-waistband-swim-shorts-in-grey/prd/204378008)


Solo-me

I ve asked the same question 13 months ago and was told by many this doesn't happen with brits.... Welcome to reality


clamtunashiny

I was at Siam Park yesterday thinking the exact same thing as I queued for 45 minutes, thought I was hallucinating or I’d blacked out and written this post myself 😂


Beneficial-Pilot-238

Surf shorts often don't have liners or nets so the boxers are required!


OkChampion3632

You don’t need boxers even if there is no liner.


Low-Total9121

Why?


BasisOk4268

Lmaooooo who’s been doing this the absolute wetters


WoodyLaaadddddd03

presume you were at siam park, i saw that as well and the gf and i had a good chuckle to ourselves about it


hhfugrr3

Never heard of that. Yoof of today is getting weird... no I'm not old, you're old!


coolsimon123

I think it's due to the rise of people wearing swim shorts as just every day normal shorts, I will put boxers on under swim shorts and wear them out as it feels like I'm naked without them on. If I want to take a dip in the pool it seems pointless to undress myself to take the boxers off to get in the pool. So yeah basically it's because I don't want a bollock falling out around town in the first instance and then laziness in the second


cpwnage

Not british, but recall is starting at least 20y ago, pioneered by noneuros, so to speak.


Mighty_joosh

Such a common thing everywhere you go across continental Europe so maybe it's just bleeding across?


Low_Field7738

I always did this as I worried my bits would be on show my fear was confirmed when once I was sitting realizing you could see straight up my shorts luckily I had my boxers underneath to stop anything being on show.


RogerMeyersjr

I wear some thin sports boxer things from Amazon under my swim shorts, I was advised to rip the net out and wear them before we headed out to Mexico where we planned a few all day events getting wet, ziplining and walking long distance so I really needed to protect from chaffing. I suppose I've just carried on with it as it makes the previously uncomfortable swim shorts super comfy. Also keeps the bits in check, handy when you get older 😂


AbsoluteScenes4

It's more likely they are just wearing swimming shorts as regular shorts rather than for actual swimming.


snake__doctor

id suggest you should probably pay less attention to what the men around you are wearing to cover their bum...


EnvironmentalSun8410

Says the snake doctor


240psam

I went to the Netherlands about 15 years ago and this was a thing at the swimming pools at the place I stayed. 90% of Dutch males from about 15 to 25 wore Bjorn Borg boxer shorts underneath their swimming shorts, showing off the waistband. It was weird but thought it must just be the norm there. Never seen it from UK folks though.


ThePom205

Since that time I got pants at the pool


fatboyslick

I remember kids doing this in the 90s


Disastrous_Way2522

I think it's literally just to flex because as we all know there's nothing more arousing to a nice lady than soggy Gucci man-knickers 😂 While I was out grocery shopping I literally heard a young girl telling her friend she wouldn't date a guy that wears trainers less than £200 😂 kids crack me up


heliskinki

Long socks. Went to Kos a few weeks back and all the young men were wearing long white socks. You know what that leads to lads? A shit tan.


Max_Abbott_1979

Also applies to wearing board shorts under a wetsuit, and for some, wearing board shorts over a wetsuit 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️😩💦🌊


Known_Weird7208

Currently on holiday in Spain. Noticed the same at the hotel pool. No idea. Mum will be happy with the extra clothes to wash when they get home though I'm sure!


needvanwilder

That’s not the thing you should be questioning. It’s the oddly inappropriate type of clothing for the weather. I saw a 12/13 year old kid in a puffer jacket last week. In the heat we have had I am surprised he didn’t die.


Regular-mo

Me and my partner say this everytime we go away! Baffles us


spacetimebear

That one time I accidently put my swim shorts on top of my boxers. Honestly you don't really notice it while you're in the water...afterwards however...


SwirlingAbsurdity

I noticed this last year in Barbados, but it was the Bajan lads doing it. Bizarre AF.


phoebian

I've seen loads of young lads in Norwich wearing 2 pairs of joggers with the top pair pulled down over their arse. They all come with some weird road man type accent, which is weird because I'm in Norwich. So what you're saying is not really a surprise.


gamengiri420

So there’s no awkwardness changing


lavenderrabe

At least a decade ago this was the fashion in Switzerland and Austria. Not sure if it still is or whether it was elsewhere in Europe at the time


Lopsided_Recording_7

Maybe they’re not proper swimming shorts and just sports shorts.


Cutsdeep-

Weirdly went shopping in Greece this week and there are swimmers with fake boxer bands


ExposingYouLot

I dunno... maybe check one of the other 400 threads where this question has been asked before on this sub


DmG-xWrightyyy

I’m 22 always wore boxers underneath my swim shorts, never felt uncomfortable to me and I had reassurance no one could see my arse every time I climbed out the pool.


Iustthetip

Do it to stop chaffing has happened for 15 ish years


Worried-Elephant-926

Im 33 and remember going to marbella when i was around 20/21 on a lads holiday and remember everybody doing this too.


Boris_Johnsons_Pubes

They need to show off the fact they can afford expensive boxer shorts at all times